Help me to decide please - Cancer woman,Sag man

Hello dear friends, I am kindly asking you to help.

Me - Cancer 16.7.1993 , him Sag - 27.11.1989.

We have met in the beginning of January - from my point of view and from what he said great date. Then it took him month (!!) to ask me out for second date. He was writting to me like 2x a week but asked me out month later. I said it was too late and goodbye.

After few days we accidentally bumped into each other and he apologized and asked if I would give him one more chance. Since that time he writes better - few times a week and we see each other like every 10 days. I know I should be patient with him but this seems like too much 😢 he told me about his bad dates he has except of me and one other girl which made me speacheless, his honesty totally killed me. I was angry and he apologized all the way home saying our date is amazing and that other one can not compare.

We had just 5 dates I know but I am not sure what to do, ask him whether he sees future? If I am just fun or there could be more ? Let him be and breathe and let him commit? I feel and know he likes me a lot, introduced me to friends already and when friends asked him if we want to join them he said he would rather just enjoy me. I can’t read him, once you like someone you want to talk to them daily... he would write me few times a week and meet me every 10th day 😢 how should I proceed ? Please any suggestions or advices on how to change this? I feel he is worth the struggle, I am just not sure how ..

Thanks for any response !

Hello dear friends, I am kindly asking you to help.

Me - Cancer 16.7.1993 , him Sag - 27.11.1989.

We have met in the beginning of January - from my point of view and from what he said great date. Then it took him month (!!) to ask me out for second date. He was writting to me like 2x a week but asked me out month later. I said it was too late and goodbye.

After few days we accidentally bumped into each other and he apologized and asked if I would give him one more chance. Since that time he writes better - few times a week and we see each other like every 10 days. I know I should be patient with him but this seems like too much 😢 he told me about his bad dates he has except of me and one other girl which made me speacheless, his honesty totally killed me. I was angry and he apologized all the way home saying our date is amazing and that other one can not compare.

We had just 5 dates I know but I am not sure what to do, ask him whether he sees future? If I am just fun or there could be more ? Let him be and breathe and let him commit? I feel and know he likes me a lot, introduced me to friends already and when friends asked him if we want to join them he said he would rather just enjoy me. I can’t read him, once you like someone you want to talk to them daily... he would write me few times a week and meet me every 10th day 😢 how should I proceed ? Please any suggestions or advices on how to change this? I feel he is worth the struggle, I am just not sure how ..

Thanks for any response !

You should proceed by opening yourself to OPTIONS 🤦 Why allow a man to STRING YOU ALONG? The reason you're perplexed about this is because you're FOCUSING on one man, who hasn't even committed to you yet. Does that make any sense to you? Your 2nd date was a month later. Really? You could've been on several dates with at least two other men during those 30 days LOL

Women are the prize. Don't be needy, desperate or attention seeking. Take your control back, get out there and START dating OTHER PEOPLE. Sheesh!

This is inexcusable. Talking about other women while with you is bad taste.

It's one thing to tell someone that you are seeing other people, it's another to go into details. What's the point?!

You deserve much much better.

He likes you right now. That's it.

Well ok I should have mentioned two things here - I am also dating others, I would never close all the doors for one man unless we are exclusive! And well with him telling me, I asked.

I don’t know, I try to avoid Sags whole life, reading on how bad match we are 😢 he just makes me feel so different! Strong, adventurous, social, outgoing, which im normally not! Just next to him..

I don’t think he likes you that much. I think he’s going out with you cause you hit him up or vice verse and he’s bored. You need to date other people.