Sag89
@Sag89
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Posted by ninjafish
I meant poor virgo because he couldn't keep it up, not because he scored your good self and a fish 😛
lol! 😛
lol @ the Virgo 🙂
Yea guys the connection between me and my roommate was awesome. We were trying to make the virgo join in and he couldn't like ya. Honestly we were all on high on ( it ) so i think maybe that was it?
I don't know. The cap I did this before had the most stamina.
I don't know. The cap I did this before had the most stamina.
Posted by SneakyPosted by Sneaky
- I think sags think hindsight is horrible, and the worst thing you can do to a sag is make her aware of her actions before she had a chance to forget about it.click to expand
I don't regret any of them. Sharing people all together is beautiful thing. We all gave each other massages too. Sex isn't always meant to be one way.
Posted by pssymonstaa
OMG I wanted a threesome since the beginning of time.
And since I couldnt go to Vegas this weekend I got myself a date with two HOTTTTIES!
Haha
So what was wrong with Virgo guy that is emberrassing, he must hate his life.
Nice! It will be a wonderful experience to see two beautiful woman touch eacother I love doing it and I love watching it lol yea i think he was too fucked up or maybe scared? lol idk really some peoples first time freaks them out maybe
Posted by tiziani
I think I'm glad that I grew past threesomes though. Played hell with my ability to make a commitment.
yeah I can understand that. Cause like 2 at time can be addicting. It's like my 5th one. Not only are u getting pleasure but you giving it to two ppl than your watching them enjoy idk its pretty intense. I have a mars in scorpio so I just like really get into it.
Posted by tiziani
Definitely, I know where you're coming from. Although my addiction was a little different.
I've never done one where I was just having fun with two other people. I could only do it with a partner that I trusted. At that point, it was almost like the third person we invited was a tool. We all treated each other as people, as lovers. But it was more about us 2 in the relationship showing a new side to each other, through this 3rd person.
Kind of like how people would view jumping over a broom at a wedding, holding hands together haha. Except the addiction just went too far. Definitely watching people go at it was addictive, and going down on someone while they're receiving pleasure from someone else was a big addiction for me too.
Wow! See I have always wondered what that would be like to do with a significant other. I have only done these being single. I don't know if I could share my partner with someone else I may be too jealous lol Though I totally believe at the same time it would be just like how you described. Thats interesting.
Posted by tiziani
I have no idea about my planetary placements and what they might have had to do with it. I only remember I had Leo in one placement so that gives me an exhibitionist streak.
Right. Yea you should check yours out!
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89Posted by DazedScorp
Cuz you da ho?
You have been there man come now.........
I've never actually had a THREEsome.click to expand
Really? why did you say you did?
Posted by tizianiPosted by Sag89Posted by tiziani
Definitely, I know where you're coming from. Although my addiction was a little different.
I've never done one where I was just having fun with two other people. I could only do it with a partner that I trusted. At that point, it was almost like the third person we invited was a tool. We all treated each other as people, as lovers. But it was more about us 2 in the relationship showing a new side to each other, through this 3rd person.
Kind of like how people would view jumping over a broom at a wedding, holding hands together haha. Except the addiction just went too far. Definitely watching people go at it was addictive, and going down on someone while they're receiving pleasure from someone else was a big addiction for me too.
Wow! See I have always wondered what that would be like to do with a significant other. I have only done these being single. I don't know if I could share my partner with someone else I may be too jealous lol Though I totally believe at the same time it would be just like how you described. Thats interesting.
Haha trust me it might not be an adventure worth taking. I can't tell you whether to do it or not do it, if and when the opportunity arises in a relationship.
All I know is there were powerful moments when it felt like what I just remembered, but even though I'm pretty emotionally inept when it comes to jealousy (I had to fake jealousy at times to help her feel more secure) I am a guy at the end of the day, and you do always feel a little funny about knowing your woman has been broken into by another guy after the event of you getting together.
There are no right or wrong answers IMO, it's a question of right time right place... and the potential to get it very wrong if you're one second too late or one step to the left.click to expand
Hmmm I see
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89Posted by DazedScorp
Cuz you da ho?
You have been there man come now.........
I've never actually had a THREEsome.
Really? why did you say you did?
I've never said I had a threesome, nor is it ever likely to happen. Someone's always feeling left out.
4+ people isn't really considered a THREEsome now is it?click to expand
Well if you never had one you can't really say that.
Oh 4 + ok...
Posted by Prince_Pisces
I think threesomes are hot if all the focus is on me LOL! Not like all three all over eachother.
Haha my aries friend would say the same
Maybe you'll enjoy them more with people you're more compatible with.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Maybe you'll enjoy them more with people you're more compatible with.
I have and will continue too
you roommate?!
I don't know how you do it.....I wouldn't be able to do this with anyone I knew well or especially lived with/was friends with because I'd have a hard time looking them in the face afterwards lol
I don't know how you do it.....I wouldn't be able to do this with anyone I knew well or especially lived with/was friends with because I'd have a hard time looking them in the face afterwards lol
your** ughhhhh
Posted by brianafay
you roommate?!
I don't know how you do it.....I wouldn't be able to do this with anyone I knew well or especially lived with/was friends with because I'd have a hard time looking them in the face afterwards lol
Haha people say that to me all the time. I don't know either. It's just never weird after.
This pisces boy once asked me ( cause he started seeing a friend I slept with and the word got out about it ) he like turns to me in all seriousness " how is that not weird? " And i was like dude chill.
Posted by MellyMel
Mainly about how when he first started practicing law, he was representing a very high profile female country singer in her divorce case. The other side had prepared a list of written questions for her to answer and one of them was "have you ever participated in a three-some?".. she got really nervous and proceeded to tell my professor about "one weekend on tour" in Denver.. I won't go into specifics, but it involved a hot tub, drugs and a bunch of people.
My professor was very new to practicing law and was very nervous about answering this question. He knew they couldn't lie, but he also knew that if the truth got out, it would ruin her career. He went to the senior partner of the firm, an 80 something year old man that wore seersucker suits and smoked a pipe every day, and told him the story and the dilemma.
After he had finished, the senior partner just started laughing and said "Son. That question asks about *threesomes*. It's very specific in the wording. What you just described is nothing other than a good old fashioned orgy! The answer to that question is NO!!! Now learn how to think like a lawyer and stop bothering me unless it's to bring me some scotch"
I love living in the south.
Hahahahah!
@Sag89 -
Good for you about staying single and exploring your sexuality. I've seen other women do this and they were more ready to be in long-term relationships once they got older. I think you have to sow your oats before you plow the field so to speak.
It's your business, but if you are doing drugs, that would be something to lay off on. I'm in my 30's and have seen women my age quit drugs earlier, but had major health problems later on due to usage. If it's just weed, that's fine and disregard what I said.
The other thing is I've seen girls who do drugs ruin their looks over it. Which is something I suspect you do not want to do. There are women my age who used to be really attractive when they were younger. But are now the 30's version of Lindsay Lohan.
Just food for thought.
Good for you about staying single and exploring your sexuality. I've seen other women do this and they were more ready to be in long-term relationships once they got older. I think you have to sow your oats before you plow the field so to speak.
It's your business, but if you are doing drugs, that would be something to lay off on. I'm in my 30's and have seen women my age quit drugs earlier, but had major health problems later on due to usage. If it's just weed, that's fine and disregard what I said.
The other thing is I've seen girls who do drugs ruin their looks over it. Which is something I suspect you do not want to do. There are women my age who used to be really attractive when they were younger. But are now the 30's version of Lindsay Lohan.
Just food for thought.
I just thought I'd say your avi is funny thnx for the laugh ^.
@tiziani-
Yeah, I'm not trying to preach necessarily. But just giving info out cause some girls really dont know that drugs can make your looks age faster. So many women I knew in high school wrecked themselves cause of drinking and drugs. They looked really horrible.
I dont think there is anything wrong with pushing your sexual boundaries when single and in your 20's. As long as you are coming from a place of healthy sexuality meaning you're not acting out due to abuse or rape and you just love to boink. The other thing is to be responsible when being promisicous. Practice safe sex or make sure your partners are responsible meaning they get tested consistantly for STD's
As long as Sag89 is coming from a place of just loving to cum and not due to sexual trauma, I fully support her "mingling" so to speak.
Yeah, I'm not trying to preach necessarily. But just giving info out cause some girls really dont know that drugs can make your looks age faster. So many women I knew in high school wrecked themselves cause of drinking and drugs. They looked really horrible.
I dont think there is anything wrong with pushing your sexual boundaries when single and in your 20's. As long as you are coming from a place of healthy sexuality meaning you're not acting out due to abuse or rape and you just love to boink. The other thing is to be responsible when being promisicous. Practice safe sex or make sure your partners are responsible meaning they get tested consistantly for STD's
As long as Sag89 is coming from a place of just loving to cum and not due to sexual trauma, I fully support her "mingling" so to speak.
In all fairness, there's a lot of guys my age who when younger were brad pitt and now they look like Homer Simpson.
I attribute their decline being the same as the girls - excessive substance abuse. I never got into serious drinking and zero experience with drugs. I can hold my liquor which stopped me from drinking since it takes 12 shots for me to get HALF-DRUNK. And then my injuries from an accident sealed me not drinking ever. (I didn't drink or drive BTW it was a driver who was under the influence that hit me)
I guess because of that or my parents genes I look like I'm in my 20's. Which works against me when I go to music clubs as bouncers will look at my ID 3 times before letting me in. Then in rare instances where I've met women my age or older, they assumed I was a 20 something and blew me off.
As far as the personal crisis, I've only seen that happen with women about to turn 30. They freak out fearing they didn't party enough, travel enough or f--k other people enough, and either cheat or dump their SO's to do it.
I think there should be a policy for BOTH men and women. When you turn 18, stay single figure out what you want to do with your life professionally. Do a lot of traveling and educating yourself. And also have as much SAFE sex as possible being single. Which is hard for some men and women to do, cause they confuse a good shag for love. If that's the case, then go see a therapist, cause you dont have any business being in a relationship.
But anyway, do till you're about 28. Then do a self-assessment. Do you know yourself as a person better? Do you know what want out of life and love? Do you still feel the urge to screw everything that moves? If yes, to the first three questions, then you may be ready for a long term relationship.
BUT if no to the very last question, you should either stay single, or find a person who is down for an open relationship. Cause if you are still feeling the urge to bang everything after doing it a lot in your 20's already, you are never going to be a monogamous person. There is nothing wrong with that provided you dont get involved with someone who is and you find someone who is down with keeping sexual partners open.
I think if more people did that, there would be less headaches relationship wise.
I attribute their decline being the same as the girls - excessive substance abuse. I never got into serious drinking and zero experience with drugs. I can hold my liquor which stopped me from drinking since it takes 12 shots for me to get HALF-DRUNK. And then my injuries from an accident sealed me not drinking ever. (I didn't drink or drive BTW it was a driver who was under the influence that hit me)
I guess because of that or my parents genes I look like I'm in my 20's. Which works against me when I go to music clubs as bouncers will look at my ID 3 times before letting me in. Then in rare instances where I've met women my age or older, they assumed I was a 20 something and blew me off.
As far as the personal crisis, I've only seen that happen with women about to turn 30. They freak out fearing they didn't party enough, travel enough or f--k other people enough, and either cheat or dump their SO's to do it.
I think there should be a policy for BOTH men and women. When you turn 18, stay single figure out what you want to do with your life professionally. Do a lot of traveling and educating yourself. And also have as much SAFE sex as possible being single. Which is hard for some men and women to do, cause they confuse a good shag for love. If that's the case, then go see a therapist, cause you dont have any business being in a relationship.
But anyway, do till you're about 28. Then do a self-assessment. Do you know yourself as a person better? Do you know what want out of life and love? Do you still feel the urge to screw everything that moves? If yes, to the first three questions, then you may be ready for a long term relationship.
BUT if no to the very last question, you should either stay single, or find a person who is down for an open relationship. Cause if you are still feeling the urge to bang everything after doing it a lot in your 20's already, you are never going to be a monogamous person. There is nothing wrong with that provided you dont get involved with someone who is and you find someone who is down with keeping sexual partners open.
I think if more people did that, there would be less headaches relationship wise.
Posted by tiziani
I think the most brutal period is 25-30 though. A lot of women just don't make it through that phase intact with their looks. It's a waste.
this is encouraging.
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@Brianafay -
Like Tiziani said, you'll be fine. Provided you're not a heavy drinker or smoker. Smoking is especially bad since it makes your skin wrinkle really fast.
I've seen girls whose only vice was smoking and they were already showing wrinkles on their skin at 23. If a man/woman leads a healthy life style , they'll look young for a long time. People mistook my mother for being in her 20's when she was in her 30's so I guess the apple does not fall far from the tree. Dana Delany is almost 60 but looks 40's and I would love to have a one night stand with her.
I say one night stand cause she is in my mother's age range. I'm not gonna date someone as old as mom, that's creepy and gross.
I think men and women are in too much of a hurry to grow up overall. The 20's is the time to make honest mistakes and to learn about yourself. But if you're still making the same mistakes in your 30's like your 20's there is a serious problem.
Like Tiziani said, you'll be fine. Provided you're not a heavy drinker or smoker. Smoking is especially bad since it makes your skin wrinkle really fast.
I've seen girls whose only vice was smoking and they were already showing wrinkles on their skin at 23. If a man/woman leads a healthy life style , they'll look young for a long time. People mistook my mother for being in her 20's when she was in her 30's so I guess the apple does not fall far from the tree. Dana Delany is almost 60 but looks 40's and I would love to have a one night stand with her.
I say one night stand cause she is in my mother's age range. I'm not gonna date someone as old as mom, that's creepy and gross.
I think men and women are in too much of a hurry to grow up overall. The 20's is the time to make honest mistakes and to learn about yourself. But if you're still making the same mistakes in your 30's like your 20's there is a serious problem.
Posted by flipyourwig
@Sag89 -
Good for you about staying single and exploring your sexuality. I've seen other women do this and they were more ready to be in long-term relationships once they got older. I think you have to sow your oats before you plow the field so to speak.
It's your business, but if you are doing drugs, that would be something to lay off on. I'm in my 30's and have seen women my age quit drugs earlier, but had major health problems later on due to usage. If it's just weed, that's fine and disregard what I said.
The other thing is I've seen girls who do drugs ruin their looks over it. Which is something I suspect you do not want to do. There are women my age who used to be really attractive when they were younger. But are now the 30's version of Lindsay Lohan.
Just food for thought.
Thank you for that flip! I actually do drugs very rarely. I started doing them when I was 12 years old and have done pretty much everything under the sun. Than about age 15 I got sick of it.
Now it's a every now and than thing. I don't drink much at all either. The thing is I have horrible anxiety so if I chose to " party " it comes at a huge price. So I am usually just am always sober.
and I HATE POT. And from the city that I live it's like a sin. But whatever. I started young got burnt out fast what can I say?
Also with the sex thing yes. It would be unfair in my head to have not tried everything I felt I needed too. I don't wanna be one of those chicks that never did what she wanted and the man I was with had to pay the price for it. You know?
Posted by Sag89Posted by flipyourwig
@Sag89 -
Good for you about staying single and exploring your sexuality. I've seen other women do this and they were more ready to be in long-term relationships once they got older. I think you have to sow your oats before you plow the field so to speak.
It's your business, but if you are doing drugs, that would be something to lay off on. I'm in my 30's and have seen women my age quit drugs earlier, but had major health problems later on due to usage. If it's just weed, that's fine and disregard what I said.
The other thing is I've seen girls who do drugs ruin their looks over it. Which is something I suspect you do not want to do. There are women my age who used to be really attractive when they were younger. But are now the 30's version of Lindsay Lohan.
Just food for thought.
Thank you for that flip! I actually do drugs very rarely. I started doing them when I was 12 years old and have done pretty much everything under the sun. Than about age 15 I got sick of it.
Now it's a every now and than thing. I don't drink much at all either. The thing is I have horrible anxiety so if I chose to " party " it comes at a huge price. So I am usually just am always sober.
and I HATE POT. And from the city that I live it's like a sin. But whatever. I started young got burnt out fast what can I say?
Also with the sex thing yes. It would be unfair in my head to have not tried everything I felt I needed too. I don't wanna be one of those chicks that never did what she wanted and the man I was with had to pay the price for it. You know?click to expand
You know, you bring up something interesting with the whole anxiety thing.
If there is one thing I'd want to tell people about Sagis that they didn't know...it's that most of us do struggle with acute anxiety. We appear unfazed by most things to everyone around us...but actually we freak the fuck out on the inside.
& rest assured guys...I'm pretty fucking boring.
I don't smoke.
I don't do drugs (never have.)
I only drink occasionally.
& I don't do casual sex (been with the same person since the dawn of civilization, lol.)
Unless I suddenly snap over turning 30 I guess I'll be ok. 🙂
Don't see that happening since I am just now finally finishing school and that's most important to me.
I don't smoke.
I don't do drugs (never have.)
I only drink occasionally.
& I don't do casual sex (been with the same person since the dawn of civilization, lol.)
Unless I suddenly snap over turning 30 I guess I'll be ok. 🙂
Don't see that happening since I am just now finally finishing school and that's most important to me.
Posted by brianafayPosted by Sag89Posted by flipyourwig
@Sag89 -
Good for you about staying single and exploring your sexuality. I've seen other women do this and they were more ready to be in long-term relationships once they got older. I think you have to sow your oats before you plow the field so to speak.
It's your business, but if you are doing drugs, that would be something to lay off on. I'm in my 30's and have seen women my age quit drugs earlier, but had major health problems later on due to usage. If it's just weed, that's fine and disregard what I said.
The other thing is I've seen girls who do drugs ruin their looks over it. Which is something I suspect you do not want to do. There are women my age who used to be really attractive when they were younger. But are now the 30's version of Lindsay Lohan.
Just food for thought.
Thank you for that flip! I actually do drugs very rarely. I started doing them when I was 12 years old and have done pretty much everything under the sun. Than about age 15 I got sick of it.
Now it's a every now and than thing. I don't drink much at all either. The thing is I have horrible anxiety so if I chose to " party " it comes at a huge price. So I am usually just am always sober.
and I HATE POT. And from the city that I live it's like a sin. But whatever. I started young got burnt out fast what can I say?
Also with the sex thing yes. It would be unfair in my head to have not tried everything I felt I needed too. I don't wanna be one of those chicks that never did what she wanted and the man I was with had to pay the price for it. You know?
You know, you bring up something interesting with the whole anxiety thing.
If there is one thing I'd want to tell people about Sagis that they didn't know...it's that most of us do struggle with acute anxiety. We appear unfazed by most things to everyone around us...but actually we freak the fuck out on the inside.click to expand
Yea I have had since I was a child. Drugs and Alcohol only seem to increase it for me. I think for most it can decrease. I have one of the most sensitive bodies ever. Probably cause I weigh very little but I have to be very careful with my in take of everything.
@Sag89 - I've never done drugs including weed. My mother's family has too much of a history with substance abuse. I wanted to be the one person who wasn't an addict or had kids.
I'm glad you hardly use drugs. It's your life obviously, but I would probably change that to never. I've seen so many people who just dabelled has health issues in their 30's due to that. But hey, it's your life.
Dont let other men and women bully you for the way you live life being single. You're just doing what every single guy does and some women get resentful cause they lack courage to cut loose enjoying themselves sexually while actually sober.
@Brianafay - Just make sure you are 100% fine with being in a long term relationship. I've seen many good girl types freak out in their 30's about not sowing their oats more in 20's. I'll never forget reading a quote from one of my all time crushes Cindy Crawford. She said in a recent interview that she thought she was too prudish in her 20's. Cindy wished she had stayed single consistantly and in her own words "more of a slut"
I really think the thing about women's sex drive increasing in their 30's regardless of astrological chart is true. I see more and more women my age acting like teenage guys. They want to either get laid more by their SO's or want to F everything that moves lol.
BTW the popular myth about men's sex drives decreasing in their 30's isnt entirely true either. Unfortunately I still have the same raging hormones as I did at 16 years old.
RE: Anxiety - Mine is more social anxiety. I can socialize with strangers but it is draining to me. I always feel like I have to be entertaining and funny. Basically I'm an introvert who happens to fake extroversion really well.
I'm glad you hardly use drugs. It's your life obviously, but I would probably change that to never. I've seen so many people who just dabelled has health issues in their 30's due to that. But hey, it's your life.
Dont let other men and women bully you for the way you live life being single. You're just doing what every single guy does and some women get resentful cause they lack courage to cut loose enjoying themselves sexually while actually sober.
@Brianafay - Just make sure you are 100% fine with being in a long term relationship. I've seen many good girl types freak out in their 30's about not sowing their oats more in 20's. I'll never forget reading a quote from one of my all time crushes Cindy Crawford. She said in a recent interview that she thought she was too prudish in her 20's. Cindy wished she had stayed single consistantly and in her own words "more of a slut"
I really think the thing about women's sex drive increasing in their 30's regardless of astrological chart is true. I see more and more women my age acting like teenage guys. They want to either get laid more by their SO's or want to F everything that moves lol.
BTW the popular myth about men's sex drives decreasing in their 30's isnt entirely true either. Unfortunately I still have the same raging hormones as I did at 16 years old.
RE: Anxiety - Mine is more social anxiety. I can socialize with strangers but it is draining to me. I always feel like I have to be entertaining and funny. Basically I'm an introvert who happens to fake extroversion really well.
thanks flip i appreciate that. Ya it's really rare if happens at all.
Obama has the most emotional controlled face I've ever seen. They taught him well.
Haha what?
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