are you the aggressive type?

initiating conversations, making your presence known loudly, pushing your thoughts in others heads by making everything about you. does this really make someone think more about you? what happens to the non-aggressive types who wait to be asked, to be noticed. do slow steady silent ever win any race? i mean the love race? lol i know professionally there are many over achievers who are the silent strong types. but what about on the personal front? i know chemistry cannot be made it has to already exist, but in the world of social media seems like the quiet can get forgotten and left behind. i mean my head hurts sometimes when people try to push their way to the front on the internet.

Oh yes, absolutely.

I do it here as well, and I don't apologize for it.

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initiating conversations, making your presence known loudly, pushing your thoughts in others heads by making everything about you. does this really make someone think more about you? what happens to the non-aggressive types who wait to be asked, to be noticed. do slow steady silent ever win any race? i mean the love race? lol i know professionally there are many over achievers who are the silent strong types. but what about on the personal front? i know chemistry cannot be made it has to already exist, but in the world of social media seems like the quiet can get forgotten and left behind. i mean my head hurts sometimes when people try to push their way to the front on the internet.

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OP, I am by choice passive, but I can be aggressive if I need to be. If it is a social situation and is expected then I do, but I dont enjoy it and find it tiring.

I'm the non-aggressive type. I don't think it helps me much...

i guess i am passive and stubborn won't budge lol

I'm aggressive but only till I get what I want. Then I'm lazy. I think that's a Leo thing, though.

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Astro logically quiet folk should hang out with leos coz if they're your friend they make it about you too. They're like a human fist bump.

i have seen leos change over the years, going from party animals to home makers. become quiet over the years esp. if their partner is on the quiet side. do seem balanced with others.

Sometimes...just depends if my moon decides to come out to play.

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Astro logically quiet folk should hang out with leos coz if they're your friend they make it about you too. They're like a human fist bump.

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I'm assertive , I would say somewhere nicely in the middle. I don't like when people are overly aggressive & pushy. It's extremely annoying lol

I would say passive. There was a time I was a little more aggressive, but I just view it as attention seeky now and selfish. I rather feel people out, and them try to feel me out too

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