Being a Sag female

I tend to "think" with my emotions. When I "feel" something (anger, sadness, love, joy, suprise) I project it as soon as I feel it. Are others out there like me? And if so, how do you tame it?
Thanks all !🙂

Oh yea I have a leo moon and a mars in scorp. Than all the emotional conditioning I had.

I've been all over the place with my emotions.

But I give myself enough time to calm down and find a quiet spot my venus in aqua and sag sun kick in with the wisdom and rational.

I used to...it used to be bad when I was a kid. I blame it on my scorpio moon tho cus it gets really intense.

I've learned to calm it tho and give the illusion that I have it all together. I'm so good I make myself think my emotions are controlled. It took lots of conditioning tho and much incentive.

Posted by Ligeia
I'm rather fond of my emotional beast 🙂

Having a Cancer-Moon and being Moon

dominant I just ride whatever emotion

may arise. Life is much easier that way!

here here. i am also moon dominant.

how do you know if you're moon dominant?

i have a pisces moon...

i am so emotional and whatever i'm feeling in the moment comes right out of my mouth

cancer is my rising sign, so it starts my chart off. cancer is ruled by the moon making me moon dominant. i have a scorp moon, so i am also plutonian. i should focus on fulfilling those needs.

http://www.astrotheme.com/planetary-dominants.php
http://www.auxmaillesgodefroy.com/dominant_planets

Posted by Sag89
Oh yea I have a leo moon and a mars in scorp. Than all the emotional conditioning I had.

I've been all over the place with my emotions.

But I give myself enough time to calm down and find a quiet spot my venus in aqua and sag sun kick in with the wisdom and rational.

I am all over the place myself that is why I am asking. Sometimes I think so negative, it brings me WAY down. And others I am so HIGH I am flying! It really all depends on my mood and how I feel.

Posted by Ligeia
I'm rather fond of my emotional beast 🙂

Having a Cancer-Moon and being Moon

dominant I just ride whatever emotion

may arise. Life is much easier that way!

I do but it gets me into trouble! I am now realizing it is not always about me and how I feel. It is about the other person too. That was one one of my biggest mistakes. Thank gosh I realized that. And thinking my emotions through first if that makes any sense?

Posted by happykitsune
I used to...it used to be bad when I was a kid. I blame it on my scorpio moon tho cus it gets really intense.

I've learned to calm it tho and give the illusion that I have it all together. I'm so good I make myself think my emotions are controlled. It took lots of conditioning tho and much incentive.

I beleive my moon influences me ALL the TIME! My moon is in Pisces. I don't know too much about it, but I FEEL it!

How did you condition yourself?

Posted by littlearcher
how do you know if you're moon dominant?

i have a pisces moon...

i am so emotional and whatever i'm feeling in the moment comes right out of my mouth

OOHHH Littlearcher! I am Pisces moon too! I feel and then speak. Not thinking about those around me or how it will affect them. Let alone how they will react!

Posted by NikkiMse1978

Posted by happykitsune
I used to...it used to be bad when I was a kid. I blame it on my scorpio moon tho cus it gets really intense.

I've learned to calm it tho and give the illusion that I have it all together. I'm so good I make myself think my emotions are controlled. It took lots of conditioning tho and much incentive.

I beleive my moon influences me ALL the TIME! My moon is in Pisces. I don't know too much about it, but I FEEL it!

How did you condition yourself?

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Well like I said I had incentive. Besides the fact that I'm a psych major and had to get everything squared away, there was a time when I dated a leo who didn't like how emotional I was. I was pretty much molded into what I thought he wanted me to be and I worked extremely hard to cull out the bad qualities inside of me. Now I don't support someone changing themselves for another person, but I do say if you have a bad behavior you should look into changing it. Being able to control my emotions took me about 3 years and it's actually served me quite well, especially in arguments/debates. It's just something you have to be dedicated to and having incentive like wanting to be with someone helps greatly.

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by NikkiMse1978

Posted by happykitsune
I used to...it used to be bad when I was a kid. I blame it on my scorpio moon tho cus it gets really intense.

I've learned to calm it tho and give the illusion that I have it all together. I'm so good I make myself think my emotions are controlled. It took lots of conditioning tho and much incentive.

I beleive my moon influences me ALL the TIME! My moon is in Pisces. I don't know too much about it, but I FEEL it!

How did you condition yourself?

Well like I said I had incentive. Besides the fact that I'm a psych major and had to get everything squared away, there was a time when I dated a leo who didn't like how emotional I was. I was pretty much molded into what I thought he wanted me to be and I worked extremely hard to cull out the bad qualities inside of me. Now I don't support someone changing themselves for another person, but I do say if you have a bad behavior you should look into changing it. Being able to control my emotions took me about 3 years and it's actually served me quite well, especially in arguments/debates. It's just something you have to be dedicated to and having incentive like wanting to be with someone helps greatly.

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I just want to "clean out my closet" so to speak. I beleive all the failed relationships I have had due to my behavior and lack of loving myself fully has taken its toll on me. It is time to clean house! I just don't know where to start to cut out the bad qualities of myself. And some I can't cut out fully (they are me after all!) but to tame them would help! I am not with anyone but my incentive is to be COMPLETE the next time I do.
Can you give me more detailed tips? 🙂

Nice pic kits!

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Posted by Sag89
Oh yea I have a leo moon and a mars in scorp. Than all the emotional conditioning I had.

I've been all over the place with my emotions.

But I give myself enough time to calm down and find a quiet spot my venus in aqua and sag sun kick in with the wisdom and rational.

I am all over the place myself that is why I am asking. Sometimes I think so negative, it brings me WAY down. And others I am so HIGH I am flying! It really all depends on my mood and how I feel.

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Yea control is hard when your emotionally unstable

It is because of all the emotions that run through me that makes me "unstable."

Posted by NikkiMse1978
It is because of all the emotions that run through me that makes me "unstable."

Right!

Posted by NikkiMse1978

I just want to "clean out my closet" so to speak. I beleive all the failed relationships I have had due to my behavior and lack of loving myself fully has taken its toll on me. It is time to clean house! I just don't know where to start to cut out the bad qualities of myself. And some I can't cut out fully (they are me after all!) but to tame them would help! I am not with anyone but my incentive is to be COMPLETE the next time I do.
Can you give me more detailed tips? 🙂

One of the main things I work on is realizing that the less emotion I bring into an argument and more logic the less I will hurt later. Two big things with that is working on confidence in who you are and where you're coming from when you speak and the other is peace in mind. Being able to listen to what others have to say without getting offended so easily. Taking what they say, pausing to think before you stick your foot in your mouth, and logically laying out both sides so that you are fair to both you and your partner.

The scorpio I last dated complimented me on my ability to lay out everything in an argument and explain why I did certain things or why I thought a certain way. I try to be very fair in how I operate and realize the emotions are best left to the times when something devastating has happened or when you want to tell someone you love them.
You also need to see yourself outside of a situation. Don't just think about you. View the situation as if you're someone on the outside.

I'm trying to think of ways that'll make doing this any easier for you. I guess just remembering your past relationships and realizing you have to change or you will not find and keep the right guy for you. You wanting to have a partner will drive you to change yourself for the better.

Posted by NikkiMse1978
It is because of all the emotions that run through me that makes me "unstable."

I hear you there. Those emotions won't go away. What you need to do is find a way to keep them under wraps and control them as best you can. Sometimes just not saying anything is the best thing you can do.

Posted by Sag89
Nice pic kits!

Thanks you! :o

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by NikkiMse1978
It is because of all the emotions that run through me that makes me "unstable."

I hear you there. Those emotions won't go away. What you need to do is find a way to keep them under wraps and control them as best you can. Sometimes just not saying anything is the best thing you can do.

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Very Solid ADVISE!

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Posted by happykitsune

Posted by NikkiMse1978
It is because of all the emotions that run through me that makes me "unstable."

I hear you there. Those emotions won't go away. What you need to do is find a way to keep them under wraps and control them as best you can. Sometimes just not saying anything is the best thing you can do.

Very Solid ADVISE!

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Thank you

Posted by NikkiMse1978

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by NikkiMse1978

Posted by happykitsune
I used to...it used to be bad when I was a kid. I blame it on my scorpio moon tho cus it gets really intense.

I've learned to calm it tho and give the illusion that I have it all together. I'm so good I make myself think my emotions are controlled. It took lots of conditioning tho and much incentive.

I beleive my moon influences me ALL the TIME! My moon is in Pisces. I don't know too much about it, but I FEEL it!

How did you condition yourself?

Well like I said I had incentive. Besides the fact that I'm a psych major and had to get everything squared away, there was a time when I dated a leo who didn't like how emotional I was. I was pretty much molded into what I thought he wanted me to be and I worked extremely hard to cull out the bad qualities inside of me. Now I don't support someone changing themselves for another person, but I do say if you have a bad behavior you should look into changing it. Being able to control my emotions took me about 3 years and it's actually served me quite well, especially in arguments/debates. It's just something you have to be dedicated to and having incentive like wanting to be with someone helps greatly.

I just want to "clean out my closet" so to speak. I beleive all the failed relationships I have had due to my behavior and lack of loving myself fully has taken its toll on me. It is time to clean house! I just don't know where to start to cut out the bad qualities of myself. And some I can't cut out fully (they are me after all!) but to tame them would help! I am not with anyone but my incentive is to be COMPLETE the next time I do.
Can you give me more detailed tips? 🙂

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Tips? U dont need any..love urself..how? by taking control..u can do it!

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by NikkiMse1978
It is because of all the emotions that run through me that makes me "unstable."

I hear you there. Those emotions won't go away. What you need to do is find a way to keep them under wraps and control them as best you can. Sometimes just not saying anything is the best thing you can do.

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Exactly what I am implementing! Unless someone asks me a direct question, I will keep my lip zipped! 🙂

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by NikkiMse1978

I just want to "clean out my closet" so to speak. I beleive all the failed relationships I have had due to my behavior and lack of loving myself fully has taken its toll on me. It is time to clean house! I just don't know where to start to cut out the bad qualities of myself. And some I can't cut out fully (they are me after all!) but to tame them would help! I am not with anyone but my incentive is to be COMPLETE the next time I do.
Can you give me more detailed tips? 🙂

One of the main things I work on is realizing that the less emotion I bring into an argument and more logic the less I will hurt later. Two big things with that is working on confidence in who you are and where you're coming from when you speak and the other is peace in mind. Being able to listen to what others have to say without getting offended so easily. Taking what they say, pausing to think before you stick your foot in your mouth, and logically laying out both sides so that you are fair to both you and your partner.

The scorpio I last dated complimented me on my ability to lay out everything in an argument and explain why I did certain things or why I thought a certain way. I try to be very fair in how I operate and realize the emotions are best left to the times when something devastating has happened or when you want to tell someone you love them.
You also need to see yourself outside of a situation. Don't just think about you. View the situation as if you're someone on the outside.

I'm trying to think of ways that'll make doing this any easier for you. I guess just remembering your past relationships and realizing you have to change or you will not find and keep the right guy for you. You wanting to have a partner will drive you to change yourself for the better.

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Perfect advise thank you so much! 🙂