Planet Mercury Girl
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When I am nice to someone, male or female, it is not out of pity. I enjoy communicating with others. While I am communicating, I don't just stand there with a frozen facial expression or a stiff body stance. I am smiling, I am giving eye contact, I could possibly be using hand gestures, whatever. I get thrown off as well when, a man in particular, flashes a smile and has a great personality. I might think to myself, 'is he flirting with me?' I don't LIKE to assume that he is into me when I am not sure. So, when I smile and hold a conversation then the same respect should be given to me. You know, people are always talking about how no one speaks when passing one another in the street, etc. Then when someone DOES speak it's like, "hey, you must want me" or "why is she so damn happy?" LoL.
MEN: Stop being angry. What is it really? What is the underlying message to you flippin' out on a woman when she isn't interested? Did you know that a friendship can lead to a possible relationship? But when you act a fool and leave too soon then it really is YOUR own personal loss: Loss of self-pride, maturity and dignity. You can mentally tell the woman to f*#k off and that might make you feel good. What makes you look bad is how you react in public which is usually ignorant. Here is the funny thing: You want a slut and when she moves too quickly you cut her loose because she's a slut. You want a lady but when she takes too long, then you say that she's stuck up. Grown the f*#k up!!
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I get so tired of people that don't realize that the virgo mind is a terrible thing to waste. They don't understand it and never will as long as they continue to hate without any valid reasoning behind it. Them being invidious is fogging their own minds.
Well said.
We're not all wired the same hence the reason some of us are Sags, some Cappies, some Leos...
The harassment is constant. Everyday, all day, she's on the Virgo board crying about our lack of emotions and then has the gotdamn nerve to follow us into personal threads on other boards to complain some more.
Seriously, she should have been banned a long time ago. Harassment indeed constitutes a breach of the TOU.
Seems like she'll never understand that Virgos WILL NEVER BE PISCES.
This is what it is, and she can talk 'til she's green in the face, the fact still remains that we are not going to change (and we do have emotions contrary to what others think).
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by P-Angel
Virgos are insufferable with their egotistical arrogance .... instead of trying to process emotions faster than 48 hours, they take pride in being emotionally immature and are left with no other option except to think someone is doing them a favor.
You are such an expert ! !click to expand
You're being facetious right?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I dunno, that resentment from others is there for a reason usually, I don't think people on the receiving end like the stoic, matter-of-fact presentation of the Virgo logic, imo.
I know they don't like it.
This is a 'song' I hear nearly all the time just like I'm sure Scorps constantly hear about their 'mind games' and 'suspicious ways'.
Every sign has traits that are off-putting but, what is the point of badgering a particular sign day in and day out just to try and make them see your POV.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
When I am nice to someone, male or female, it is not out of pity. I enjoy communicating with others. While I am communicating, I don't just stand there with a frozen facial expression or a stiff body stance. I am smiling, I am giving eye contact, I could possibly be using hand gestures, whatever. I get thrown off as well when, a man in particular, flashes a smile and has a great personality. I might think to myself, 'is he flirting with me?' I don't LIKE to assume that he is into me when I am not sure. So, when I smile and hold a conversation then the same respect should be given to me. You know, people are always talking about how no one speaks when passing one another in the street, etc. Then when someone DOES speak it's like, "hey, you must want me" or "why is she so damn happy?" LoL.
MEN: Stop being angry. What is it really? What is the underlying message to you flippin' out on a woman when she isn't interested? Did you know that a friendship can lead to a possible relationship? But when you act a fool and leave too soon then it really is YOUR own personal loss: Loss of self-pride, maturity and dignity. You can mentally tell the woman to f*#k off and that might make you feel good. What makes you look bad is how you react in public which is usually ignorant. Here is the funny thing: You want a slut and when she moves too quickly you cut her loose because she's a slut. You want a lady but when she takes too long, then you say that she's stuck up. Grown the f*#k up!!
I love this.
It seems like such a fine line nowadays.
Can't tell a man you fancy him right away and def. can't have a 6 month rule. So what's a gal to do?
I guess the friendhip thing is best. Build a foundation first and see where it goes from there. Being in a relationship just for the sake of having a man has never been my thing. I know some women who can't stand to be without a man for 5 minutes and I think that is sad. Finding love is very important to me but there's always family, charity, career etc, to fill you up in the meantime.
Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by P-Angel
Virgos are insufferable with their egotistical arrogance .... instead of trying to process emotions faster than 48 hours, they take pride in being emotionally immature and are left with no other option except to think someone is doing them a favor.
You are such an expert ! !
You're being facetious right?click to expand
Of course I am, hahaha! She had a thread saying that pisces were reality experts.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
I love this.
It seems like such a fine line nowadays.
Can't tell a man you fancy him right away and def. can't have a 6 month rule. So what's a gal to do?
I guess the friendhip thing is best. Build a foundation first and see where it goes from there. Being in a relationship just for the sake of having a man has never been my thing. I know some women who can't stand to be without a man for 5 minutes and I think that is sad. Finding love is very important to me but there's always family, charity, career etc, to fill you up in the meantime.
Oh hell no. I don't want a relationship for the sake of having a man either. I'd rather be alone than to be unhappy in a relationship.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I don't get angry or do the flippy thing you describe, and I care little for how my actions are perceived by any social set, could you elaborate PMG ?
Well then I wasn't speaking to you then. I was generalizing. You wouldn't need for me to elaborate if this described you. You would already know what I meant.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by P-Angel
Virgos are insufferable with their egotistical arrogance .... instead of trying to process emotions faster than 48 hours, they take pride in being emotionally immature and are left with no other option except to think someone is doing them a favor.
You are such an expert ! !
You're being facetious right?
Of course I am, hahaha! She had a thread saying that pisces were reality experts.click to expand
I saw that!
And it's a damn good thing I got to read it in it's entirety before she flagged the shit. LOL!
"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!"
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirlPosted by VirgoVixxxen
I love this.
It seems like such a fine line nowadays.
Can't tell a man you fancy him right away and def. can't have a 6 month rule. So what's a gal to do?
I guess the friendhip thing is best. Build a foundation first and see where it goes from there. Being in a relationship just for the sake of having a man has never been my thing. I know some women who can't stand to be without a man for 5 minutes and I think that is sad. Finding love is very important to me but there's always family, charity, career etc, to fill you up in the meantime.
Oh hell no. I don't want a relationship for the sake of having a man either. I'd rather be alone than to be unhappy in a relationship.click to expand
You alright in my book. 😉
^^^ Go easy on him, PMG. 😉 This is his style . He really does just like to learn so you'll find that he inquires often, which can't be a bad thing. 🙂
I am in the same shoes as everevolving. On a pisces thread I was asked if I was using them as an experiment. I told them the same thing. I said that I was just curious and that I like learning. I think that everevolving can take it even if I didn't go easy on him. He's pretty witty.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I am in the same shoes as everevolving. On a pisces thread I was asked if I was using them as an experiment. I told them the same thing. I said that I was just curious and that I like learning. I think that everevolving can take it even if I didn't go easy on him. He's pretty witty.
I saw that! It's like they were wondering if you were gonna throw out a net, scoop their asses up and send them to a lab or something. LOL. Paranoid fish.
You're right. He can handle it. Sometimes just a common practice around here helping newbies understand oldies, vice versa. All in good faith of course.
^^^^^^^^^^I'm actually cool with pisces. The one that asked if I were using them as an experiment was just joking. She is a sweetie.
Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by PlanetMercuryGirl
^^^^^^^^^^I'm actually cool with pisces. The one that asked if I were using them as an experiment was just joking. She is a sweetie.
lol Yeah I said I got the feeling we were some kind of experiment 😛 And yes I was joking, I could tell by your questions that you were trying to understand us better. So experiment away, I don't mind lol 😉
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Muah!
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
^^^^^^^^^^I'm actually cool with pisces. The one that asked if I were using them as an experiment was just joking. She is a sweetie.
I know that.
It just made me laugh that they thought you might have been experimenting. 😉
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