Do we make better friends than lovers?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Sagittarius89 on Tuesday, July 7, 2009 and has 9 replies.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Idk...cause I have had a lot of male friends over the years, and they've all tried to date me at some point. & a few even ruined our friendship over it. Ghey.

But I can see why people would think that about us. We tend to not take anything seriously enough. We're not the romantic types

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

But sometimes the best lovers arise from friendship... LOL I know I had a BLAST with my ex Sag and I loved him dearly. He just came at a wrong time in my life, he was ready for a committed relationship and I wasn't. Plus, the LDR wasn't working out too great. *Sigh* I love them Sags πŸ˜„.

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

" I have had a lot of male friends over the years, and they've all tried to date me at some point." Yeah same. And it's hard trying to tell people that I can't love them like that. It's people wanting more, when I already feel I have giving alot. I can't be everyones girlfriend but I can be everyones friend. I see alot of sags in these situations...

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Sag87 I'm doing good! Been working a lot, so I've been pretty busy πŸ˜› . How have you been? The Scorpio? The Aries? I can never keep up w/ your guys πŸ˜›.

Archer- I don't know about sag women πŸ˜‰ ... Lol but sag men that I've been have been great lovers ... Ok more like the sag man I've been with was a great lover and muy romantico. Maybe it was the Latino in him πŸ˜„

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

"I am the most feminine woman I know,, yet I exude the kind of 'self sufficiency' that is great but less desired than a tiny amount of helplessness thrown in by say a cancer gal which can make a man feel Omnipotent." EXACLTY!

Good xtina! I'm good, I move on sunday so I'l be leaving both behind😒 eep! Hows the men on your side?

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

if he says.. "I was busy sweetie" .. I believe him and there half of the lovely endearing misunderstandings are out of the picture..

With my Scorp it is as you described. with the Virguy I don't trust him. This is why I am permanently trying to escape from him. So that he needs not to bring any excuses. no claim no process.