damn theses scorpios....really. (Page 3)

sometimes id look into their eyes and there would be nothing. like a deer in headlights. i felt like they were looking inside me. they were just in a daze.

when i would look in their eyes, i knew they were .... not honorable. i knew they had told many lies in the past.

Posted by Mebs

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Posted by Mebs
These Scorps want the upper hand in the mind fuckery game at all times. Ergo, it's their way or they're not playing the game anymore. Controlling to the nth degree. Smh. Except when they fuck. I think that's the only time they let it go. No. Actually, only when they're having an orgasm. Because sex is just another form of control/manipulation for them anyway.

Question: Are Scorpios men any good in bed? I mean- do they actually live up to all the hype?

I admire you ladies. I don't think I have the patience or the verbal restraint to deal with a Scorpio male.
I just find their attempts at manipulation and control very obvious, and therefore very irritating.

If I was to date a Scorp dude, I would foresee a Tina Turner and Ike situation unfolding, except Tina has a black-belt in karate and Navy Seal training and is armed to the teeth.

Heehee. 😛 😄

🙂

its totally like Ike and Tina....inspiration and craziness all at the same time.

its very obvious, i agree.

not all scorpio suns are good in bed. i think mars in scorpio is better in bed. the ones i had were whomp whomp.

Dang for real? So you have to deal with mind fuckery and not even get good sex out of it? Ewwww. Whomp whomp is right!

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one of the reasons why i kept putting up with it was because i thought the sex was going to get better. but it never did.

Posted by Mebs
@Beccy yes! It has been fun. I feel so much better now!

im glad u feel better. this was needed.

Yes they are.

That is about it though. If they weren't so dramatic they'd be good.

Looked up and it was too late...

Posted by ellybd
So why when you start seeing the recognizing factors that the guy is trying to tame you when you don't want to be do you stick around instead of end it before it gets too deep? Or did it get too deep by the time you realized they were trying to tame you?

🙂 ding ding ding, we have a winner ladies and gentlemen. tell her what she's won johnnny. its a NEW CAR!

**precisely...

L-O-V-E

this blog was not meant to find answers to any problems. i am simply getting some stuff off my chest and have someone relate to me. usually i post to my online journal...but i decided to post it here...

i feel like love is all you need. call me crazy.

am i happy like this??..kinda subjective...im never one emotion at any given time. so i can say yes, as well as pissed, angry, glad, bored, settled, humored, etc.

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Posted by DMV
i just want to shake him violently and then slap him repeatedly. he'd probably like it lol.

ironically, i wouldnt want him to change anything about him. hes never asked me to change. i cant ask him 2. he calls me crazy but hes never said it was a bad thing lol.

naw, if he were anymore normal, i probably wouldnt like him.

Yeah shake him and slap him like this...

haha, i like the guy with a crowbar

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Posted by Pecheresse
surprised Dazed isn't all over this thread. haha.

I actually just saw it.

A lot of Scorp man hate lately.

I'll read this tomorrow and comment

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Quite a revelation aint it 😉

Posted by beccy
It's hard for a sag to fall in love.
like really fall in love and stay in love and open up to a person and trust that person.
we never give up any hope, and we are not doing this shit for nothing.
so its not that easy for us, to throw something/someone away who really was able to get through that thick skin.

so what, let us complain and talk about our experiences.
whats the problem?

its not like scorpios don't talk about this on the scorp board.

we do not decide to stay in a situation like this. when we realize we are in a "game" it is too late.
and please. don't act like its sooooooooo easy to let it go and move on.

if it would be that easy, I never loved this bitch anyway.

I think beccy sum it up perfect,
I know only cause I am in a relationship with a sagg, and I think it's hard for sagg to fall in love and when they do they want to make it work they want to get along with the person they are in love with to see if it has potential, they are very hopeful.

Scorps we are not like that we take a lot but sooner than later we say forget it and just let it all go and that might be part of the problem we don't really try hard enough or fight for love.

for example my sagg he has a pisces moon so he is very in tune with my emotions so we did kinda get into a little spat this weekend because I wanted his time on fri and he had work days and he was tired and feel asleep, I in return got upset(I can be spoil) and made it a big issue that next day.

I didn't talk to him that nxt day cause I was bitchy upset and that night he text me knowing I was upset and he simply said "I love u, I really really do but sum times u can say sum shit and it turns into fuck u and everybody that looks like u"

I just replied to him that that's why I didn't say half the stuff I wanted to say maybe it's just me but I have my mer in sagg and I can just be hurtful and keep saying things to make the situaion worse but after reading his message I felt bad I was just thinking I know he loves me and I shouldn't make a big deal about the little things, about him not seeing me one day because he was tired. So I just called him that Sun night and we had a good talk about things, I guess my point is the whole problem with this pairing is the miss communication we sometimes don't understand each other or what the other person is saying when it is crystal clear, we assume and that's when the games begin and more so the games begin for the scorps......

Posted by beccy
I don't want to miss him anymore....
I don't want to think about him anymore... I mean.. I feel better now but this scars will never heal fully...

what we did to each other was too much. too much.....

I miss him so much sometimes that it hurts physically.

look at me, now I'm obsessing again. stoppppppppppppp it. die die die DIE.

what is the update with him?

I didn't talk to him that nxt day cause I was bitchy upset and that night he text me knowing I was upset and he simply said "I love u, I really really do but sum times u can say sum shit and it turns into fuck u and everybody that looks like u"

And I didn't get offended by this comment, this is how sagg express their self sometimes or at least it is how he expressed his self.

you have a point there scorpdiva,

there is some miscommunication between me and the old scorp. me and the new scorp have better communication. i also think alot has to do with control. when he wants to talk, im still hurt and i dont want to talk. when i am over it and i wanna talk, hes doesnt want too. i also think its game playing and trust. for me its really trust. i dont trust himand im not alone.

Posted by beccy
he blocks me on FB for a couple of days then he doesn't.offline.online.
he plays all this games online with me..... scorpio manipulation 2011 😄 hahaha 😄

its so awesome how the use every fucking thing to play with you.

I wished we would live in the 1950's.

the only thing this bitch could do then is to hide in the tree's

xD
haha xD

LMAO. hiding in the trees. well, FB was invented by a scorpio sun or a scorpio moon. i forget which one.

Posted by DMV
you have a point there scorpdiva,

there is some miscommunication between me and the old scorp. me and the new scorp have better communication. i also think alot has to do with control. when he wants to talk, im still hurt and i dont want to talk. when i am over it and i wanna talk, hes doesnt want too. i also think its game playing and trust. for me its really trust. i dont trust himand im not alone.

This the main issue the communication, and the sometiming attitude on both sides and lastly the control problem if you can work through these issues it can be a GREAT relationship. It has been almost two years for me on this rolling coaster but I love the challenge just like he does and he already told me I am not going anywhere Lol......

^^^correction (roller coaster).

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
you have a point there scorpdiva,

there is some miscommunication between me and the old scorp. me and the new scorp have better communication. i also think alot has to do with control. when he wants to talk, im still hurt and i dont want to talk. when i am over it and i wanna talk, hes doesnt want too. i also think its game playing and trust. for me its really trust. i dont trust himand im not alone.

This the main issue the communication, and the sometiming attitude on both sides and lastly the control problem if you can work through these issues it can be a GREAT relationship. It has been almost two years for me on this rolling coaster but I love the challenge just like he does and he already told me I am not going anywhere Lol......

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that beautiful scorpdiva. im rooting for you guys!

you guys both came to the table with clean hands. i hate that about my scorp the MOST!! he did not come with clean hands.

Posted by beccy
It's hard for a sag to fall in love.
like really fall in love and stay in love and open up to a person and trust that person.
we never give up any hope, and we are not doing this shit for nothing.
so its not that easy for us, to throw something/someone away who really was able to get through that thick skin.

so what, let us complain and talk about our experiences.
whats the problem?

its not like scorpios don't talk about this on the scorp board.

we do not decide to stay in a situation like this. when we realize we are in a "game" it is too late.
and please. don't act like its sooooooooo easy to let it go and move on.

if it would be that easy, I never loved this bitch anyway.

wow...you explained that so well.
i think that's why i am still holding on to the situation i'm in because i let the person in more than i ever have anyone else and i did fall in love (mine is a cancer, though...)

i don't think he is playing games...but he got hurt (because of my big mouth and my hard time trusting) and now he is always scared and retreating and i don't know how to handle that

Posted by scorpdiva
for example my sagg he has a pisces moon so he is very in tune with my emotions so we did kinda get into a little spat this weekend because I wanted his time on fri and he had work days and he was tired and feel asleep, I in return got upset(I can be spoil) and made it a big issue that next day.

I didn't talk to him that nxt day cause I was bitchy upset and that night he text me knowing I was upset and he simply said "I love u, I really really do but sum times u can say sum shit and it turns into fuck u and everybody that looks like u"

I just replied to him that that's why I didn't say half the stuff I wanted to say maybe it's just me but I have my mer in sagg and I can just be hurtful and keep saying things to make the situaion worse but after reading his message I felt bad I was just thinking I know he loves me and I shouldn't make a big deal about the little things, about him not seeing me one day because he was tired. So I just called him that Sun night and we had a good talk about things, I guess my point is the whole problem with this pairing is the miss communication we sometimes don't understand each other or what the other person is saying when it is crystal clear, we assume and that's when the games begin and more so the games begin for the scorps......

i am a sag with a pisces moon too....

i think you can work through it...it's just a matter of understanding that sometimes it takes a little time to get over emotional reactions but, if you can talk it through later, it's all good.

I do fight for love!

But yes scorpios tend to fall in love too fast and leave just as fast.

So it seems.

I was with my ex today we were crying with eachother. I told him " You've made me feel really lucky " he said he left the same and not to cry because than he crys. And that I do make him feel special and loved.

But than he says I make him feel un- comfortable and it's hard to hang out with all the things that have happened over the years.

I asked him if his heart had hardened because of the fighting he said yes.

So it's like I don't know.

You never win.

i think maybe that's the difference between us and other signs...

my heart doesn't really harden
if i love someone, i love them

even after difficult times

BUT...once i am truly over someone, it's done. even if i want to look at them that way, i can't

Posted by Sagittarius89
I do fight for love!

But yes scorpios tend to fall in love too fast and leave just as fast.

So it seems.

I was with my ex today we were crying with eachother. I told him " You've made me feel really lucky " he said he left the same and not to cry because than he crys. And that I do make him feel special and loved.

But than he says I make him feel un- comfortable and it's hard to hang out with all the things that have happened over the years.

I asked him if his heart had hardened because of the fighting he said yes.

So it's like I don't know.

You never win.

aww my lil saggie pooh. *hugs*

as a scorpio moon, i hold onto shit so i can relate to him saying his heart can become hardened.

keep up the good fight

Posted by littlearcher
i think maybe that's the difference between us and other signs...

my heart doesn't really harden
if i love someone, i love them

even after difficult times

BUT...once i am truly over someone, it's done. even if i want to look at them that way, i can't

Exactly!!!

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Posted by Sagittarius89
I do fight for love!

But yes scorpios tend to fall in love too fast and leave just as fast.

So it seems.

I was with my ex today we were crying with eachother. I told him " You've made me feel really lucky " he said he left the same and not to cry because than he crys. And that I do make him feel special and loved.

But than he says I make him feel un- comfortable and it's hard to hang out with all the things that have happened over the years.

I asked him if his heart had hardened because of the fighting he said yes.

So it's like I don't know.

You never win.

aww my lil saggie pooh. *hugs*

as a scorpio moon, i hold onto shit so i can relate to him saying his heart can become hardened.

keep up the good fight

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*hugs back*

MAKE HIM FORGIVE ME DMV LOL

jk but I hope he can but I bet he won't

he could if he allowed himself too.

I was listening to some music and this song reminds me of this pairing and also of the beccy and sagg 89 and the other sagg women on here relationships with a scorp men.

Posted by ellybd

Posted by DMV
L-O-V-E

Still don't get it lol. Might be because I'm a scorp hahaha.

I loved my ex cancer. Deeply. Back then I thought I would love him forever. I thought true love never ended no matter what hardship or evil. But I don't love him anymore. The relationship and hanging on to it was literally killing me. He did the same back and forth bullshit. Started seeing another girl, while he professed to love me and want to get together again. Said ten years from now he'd look back and know I was the one that got away ect, all while saying he never could be in a relationship. Finally it ended though when I chose to drop him. I eventually healed and have found a new person whom I connect with and feel for on an entirely different playing field.

I guess I feel like at a certain point, love is just not enough. It takes more than that. I mean, are y'all happy like this? Fulfilled to the brim can't stand it happy? Or is there something else I'm missing here?

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You're right, eventually love is not enough and it takes some a bit longer to see that. I had a long distance relationship with my Scorp for a year. The distance is one reason why it lasted so long but also I saw in him something special that he could be if he would just let go of the past, the lies, the manipulation. I was hoping I could help him with that (seriously, some of our daily convo's were like therapy sessions and I feel as though I should have gotten paid...Lol) but in the end realized he could only help himself.

He was truly one emotional rollercoaster...it fucking amazes me because I had no idea a human could be this tumultuous inside....up one day, down the next and loathing in self pity the next..etc...etc... He was the true master at victimizing himself and making every past situation that seemed to shape his being the other persons fault. He was never to blame, not even in fights we had. He had this uncanny ability to make me almost think it was all my fault when fights emerged between us, he knew exactly how to choose his words and how to present them. He seemed to reduce himself often to a worthless piece of shit, the lowest of the low...but in hindsight, that was merely part of his game to garner sympathy from me and I fell for that, trying to bring him back up and make him realize he

deserves happiness just as much as anyone else. He eventually admitted to me all of the chronic lies he's told and the manipulation of friends and family, and I thought this was a breakthrough...but, I think it was merely him letting me in farther than he's ever let anyone get and it was merely that, an admission, nothing more. Towards the end, he even went as far as selling all his worldy goods and living out on the street for a few weeks so he could get back to what he called "things that really mattered". That's how far he is willing to take his "show"...I'm sure he'd go even farther...

In the end, I finally had my fill of the Shakespeare Scorpion. I eventually snapped back to my Saggie senses and realized any saving of this poor lost soul would have to come from within himself...that is, if he wants to. I honestly think he is a thriver of drama and sympathy...it's what drives him and makes him feel whole. What a fucked up way to live.

After our breakup, I read his blog post to all his followers....you can only imagine what he said about me...Lol. Let's just put it this way, I almost made the poor man hate himself and his purpose was not to manipulate me, but to save me.

To give him the benefit of the doubt, there is some truth to that statement. I got him to look farther in to himself than anyone else from his past had done and I am certain he didn't like what he saw during his brief visit. And yes, perhaps he was trying to save me.....from himself.

Anyway, I guess my point is, eventually we all get to a spot where we know it's a lost cause...it just takes some a lot longer to get there. Love is a very powerful force...it can really muddle the senses, no matter what sign you may be....we are all guilty of it.

VERY well said Saggirl70

Posted by DMV
he could if he allowed himself too.

Right. *crosses fingers*

Posted by scorpdiva

WOW THAT TOTALLY NAILED IT SCORP DIVA! lol it's exactly like that

This also I feel relates in a funny way

Daaaaang haha. I would have liked to hop on this bandwagon when it was hot cus you guys know I've had my scorpio fun 😛

Mine were not near as manipulative or game playing. But as you all knew my ex scorp came back to me in the summer. This is the guy I thought I was going to marry. After the summer ended I just couldn't see myself with him and I think he sensed it or maybe God gave him some insight cus now I'm trying stuff out with my leo.

After being fucked over by a taurus and a few other relationships later I realized some people are just going to cause more grief for you then it's worth. Elly had the right idea to get outta her relationship with her cancer and it sounds like us SAGS just can't handle scorpios and they CAN'T handle us.

If we don't like the games so much why are we dealing with a sign that is the king of games?! I thought about that after I was done with my scorpio ex and I realized I wanted to be with a sign that was a straight shooter. So I stuck to my leo. Someone who was going to be all in when I went all in.

All I'm saying here is it's thrilling, but all of this is unhealthy and crippling. SAGS and SCORPS just DON'T WORK!

Disclaimer: There are exceptions, but I think you can tell if it's going to work 😉 (Like Scorpdiva's relationship)

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Posted by beccy
he blocks me on FB for a couple of days then he doesn't.offline.online.
he plays all this games online with me..... scorpio manipulation 2011 😄 hahaha 😄

its so awesome how the use every fucking thing to play with you.

I wished we would live in the 1950's.

the only thing this bitch could do then is to hide in the tree's

xD
haha xD

LMAO. hiding in the trees. well, FB was invented by a scorpio sun or a scorpio moon. i forget which one.

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I thought Mark Zuckerberg had all scorpio in his chart o.O At least that's what someone on here said. Guess if someone really cared they could pull up his chart

lol.....let it out!

i swear....i just....cant

Sorry if this sounds a-holish, but I find it extremely amusing when people align themselves behind ANY sun sign.

Which in itself is too general, since A)It really depends on what's exactly in a persons chart besides the sun sign B) Human beings are much more complex than solely being based on Astrology.

I dont know about anyone else, but Im a human being first and foremost. A very, very flawed one but still I dont like to be categorized.

I hope one day people here can stand on their own feet and be individuals. Astrology can be effective but too often we let it be the defining thing in our lives. Instead of seeing it as a tool in one of many we have access to. With the main one being common sense 😉

damn theses scorpios....really.

DAMN THEM ALL TO HELL!

RAWR!!!!!!

Posted by beccy
um but my experiences taught me, that scorpios are........like...... scorpios.
it is what it is 😄

pretty much

Posted by MrFirebird
damn theses scorpios....really.

DAMN THEM ALL TO HELL!

that movie rocks!

what sign is charlton heston?