Are male Sag capable of affection!?

Hey guys, I've posted about a Libra in the past, but I'm just so frazzled and to the end of my rope with this relationship I'm in with a Sagittarian (Capricorn Venus), who seems to be incapable of any kind of emotional vulnerability.

I'm a Gemini, so I'm unafraid to express how I feel and I always love to talk about feelings and emotions, and he seems so dead to them.

I know this is a typical Sag trait, their inability to have any kind of emotion (it sure seems!), but it comes along with a lack of affection, and a general feeling of neglect. Now, we've been together only two months, but it is (even at 21 yrs old) my first relationship, so I sincerely want it to work, but because of all of the life issues he has (three children, insane baby mother, troublemaking exes, etc), it's wearing down on me that he cannot simply show me any kind of emotional support.

I've spoken to him about this, we have AMAZING communication. We can literally discuss and FIX anything, and that's why I'm still here, because he has FIXED things I've complained about in the past, but this whole "showing that you care" thing is a blaring issue that's making me feel empty inside.

Yet when I tell him "I feel unloved, unappreciated, like I could leave you and you wouldn't even care."

He gets this blank look and goes "I don't know what you're talking about, I'm with you, if I didn't want to be, I'd leave."

Then I end up feeling stupid for being so emotional.

Whenever I'm lucky to get a vulnerable side of him, he'll tell me he's been hurt in the past, and I get that, I've been hurt too, but I've CLEARLY shown I am extremely different. I'm from a totally different path of life than his exes, and his friends and family see that and want me around for a very long time because I have my life together.

That being said, is this something that I should be patient about and eventually he'll soften for me and I'll be his special little snowflake? (LOL, puke) Or is this just the way he's gonna be forever and I should pack my things and get going while it's only 2 months in?

If it helps, his rising sign is Virgo, and his moon is Taurus (and Venus is in Capricorn).

Read the tauri post on this board. Same thing applies here.