So he has not been able to talk to or see his son for the last 8 days all because I took his son swimming with our other kids and my boyfriend wasn't there with us. Every sat, when he's home, we try to have a family day. Well the last family day, he had a training so I took the kids to lunch and swimming until he was done, then we were meeting back up with him for dinner and a movie date. Well, his baby momma called him to speak to their son and he told her he was in class that he would have him call her later. She got mad asking where her son was and who was he with. He told her all the kids were with me until he finished his class for work. She was pissed. So she drove to the house and waited for us to get home so she could take her son. Luckily he and I pulled up to the house at the same time. So she yelled and cut up with him, snatched her son and left. The following weekend, he called her to pick up his son so he could take the boys to get a hair cut and she refused to let him see the baby. Days passed by and the son was at his grandmothers and called his dad and asked if he could pick him up so he went to pick him up. I guess the grandmother called the mom and told her the baby left with his dad because she showed up to the house hella pissed off. So he told her he wasn't give their son back until she calmed down and agreed to sit down and hash out whatever issues she was having so they can raise their son in peace. She agreed. So we all sat at the table and her main issue was the fact that he didn't chose to be with her and instead of letting her down easy, he just stopped fooling around with her with no explanation. So they hashed that out, he apologized to her and just told her that he didn't feel she was the one for him. He was just looking for a good time when they met and she happened to get pregnant. He never had any intentions of ever being with her and he thought that was the understanding they had. So that's when she jumped on my case. Saying I'm trying to steal her son and blah blah. Like I told her, I could never replace her. I'm only doing what I am supposed to do as the woman in his life. I myself would feel less of a woman if I treated a child differently then I would treat mine and I wouldn't want no one to treat my kids like step kids. What I do for my kids, I'll do for his. If the baby has an appt and either one of them can't make it, I'll take him. She needs a babysitter, drop him to me. I'm just here as an extra support. So... As of now. All is good. She's still struggling with getting over the fact he didn't chose to be with her but she and I are at an "OK" place for now.
