MsTaurusLady1982
@LadyJuicy
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Too old for this generation.......
Posted by PoopMcPoopFaceWhat kind of man is that?
Men like me don't exist.
Pobrecita... I am sorry that you're in this situatuon. I see this all the time and it breaks my heart. There are many women in this situation and it doesn't reflect badly on you- it reflects the selfishness of the world. I hope you love yourself and don't take the selfishness of others personally and you're only human and not invincible but sometimes you have to be strong because there's no other choice, that's what someone told me. I have not much else to say but I really feel you 100% and I think the same way. I'm 23 and people say I'm supposed to be a player at my age. I love chasing cuz I'm moon in Sagittarius and I like to think I'm James Bond but... I'm clingy and posessive and I want to be needed and to serve the person I'm with and all this other stuff... if we be layed up together you mine... that's how I feel and you not gonna be laid up with me and you messing around with other people... I hate promiscuity and it makes me feel unclean.
But I'm not supposed to think like this. I'm a guy or a "n****" in the language of my environment and I'm supposed to.... I don't know.... I can't act out a role and I can't think like 50 Cent or Too Short or whoever you wanna use as an example. Yet I'm expected to fulfill a role that's neither who I am nor who God wants me to be.
Screw society. I'mma be treated with commitment and affection and the things I need as a person (and I'mma give what I need to give) or I'mma just be alone and find ways to be happy alone... or close to "happy alone" as is possible.
But I'm not supposed to think like this. I'm a guy or a "n****" in the language of my environment and I'm supposed to.... I don't know.... I can't act out a role and I can't think like 50 Cent or Too Short or whoever you wanna use as an example. Yet I'm expected to fulfill a role that's neither who I am nor who God wants me to be.
Screw society. I'mma be treated with commitment and affection and the things I need as a person (and I'mma give what I need to give) or I'mma just be alone and find ways to be happy alone... or close to "happy alone" as is possible.
See, I think the problem lies within one's fluctuation of wants not coinciding with their history. Okay so you're into casual sex for a good decade or so and now you want to settle down in your 30s... who do you expect to be your ideal mate then? Someone with the same history or someone who's definitely been more put together with less drama throughout their lives? Cause if you're thinking B, you will rarely get that because that person is looking for someone similar to them.
I love chasing cuz I'm moon in Sagittarius and I like to think I'm James Bond but... I'm clingy and posessive and I want to be needed and to serve the person I'm with and all this other stuff... if we be layed up together you mine... that's how I feel and you not gonna be laid up with me and you messing around with other people... I hate promiscuity and it makes me feel unclean.
But I'm not supposed to think like this. I'm a guy or a "n****" in the language of my environment and I'm supposed to.... I don't know.... I can't act out a role and I can't think like 50 Cent or Too Short or whoever you wanna use as an example. Yet I'm expected to fulfill a role that's neither who I am nor who God wants me to be.
Screw society. I'mma be treated with commitment and affection and the things I need as a person (and I'mma give what I need to give) or I'mma just be alone and find ways to be happy alone... or close to "happy alone" as is possible.
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DANG! If you were between 44-54 years old (as my POF profile indicates I date between the ages of) I would have already dated you!!!!!!!!!!! 🤗 cyber hugs! 😆
Love,
Eva
But I'm not supposed to think like this. I'm a guy or a "n****" in the language of my environment and I'm supposed to.... I don't know.... I can't act out a role and I can't think like 50 Cent or Too Short or whoever you wanna use as an example. Yet I'm expected to fulfill a role that's neither who I am nor who God wants me to be.
Screw society. I'mma be treated with commitment and affection and the things I need as a person (and I'mma give what I need to give) or I'mma just be alone and find ways to be happy alone... or close to "happy alone" as is possible.
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DANG! If you were between 44-54 years old (as my POF profile indicates I date between the ages of) I would have already dated you!!!!!!!!!!! 🤗 cyber hugs! 😆
Love,
Eva
Posted by LadyJuicyPosted by LilYanga11It's sad bc how can we produce life when people can't even produce a relationship.
Pobrecita... I am sorry that you're in this situatuon. I see this all the time and it breaks my heart. There are many women in this situation and it doesn't reflect badly on you- it reflects the selfishness of the world. I hope you love yourself and don't take the selfishness of others personally and you're only human and not invincible but sometimes you have to be strong because there's no other choice, that's what someone told me. I have not much else to say but I really feel you 100% and I think the same way. I'm 23 and people say I'm supposed to be a player at my age. I love chasing cuz I'm moon in Sagittarius and I like to think I'm James Bond but... I'm clingy and posessive and I want to be needed and to serve the person I'm with and all this other stuff... if we be layed up together you mine... that's how I feel and you not gonna be laid up with me and you messing around with other people... I hate promiscuity and it makes me feel unclean.
But I'm not supposed to think like this. I'm a guy or a "n****" in the language of my environment and I'm supposed to.... I don't know.... I can't act out a role and I can't think like 50 Cent or Too Short or whoever you wanna use as an example. Yet I'm expected to fulfill a role that's neither who I am nor who God wants me to be.
Screw society. I'mma be treated with commitment and affection and the things I need as a person (and I'mma give what I need to give) or I'mma just be alone and find ways to be happy alone... or close to "happy alone" as is possible.
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It'll come to you when you stop looking. You seem like a decent woman with good standards so take chances and try your luck will you get your lot go out and meet men and date and live your single life up that's all you need!
Get your girls up for a sleepover and drink it off when you feel low but Don't compromise or let anyone change you! Don't think you're the issue and don't give up your standards because lesser men will try to drag you down to their level by making you think you're not worth your standards just so they can use you but in my life no matter how old, I've seen picky women always get the love life they want!
Wow I must write a book lol
Get your girls up for a sleepover and drink it off when you feel low but Don't compromise or let anyone change you! Don't think you're the issue and don't give up your standards because lesser men will try to drag you down to their level by making you think you're not worth your standards just so they can use you but in my life no matter how old, I've seen picky women always get the love life they want!
Wow I must write a book lol
Posted by LadyJuicygood lord yes - and it doesn't get any better - I'm 58 - got divorced 3 years ago from a crazy pisces ... now what ? can't find anyone decent who just wants to enjoy and hang and roll around every once in awhile ...
It seems like me being an old fashion woman (picnics, staying indoors, cooking, etc.) and being domestic, no one is really serious about being in relationships anymore. I've dated and I've had my share of relationships. But now as I get older I see that some men and women are only into casual sex and that's it! I don't just want sex I want more and I want my future partner to want more out of life.
What happened to being married and having a family of your own— To be a 34 year old woman and just want to settle down, it's impossible in today's world!!! Half naked woman on the Internet, selling sex online...... it's all bad. Out of my life I've had 3 decent relationships and 2 were with Aries men (4 years) and one with a Libra (5-6 years). All were good until the lies started rolling in. Funny thing is after you leave and break up with them they want to come running back. Smh..... I don't have kids, I love to travel, my own car, money, house..... I can go on!!! That sh*% means nothing nowadays!!!! ?
IM TOO OLD FOR THE DRAMA!! What's wrong with this generation—?
Posted by ariessungoddessI'm not looking at all I'm just chilling and living!!! I figure it's just gone be me and my dog.
It'll come to you when you stop looking. You seem like a decent woman with good standards so take chances and try your luck will you get your lot go out and meet men and date and live your single life up that's all you need!
Get your girls up for a sleepover and drink it off when you feel low but Don't compromise or let anyone change you! Don't think you're the issue and don't give up your standards because lesser men will try to drag you down to their level by making you think you're not worth your standards just so they can use you but in my life no matter how old, I've seen picky women always get the love life they want!
Wow I must write a book lol
Posted by tctaWow. I mean it's bad bc it's like what's wrong out here?Posted by LadyJuicygood lord yes - and it doesn't get any better - I'm 58 - got divorced 3 years ago from a crazy pisces ... now what ? can't find anyone decent who just wants to enjoy and hang and roll around every once in awhile ...
It seems like me being an old fashion woman (picnics, staying indoors, cooking, etc.) and being domestic, no one is really serious about being in relationships anymore. I've dated and I've had my share of relationships. But now as I get older I see that some men and women are only into casual sex and that's it! I don't just want sex I want more and I want my future partner to want more out of life.
What happened to being married and having a family of your own— To be a 34 year old woman and just want to settle down, it's impossible in today's world!!! Half naked woman on the Internet, selling sex online...... it's all bad. Out of my life I've had 3 decent relationships and 2 were with Aries men (4 years) and one with a Libra (5-6 years). All were good until the lies started rolling in. Funny thing is after you leave and break up with them they want to come running back. Smh..... I don't have kids, I love to travel, my own car, money, house..... I can go on!!! That sh*% means nothing nowadays!!!! ?
IM TOO OLD FOR THE DRAMA!! What's wrong with this generation—?
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Posted by ParisianCappyNa. The world is just about to begin. You haven't seen nothing yet.
the world gonna ended soon
Okcupid, Tinder, twoo, match finder etc helps?
good lord yes - and it doesn't get any better - I'm 58 - got divorced 3 years ago from a crazy pisces ... now what ? can't find anyone decent who just wants to enjoy and hang and roll around every once in awhile ...
Wow. I mean it's bad bc it's like what's wrong out here?
I agree totally - and it's not just your generation is where I was coming from - society is trying to turn everyone into instant gratification specialists who need to consume to feel ... I refuse to buy into it and will keep my standards set accordingly ...
can we get an online dating service called "let's get real" ...
it's strange because others on this site think the fast way is the way the world should be going - but there are so many others of every age still wanting that one and only SO to be close to - don't change for the world - keep your values and mindset - we are here to tell you it takes time to find that diamond in the rough that wants the same thing you do and believes you are the incredible hulk (tee hee) ... but it's so true ...
That value looking for compatibility with a woman
Instead of just physical gratification, who enjoy the mindfuck aspect of dating and building up the tension. A guy who understands why the word friend is in girlfriend.
Although I'm not sure how much success this mindset has given me it's the way I want to do things.
It's messed up bc some people on this site is taking this as a joke. You can tell those are the ones who casually sex. Lol. J/k..... But it's really hard to find someone who wants what you want foreal. Nobody has respect for their bodies or anyone. Men used to have to go through hoops to get to see some skin now they can go in Facebook, SnapChat or IG and get it for free!!! It's just sad....
Posted by Arielle83
You sound like me.
I've worked my whole life to set myself up first to have the freedom to do what I want and own my own things.
Money in bank, car and house etc.
I love staying home and being a homebody and have my own hobbies and social group.
I took a year off from work in my country and got rid of everything and tried international work then just kept traveling and resettled in another country and set myself up.
I met another homebody that isn't big into partying anymore like we used to when we were kids.
I was never a big dater because of what u described. Guys are always fronting and being fake so I looked for friendship and not sex.
Found it in Australia through a mutual friend.
I know if I stayed in Toronto if still be single cuz there's too much partying going on.
Maybe change your scene and you'll feel new surroundings can give u a new perspective.
Maybe I need to move to Australia — They not into love here in America only lust!!!! ?
Posted by Arielle83Wish it was like that here. It's really scarce to actually find someone who is really looking for the same things you want in life.Posted by LadyJuicyWell I live in perth. It's not a huge party scene and the men are more into relationships than the women, it seems.Posted by Arielle83
You sound like me.
I've worked my whole life to set myself up first to have the freedom to do what I want and own my own things.
Money in bank, car and house etc.
I love staying home and being a homebody and have my own hobbies and social group.
I took a year off from work in my country and got rid of everything and tried international work then just kept traveling and resettled in another country and set myself up.
I met another homebody that isn't big into partying anymore like we used to when we were kids.
I was never a big dater because of what u described. Guys are always fronting and being fake so I looked for friendship and not sex.
Found it in Australia through a mutual friend.
I know if I stayed in Toronto if still be single cuz there's too much partying going on.
Maybe change your scene and you'll feel new surroundings can give u a new perspective.
Maybe I need to move to Australia — They not into love here in America only lust!!!! ?
A single mother can live off the government easy which is a shame for the men who tried.
Big mining area. Lonely housewife syndrome.
The government encourages family due to a big baby bonus when you have a child.
I know a lot of men our age who have been divorced.
Most of my frievds here have gfs or bf's.
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Over in the UK here. I feel the same, looking for a good woman and all they seem to be interested in is short term .
Quit looking. Get out there and start living. Let men see you smile and let them hear your laughter. We will come running.
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