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This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Smiles24 on Wednesday, July 1, 2009 and has 41 replies.

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@Smiles24
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The traits an ideal partner would possess? Give your specifics as to why please.

What I normally look for in a girl is:
-Risk taker

Love doing things that are normally out of my comfort zone and give a good rush.

-Classy

Always been attracted to classy girls

-Appreciates Rest & Relaxation (R&R)

Always got to have time to relax!

-Simplisitic

I always appreciate the simple things in life, food, gestures, and materials. I myself am Simpleton! HAH

-Intellectual

Always did like stimulating conversations

-Good Sense of Humor

If she's boring than I'll pass

-Takes care of herself

Hygiene and Exercising are really important to me

Well that's what my ideal partner would possess; Kind've a lame thread I know!

-SMiLES

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Well order of importance to me is:

1.Takes care of herself
2.Intellectual
3.Good Sense of Humor
4.Classy
5.Simplistic
6.Appreciates R&R
7.Risk Taker

That's the order..for me at least lol.

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Posted by brianafay
Lol....it's complicated.
But I'm thinking you need a nice Capricorn girl.
Not really risk-takers, but they're usually cute and classy.

100% agreed. The cap girl is sweet, nice, the one you can take home to MAMA
Risk-taking isn't their cup of tea.

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Posted by brianafay
Lol....it's complicated.
But I'm thinking you need a nice Capricorn girl.
Not really risk-takers, but they're usually cute and classy.

OMG, I was totally thinking the same thing lol!!!

Smiles would love a cappy girl 😄 As far as risk taking goes ... depends on her plantary makeup 😉

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Now as far as I'm concerned, what I want and need is:

Someone who is adventurous, I love someone who isn't afraid to get involved.

Someone who is gentle, I just adore a sweetheart, expecially if he isn't afraid to be a sweetheart to me 🙂

Someone who is afraid of me, I can have a pretty vivid and intense personality at times. Nothing bad, I'm just vey colorful 😉 I need a guy that can keep up with me without getting thrown off course.

Someone who is willing to understand me beyond the physical.

Someone who is truly kind, I love nice gestures.

Thats all I can think of at the moment.

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Posted by cappysweetie
OMG, I was totally thinking the same thing lol!!!

Smiles would love a cappy girl😄 As far as risk taking goes ... depends on her plantary makeup 😉..

I see, people on here have been saying to give a cappy girl a try!

Posted by cappysweetie
Now as far as I'm concerned, what I want and need is:

Someone who is adventurous, I love someone who isn't afraid to get involved.

Someone who is gentle, I just adore a sweetheart, expecially if he isn't afraid to be a sweetheart to me🙂

Someone who is afraid of me, I can have a pretty vivid and intense personality at times. Nothing bad, I'm just vey colorful😉 I need a guy that can keep up with me without getting thrown off course.

Someone who is willing to understand me beyond the physical.

Someone who is truly kind, I love nice gestures.

Thats all I can think of at the moment.

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Oh that sounds like someone I know!

-SMiLES 😄

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i totally agree with beergo: you should try a Virgo:
-intelligent
-classy
-hygenic
-great sense of humor
-if you show her the way shell appreciate R&R
-stimulating conversations too 😛

Posted by Clair De Lune
I'm honestly not sure about this one, but toned abs are always a plus. 😛

hey im really curious; how do abs make the difference? whats so good about them?

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Posted by Smiles24
Posted by cappysweetie
OMG, I was totally thinking the same thing lol!!!

Smiles would love a cappy girl😄 As far as risk taking goes ... depends on her plantary makeup 😉..

I see, people on here have been saying to give a cappy girl a try!

Posted by cappysweetie
Now as far as I'm concerned, what I want and need is:

Someone who is adventurous, I love someone who isn't afraid to get involved.

Someone who is gentle, I just adore a sweetheart, expecially if he isn't afraid to be a sweetheart to me🙂

Someone who is afraid of me, I can have a pretty vivid and intense personality at times. Nothing bad, I'm just vey colorful😉 I need a guy that can keep up with me without getting thrown off course.

Someone who is willing to understand me beyond the physical.

Someone who is truly kind, I love nice gestures.

Thats all I can think of at the moment.

Oh that sounds like someone I know!

-SMiLES 😄

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OOOOOPS!!!! correction!!! I meant to say, "Someone who isn't afraid of me" hahaha, I'm sure everyone got that ^_^. Why on earth would I want a guy to be afraid of me—? Thats what I get for typing fast hahaha. I don't want a guy to fear me, no way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Smiles24
Well order of importance to me is:

1.Takes care of herself
2.Intellectual
3.Good Sense of Humor
4.Classy
5.Simplistic
6.Appreciates R&R
7.Risk Taker

That's the order..for me at least lol.

Hmmm...maybe a Taurus could float your boat. Or maybe a Leo.

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As an Aquarius, my ideal partner would:

1. Be an intellectual MATCH. I need a partner who automatically "gets me" & understands me, without me having to explain my complex mind so much.
2. Be very open with his emotions. There is nothing worse than someone who is unwilling and/or afraid to look into their own mirror. The potential longetivy of the relationship is automatically cut short when dealing with someone who is unwilling and/unable to do this.
3. Very spiritual. Morals, values & all of that good stuff have to coincide with mine.
4. Funny! Laughter is food for the soul. When a man can make me laugh & tickle my fancy, that makes the difference sometimes between a good day & a bad day.
5. Loyal! All the honesty, faithfulness & trustworthiness comes with loyalty so I don't even have to list those other "truth" qualities. Someone who is loyal should automatically be honest, faithful & trustworthy.
6. Be driven. It's not about the money, the cars & the clothes with me. Being driven mentally can add to the longetivy of the relationship & be an added bonus for hard times. A man that is driven has the mindset that failure is not an option & hopefully, this philosophy in him will mean something besides just from a working/career point of view
7. Be silly. Not immature or childish silly. I need a man who doesn't take himself so seriously, who isn't so miserly or can't take a joke. I'm a huge jokester by nature & having a man that knows how to handle his stress & breeze through the hard times is very important in terms of how long the relationship potential is

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Cancershorti - Cap's are definately not boring .....a bit of half empty cups ....but definately not boring. I feel I always have to pick a capricorns mood up because of their pessimistic outlook. I do love caps though ...very genuine and deep.

Smiles - I would have to agree a cap seems like a good fit for you. 🙂

I look for someone:
* who brings out the best in me
* who I can completely be myself with
* A pseudo intellect
* Emotionally intelligent
* Mature
* A Health nut is VERY important to me
* Athletic
* No drug taker or alcholic
* Has direction in life
* Someone who is genuine and kind
* Last of all a SEXUAL DYNAMO 😛

PD

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Let me try:

knows what he wants
intact sense of self
top priority placement to partner apart from work
intelligent
ambitious
kindhearted
genuine
romantic
stable
wanderlustful
wise
positive
loyal
must love books and libraries

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

I had to think about this for a while...

"Must's"

Sense of humor - must be witty; entertaining.
Confident/Secure in himself - baby bitches need not apply. 🙂
Charming - I actually appreciate smooth-talkers.
Strong-willed/Driven - a desire to keep climbing/moving forward. Someone going places.
Sincere - means what he says; follows through. KEEPS PROMISES (especially pinky-promises)
Devoted - Yes, I expect to be a top priority.
Sexual compatibility - obvs. (sloppy/boring sex will absolutely ruin the deal for me.)
Considerate/Compassionate