clues to read sag guy

For one thing that I know is that he is definitely into you....I dated several Sag men, and me being a Sag myself, we do not buy anyone expensive gifts, unless we are truly feeling you.He may be getting mixed signals from you, or, is trying to take things super slow, because he as a Sag likes to jump first, and think later, therefore ruining things, and he is trying to take it slow, so that he can keep you..My honest opinion.....Also the Sag men that I dated, really did not like to talk on the phone that much, and neither do I as a Sag woman....Hopes that helps.

as a saggie, calling people is not really my thing. texting is more preferred. I have my friends call me out on this and i simply made an adjustment to meet their needs. so now i call them once a week or something.

its a harmless oversight but it means something to other people. id just mention it in a joking way.

but yes, i agree he is into you.

Thanks ladies for getting back to me. So I guess maybe he's into me but not at a place where he wants to move it out of where it is...for whatever reason. I know that when he wants something he goes after it with a vengeance. Interesting though about the mixed signals...that could be as well that he doesn't know what I want either. Perhaps we're both a little checked because of the work situation; no one wants to risk misunderstanding the other's actions to ruin the working relationship. I suppose the famous "wait and see what happens applies here" , though as an Aries patience is not really part of my bag of tricks. :-)

Yeah he's definitely into you. Expensive gifts, always being by your side...remember we're honest...in one way or another lol(but isn't everybody by their actions?)

The initiating thing, when we're by ourselves, we're focused on what's in front of us. Its not that he wants you to do all the initiating...we honestly don't really think about it. Not that we don't care for you or think less, but our minds are always occupied and so we don't think to call or text. Its odd given how we are in person. This is where we expect and hope you don't take it the wrong way and are you're own person. Personally I always keep in touch often and prefer phones calls to texting. But I understand my fellow Sags ways. I wouldn't worry though. If its an issue, address it with him...tactfully. Hell he'll probably joke on himself and say he should initiate more often.

thanks, beautifulsoul74. Truth be told I don't have any problem initiating...I have aries sun, moon, and ascendant...so I have historically been comfortable in a pursuer role. I have plenty in my life to keep me busy with and my self-esteem doesn't hang on whether he calls me or not. But I so like him as a human being that I don't want to push him into the "she's pushing me I have to escape" deal where he disappears and then we're not friends either.

He's also a DJ and I asked him to send me some songs that he played and he told me that he's been working on the playlist (which i know for him means until he thinks it's perfect.) I've kind of felt that since his time is kind of his currency, any of it that he dedicates to me instead of something else is his version of attention. Like literally "this is worth my precious time". Does that resonate with you guys?

But, so here's a question...if we don't speak when we don't see each other, and then we only see each other every couple of months....how does this ever get off the ground?!?!?

thanks ulalume...as fate (and ironically mars retrograde!) would have it, i won't see him again until the third week in may 😢.
we'll see what happens in the interim and i guess if it's meant to be it will.