Why does he always leave in the morning? (Page 2)

Posted by ellessque

Posted by David13
You know... you have only been with him for two months... it is not a very long time. As for the boyfriend/girlfriend thing... must it be formally stated ? Enjoy the journey while it is here... smell the flowers, memorize the beautiful things that you find along the way. 'Emotionally unavailable' is probably not the right term here... I would say that he is just emotionally not ready... but keep in mind that it has only been a couple of months.

I think he will come around as long as he is not pressured to... and one day... he will still be there when you awake. Wait for that day ! 😉

I can't believe I missed this.

YES. This.....but don't do it in "hopes" he'll "come around" one day....enjoy the journey because you enjoy spending the time with him. Don't get wrapped up in crazy expectations of what should be and not be.

One day at a time.

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Maybe you were subconciously blocking me out ? 😢

😉

Posted by Impulsv
Agreed with David . U described how Taurus I dated was. Realized his pace is different n that must be respected. He likes you but maybe not in love YET. N some behavior might for him be defined as behaviors at latter stages. Do what I didn't do lol hi with flow give it six months to see how he developed. If he's continues to be emotionally closed off. Don't worry he's like that with everyone. Also be aware some people a rutine based. So he's out of his element at your place n. Taurus had a rutine n was stressful to be out of it. If he's getting sick to his stomach being out of his rutine that's his personality . Can't change anyone accept or let go. Dies he seem type A as Taurus described himself.

I was going to tell her six months also... but her being a Libra and all doesn't make her the most patient of people... I didn't want to scare her with that ! WAIT a minUTE ! I'M A TAURUS ! So... maybe it's just one of those damned earth-sign things. 😉

Well I talked to him and it didn't go well. Seems like he took it like I was nagging and complaining. I asked if he wanted to come over this weekend with a couple friends of mine that hes met and have a bbq and drinks. & that my daughter would be there, and he completely ignored my question and went on to something else I mentioned in that text. Blows my mind. I think I have to take a few steps back and stop caring so much. Obviously somethings not write with him or this. I talked to him about how I felt about his ex too, and he was very to the point. He said, "My ex is having a baby with her boyfriend thats shes probably going to marry. I dont have feelings for her anymore." And after i replied saying okay, I just wanted to hear that like you did about my ex, he didnt reply. So this morning things are distant. I dont know. Games, games, games it feels like. I did tell him this weekend because he was so distant that I care and if he doesnt maybe we should just be friends. And he apologized and said he doesnt want that, and he cares about me too. Right...ha.

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Things are simple..
If a man feels love he will be affectionate.. and if he won't then he is too fucked up.
It is simple.
-He doesn't stay in the morning because he doesn't want to stay in the morning.
-He is not affectionate because he doesn't feel affection.
-He hasn't stated that you are dating because he doesn't want to.
-IF he cared as you do to make sure that you two are together he would want to talk about it same as you do.

And if he is not going at the same pace with you, and you want more, means that he is not that into you are you are into him.

SIMPLE.

totally disagree with this. somemen are just not affectionate no matter how much affection the woman may show.....