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How to deal with this Sag guy?
have u had sex with him yet?
Posted by DMV
have u had sex with him yet?
my first reaction too, lol.
His Mars is also Sag.
Aqua, this centaur of yours also has a Capricorn moon. Sometimes Cappy moons seem very detached and cold at times (notably, this may seem VERY drastic in contrast to his Sun Sign). I don't have any advice to give (since I've never held onto a Saggi for long) but I want to point out to you some possible hidden variables that you may not sense.
It must feel frustrating when you can't put words and terms to emotion you are feeling. Remember though, he cannot read your mind nor has any hint to it. It's not a tightrope walk. Understand that his coldness may be comfortable for him and could just be a quirk rather than a hint from him.
What is your moon sign, my water bearer?
A sagg needs air to breathe. I dated one for a year, and two others followed. For the most part I like them, but you have to get to them when they are ready to settle down, and truly wants to settle down. If they are still on a rampage, needs to explore the world and date plenty of girls, you either jump on board and get with the program, or you can bet they will leave you behind.
DO NOT nag him for his distant behavior. He will respect you more if you go off and do your own thing only checking on him from time to time. You must make life seem exciting when he is around you never dull, boring, or sad, make it seem like an amusement park. Sagg loves adventure and lots and LOTS of freedom to roam. If they love you not to worry he wont go far, they will take you on their journey with them and wouldn't have it any other way. You MUST be open to try new things. If he tells he's taking you somewhere, be prepared for anything because you never know with a sagg, in other words take a pair of heels, and a pair of gym shoes/flats. He's a spirit of the moment type of guy.
Also you MUST maintain your confidence level. Any signs of insecurities will surely turn him off. He likes his women smart, sexy, independent, and confident. Hence I said SMART. Your brain must work as good as your body looks, otherwise you are no good to him and he has no need or interest in securing a place for you in his future.
DO NOT nag him for his distant behavior. He will respect you more if you go off and do your own thing only checking on him from time to time. You must make life seem exciting when he is around you never dull, boring, or sad, make it seem like an amusement park. Sagg loves adventure and lots and LOTS of freedom to roam. If they love you not to worry he wont go far, they will take you on their journey with them and wouldn't have it any other way. You MUST be open to try new things. If he tells he's taking you somewhere, be prepared for anything because you never know with a sagg, in other words take a pair of heels, and a pair of gym shoes/flats. He's a spirit of the moment type of guy.
Also you MUST maintain your confidence level. Any signs of insecurities will surely turn him off. He likes his women smart, sexy, independent, and confident. Hence I said SMART. Your brain must work as good as your body looks, otherwise you are no good to him and he has no need or interest in securing a place for you in his future.
ya good luck with that earth moon..
Posted by DMV
have u had sex with him yet?
yup.. we had sex pretty early. that was because we were just friends at first. i didn't expect to fall for him.
Posted by sheathedclawsPosted by DMV
have u had sex with him yet?
my first reaction too, lol.
His Mars is also Sag.
Aqua, this centaur of yours also has a Capricorn moon. Sometimes Cappy moons seem very detached and cold at times (notably, this may seem VERY drastic in contrast to his Sun Sign). I don't have any advice to give (since I've never held onto a Saggi for long) but I want to point out to you some possible hidden variables that you may not sense.
It must feel frustrating when you can't put words and terms to emotion you are feeling. Remember though, he cannot read your mind nor has any hint to it. It's not a tightrope walk. Understand that his coldness may be comfortable for him and could just be a quirk rather than a hint from him.
What is your moon sign, my water bearer?click to expand
You're right, it's really frustrating because I already know that I have trouble expressing myself in the first place and now this has dug me into a deeper hole. My moon sign is Leo. I've been holding in the things I want to say to him for a long time and I don't know when I should say it because I get nervous and this guy is just hard to understand. His Capricorn moon definitely makes him detached and cold at times!
Posted by ALibra
A sagg needs air to breathe. I dated one for a year, and two others followed. For the most part I like them, but you have to get to them when they are ready to settle down, and truly wants to settle down. If they are still on a rampage, needs to explore the world and date plenty of girls, you either jump on board and get with the program, or you can bet they will leave you behind.
DO NOT nag him for his distant behavior. He will respect you more if you go off and do your own thing only checking on him from time to time. You must make life seem exciting when he is around you never dull, boring, or sad, make it seem like an amusement park. Sagg loves adventure and lots and LOTS of freedom to roam. If they love you not to worry he wont go far, they will take you on their journey with them and wouldn't have it any other way. You MUST be open to try new things. If he tells he's taking you somewhere, be prepared for anything because you never know with a sagg, in other words take a pair of heels, and a pair of gym shoes/flats. He's a spirit of the moment type of guy.
Also you MUST maintain your confidence level. Any signs of insecurities will surely turn him off. He likes his women smart, sexy, independent, and confident. Hence I said SMART. Your brain must work as good as your body looks, otherwise you are no good to him and he has no need or interest in securing a place for you in his future.
Thanks for the advice. He's a pretty smart guy and I know I am too myself. Being an aquarius myself, I always look for guys who are intellectual and someone that knows what he's doing. I also love being on the rampage and I love to explore. So does he. But I was somewhat turned off by the fact that he's straight up rude to strangers.. he doesn't give a shit about anyone that he doesn't know or care about. For example, we were leaving a pho restaurant one time and as we were leaving the parking lot a fat lady in her minivan drove by, and since both our windows down, he straight up yelled at "HEY, YOU'RE FAT." I thought that was completely unnecessary. Extremely rude and uncalled for. That's how much he doesn't a give a shit anything. My friends tell me, do I want to be with a guy this? Well I don't really know. I think karma is going to hit him badly one day.
Posted by aquansidenout
If you two are having sex it is going to be good! Moon cap and venus cap together is a deadly combination. Mmmm..mmmm.mmmm.....
Now back on topic the downside to dating a cap moon is the fact that they're so guarded with their feelings (he has a lot of earth placements). They blow so hot and cold....mostly cold especially if their money or security is being affected. And add to that a water venus jezz this guy is a closed book. You haven't really given us much to go on. What was the argument/disagreement about? I'm dating an earth moon sag and he is one moody man but he gets over it once he's had space and time to think. They're usually very upfront and if they're not feeling you they won't waste their time or yours. My advice is to ask him flat out. Sags don't do mind games and beating around the bush. It will only make him annoyed that you didn't just ask what you needed to ask. One more thing when you two met what did he say he wanted out of this situation. Did he say he wants a girlfriend or just to have fun?
We do have sex pretty often haha. I have to admit the sex is amazing.
The last time we hung out wasn't much of a disagreement. He was complaining how I have drank with other people but not him. I'm not a big drinker, and it was always just bad timing when he asks me to drink because I would have midterms that I had to study for or homework that I had to do. So I finally gave in and drank. To be honest I hate drinking, and so I was dreading my first shot. He was getting impatient and started calling me "lame" and "not down," over and over. I finally took the shot and drank a bit more after. I told him to drink with me and he said no. In my head I was thinking wtf... you make me drink but you won't drink with me?? I wanted him to get on my level but he refused and I didn't understand why. The whole time he was acting like a dick and he kept trolling me so I was getting quite upset. Since I had alcohol in my system I guess I am a bit more sensitive to things. I was so fed up with him that I slapped him the face pretty hard but not intentionally of course. But I think he kind of deserved it? I mean.. who would make someone drink and then start trolling them? Doesn't make any sense. The next day he was still acting a little cold. I went him and himself pledge bros (he's in a fraternity) to the greek store because they had to steal letter
Posted by aquansidenout
If you two are having sex it is going to be good! Moon cap and venus cap together is a deadly combination. Mmmm..mmmm.mmmm.....
Now back on topic the downside to dating a cap moon is the fact that they're so guarded with their feelings (he has a lot of earth placements). They blow so hot and cold....mostly cold especially if their money or security is being affected. And add to that a water venus jezz this guy is a closed book. You haven't really given us much to go on. What was the argument/disagreement about? I'm dating an earth moon sag and he is one moody man but he gets over it once he's had space and time to think. They're usually very upfront and if they're not feeling you they won't waste their time or yours. My advice is to ask him flat out. Sags don't do mind games and beating around the bush. It will only make him annoyed that you didn't just ask what you needed to ask. One more thing when you two met what did he say he wanted out of this situation. Did he say he wants a girlfriend or just to have fun?
He asked me why I didn't help him steal and I said I don't steal. It's against my morals. Oh and I want to point out that this guy has absolutely no morals. He even told me he doesn't believe in it... That's another bad thing about him. But anyways, the rest of the day just didn't feel the same. The whole day he kept saying "stop trippin!" to almost every little thing that I said and his pledge bro as well. Why on earth would we be trippin— He was definitely the one that was trippin. Nothing made sense that day. The fact that he was acting so cold and careless made me become quiet because I didn't know how else to react to him. I just stayed quiet and tried not to make a big deal out of it.
Oh and we never actually talked about whether or not we wanted a relationship. I was always too afraid to ask. I was actually planning asking him that time we hung out but since all that happened.. I never had the chance to.
Posted by MzSag
Woah. Woah. Woah.
Why we hatin' on the Cappy Moons here? 😛
Not hating haha. Just saying all the details!
He does seem very rude, he must be young? He seems to like you but if you all haven't had that talk yet about where the relationship is going this may simply be a friends with benefits type of things. I also dated someone with a capp moon and no offense MzSag but people with this placements can be cold with showing their emotions.
whenever i get into a mood like that its because i usually cant stand the other person and im trying to get them to break up with me.
Oh and I want to point out that this guy has absolutely no morals. He even told me he doesn't believe in it... That's another bad thing about him.
yeah, he's done with the relationship. its ran his course with him. you cant say that he has no morals, you havent spent every minute of your life with him. he does have morals, he just doesnt want to give you the best parts of him anymore.
But anyways, the rest of the day just didn't feel the same. The whole day he kept saying "stop trippin!" to almost every little thing that I said and his pledge bro as well. Why on earth would we be trippin— He was definitely the one that was trippin. Nothing made sense that day. The fact that he was acting so cold and careless made me become quiet because I didn't know how else to react to him. I just stayed quiet and tried not to make a big deal out of it.,
again, he going to give damn near everyone the worst of him because he's upset that you really arent taking the hint. so he's going to get real nasty.
Oh and we never actually talked about whether or not we wanted a relationship. I was always too afraid to ask.
if a man doesnt bring up the fact that he wants you for his woman, theres a good chance that he doesnt. especially a sag because we go after what we want.
I was actually planning asking him that time we hung out but since all that happened.. I never had the chance to.
if u want to get a clear understanding of yalls relationship, id ask and put yourself outta your own misery. being that he has a venus in scorpio, he can get even more nasty if he isnt interested.
sometimes venus in scorpios can self sabotage a relationship as well. scared of getting too close.
yeah, he's done with the relationship. its ran his course with him. you cant say that he has no morals, you havent spent every minute of your life with him. he does have morals, he just doesnt want to give you the best parts of him anymore.
But anyways, the rest of the day just didn't feel the same. The whole day he kept saying "stop trippin!" to almost every little thing that I said and his pledge bro as well. Why on earth would we be trippin— He was definitely the one that was trippin. Nothing made sense that day. The fact that he was acting so cold and careless made me become quiet because I didn't know how else to react to him. I just stayed quiet and tried not to make a big deal out of it.,
again, he going to give damn near everyone the worst of him because he's upset that you really arent taking the hint. so he's going to get real nasty.
Oh and we never actually talked about whether or not we wanted a relationship. I was always too afraid to ask.
if a man doesnt bring up the fact that he wants you for his woman, theres a good chance that he doesnt. especially a sag because we go after what we want.
I was actually planning asking him that time we hung out but since all that happened.. I never had the chance to.
if u want to get a clear understanding of yalls relationship, id ask and put yourself outta your own misery. being that he has a venus in scorpio, he can get even more nasty if he isnt interested.
sometimes venus in scorpios can self sabotage a relationship as well. scared of getting too close.
@Put,
what does your chart look like?
what does your chart look like?
you should always speak your mind, aqua. this guy is still having fun and enjoying his life and you're part of the fun.
if you're thinking it, dont keep it in. speak up.
that cap moon...yep....that's a tough one. (read a few articles on it, cause of it being in detriment and looked up some male cap mooners - loads of problematic relationships /the women however, have it a little easier, though...still tough)
susan sarandon has a cap moon.
scorp venus - loves all the way. or not at all. yep no argument. he's pissed at you cause you slapped him and tried to control him like a mother.
and dont try to control him just because he was able to convince you to drink. just say no if you dont want.
yeah that cursing out in public calling people fat. no integrity. who does that?? but drunk immature frat boys.
but in the end, your personality seems to really be attracted to his other qualities /his energy and sex drive. enjoy it while it lasts.
if you're thinking it, dont keep it in. speak up.
that cap moon...yep....that's a tough one. (read a few articles on it, cause of it being in detriment and looked up some male cap mooners - loads of problematic relationships /the women however, have it a little easier, though...still tough)
susan sarandon has a cap moon.
scorp venus - loves all the way. or not at all. yep no argument. he's pissed at you cause you slapped him and tried to control him like a mother.
and dont try to control him just because he was able to convince you to drink. just say no if you dont want.
yeah that cursing out in public calling people fat. no integrity. who does that?? but drunk immature frat boys.
but in the end, your personality seems to really be attracted to his other qualities /his energy and sex drive. enjoy it while it lasts.
Posted by DMV
Oh and I want to point out that this guy has absolutely no morals. He even told me he doesn't believe in it... That's another bad thing about him.
yeah, he's done with the relationship. its ran his course with him. you cant say that he has no morals, you havent spent every minute of your life with him. he does have morals, he just doesnt want to give you the best parts of him anymore.
But anyways, the rest of the day just didn't feel the same. The whole day he kept saying "stop trippin!" to almost every little thing that I said and his pledge bro as well. Why on earth would we be trippin— He was definitely the one that was trippin. Nothing made sense that day. The fact that he was acting so cold and careless made me become quiet because I didn't know how else to react to him. I just stayed quiet and tried not to make a big deal out of it.,
again, he going to give damn near everyone the worst of him because he's upset that you really arent taking the hint. so he's going to get real nasty.
Oh and we never actually talked about whether or not we wanted a relationship. I was always too afraid to ask.
if a man doesnt bring up the fact that he wants you for his woman, theres a good chance that he doesnt. especially a sag because we go after what we want.
I was actually planning asking him that time we hung out but since all that happened.. I never had the chance to.
if u want to get a clear understanding of yalls relationship, id ask and put yourself outta your own misery. being that he has a venus in scorpio, he can get even more nasty if he isnt interested.
sometimes venus in scorpios can self sabotage a relationship as well. scared of getting too close.
Well he asked me in our first few weeks of talking if i liked being single and i kinda just said ignored it and said "sometime." then again we were just friends at first and we slowly started having feelings for each other. OH and about that trippin part he said he was on the caffeine pill so he was jittery, restless, and i'm sure he was still feeling the guilt after stealing letters. you can see my chart on the first page 🙂
Posted by aquansidenout
Why on earth are you entertaining a guy like that? Sag or no sag he's a cruel person who seems toc are for noone but himself. I detest rude people and for him to shout you're fat .to a stranger is beyond disgusting. I have no further advice other than to run not walk away from this asshole.
i don't know why i'm still with this guy. probably because he stole my heart. i've been having second thoughts about this ugly for a couple of weeks before this happened. when i have second thoughts about someone.. i tend to not be able to act like myself anymore and i'm more quiet. he might have noticed it. oh well..
Posted by Sutekh
If you get on a venus scorpio nerves + we don't like you anymore it can be really REALLY ugly. As in he'll start to just take advantage of you , treat you like garbage ,maybe get some sex if he can, lay guilt trips on you etc.
i don't think i got on his nerves... it's more like he got on my nerves, but i'm usually very calm and passive about things even if things get out of hand so i just don't show it. there's a lot of things that he has done that has gotten on my nerves but i have never told him. i tend to keep a lot of things to myself only because i'm afraid to hurt the other's person feeling. i don't know if that's good or bad..
Posted by scorpdiva
He does seem very rude, he must be young? He seems to like you but if you all haven't had that talk yet about where the relationship is going this may simply be a friends with benefits type of things. I also dated someone with a capp moon and no offense MzSag but people with this placements can be cold with showing their emotions.
He's 20 and turning 21 at the end of this year. Perhaps he's a little young and also the fact that he's younger than me. We haven't talked about where the relationship is going only because I am too afraid ask. I have problems expressing my feelings people being an Aquarius. It's like i'm trapped inside a water bottle lol.. I can definitely see his Cappy moon side being cold.
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Him:
Sun - Sagittarius
Moon - Capricorn
Mercury - Sagittarius
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sagittarius
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Aquarius
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Capricorn
Ascending - Capricorn
Descending - Scorpio
Me:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Leo
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Capricorn
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Virgo
Ascending Pisces
Descending Taurus