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Cancer Lady
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and competing for a man.

I see that some women will accept any treatment the man gives her just because she wants to "win" him. However it seems in most cases the guy ends up choosing the woman who did not hang around trying to convince him to choose her. What prompted me to start this topic is that I was out with friends the other night and one of my guys friends scorpio brought a girl along but ended running into a girl he's been crushing on for awhile but he wants to get his butter together before he pursues a relationship with her.

So anywho scorpio is extremely focused on this girl even though he has a date with him. Scorpio is watching the girls every move, starring at her while she's talking to other guys, and is even practically following her around with his date in tow. I'm looking at his date like ummmm do you see scorpio is focused on this other woman when he's suppose to be here with you? She's not saying anything all the while scorpio continues to focuse on the mystery woman. The scorpio even went over and tried to interrupt the convo the mystery woman was having with a guy but she ignored him which I don't blame her because that was very rude of him but even still scorpio's date stood there watching and said nothing.

So it comes to the end of the night and scorpio is still watching mystery woman I guess trying to see if she was going to leave with a guy. I told him lets go because at this point I'm humiliated and embarrassed for his date. We're walking to our cars and scorpio sees mystery woman walking by and scorpio stops and stares at her, she sees him and they smile at each other and she keeps walking. He then tells his date to get in the back seat and he begins to walk in the direction the mystery woman is going and stops and watches her. Then he turns to us and says he had to make sure she got to her car safely. Meanwhile his date is sitting in the backseat with his other guys friends and scorpio hops in the front seat.

I'm looking over at scorpio's date like are you kidding me? The whole night this man has been focused on another woman and then don't even want to sit next to you for the ride home?? and you're just going to sit there and say nothing— and to add insult to injury when we got to scorpio's house, she slept with him!!! How in the world could you sleep with a man who has disrespected you like that?
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His behaviour was disrespectful towards his date is what OP is trying to say.
Me personally, I would have left..maybe she didn't have money for a cab perhaps?
LOL!

I honestly would not care. I have my dinner that is all I need. You asked me out, I am here, you know what time it is! I will be in the backseat waiting. Lol!
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You just want the free food don't you? Wink
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A woman should value herself more than to allow a man to treat her like that and proceed to sleep with him. She is basically saying hey you can treat me any kind of way and I'll still be here vying for your love and attention.

Some women wonder why some men treat them like butter and this is exactly why. Even if she needed the ride, she should have not stayed and slept with him. How can you expect a man to value you when you don't even value yourself and I'm pretty sure she was not okay with how he was treating her. I refuse to believe that but she doesn't want to give up and not win. So she's willing to put up with anything thinking it will keep her in the running when in reality what she did was cancel herself out.
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Posted by Cancer Lady
A woman should value herself more than to allow a man to treat her like that and proceed to sleep with him. She is basically saying hey you can treat me any kind of way and I'll still be here vying for your love and attention.

Some women wonder why some men treat them like butter and this is exactly why. Even if she needed the ride, she should have not stayed and slept with him. How can you expect a man to value you when you don't even value yourself and I'm pretty sure she was not okay with how he was treating her. I refuse to believe that but she doesn't want to give up and not win. So she's willing to put up with anything thinking it will keep her in the running when in reality what she did was cancel herself out.
*Applause*
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Again... I agree lol. I'm curious about what were the mystery girl and the date's signs were. Btw, I've witnessed this before...
What happened in the situation you witnessed?
This Scorpio guy was staring at me while he was sitting with his Cancer gf who did not like me. She did not really react.
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She wasn't bothered.
She knew who he was going home with. 😄
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Posted by Cancer Lady
and competing for a man.

I see that some women will accept any treatment the man gives her just because she wants to "win" him. ..................... and you're just going to sit there and say nothing— and to add insult to injury when we got to scorpio's house, she slept with him!!! How in the world could you sleep with a man who has disrespected you like that?
She doesn't have to fight, she's already winning and she knows it; all she needs to do is just hang around long enough......

He's playing games. I have found many Scorpio males to be in a relationship while mentally toying with the idea of being with another.
But never intending to leave. It seems to be some kind of mental foreplay..

All that appears to be disrespectful but who is he with?
If he was all that interested he would have asked her out.
If that girl had reciprocated his "interest" he would have ignored her.
Because he doesn't really want to be with her but enjoyed the mystic of her.

A Scorp did this with me. He was coming out of the building, saw me and doubled back to run and open the door. Stared at me, smiled and made an effort to say hello, hung around and even tried to get his girlfriend/wife to leave but when it was all said and done; he didn't pursue. And they are still together, even though he cheated on her.

I felt tension when I entered to office. She is his office manager. I believe they live together too.
They obviously quarreled and I guess he wanted a bit of payback and flirting with me to make her jealous.
Because he never pursued and when I later became more friendly, smiled and said hello he ignored.
So from now on I don't even waste a smile on him.
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Posted by Cancer Lady
I see that some women will accept any treatment the man gives her just because she wants to "win" him.
You know, fucking funny thing here... If I recall correctly, this was YOU in the Libra forum, no? *cough*

This is something you should have been asking yourself when you were being a fairy tale ditz over there.

But whatev. Keep bringing on the lulz.



...and before you get going on your default "obsessed" comeback, dear, this was on the front page. I mean, it's hard not to click a topic like this. It's guaranteed lolz for sure.
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Again... I agree lol. I'm curious about what were the mystery girl and the date's signs were. Btw, I've witnessed this before...
What happened in the situation you witnessed?
This Scorpio guy was staring at me while he was sitting with his Cancer gf who did not like me. She did not really react.
Staring means nothing.

I have a really intense gaze based on what some people have said, but usually I'm just staring out into space and thinking about something trivial.
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I should get into detail more and tell the whole story from now on :/ This has happened on more than one occasion and he wasn't just staring, he sat a certain way and always gazed while he had a cup to his lips every time I caught him. I've even had my back turned and felt that he was staring at me (which he was). I'm sure this was no coincidence because whether you believe me or not, I've experienced this with 3 Scorpios during the same time period, all practically had the same behavior and more :/
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Again... I agree lol. I'm curious about what were the mystery girl and the date's signs were. Btw, I've witnessed this before...
What happened in the situation you witnessed?
This Scorpio guy was staring at me while he was sitting with his Cancer gf who did not like me. She did not really react.
She wasn't bothered.
She knew who he was going home with. 😄
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Lol, didn't matter to me because I wasn't interested.
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Posted by LunarMaiden
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and competing for a man.

I see that some women will accept any treatment the man gives her just because she wants to "win" him. ..................... and you're just going to sit there and say nothing— and to add insult to injury when we got to scorpio's house, she slept with him!!! How in the world could you sleep with a man who has disrespected you like that?
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She doesn't have to fight, she's already winning and she knows it...

Wrong. I saw the scorp last night and he started laughing when we brought up his date. He said he has not talked to her since and showed us where she has called & texted him but he isn't going to respond.

She played herself. Thinking hanging around and allowing him to disrespect her would win her brownie points but instead it made her pathetic in his eyes. Just because a man keeps you around and sleeps with you doesn't mean you are special to him. And any woman that thinks she's winning because a man is sleeping with her is on the road to heartbreak and she shouldn't be surprised when she's limited to sex and never gets a commitment.

No woman wants to be used for just sex, they tell themselves they're okay with it because they don't want to face the reality that they're willing to accept crumbs and next to nothing just to keep him interested in her. Then she gets upset and labels him the big bad wolf when he kicks her to the curb for the woman that has respect for herself and is not desperate.

The pain some women endure comes from them bringing it on themselves.