First Date = AWESOME, but need help decoding this Sag Man’s post-date behavior. HELP! (X posted)

For reference, I am a Leo(sun)/Libra(moon)/Cancer(Venus). My enneagram is a 4w3 and my MBTI is an ENFJ.

The guy that I am referring to is a Sagittarius(sun)/Taurus(moon)/Capricorn(Venus). His enneagram is a 6w5 and his MBTI is an ISFJ.

We met online and I am very hesitant about jumping in and talking to someone offline, but I felt that that based on our conversation that this man had made me feel comfortable to do so and meet in person. The date went really well and he was following up, flirty, and chatty for the next day or so afterwards, but no ask of a second date and when I made a recommendation of doing something this weekend his response was “that could happen, what are your plans?” And when I told him that I was off he hasn’t responded. It’s been two days. Is this an instance of someone “not that into me”? Am I overreacting?

Help me out and fill me in guys. Please 🙂

For reference, I am a Leo(sun)/Libra(moon)/Cancer(Venus). My enneagram is a 4w3 and my MBTI is an ENFJ.

The guy that I am referring to is a Sagittarius(sun)/Taurus(moon)/Capricorn(Venus). His enneagram is a 6w5 and his MBTI is an ISFJ.

We met online and I am very hesitant about jumping in and talking to someone offline, but I felt that that based on our conversation that this man had made me feel comfortable to do so and meet in person. The date went really well and he was following up, flirty, and chatty for the next day or so afterwards, but no ask of a second date and when I made a recommendation of doing something this weekend his response was “that could happen, what are your plans?” And when I told him that I was off he hasn’t responded. It’s been two days. Is this an instance of someone “not that into me”? Am I overreacting?

Help me out and fill me in guys. Please 🙂

I'd imagine that he has other better options and if those fall through he'll hit you up.

But then again sags are also pretty spontaneous so he may spring something on you tomorrow.

Just wait and see.

Posted by LadyNeptune

I'd imagine that he has other better options and if those fall through he'll hit you up.

But then again sags are also pretty spontaneous so he may spring something on you tomorrow.

Just wait and see.

Which do you think is more likely?

Any way for me to tell besides waiting? I feel like I may cave and text tomorrow or Friday..

Rope it in there...too much!! I get that you are excited and happy...but even I can feel the intensity from reading your post.

Let him come to you... especially with that Taurus moon and cap venus...I hear they move slow.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Rope it in there...too much!! I get that you are excited and happy...but even I can feel the intensity from reading your post.

Let him come to you... especially with that Taurus moon and cap venus...I hear they move slow.

Thanks. Great input because I didn’t look too much into the moon or Venus.

Posted by Zodiaclove88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Rope it in there...too much!! I get that you are excited and happy...but even I can feel the intensity from reading your post.

Let him come to you... especially with that Taurus moon and cap venus...I hear they move slow.

Thanks. Great input because I didn’t look too much into the moon or Venus.

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Just don't put all your eggs in one basket...go out and date. Have fun! 😊

Posted by RooSagicorn

Let him come to you. You are going to scare him away! If Sags are interested, they are all over you, texting, asking for dates. Yes even Taurus moons..

So are you saying that I ruined it? I haven’t texted him in a couple of days..

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Posted by Zodiaclove88

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Let him come to you. You are going to scare him away! If Sags are interested, they are all over you, texting, asking for dates. Yes even Taurus moons..

So are you saying that I ruined it? I haven’t texted him in a couple of days..

I am saying if he’s interested, he will come to you. Sags will run if you are too much. They also have a tendency to get overexcited when they are interested. It has been my experience anyway. ( one was a Taurus moon). And yes I’m a Sag. The fire/fire can be something else.

I am not saying you ruined it. I am saying that if you keep texting him, you will.

It is true Cap Venus is more hesitant. I am Cap Venus. But as a Sag, I still get excited lol.

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Oh, I agree with you there. To be clear, I haven’t texted much since because I want him to pursue me.

I guess I’m just confused because I usually pick up on little stuff during dates and even with the chatter afterward it seemed like he was really into me. Are you saying that there could have been overexcitement and maybe this is a realistic pullback?

Update, we have been messaging back and forth and he is very flirty, but still no asking of the date.

I don’t think he is trying to be physical because if that were the case, wouldn’t he be trying to hang out?

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Posted by Zodiaclove88

Update, we have been messaging back and forth and he is very flirty, but still no asking of the date.

I don’t think he is trying to be physical because if that were the case, wouldn’t he be trying to hang out?

J

Maybe he needs time or maybe he’s talking to more than just you.

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I don’t get that vibe. It’s a possibility, but I just have a hunch it’s not that.

Also, are you familiar with life path numbers? I am a five and he is a three.

He is a Sag Sun though, but yes a Cap Venus.