@DMV
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Giving up on my crush
When to Stop Pursuing a Crush
Giving up on a crush is common when conversations stall and signs of interest are absent. Recognizing when your efforts are unreciprocated helps you move on and focus on healthier connections. Trust your intuition and prioritize your emotional well-being to avoid unnecessary frustration.
I sent a final message, well not really, I will reach out on his birthday but then I'm done. I don't like the unkown, so I'm just gonna leave it at that and pretend to move on lol
Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.
I'm learning to let go these days....
He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.
He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.
I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.
When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Yeah gave up on mine 3 months ago saw him this past Saturday acted like i didn't see him and carried on
I'm convinced the love of your life is going to be a Capricorn 😈
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversationsNo signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?
Not presently, but in the past yes all the time.
Posted by miriyahhh
Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.I'm learning to let go these days....
He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.
He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.
I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.
When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.
Life goes on. You’ll find someone to treat you right 🙂 big hugs 🤗
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Thank you. He was great, but I'll live...and to clarify he thinks I'm NOT heart broken. When I said I was hurt he told me he doesn't think I am and then came over to smooth things out. My Leo ex said the same thing. They think I fake emotions WTF 🤔
I did a while ago.
Not worth it 💅🏻
I'm just so sick of unrequited love.
36 years of unrequited love.
Granted I didn't start dating till 18.
But still.
Posted by miriyahhh
Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.I'm learning to let go these days....
He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.
He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.
I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.
When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.
Keep the faith for both of us
Posted by Ellygant
Crush? What’s that? I only have obsessions.But yeah. Gave up on it last year. He still roams my mental pathways time to time though.
I’ve never known you to surrender a crush tho DMV. Scorpio moon learning how to retire finally? 😉
It is a wonder how people find our obsessions attractive. 😆
Posted by Ellygant
Crush? What’s that? I only have obsessions.But yeah. Gave up on it last year. He still roams my mental pathways time to time though.
I’ve never known you to surrender a crush tho DMV. Scorpio moon learning how to retire finally? 😉
Yeah
This is new for me.
Usually I circle for months but I'm tired of being told no or getting no interest/passion back.
I learned, I much rather be emotionally content than emotionally confused.
I prefer myself better when my emotions aren't clouded by "perceived interest."
Well, "perceived" anything nowadays.
I'm done guessing or wondering or letting my fantasies get carried away.
I rather live in the KNOWN
Posted by DMV
I'm just so sick of unrequited love.36 years of unrequited love.
Granted I didn't start dating till 18.
But still.
Same thing for me.
I have given up on love. Maybe it's just not for me. :/
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I was in that mode last year.
I finally accepted being a party of one.
I'm cool. I have a life outside of a man.
I'm just kicking my wounds right now.
Yeah time to book some trips and get my groove back.
Posted by saggurl88
I sent a final message, well not really, I will reach out on his birthday but then I'm done. I don't like the unkown, so I'm just gonna leave it at that and pretend to move on lolI was actually thinking this exactly lol yet month has passed since birthday and I still haven't done it lol
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That's why I said I will PRETEND to move on! 😆
Posted by DMV
I'm just so sick of unrequited love.36 years of unrequited love.
Granted I didn't start dating till 18.
But still.
I'm sorry to hear that you have been sitting in the same boat as me.
I hope your Sagittarius luck is going to kick in from now and for the rest of your life.
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I wish you some luck too, with coming into your feels and dealing with them accordingly 🙂
I love the feeling of being in love so I will punish myself and let it fester a little. I won't move on until someone else can get my interest. That's the worst part cause I'm so freaking picky!
Posted by DMV
I'm just kicking my wounds right now.
I like the idea of kicking instead of licking them! lol
Posted by DMV
I'm just kicking my wounds right now.
It is painful reading this thread tbh.
I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄
It is painful reading this thread tbh.
I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄
Posted by DMV
I'm just kicking my wounds right now.It is painful reading this thread tbh.
I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄
We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂
It is painful reading this thread tbh.
I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄
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We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂
We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂
Yes, by all means, go ahead, i'll run along now... 😆
We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂
Yes, by all means, go ahead, i'll run along now... 😆
We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂
Yes, by all means, go ahead, i'll run along now... 😆
Hahahaha!!!!
We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂
Yes, by all means, go ahead, i'll run along now... 😆
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Hahahaha!!!!
Posted by DMV
I'm just kicking my wounds right now.It is painful reading this thread tbh.
I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄
Haha trust I almost didn't write it.
Ppl need to know that they're not alone.
It is painful reading this thread tbh.
I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄
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Haha trust I almost didn't write it.
Ppl need to know that they're not alone.
I worship mine from afar
He is far too young and so I try not to look too much when I see him ......but his smile and laugh 😍😛
Lol
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversationsNo signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?
How did you crashed in THAT?
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversationsNo signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?
How did you crashed in THAT?
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Sorry I didn't get your question
Posted by clownloyal
same, I ain't no booty call I know my worth
I have tried multiple ways to get a date...not even a man, just a date. I can't even get a date.
I have tried knowing my worth
I have tried not caring about my worth.
Nada dates lol
Posted by miriyahhh
Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.I'm learning to let go these days....
He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.
He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.
I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.
When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.
Keep the faith for both of us
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I remain hopeful for the future. Though, some days I don't think I'll make it through. Feels like crippling depression😔
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Yeah gave up on mine 3 months ago saw him this past Saturday acted like i didn't see him and carried onI'm convinced the love of your life is going to be a Capricorn 😈
Why? They're annoying and hypocritical
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Bcoz every cap I know especially male raves about cancer women 🙄annoyingly obsessed
Posted by miriyahhh
Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.I'm learning to let go these days....
He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.
He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.
I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.
When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.
Life goes on. You’ll find someone to treat you right 🙂 big hugs 🤗
Thank you. He was great, but I'll live...and to clarify he thinks I'm NOT heart broken. When I said I was hurt he told me he doesn't think I am and then came over to smooth things out. My Leo ex said the same thing. They think I fake emotions WTF 🤔
Omg!!!! Those Caps it takes so much for them to believe you! It is driving me crazy too. Leo’s too btw.. it took forever for a Leo to believe I liked him. Well to be fair I used to blow him off lol. But the Cap omg they always think the worst is going to happen. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
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You truly make me feel a tad bit better. Bcz though Its my decision. On the other side I remained extremely doubtful....
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversationsNo signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?
How did you crashed in THAT?
Sorry I didn't get your question
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Why did you even fell for him on a first place?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Yeah gave up on mine 3 months ago saw him this past Saturday acted like i didn't see him and carried onI'm convinced the love of your life is going to be a Capricorn 😈
Why? They're annoying and hypocritical
Bcoz every cap I know especially male raves about cancer women 🙄annoyingly obsessed
Cancer-Cap hate is special bond actually. They can't stand each other for whatever reason. I mentioned in some thread before playing with 2 Caps and how they would fight one another if things go bad and then there was this Cancer guy...God how 3 of them could fight, that was some serious shit lol then Caps will unite against him, literally bought of them have fought with this Cancer guy every single time about something...had to calm them down every time somehow and it's difficult cause I'm actually very good with all 3 of them so can't pick a side and stay completely neutral but calm them all lol
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Maybe I mean to say cap male cancer fem. Though I know 2 cap fem and cancer males relationships that are really steady
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversationsNo signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?
How did you crashed in THAT?
Sorry I didn't get your question
Why did you even fell for him on a first place?
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He's attractive, a creator, and...he's missing fingers on one of his hand.
I found that extremely sexy and alluring.
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversationsNo signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?
How did you crashed in THAT?
Sorry I didn't get your question
Why did you even fell for him on a first place?
He's attractive, a creator, and...he's missing fingers on one of his hand.
I found that extremely sexy and alluring.
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That's actually really creepy
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversationsNo signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?
How did you crashed in THAT?
Sorry I didn't get your question
Why did you even fell for him on a first place?
He's attractive, a creator, and...he's missing fingers on one of his hand.
I found that extremely sexy and alluring.
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So it’s just went downhill? Sorry...
That's OK. There is more to life than (romantic) love and sex (with another person). Family, friends, hobbies, life goals, professional success, music, film, art, travel, shopping, pampering, pets, neighbours, discussion groups, internet......you name it.
Most likely the subject of your affection/crush/obsession knows how you feel, and is happy for you to inflate his ego, but nothing more......
Avoid him, or treat him like any other acquaintance, if you bump into him.
He wasn't a worthless dude. Lol
Just wasn't interested.
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No signs of interest
Anybody else giving up on their crush?