In the beginning of my relationship, my boyfriend would white lie about the weirdest butter. Like saying he didn't eat at tacobell, even if he did. He doesn't do that anymore, but it stemmed from his ex-wife getting mad at him for the simplest of butter.
So I don't necessarily look at the "little lies" themselves, but the reasoning behind them doing that since the lie is trivial, there is always some sort of underlying defensive mechanism, or emotional issue that creates this weird habit.
If it can be worked on, and addressed, it's not an issue. But if they continue to exhibit the issue, without acknowledging they are lying, then HARD PASS.
Everyone does that. Who says they don't they just lied again lol one basic example is when a friend asks you about something she's wearing big majority won't tell what first comes to their mind if they dislike it, instead will come up with a nicer way to put it or more likely say they like it and a friend looks great in it. And there's all sorts of examples of white lies that pretty much everyone does at some point
Rising Virgo 19?? Sun Taurus 18?? Moon Scorpio 15?? Mercury Taurus 9?? Venus Ar
29 years old female
oh I hate lies, all of them but I lied today to the cap im getting to know and i feel bad about it.
He called me, I was feeling really sad I didn't pick up, later sent him a text that I was at the lecture (he knows about it but I was so sad I didn't even go to it) .. I am not ready to tell him why im sad cause its bec. of my dad and he is on good terms with dad.
I have promised myself not to complain about my dad, mom or brother to any future partner, cause I learned the hard way how this makes one too vulnerable.
I still dont think ill lie again. The feeling of guilt is enormous