Hmmm... Depends on what you mean by "ways to spice up a relationship" and exactly what level of "spicy" it currently is...
Sexually? Sharing fantasies, acting out each others fantasies, trying new positions, trying new places / furniture pieces around the house, ventures into "exhibitionism" (anywhere from mild "naughty" play under the table to the full meal deal in your public place of choice), dress up, making new fantasies (that you act out) together, addition of toys, additional acts other than pure penetration (i.e. - masturbation of self or other person), video cameras (for any of the above), additional people, anal sex, 69, edible body paint, edible massage oil, sex games, sex while they are on the phone (with someone else, like a mom, lol!), sensual baths, handcuffing / tying each other up, blindfolding each other...
That is all I can come up with off the top of my head... I tried to include some basic and less basic ideas in there, but I skipped all the really "kinky" ideas obviously. I figure the really "kinky" stuff is probably personal preference, and fetishes, bondage, S&M, etc just aren't exactly my thing...
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