Are Sagis just too much for a virgo?! (Page 2)

yeah she's 26

i'm not expecting much because i understand she needs to find the right man. maybe be more time efficient and meet more men to increase her efficiency rather than feel like "this is what i got to choose from - lets get it over and done with" haha

i noticed women get very activated when their beauty is admired. makes things so much easier! haha

Ah well....just see what happens hey?! No expectations is good cause then if something does happen its a bonus! On an aside....I have this pendulum I have been asking questions to and it seems to always answer the way I want it too! Do you think this is because its tapping into our energy of what we think— Or can it be trusted?? And if it is tapping into our subconscious is it because we know on a deeper instinct the answers—? Or is it just tapping into my desired outcomes—!!!

oh goodness, you're talking to a pendulum haha

maybe you desire something so much that the passion leads you to achieve it in much the same way the pendulum can 'represent' the same philosophy

so yeah, its the answer of your subconcious, the magic pendulum brings it out. its much similar to suggestive hypnosis

So is my gut ( subconscious) right?!!! And I am working on getting us together Reason!! If we can just see each other face to face again...it could be good...

And Zeo I know!!! The pendulum!!! ha haha!!

you are so like the sagittarius i know haha

ha ha ha I will take that as a compliment!

haha yes, you should. most sagittarius i met are nice

talked to him tonight....he wont be here for the ballet...but says he would of come. he's going away for a few days. when i say will i see you again hes gone from not for awhile to maybe! I think i may be over it.....i cant keep up the effort....does he need me to convince him— Or talking to me through guilt? Or are his feelings unresolved? I am getting over it though...even though I still have very deep feelings.....

i dont know how you can take this, the moment i sense an imbalance of respect, no mutual respect, i can se how far this guy has fallen

to be even friends needs a certain level of respect in the form of effort. maybe i can appeal to your sagittarius nature. you probably arent aware how many men desire your effort but you're giving it to someone like him? he isnt even making any effort

how about a test? if he wont hit the ball back after you put into service, how about lets say he's not respecting you enough to play ball and cant hit the ball and getting aced by you. game 1-0 cinder

now his turn to put the ball in service, lets see if he serves the ball?

i hope you dont give your energy and your youth to men that wont take a bite and enjoy it. there would be many men that would enjoy it, all you have to do is offer your energy to them, and also see if you like the taste of theirs to see if you match. this guy seems to be anorexic-bulimic

I messaged saying can we catch up before you go away....... 2 hours later i get a message back saying...goodnight, I have to work outside tomorrow in the cold! Arrggg.......he clearly doesnt want to talk, but is leaving me dangling...so yes Zeo......no more from me! He should just say..I need space and time or whatever...not this talk every day. Even if he is doing it from guilt or it is his effort to be kind?!!! I dont know...but I have no more energy. Bet he wont contact me at all! And at this point...I am giving up!

Posted by WynterBourne
Shit! Now I'm having visions of Virgos wielding viscous crowbars

why crowbars? i wouldnt use a crowbar

Posted by cinder
I messaged saying can we catch up before you go away....... 2 hours later i get a message back saying...goodnight, I have to work outside tomorrow in the cold! Arrggg.......he clearly doesnt want to talk, but is leaving me dangling...so yes Zeo......no more from me! He should just say..I need space and time or whatever...not this talk every day. Even if he is doing it from guilt or it is his effort to be kind?!!! I dont know...but I have no more energy. Bet he wont contact me at all! And at this point...I am giving up!

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he might be trying to be kind, you need to get him to admit it if you really want to know. ask him to man-up and come clean. he's even pissing me off

i like to think you are freeing yourself, not giving up. there are probably a million guys in victoria that would love to have a shot at you, go get 'em tiger

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Posted by WynterBourne
Shit! Now I'm having visions of Virgos wielding viscous crowbars

why crowbars? i wouldnt use a crowbar

Posted by cinder
I messaged saying can we catch up before you go away....... 2 hours later i get a message back saying...goodnight, I have to work outside tomorrow in the cold! Arrggg.......he clearly doesnt want to talk, but is leaving me dangling...so yes Zeo......no more from me! He should just say..I need space and time or whatever...not this talk every day. Even if he is doing it from guilt or it is his effort to be kind?!!! I dont know...but I have no more energy. Bet he wont contact me at all! And at this point...I am giving up!

he might be trying to be kind, you need to get him to admit it if you really want to know. ask him to man-up and come clean. he's even pissing me off

i like to think you are freeing yourself, not giving up. there are probably a million guys in victoria that would love to have a shot at you, go get 'em tiger

I dunno, that kinda sounds impatient tbh.

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Yeah agreed. I'd probably just give up if it was me as well. You're a sag right? Don't you have other guys you've been talking to as well?

Yes...I am a sag. Yes there is an old flame who keeps messaging me and wanting to catch up....but i am not in that space right now...how can I be...still trying to resolve this thing with the virgo! We just had a conversation on FB........talking away and I said why dont you come over..i might cook...hes like "might"? I said ok..i will. He said why do you want to arent you mad? I am like...not mad, i like feeding you! he jokes about poison....I say I dont do grudges. He says Why? I say, its not in my nature. He asked if there is a particular reason I want to see him. I said, just want to see you...and cook! His response...you know you are very good...I will just disappoint you. I say...lets not think...lets just eat! He says he doesnt think he can do it. I say just come...no biggie. (ha ha!!) he says grr. i say 7.30! he says no not coming. Me...why? He says, its too soon.. I say its simple..just catch up..he says I am too lovely...sorry! I say too lovely for what...he says you know what i mean and then bye and kisses. i say soon...... 5 minutes later he pops up and says are you writing? I say no..I am festering!! Just f'ing come over...he says...my error...isay....i will listen for the door tonight..and the dog is missing him! he ha ha me then logs off. Funny thing is when I go online his light is off but as soon as i say something he turns it on and chats to me.
I think he is swinging around and doesnt know what to do...he likes me, but keeps going on about disappointing me.........so when we broke up he said he doesnt know if we are right for each other....then why does he swing like this? He wants too, he doesnt want too..........he never just gets to the point!!! or maybe i ignore it because I live in hope....but if you dont want to see me......then don't talk to me at all......even though I want him to! But other things I have read say that virgo's dont change their minds....so why the swinging— Please please enlighten me on this behaviour......is all lost? Will he change his mind? Is he thinking? Is it gouilt...does he want to be friends? Why be friends if you were lovers— Other people just don't do that...or they dont talk for awhile...so why talk? This is an epic post!!! Sorry!!

Sounds like he's made up his mind that he can't be with you for whatever reasons he has, but he may still have feelings that are making him stick around to see if things change. Idk..

Recently I had a virgo who kept trying to date me stop talking to me as much, no warning. I keep convo with him, but he's not as talkative like he's weary of me now.. But at work if I talk to him he's all ears, very attentive. Kinda confusing. A sign I've never really taken the time to get to know, but they seem nice enough. Quiet too.

happykitsune......thats right! Hence the confusion!

what the hell??

i feel dumber after knowing that such a person exists...

i'm like itchy all over and frustrated and want to smack something haha. you know how you mess up your hair you're that frustrated?

the guy aint even a man if he cant make decisions!

tell him to go fly a kite!

Ha ha! Update...we talked again tonight and he told me he just accepted a job he wanted interstate for 3 week. so i said i will see you when you get back is that enough time...hes like should be. so i said do you think i will have you out of my system by then...hes like...well and truly! I said...am i out of yours...he said not at the moment. so i said you go away...hold that thought and see you when you get back! i think we both need this time and space now. But yes Zeo...if i have any hair left after pulling it all out over this I will be surprised! Are all of you Virgo men like this—!!! Is this typical?? Seems like he is weird even for a virgo!! ( No offense!!!) Ack!!!

the colour virgo has no two shades exactly the same. the colour sagittarius has no two shades exactly the same

i feel so so sorry for you, i wish i could help. hopefully my intentions can help your sagittarius ego, i have a feeling you like it haha

the question is, are you ready to make the effort to be happy?

You are very helpful!! I am trying to remain positive..and generally am! I do want to be happy!!!

i reckon get with your girlfriends and go out for dinner and drinks, take photos of each other all done up (thats very sagittarius, right?) well... thats what the sagittarius i know does haha! she loves the admiration. i figure, if i can hook into her, she might let me take videos haha

Did that Saturday!! It was fun!! Went out for lunch today....dinner last night and will keep being occupied!!! Good luck with the home movies!!!!! ha ha ha!! Or text photos!!!

Posted by WynterBourne

Posted by cinder
How did you know that!!

There's a lot of Leo moon Sags that post here, and you all seem alike.

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obnoxious?

Lol

!!!!!!...!!..,

😄 heeee

In my experience...it's our enthusiasm and the way we come off so carefree that attracts Virgos to us...it's intriguing and refreshing to them at first....but in the long run it's also frustrating for them. In the end, they have a hard time getting us to be as serious about things as they are. They get frustrated with us and go into this sensitive mode where everything we do and say is over-analyzed and it drives them fucking nuts, until they finally snap, fall off the face of the earth, and never speak to us again.

Sums it up I think

He will come back to you cinder.

It might not be to be your boyfriend again but he will come back. You have already won. Or he would of told you to get the hell away from him and straight up ignored you.

So I wouldn't really worry about any of it.

You could probably even get him back if you really wanted. You would just have to act like how you think he would want you to act. I've seen it a million times and have done it a million times more....

Sagittarius89 ....Well...I cant act like I think he wants...only how I am....but your right...I feel like he will be back...and it will all be ok.....we shall see!! He is just too confused!!

messaging me again...i start it coz his lights off and i want to see what he does....and everytime...he turns his light on and starts talking!! He could just keep pretending he wasnt there!! I soooo want this to end well.......

you are peculiar, one of my sagittarius friends does similar things too that i have seen with my own eyes. i feel he is using you to boost his ego, i want to give the opinion of f^% & that s% % ^ but i think you would know better of whats going on. it just doesnt seem right, sensible, or logical. there is no connection, there is information being withheld

Well...I dont have that feeling...this is the optomistic sag...I just cant think someone would be so shallow or have ulterior motives like boosting his own ego...as I would never do that! If I broke up with someone, I just wouldn't talk to them on a daily basis, send kisses or whatever. I would keep it light if I responded at all......I woildnt turn the freaking light on and respond if I didnt want to! Hell...I ignore people all the time on chat if I am not in the mood to speak to them!
Wynterbourne..I am trying to understand that he doesnt....but he wont actually go away so.......it messes with my mind.....
Zeo...the whole thing is not logical....

that is the same as boosting his ego though

zeo i tried to send you a message...hope ypu got it!

the heart wants...but is not going to get in this case....

i got it, reply sent

i really want to know what your hearts wants. in your subconscious there is something underneath the initial answer you gave me. i just want to bring that to your conscious attention

my heart wants a partner in life to share things with....family..life...love...adventures. It really is quite simple. And I guess partner, by implication means sharing......all that life has to offer! And he really has not been the sharing type......

So the update here.....we had been talking everynight since the split and there was one night he nearly came over to see me...then dug his heels in and said no! Then we had a huge fight on the phone and he said he was defriending me from facebook(he hasn't!) and that we have to try not speaking for awhile....this is day 5! Its killing me but I am allowing hs space as I was just too much I think. Still he didnt have to talk to me! I wonder if he will get in contact? What is anyone elses experience??

this guy is a libra.... very indecisive, wants both ways

if i was him, i would cut it clean straight off not like this bleeding everywhere making a mess. but for your situation, i do not know why i would cut it clean

like you know my situation with my sinful bodied sagittarius. if things dont work out, i would still keep her because thats just a matter of incompatibility. it doesnt mean we cant help each other to find the appropriate partner, right? having more people looking out for you, is better than you looking on your own

is he not defriending you because he is using you to monitor one of your friends on facebook?

then just come out with it

with an explanation for what is happening

Posted by Reason
Oh, you are so confusing me with your sharp intellect, young folks 😢

I don't know what exactly is happening to you and how you may perceive it

What I do know for sure though is that it takes time to fully realize the true meaning of any significant experience

Life is a journey, good or bad, open up your eyes and don't be too digital maybe? 🙂

i didnt think the question was too confusing, i was trying to ask you in a direct way to directly contribute by explaining or at least offer a suggestion of what is happening with this virgo of cinder

sure things take time for realisation but at this moment in time, what is your opinion?

He isnt looking at FB for another of my friends thats for sure.

And I dont think I am generous enough to want to help him find anyone else!!!

Posted by Reason

i gotta leave now

where you going pussy? come and face me like a real man