I caught my sag bf liking a girls insta pic are we done (Page 2)

Posted by Ssuperman

Posted by TaurusinTexas

Posted by Blairjones512
Well he has cheated by texting and snapping other girls... idk maybe it's a lost cause

You're 22, why are you bothering? It makes you uncomfortable, you're insecurity is off the charts, cut this guy loose.

Lol, it's really not his fault tho. She's doing him a favor actually

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Completely agree, this poor guy, can you imagine!

I died for 5 minutes and came back to life as the startwars and y'all still concerned about IG likes

I'm convinced that millennials and their incessant need to be all inclusive and all accepting is the reason why they have no standards whatsoever.

Liking a picture that is of an event (graduation, birthday, retirement) or sharing of a beautiful sentiment is fine. However, liking selfies or hot pics (half naked) of women/men is unacceptable when you're in a relationship, be it FB or Instagram. Control your hand. I understand that all social media platforms are ways to seek attention, but that doesn't mean that you should jeopardize your relationship to feed into the purpose of these platforms...especially at the expense of your relationship.

Granted that being in a relationship or marriage doesn't mean you stop checking other people out, but you still owe respect to your partner by observing self-restraint when you see a hot person walk by. Just as you discreetly check out another person in the presence of your partner, thar is the same way you can discreetly browse hot pics on FB or Instagram. It doesn't need to be liked and shoved in your partner's newsfeed. Liking a sexy pic is equivalent to telling a person in real life that you find them attractive in front of your partner. Get a grip on those likes out of respect for your partner.

?? you sound like someone I know

She will literally text her boyfriend "so you like Sarah's instagram picture?"

He won't even know what she's talking about or remember liking the picture half the time ...

Hilarious

They're also only 20-22 so makes sense

One day you will realize how silly this is

Posted by Blairjones512
Well he has cheated by texting and snapping other girls... idk maybe it's a lost cause

?Crying

Oh yay a happy ending.

questions:

has he ever cheated on you? or similar untrustworthy or disloyal damage to the relationship?

im a sag, and im very visual, im in a serious relationship and I like lots of things on social media. but that doesn't mean that it goes any further then that.

this type of thing you need to take a breath and bite your tongue. this is something you should silently stay aware of but I personally would never bring it up to my SO. its not your place to tell someone what they can and cant do. they are going to do what they wont. and not everyone sees things as bad like you do. its up to you to just be present and watch closely.

I feel like if a person is paying close attention to things as little as liking a picture then your probably the type to search his phone, and drive by his friends house.... like you wanna find a reason to feel hurt. and we all know if you go looking for something, your going to find it one way or another.

I would say. if you cant trust him then you should probably stop wasting your time because you wont ever be as happy as a person with trust in there SO.

and if you come to your senses with how overly controlling this, then I think you need to consider working on yourself.

you have no control over another person, nore should you want to be. he's going to do what he wants and if that means hes going to risk hurting you in the process, then he doesn't deserve you nore so you need a person like that in your life for a second longer. so just be the silent partner that watches peoples actions until you are turned off or turned on.

Thanks so much to the both of you. I might as well move on because I am a way better and more caring person than he is. I gave too much and it's time to move on for good.

Gotta step your selfie game up