Why is it so hard for me to love someone?

Hey everyone,

some information about me:

-sun in gemini

-moon in tarus

-rising in taurus

-mercury in cancer

-venus in gemini

-mars in gemini

The rest of my chart is on my profile🙂

So I've noticed its kinda hard for me to love someone, I'm always crushing on some guys but never really want a relationship. I only want their attention and whenever guys are interested in me I easily get bored and even worse: annoyed. I guess its because I have pretty high expectations..

Does anyone have similiar experiences? Or can anyone help me out? Do you think its because of my chart?

Thank you for reading everyone!! I'd be happy about replies❤️

My Wife's a Gemini Sun/Taurus moon, and she made it known right away that she wanted something long-term from me. Almost obsessively so at the first, but she leveled out after a while.

Maybe it's because you haven't met a Libra?

Well maybe you just aren’t ready?

How old are you?

It just may have a lot to do with your age or what you have going on. I don’t see it as a bad thing. It saves you a lot of drama actually!

I don't think it has to do with your chart(altho yes gemini venus gets bored easily). This sounds more like commitment issues and fear of intimacy imo which would come from your life experiences.

Nothing to do w your chart. I agree w the two posters above. Maybe you aren't looking for relationship goals presently. Perfectly okay! Relationships can wait. Have fun, prioritize, flirt, socialize etc and when you're ready, you'll be ready. If you're in your 20s, now is the time to just go with the flow, learn more about yourself and tackle your goals.

@LibraLion I‘m actually friends with a lot of Libras 🙂 my best friends a Libra and we’ve been friends for almost 10 years (literally libras are my spirit animals 😂😩). I wish I could date a Libra but I don’t really seem to meet one :/ I do want something long term but not with the guys I met so far, now that I think about it, it’s probably really my expectations that are too high

@Sjess I‘m 19 🙂

Posted by geminitaurus

@Sjess I‘m 19 🙂

Oh my gosh. Don’t rush it!! I would Stay away from relationships and have fun! Enjoy your life while you’re so young!

Are you risky? Contrary to what society likes to portray, most people like the path of least resistance regarding relationships and a lot of other things. Maybe you’re presenting a character flaw that’s too challenging.

Posted by Gobby

Posted by Sjess

Posted by geminitaurus

@Sjess I‘m 19 🙂

Oh my gosh. Don’t rush it!! I would Stay away from relationships and have fun! Enjoy your life while you’re so young!

Just another young woman comparing herself to her friends and wanting to be part of 'the club'.

Try being an individual instead...

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Well I‘m most definitely not trying to be a part of any club. I‘m being myself and I was only wondering if the way I show interest has something to do with my chart. I kind of want to love and at the same time I don’t it’s really difficult and I‘m trying to understand this problem

Posted by Arielle83

I never wanted a bf until I was like 26 or 27.

I was too focused on school and travel.

Plus guys your age are needy and insecure

You‘re right about guys my age being needy and yes! They definitely are needy I‘m really not looking for someone younger than me. Like they have to be 3-4 years older at least! Some guys I didn’t show interest to seemed to get the point wrong that I‘m more focused on school and on myself. Until now I didn’t really have good experiences to be honest and I feel like that’s what kind of keeps me away from getting in a relationship yet I want one to maybe experience something good? Do you know what I mean?

Posted by Loyal

You are the question and the answer.

Meaning??😂

At 19 the emotionally responsive part of your brain hasn’t fully formed yet so you need time for that to process