qwertty
@qwertty
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They all cheat on me!!
Are you giving up the p*ssy? Never let your man leave the house hungry or horny! Ever heard that b4?
Im not saying these guys are not total a**es but, there is a reason why every single guy has done what hes has done. There's more to the story than just what is her side. Sorry!!
Posted by PP
Im not saying these guys are not total a**es but, there is a reason why every single guy has done what hes has done. There's more to the story than just what is her side. Sorry!!
I agree with you.
She asked for possible reasons, he's providing one.
Could it have been other things? Of course. But doesn't this seem the logical first question? Why do they all fuck someone else? Are you holding out? Maybe you're a psycho? Maybe you don't shave your legs and you braid your armpit hair?
take a look at the type of men you have been dating are they all bad boys do they share some kind of traits take a deep hard look and see if you can figure it out I bet they share something in common beside just being cheaters
Posted by Freetobe007Posted by PP
Im not saying these guys are not total a**es but, there is a reason why every single guy has done what hes has done. There's more to the story than just what is her side. Sorry!!
So men are obligated to recieve sex? Women have to put out in order for men to have their f*cking act together, behave properly, and remain faithful?? Smh, the men of this generation suck.click to expand
Are we reading the same quote?
PP: Those guys are assholes.
F2B: omg you're all the same!
If every guy is cheating on you, then by virtue of it being "cheat" it would mean he is having sex with other women over you ... which means, he replaces his sexual encounters with other women.
That pretty much sums up that it's a fucking issue.
If you want to keep your man .. you'll have to put out more, or better.
Try feeding him breakfast with a blowjob every morning before he starts his day.
That pretty much sums up that it's a fucking issue.
If you want to keep your man .. you'll have to put out more, or better.
Try feeding him breakfast with a blowjob every morning before he starts his day.
Dear qwertty...
I undertand that you are feeling frustrated... and to kick them out of the door is the best solution... very bold of you not to put up with it. Be proud !
People DO cheat. I say 'people' because men and women BOTH cheat... you'll find that the percentage of both sexes that do are quite similar. But it is more complex than just 'giving it up' as implied above. It is something that happens in every culture... it is something that has existed for thousands of years... and this will never go away.
Men 'usually' cheat for sexual reasons, while women 'usually' cheat for emotional ones. In either case... it is not about the 'cheated upon' but rather the 'cheater'... who is lacking in something that may or may not be visible from the outside.
Here is a perspective. Imagine that finding a new relationship is like chocolate mousse (or any other desert that you consider to be your favorite). You are eating chocolate mousse everyday... you LOVE chocolate mousse. After some time, you do not understand why you are eating chocolate mousse EVERY day... it has become a habit... expected... even mundane. But this is how it is... chocolate mousse is your FAVORITE... so why is it that you are not enjoying it as much as you once did ? One day you notice cr?me br??l?e on the menu... but still, you choose your favorite... feeling guilty that you considered for one second trying something different. Maybe it will pass... then again maybe not. Maybe you start noticing cr?me br??l?e on the menu everytime you look at it... maybe you notice billboards with pictures of cr?me br??l?e... tauntiing you. Maybe, just maybe... it is delivered to you unexpectedly. NOW what do you do ? Chocolate mousse is your favorite of course... you SHOULD throw this cr?me br??l?e away, right ?
My apologies in advance for being crass, but a friend of mine asked me "what is better than 'pussy' ?" Honestly, I had no answer ! He filled in the blank with: 'NEW PUSSY'. This was coming from a man. We could replace this with something like 'NEW EMOTIONAL STIMULI' in the case of a woman.
Some one once told me that a relationship is good for 100,000 miles (kilomettre if you prefer). If you drive everyday, the limit will be reached sooner than if you only drive once per week. The real question is how to keep it alive and feeling new... complete with new-car-smell... never neglecting what is under the hood. Best of luck on your next purchase !
I undertand that you are feeling frustrated... and to kick them out of the door is the best solution... very bold of you not to put up with it. Be proud !
People DO cheat. I say 'people' because men and women BOTH cheat... you'll find that the percentage of both sexes that do are quite similar. But it is more complex than just 'giving it up' as implied above. It is something that happens in every culture... it is something that has existed for thousands of years... and this will never go away.
Men 'usually' cheat for sexual reasons, while women 'usually' cheat for emotional ones. In either case... it is not about the 'cheated upon' but rather the 'cheater'... who is lacking in something that may or may not be visible from the outside.
Here is a perspective. Imagine that finding a new relationship is like chocolate mousse (or any other desert that you consider to be your favorite). You are eating chocolate mousse everyday... you LOVE chocolate mousse. After some time, you do not understand why you are eating chocolate mousse EVERY day... it has become a habit... expected... even mundane. But this is how it is... chocolate mousse is your FAVORITE... so why is it that you are not enjoying it as much as you once did ? One day you notice cr?me br??l?e on the menu... but still, you choose your favorite... feeling guilty that you considered for one second trying something different. Maybe it will pass... then again maybe not. Maybe you start noticing cr?me br??l?e on the menu everytime you look at it... maybe you notice billboards with pictures of cr?me br??l?e... tauntiing you. Maybe, just maybe... it is delivered to you unexpectedly. NOW what do you do ? Chocolate mousse is your favorite of course... you SHOULD throw this cr?me br??l?e away, right ?
My apologies in advance for being crass, but a friend of mine asked me "what is better than 'pussy' ?" Honestly, I had no answer ! He filled in the blank with: 'NEW PUSSY'. This was coming from a man. We could replace this with something like 'NEW EMOTIONAL STIMULI' in the case of a woman.
Some one once told me that a relationship is good for 100,000 miles (kilomettre if you prefer). If you drive everyday, the limit will be reached sooner than if you only drive once per week. The real question is how to keep it alive and feeling new... complete with new-car-smell... never neglecting what is under the hood. Best of luck on your next purchase !
Thank you for your very helpful replies even pp!
Im an Aquarius by the way.
Now apart from the bfs, while I was dating those two guys we didn't have sex, could that be it? But I dont like the idea of sleeping with someone so soon after the 3rd date or so. Im not easy and id rather be in a relationship before I sleep with them! But then people have told me not to give it up too soon as its not a challenge to them and they will leave.
Its really getting me down and I hate it when people ask why im single.
Im an Aquarius by the way.
Now apart from the bfs, while I was dating those two guys we didn't have sex, could that be it? But I dont like the idea of sleeping with someone so soon after the 3rd date or so. Im not easy and id rather be in a relationship before I sleep with them! But then people have told me not to give it up too soon as its not a challenge to them and they will leave.
Its really getting me down and I hate it when people ask why im single.
Posted by tauruscancerdelight
Quertty, not sure, but could it be some astrological aspect in your chart?
Sometimes it is string of bad luck, not something you've done. Some people marry their sweet heart and stay married forever. Some of us have a little harder time to find that suitable partner, for various reasons.
However, little introspection cannot hurt. Maybe you are being too nice and too accepting so those guys feel they can get away with anything. Happens to me too.
Yes i can be too nice but once I find out they have cheated, i dump the asap!
Posted by lblibra
take a look at the type of men you have been dating are they all bad boys do they share some kind of traits take a deep hard look and see if you can figure it out I bet they share something in common beside just being cheaters
What I have noticed is that they all seem to be a bit insecure about themselves. They may cheat to make themselves feel better? I dont no 😕
You cannot apply the same rules to everyone. There are people out there that prefer the thrill of the chase over the conquest. For me... sex is what determines if I am IN a relationship... otherwise we are both JUST FRIENDS. There is no rule to whether you should wait 6 months or partake the first night... you are either 'feeling it' or you are not. You see... some think that if they cannot seduce you... you are not interested. Some will chase you until they CAN seduce you... then they disappear. Do you see the difference ? That first date is when you should know where it is going to go... otherwise, you have not asked the questions that really matter.
AFTER READING THE POST I WOULD CHEAT ON EVERYONE EXCEPT CAPGRIL.
Is it possible you're assuming to much after just those couple dates then? I have gone on "dates" with friends, male or female, I have gone to lunch/dinner with just me and them. Just because you've gone out somewhere with a person two or three times does not mean you are in a comitted relationship. You said its a string of them following a 4 year relationship. Okay so that one cheated, maybe now your just jumping the gun.
If I am going on a first date Friday, is it wrong for me to go on another Saturday if both are already planned? Of course there's a point when dating more than one person is bad but where is that point. You said two of them you hadn't slept with and wouldn't after 3rd date or so. So after a round of mini golf, a couple dinners, and a comedy show we're exclusive?
If I am going on a first date Friday, is it wrong for me to go on another Saturday if both are already planned? Of course there's a point when dating more than one person is bad but where is that point. You said two of them you hadn't slept with and wouldn't after 3rd date or so. So after a round of mini golf, a couple dinners, and a comedy show we're exclusive?
No LibraSid, i dont mean after a couple of dates and its exclusive. ive been on dates where its been more then 3 and it wasnt exclusive. what i mean is if they want sex soon before im the gf its not going to happen.
i never said after a few dates its a committed relationship lol.
my ex of 4 years cheated on me and i ended it. after him i dated another guy and he left me for another girl. after him i got into a relationship with a guy and he cheated on me with a girl on holiday. after him i was dating another guy and he tells me hes with another girl.
maybe im taking things too slow?
i never said after a few dates its a committed relationship lol.
my ex of 4 years cheated on me and i ended it. after him i dated another guy and he left me for another girl. after him i got into a relationship with a guy and he cheated on me with a girl on holiday. after him i was dating another guy and he tells me hes with another girl.
maybe im taking things too slow?
Posted by qwertty
Thank you for your very helpful replies even pp!
Im an Aquarius by the way.
Now apart from the bfs, while I was dating those two guys we didn't have sex, could that be it? But I dont like the idea of sleeping with someone so soon after the 3rd date or so. Im not easy and id rather be in a relationship before I sleep with them! But then people have told me not to give it up too soon as its not a challenge to them and they will leave.
Its really getting me down and I hate it when people ask why im single.
Don't put rules on your relationships nor listen to what others tell you is the best thing to do. Do what you feel is right for you with the person you are with at that time. And if they did cheat on you because you wouldn't break your rules then they weren't for you in the first place and you stick with your own rules and boundries. But are these your rules or are you conforming to what you think you should be doing according to random societal rules?
Posted by qwertty
But then people have told me not to give it up too soon as its not a challenge to them and they will leave.
NOT. It all depends on the individuals involved & how you play your cards. Sometimes you can't get rid of them.
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