SagLadyHere
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Hey saggy 🙂
Damn I've never dated a leo! Everyone seems to say they aren't the nice of people though.
My mom is a Leo with a venus in cancer and is the most abusive woman on the planet. I have HUGE mom issues because of her.
Anyway, I'm sure with a mature leo it could work. I've met some nice leo men before.
Damn I've never dated a leo! Everyone seems to say they aren't the nice of people though.
My mom is a Leo with a venus in cancer and is the most abusive woman on the planet. I have HUGE mom issues because of her.
Anyway, I'm sure with a mature leo it could work. I've met some nice leo men before.
hiya,
my ex is a leo sun, sag moon, mars cancer, venus virgo.
i am a sag sun, scorp moon, mars virgo, venus capricorn
he was awesome in the beginning and then things went downhill. i started to feel like a bank account and not his girlfriend. while things were good, he was very romantic and loving. but he became a complete violent asshole. leos need alot of attention and they want to feel like their #1. the ones who are secure in themselves are a much better.
he was always in and out of trouble and when i would ask him to do things for me, he def had a "how dare you" kind of attitude. i eventually got sick and tired of being sick and tired and left him. his life has been in shambles ever since. much to my enjoyment.
my ex is a leo sun, sag moon, mars cancer, venus virgo.
i am a sag sun, scorp moon, mars virgo, venus capricorn
he was awesome in the beginning and then things went downhill. i started to feel like a bank account and not his girlfriend. while things were good, he was very romantic and loving. but he became a complete violent asshole. leos need alot of attention and they want to feel like their #1. the ones who are secure in themselves are a much better.
he was always in and out of trouble and when i would ask him to do things for me, he def had a "how dare you" kind of attitude. i eventually got sick and tired of being sick and tired and left him. his life has been in shambles ever since. much to my enjoyment.
i dated a second leo for bout a week but i found him to be to intrusive and also looking for a bank account.
What is with them and using people for money?
Everyone I see does that too
Everyone I see does that too
i dunno. but its annoying as all fuck.
i mean within a week the second leo was telling me how he needed to go to the mall to buy some sneakers. trying to drop hints seeing if i would buy them for him. i told him, when is he going to get some new sneakers and he blew up. yelling about the way i answer him. i shouldnt answer like that because hes not trying to get money out of me. the next day he starts talking about how i should take him away on vacation. WTF. telling me he would "get me back" later. again WTF.
i mean within a week the second leo was telling me how he needed to go to the mall to buy some sneakers. trying to drop hints seeing if i would buy them for him. i told him, when is he going to get some new sneakers and he blew up. yelling about the way i answer him. i shouldnt answer like that because hes not trying to get money out of me. the next day he starts talking about how i should take him away on vacation. WTF. telling me he would "get me back" later. again WTF.
Hi DMV my Venus is in Capricorn too. It's funny because the second Leo asked me on our first date how I felt about paying for dates. I told him I thought in the beginning the man should pay. He did buy me a pair of sneakers without me asking but I left them at his house & never wore them. I'm sure he took them back once we got on the outs. Now it's like he's just stringing me along because he knows I still like him. I'm doing my best to move on.
Hi DMV my Venus is in Capricorn too. It's funny because the second Leo asked me on our first date how I felt about paying for dates. I told him I thought in the beginning the man should pay. He did buy me a pair of sneakers without me asking but I left them at his house & never wore them. I'm sure he took them back once we got on the outs. Now it's like he's just stringing me along because he knows I still like him. I'm doing my best to move on.
Hi DMV my Venus is in Capricorn too. It's funny because the second Leo asked me on our first date how I felt about paying for dates. I told him I thought in the beginning the man should pay. He did buy me a pair of sneakers without me asking but I left them at his house & never wore them. I'm sure he took them back once we got on the outs. Now it's like he's just stringing me along because he knows I still like him. I'm doing my best to move on.
The leo women can be like that too, I have a leo friend and she is always talking about asking men for money or them buying her this and that cause she said she needs it.
That is my pet-peeve, I should never have to ask a men for money unless we are married ofcourse I will just have access to it but to simply ask a men for something I can do for myself is crazy.
Hate to change the subject but I hope you feel better soon, I have no experience with leos except for my dad who is a leo and he is great ,he and my mom a pisces have been married for 33 yrs and he has always been the bread winner and takes care of his family.
That is my pet-peeve, I should never have to ask a men for money unless we are married ofcourse I will just have access to it but to simply ask a men for something I can do for myself is crazy.
Hate to change the subject but I hope you feel better soon, I have no experience with leos except for my dad who is a leo and he is great ,he and my mom a pisces have been married for 33 yrs and he has always been the bread winner and takes care of his family.
Hi DMV my Venus is in Capricorn too. It's funny because the second Leo asked me on our first date how I felt about paying for dates. I told him I thought in the beginning the man should pay. He did buy me a pair of sneakers without me asking but I left them at his house & never wore them. I'm sure he took them back once we got on the outs. Now it's like he's just stringing me along because he knows I still like him. I'm doing my best to move on.
Hi Scorpdiva,
Thanks and it's funny you say that about the women. I reached out to a Leo gf of mine who I've known since h.s. & she has always been something of a b*ch w/men. At the end of the day though I know she is very unhappy. She told me how she had a Sag guy who wanted to marry her and bought her the biggest ring ever & she never slept with him. They got into an argument in her jeep & she threw him out in the middle of the street. She also threw the ring in his face. All I could do was shake my head.
Thanks and it's funny you say that about the women. I reached out to a Leo gf of mine who I've known since h.s. & she has always been something of a b*ch w/men. At the end of the day though I know she is very unhappy. She told me how she had a Sag guy who wanted to marry her and bought her the biggest ring ever & she never slept with him. They got into an argument in her jeep & she threw him out in the middle of the street. She also threw the ring in his face. All I could do was shake my head.
I was with a Leo man for 8 years. I am a Sag.
Again, like others have said, it was all good in the beginning but he was very emotionally needy at times and when we clased our arguments were explosive. In the end I found out he was lazy a liar and a cheat but at that point I'd already moved on (heart and mind) and I broke up with him. He did use me for years and I allowed him, as he promised me he'd change with certain things, but it never happened so in true Sag style I cut off all contact and haven't looked back.
Flipside: He was an excellent and attentive lover and was such fun to be around. When things were good he brightened my world! I used to tell him he was my ray of sunshine. He would have me on the floor laughing at times. We had some GOOD times. He was a good cook and he was very generous and patient. He wasn't mean with money, if he could give he would.
All in all I think it can work but for me my ex constantly needed his ego stroked which annoyed me. And it wasn't because he wasn't confident, he was arrogant and became more so over the final years of our relationship.
50/50 chance.
Again, like others have said, it was all good in the beginning but he was very emotionally needy at times and when we clased our arguments were explosive. In the end I found out he was lazy a liar and a cheat but at that point I'd already moved on (heart and mind) and I broke up with him. He did use me for years and I allowed him, as he promised me he'd change with certain things, but it never happened so in true Sag style I cut off all contact and haven't looked back.
Flipside: He was an excellent and attentive lover and was such fun to be around. When things were good he brightened my world! I used to tell him he was my ray of sunshine. He would have me on the floor laughing at times. We had some GOOD times. He was a good cook and he was very generous and patient. He wasn't mean with money, if he could give he would.
All in all I think it can work but for me my ex constantly needed his ego stroked which annoyed me. And it wasn't because he wasn't confident, he was arrogant and became more so over the final years of our relationship.
50/50 chance.
Posted by SagLadyHere
Hi Scorpdiva,
Thanks and it's funny you say that about the women. I reached out to a Leo gf of mine who I've known since h.s. & she has always been something of a b*ch w/men. At the end of the day though I know she is very unhappy. She told me how she had a Sag guy who wanted to marry her and bought her the biggest ring ever & she never slept with him. They got into an argument in her jeep & she threw him out in the middle of the street. She also threw the ring in his face. All I could do was shake my head.
I Know, I love my leo gf to def but she is very materialistic and it really bothers me but hey I don't have to sleep with her I just party with her.
She always calls me for advice or with her relationship problems I just listen, she is also very funny acting when she is in a relationship she will not call so I just don't call her I just let her live happily ever after unless I have some gossip of a question to ask her. As soon as things go bad in her relationship she is calling blowing up my phone trying to go out, see myself I am the same in and out of a relationship which is how I think it should be.
Posted by Ninjagirl
I was with a Leo man for 8 years. I am a Sag.
Again, like others have said, it was all good in the beginning but he was very emotionally needy at times and when we clased our arguments were explosive. In the end I found out he was lazy a liar and a cheat but at that point I'd already moved on (heart and mind) and I broke up with him. He did use me for years and I allowed him, as he promised me he'd change with certain things, but it never happened so in true Sag style I cut off all contact and haven't looked back.
Flipside: He was an excellent and attentive lover and was such fun to be around. When things were good he brightened my world! I used to tell him he was my ray of sunshine. He would have me on the floor laughing at times. We had some GOOD times. He was a good cook and he was very generous and patient. He wasn't mean with money, if he could give he would.
All in all I think it can work but for me my ex constantly needed his ego stroked which annoyed me. And it wasn't because he wasn't confident, he was arrogant and became more so over the final years of our relationship.
50/50 chance.
wow, i felt the same way when i met my leo. i told him that i felt like i had won the lotto. when it all came crashing down, i was beside myself for almost 2 years.
omg, he would hardly ever spend money on me. but when it came to everyone else, he was very generous.
arrogant is a good word.
when we would get into fights which was because i disagreed and wouldnt let him have his way. he would put holes in the walls, break my things, etc. he damaged my car. he was worse than an aries mooner.
wow, i felt the same way when i met my leo. i told him that i felt like i had won the lotto. when it all came crashing down, i was beside myself for almost 2 years.
omg, he would hardly ever spend money on me. but when it came to everyone else, he was very generous.
arrogant is a good word.
Thats what I'm saying, in the beginning it was all rainbows and stars and you feel like nothing can go wrong. Not gonna lie, there are magical moments with the leo but boy...I don't know it's like if they are an emotionally needy leo then thats a problem because you find yourself being the comfort for them and reassuring them but providing this don't mean that they'll become more confident and stand on their own two feet with it. They'll just continue to leech on you to provide.
Or you have the over-confident leo who can't do no worng and when you try to show them different they can't see it...again epic fail.
It's really dependent on the person but I wouldn't go through it again with a leo, given the choice. Although things were good he has also hurt me in ways that I don't want to experience again.
omg, he would hardly ever spend money on me. but when it came to everyone else, he was very generous.
arrogant is a good word.
Thats what I'm saying, in the beginning it was all rainbows and stars and you feel like nothing can go wrong. Not gonna lie, there are magical moments with the leo but boy...I don't know it's like if they are an emotionally needy leo then thats a problem because you find yourself being the comfort for them and reassuring them but providing this don't mean that they'll become more confident and stand on their own two feet with it. They'll just continue to leech on you to provide.
Or you have the over-confident leo who can't do no worng and when you try to show them different they can't see it...again epic fail.
It's really dependent on the person but I wouldn't go through it again with a leo, given the choice. Although things were good he has also hurt me in ways that I don't want to experience again.
Posted by DMV
when we would get into fights which was because i disagreed and wouldnt let him have his way. he would put holes in the walls, break my things, etc. he damaged my car. he was worse than an aries mooner.
My worse fights/arguments were with the Leo ex. Police called and all sorts. *shudders thinking about it*
It's the fire-fire combo.
This is amusing. I don't get the money thing. I know tons of Leos now and all of them work hard for their money. They toss it around like they're rich. Even my good Leo friend, who is a major broke ass, will give the shirt off his back and ask for nothing in return. Most I know are on the materialistic side but that's why they work so hard.
So, I am a leo and pretty much only know, and like, 2 sags. It's hard for me to be friends with the girls sometimes, being as i've only met one that is laid back enough for me, and I don't meet many sag guys. I am friends with one sag male but you'd swear he was an earth or water sign. He is extremely reserved, quiet, and introverted.
So, I am a leo and pretty much only know, and like, 2 sags. It's hard for me to be friends with the girls sometimes, being as i've only met one that is laid back enough for me, and I don't meet many sag guys. I am friends with one sag male but you'd swear he was an earth or water sign. He is extremely reserved, quiet, and introverted.
Posted by scorpdivaPosted by SagLadyHere
I Know, I love my leo gf to def but she is very materialistic and it really bothers me but hey I don't have to sleep with her I just party with her.click to expand
Yea my ex scorpio's best friend is a leo. He totally uses him for his money at sometimes. He does love him but he is a user a bit.
Posted by scorpdiva
The leo women can be like that too, I have a leo friend and she is always talking about asking men for money or them buying her this and that cause she said she needs it.
That is my pet-peeve, I should never have to ask a men for money unless we are married ofcourse I will just have access to it but to simply ask a men for something I can do for myself is crazy.
Hate to change the subject but I hope you feel better soon, I have no experience with leos except for my dad who is a leo and he is great ,he and my mom a pisces have been married for 33 yrs and he has always been the bread winner and takes care of his family.
I agree. My mom just quite her career when she married my dad. My dad just takes care of her and spoils her. She does the same.
He's a libra.
Posted by SagLadyHere
Hi Scorpdiva,
Thanks and it's funny you say that about the women. I reached out to a Leo gf of mine who I've known since h.s. & she has always been something of a b*ch w/men. At the end of the day though I know she is very unhappy. She told me how she had a Sag guy who wanted to marry her and bought her the biggest ring ever & she never slept with him. They got into an argument in her jeep & she threw him out in the middle of the street. She also threw the ring in his face. All I could do was shake my head.
Omg YA lol
Posted by Ninjagirl
wow, i felt the same way when i met my leo. i told him that i felt like i had won the lotto. when it all came crashing down, i was beside myself for almost 2 years.
omg, he would hardly ever spend money on me. but when it came to everyone else, he was very generous.
arrogant is a good word.
Thats what I'm saying, in the beginning it was all rainbows and stars and you feel like nothing can go wrong. Not gonna lie, there are magical moments with the leo but boy...I don't know it's like if they are an emotionally needy leo then thats a problem because you find yourself being the comfort for them and reassuring them but providing this don't mean that they'll become more confident and stand on their own two feet with it. They'll just continue to leech on you to provide.
Or you have the over-confident leo who can't do no worng and when you try to show them different they can't see it...again epic fail.
It's really dependent on the person but I wouldn't go through it again with a leo, given the choice. Although things were good he has also hurt me in ways that I don't want to experience again.
we see eye to eye....no need to go any further.
yeah when a leo doesnt get their way....rawr!
saggis are mutable, whereas leos are fixed. i think sag women secretly resent being with any fixed sign who doesnt have some a mutable moon. we make compromise after compromise, we adapt to their needs. in the end, were left holding the bill out in the rain with no shoes on.
saggis are mutable, whereas leos are fixed. i think sag women secretly resent being with any fixed sign who doesnt have some a mutable moon. we make compromise after compromise, we adapt to their needs. in the end, were left holding the bill out in the rain with no shoes on.
Posted by CarbonMonoxide
Lucky for him, he's popular and people like him.
Cheap fucker.
🙂
Seriously! People just love them despite whatever
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by CarbonMonoxide
Lucky for him, he's popular and people like him.
Cheap fucker.
🙂
Seriously! People just love them despite whateverclick to expand
yes! its like if they only knew what i went home to every night.
on the flip side,
my ex leo took me on the most romantic date ever. we went to this secluded lake in the mountains of new york. we hiked up and skinny dipped. held each other and then did it. is there a higher cloud than 9? after wards, we feel asleep holding each other.
it still hurts me to know that the same guy who took me on that date is the same guy i put a restraining order on.
my ex leo took me on the most romantic date ever. we went to this secluded lake in the mountains of new york. we hiked up and skinny dipped. held each other and then did it. is there a higher cloud than 9? after wards, we feel asleep holding each other.
it still hurts me to know that the same guy who took me on that date is the same guy i put a restraining order on.
Posted by DMV
on the flip side,
my ex leo took me on the most romantic date ever. we went to this secluded lake in the mountains of new york. we hiked up and skinny dipped. held each other and then did it. is there a higher cloud than 9? after wards, we feel asleep holding each other.
it still hurts me to know that the same guy who took me on that date is the same guy i put a restraining order on.
Haha why did you have to do that?
he went nuts
Posted by DMV
yeah when a leo doesnt get their way....rawr!
saggis are mutable, whereas leos are fixed. i think sag women secretly resent being with any fixed sign who doesnt have some a mutable moon. we make compromise after compromise, we adapt to their needs. in the end, were left holding the bill out in the rain with no shoes on.
Ugh. That is so true. I was with a Leo for MANY years. A very sweet guy. But when he didn't get his way, what a violent drama king! And the strange thing is he was always in my pockets lol. We're good friends now. And now, he gives me more as a friend than he ever did when we were a couple. Very strange. I still love Leos. I just don't like the over bearing controlling aspect. And the need to have their ego constantly stroked. And the temper. When I'd finally get enough of his bullshit, the fights were EPIC! And yes! The whole how dare you attitude. Ugh. But..very sweet, protective and loyal till this day.
Well if he's stringing you along best you can do is get out of it. Guys don't respect you unless you respect yourself and that's not showing respect.
I gotta tell ya...I was kinda in your shoes once with my leo. Only it wasn't that bad...we were just friends with benefits and I wanted more. Finally I couldn't take it so we split for a year... didn't talk much. Now we've come back to each other. He's sweeter and I'm less clingy. Sometimes it takes a while and some time away to change and become better people who are less selfish and better for each other.
A lot of people say some people are toxic to each other and shouldn't be with each other. This is true, but if the two can grow out of their unhealthy personalities and learn to help out each other instead of polluting one another then they can come back and be just fine together.
To answer your actual question.. yes sags and leos can get along and be in a good relationship. I think leos don't tolerate much which is why it's probably good if the sag has some earth to ground them so that the leo doesn't want to kill the sag. I've found leos can be very violent/cold until they realize they like you, then they soften up and are very protective. If you can get him to respect you he will be the most loyal, protective, sweetest, and sometimes even romantic companion you could ever have.
Sorry that was a lot, but I do love my leos. Make good friends and great loves. Cheers!
I gotta tell ya...I was kinda in your shoes once with my leo. Only it wasn't that bad...we were just friends with benefits and I wanted more. Finally I couldn't take it so we split for a year... didn't talk much. Now we've come back to each other. He's sweeter and I'm less clingy. Sometimes it takes a while and some time away to change and become better people who are less selfish and better for each other.
A lot of people say some people are toxic to each other and shouldn't be with each other. This is true, but if the two can grow out of their unhealthy personalities and learn to help out each other instead of polluting one another then they can come back and be just fine together.
To answer your actual question.. yes sags and leos can get along and be in a good relationship. I think leos don't tolerate much which is why it's probably good if the sag has some earth to ground them so that the leo doesn't want to kill the sag. I've found leos can be very violent/cold until they realize they like you, then they soften up and are very protective. If you can get him to respect you he will be the most loyal, protective, sweetest, and sometimes even romantic companion you could ever have.
Sorry that was a lot, but I do love my leos. Make good friends and great loves. Cheers!
Posted by MebsPosted by DMV
yeah when a leo doesnt get their way....rawr!
saggis are mutable, whereas leos are fixed. i think sag women secretly resent being with any fixed sign who doesnt have some a mutable moon. we make compromise after compromise, we adapt to their needs. in the end, were left holding the bill out in the rain with no shoes on.
Ugh. That is so true. I was with a Leo for MANY years. A very sweet guy. But when he didn't get his way, what a violent drama king! And the strange thing is he was always in my pockets lol. We're good friends now. And now, he gives me more as a friend than he ever did when we were a couple. Very strange. I still love Leos. I just don't like the over bearing controlling aspect. And the need to have their ego constantly stroked. And the temper. When I'd finally get enough of his bullshit, the fights were EPIC! And yes! The whole how dare you attitude. Ugh. But..very sweet, protective and loyal till this day.click to expand
See I don't mind the ego stroking. I find it's a very easy way to get on someones good side. Rather that then trying to get through the defenses of a scorpio. What a long trial that was.
Yeah, careful when you betray leos trust they are not kind. That's why you have to get to know them so you know what they find wrong and what's right to them. I still mess up sometimes. Me and my leo had a fight a few weeks ago because of some things I said that night, even though I was trashed.
The fight looked kinda like this..
Posted by MebsPosted by DMV
yeah when a leo doesnt get their way....rawr!
saggis are mutable, whereas leos are fixed. i think sag women secretly resent being with any fixed sign who doesnt have some a mutable moon. we make compromise after compromise, we adapt to their needs. in the end, were left holding the bill out in the rain with no shoes on.
Ugh. That is so true. I was with a Leo for MANY years. A very sweet guy. But when he didn't get his way, what a violent drama king! And the strange thing is he was always in my pockets lol. We're good friends now. And now, he gives me more as a friend than he ever did when we were a couple. Very strange. I still love Leos. I just don't like the over bearing controlling aspect. And the need to have their ego constantly stroked. And the temper. When I'd finally get enough of his bullshit, the fights were EPIC! And yes! The whole how dare you attitude. Ugh. But..very sweet, protective and loyal till this day.click to expand
word! he is much better as a friend and still loyal.
i agree 100%
Posted by MebsPosted by DMV
We're good friends now. And now, he gives me more as a friend than he ever did when we were a couple. Very strange.click to expand
Yea some people are so like that aren't they? It's interesting for sure.
Thank you Happykitsune. You did say a lot but it helped. As time passes with him I am learning a lot. With everything i am learning about Leos and all men in general is what you said and I am putting into practice. Peoples maturity levels & past play a big role in who they are. What I have learned from this Leo & my Leo boss is that they do value loyalty. I realize that I am kind of in the testing stage with him & I will be there as long as I feel for him. In the meantime I will go out with friends and continue to work on myself. At this point if we end up together I will be happy but if we don't then it wasn't meant to be. I also hate that everywhere says that we are not loyal and that is so not true about us. One thing I can say about this guy is he never promised me anything and we were never official. I fell fast & hard after a few months but when I asked for the label tht's when evrythg fell apart & said I was trying to force things. Only time will tell what happens right?
Thank you Happykitsune. You did say a lot but it helped. As time passes with him I am learning a lot. With everything i am learning about Leos and all men in general is what you said and I am putting into practice. Peoples maturity levels & past play a big role in who they are. What I have learned from this Leo & my Leo boss is that they do value loyalty. I realize that I am kind of in the testing stage with him & I will be there as long as I feel for him. In the meantime I will go out with friends and continue to work on myself. At this point if we end up together I will be happy but if we don't then it wasn't meant to be. I also hate that everywhere says that we are not loyal and that is so not true about us. One thing I can say about this guy is he never promised me anything and we were never official. I fell fast & hard after a few months but when I asked for the label tht's when evrythg fell apart & said I was trying to force things. Only time will tell what happens right?
Posted by SagLadyHere
Thank you Happykitsune. You did say a lot but it helped. As time passes with him I am learning a lot. With everything i am learning about Leos and all men in general is what you said and I am putting into practice. Peoples maturity levels & past play a big role in who they are. What I have learned from this Leo & my Leo boss is that they do value loyalty. I realize that I am kind of in the testing stage with him & I will be there as long as I feel for him. In the meantime I will go out with friends and continue to work on myself. At this point if we end up together I will be happy but if we don't then it wasn't meant to be. I also hate that everywhere says that we are not loyal and that is so not true about us. One thing I can say about this guy is he never promised me anything and we were never official. I fell fast & hard after a few months but when I asked for the label tht's when evrythg fell apart & said I was trying to force things. Only time will tell what happens right?
You're absolutely right.
Hi Noosiekins & thanks for sharing. I have a cousin who is an Aries & she has been through it with her Leo. I can't blame him though because she was always cheating him. She has "been" with him for over 15 years. Everytime she tells me her drama with him & i'm like but you're cheating on him too..Lol
Posted by Noosiekins
"trust me hes gonna be around long, and as far as relationship talk, he probably acts and feels like hes in one but hes not going to say it until hes certain that you feel the same way.
I just feel like that is so true. I really don't think that many people can handle causal sex. Men or women. Really most people want to be with one person. Everyone is just so afraid of getting hurt or it won't work out.
So they each settle for this middle ground to keep safe. Yet they are only seeing you.
I have just been in so many of those "middle" ones and the man always wanted something more but I've been very confused on my sexuality most of my lifes because of certain issues I've had in the past so I kept them at bay.
But like with your situation saglady or mebs I think both of your people probably want more but don't know how to achieve that or are scared you wouldn't feel the same back.
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by Noosiekins
"trust me hes gonna be around long, and as far as relationship talk, he probably acts and feels like hes in one but hes not going to say it until hes certain that you feel the same way.
I just feel like that is so true. I really don't think that many people can handle causal sex. Men or women. Really most people want to be with one person. Everyone is just so afraid of getting hurt or it won't work out.
So they each settle for this middle ground to keep safe. Yet they are only seeing you.
I have just been in so many of those "middle" ones and the man always wanted something more but I've been very confused on my sexuality most of my lifes because of certain issues I've had in the past so I kept them at bay.
But like with your situation saglady or mebs I think both of your people probably want more but don't know how to achieve that or are scared you wouldn't feel the same back.
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Middle ground is safe.
It's a good place to stay while you're young and trying to figure out where ur going. It's a good place to be before you decide to get married.
Posted by happykitsunePosted by Sagittarius89Posted by Noosiekins
"trust me hes gonna be around long, and as far as relationship talk, he probably acts and feels like hes in one but hes not going to say it until hes certain that you feel the same way.
I just feel like that is so true. I really don't think that many people can handle causal sex. Men or women. Really most people want to be with one person. Everyone is just so afraid of getting hurt or it won't work out.
So they each settle for this middle ground to keep safe. Yet they are only seeing you.
I have just been in so many of those "middle" ones and the man always wanted something more but I've been very confused on my sexuality most of my lifes because of certain issues I've had in the past so I kept them at bay.
But like with your situation saglady or mebs I think both of your people probably want more but don't know how to achieve that or are scared you wouldn't feel the same back.
Middle ground is safe.
It's a good place to stay while you're young and trying to figure out where ur going. It's a good place to be before you decide to get married.click to expand
I agree I just ment with them, like I just don't think they are hopeless situations like everyone brings them out to be
Ugh!
I'm hopeful... but not at all sober >.
I'm hopeful... but not at all sober >.
I do not get along with Leo males or Sagittarius males in relationships, just as friends. Leo men can be arrogant and Sag men are too needy. (the ones I've met, don't mean to put anyone down..lol). And besides...there can only be one of us attention getters and thats me!
Hello all,
Once again I am frustrated w/this Leo stringing me along it is so annoying. I do my own thing, hang out with friends & stuff. Whenever he texts me & finds out, he never stops texting me. All week while i'm @ work & he's at work he flirts about sexual stuff. All last night he texts me while he's working. Stupid me suggests that maybe I can bring him breakfast. His reply "I'm going away". My reply "Oh wow, tht's nice". Of course tht's not how I feel but what can I say. So pissed, hurt & annoyed.
Once again I am frustrated w/this Leo stringing me along it is so annoying. I do my own thing, hang out with friends & stuff. Whenever he texts me & finds out, he never stops texting me. All week while i'm @ work & he's at work he flirts about sexual stuff. All last night he texts me while he's working. Stupid me suggests that maybe I can bring him breakfast. His reply "I'm going away". My reply "Oh wow, tht's nice". Of course tht's not how I feel but what can I say. So pissed, hurt & annoyed.
@SagLadyHere Dang. I'm hurt and mad for you! Smh. How old is he? I was with my first Leo for 8 years and my second Leo for two. Neither acted that way as far as games go. That's something I liked. They were pretty straightforward? How old are you guys if you don't mind me asking?
Sag89, its good to stay the path you are on like Happykit said. Trust me, its from experience when I say get your own inner crap together before getting exclusively involved with someone.
Otherwise it may toxify an actually healthy relationship you get into. I firmly think once people get into their 20's should be single till their 30's.
Cause most relationships end up being a waste of time due to you continually trying to work out what you want in life and love.
In summary, people change too much in their 20's for them to be rock solid with anyone.
Damn, why cant more twenty something women be like Sag when it comes to dating? If the chances for a stage five clinger werent so strong, I would date them casually. But as I said, before I prefer women my age for serious relationships.
Getting in a serious relationship with a 20 something gal has always end up being a waste of time for me. I dont plan to waste any more time getting into relationships that have no real future. Unless it's f-buddy😉
Otherwise it may toxify an actually healthy relationship you get into. I firmly think once people get into their 20's should be single till their 30's.
Cause most relationships end up being a waste of time due to you continually trying to work out what you want in life and love.
In summary, people change too much in their 20's for them to be rock solid with anyone.
Damn, why cant more twenty something women be like Sag when it comes to dating? If the chances for a stage five clinger werent so strong, I would date them casually. But as I said, before I prefer women my age for serious relationships.
Getting in a serious relationship with a 20 something gal has always end up being a waste of time for me. I dont plan to waste any more time getting into relationships that have no real future. Unless it's f-buddy😉
Posted by ZenArcade
Sag89, its good to stay the path you are on like Happykit said. Trust me, its from experience when I say get your own inner crap together before getting exclusively involved with someone.
Otherwise it may toxify an actually healthy relationship you get into. I firmly think once people get into their 20's should be single till their 30's.
Cause most relationships end up being a waste of time due to you continually trying to work out what you want in life and love.
In summary, people change too much in their 20's for them to be rock solid with anyone.
Damn, why cant more twenty something women be like Sag when it comes to dating? If the chances for a stage five clinger werent so strong, I would date them casually. But as I said, before I prefer women my age for serious relationships.
Getting in a serious relationship with a 20 something gal has always end up being a waste of time for me. I dont plan to waste any more time getting into relationships that have no real future. Unless it's f-buddy😉
Totally
Hi Mebs,
Once again I say thank you to you guys on this site. Well after remaining calm and doing my own thing & not reacting I remembered something. When we were cool and I was hanging out with him & his sister awhile ago there was talk of him going away this weekend. Tomorrow is the 1 year anniversary of their mom's passing & they said they were going to visit family out of town.
Like I said before I am learning a lot during this time. We are both 37. His birthday is July 31, mine is Nov.26.
Once again I say thank you to you guys on this site. Well after remaining calm and doing my own thing & not reacting I remembered something. When we were cool and I was hanging out with him & his sister awhile ago there was talk of him going away this weekend. Tomorrow is the 1 year anniversary of their mom's passing & they said they were going to visit family out of town.
Like I said before I am learning a lot during this time. We are both 37. His birthday is July 31, mine is Nov.26.
Hi Mebs,
Once again I say thank you to you guys on this site. Well after remaining calm and doing my own thing & not reacting I remembered something. When we were cool and I was hanging out with him & his sister awhile ago there was talk of him going away this weekend. Tomorrow is the 1 year anniversary of their mom's passing & they said they were going to visit family out of town.
Like I said before I am learning a lot during this time. We are both 37. His birthday is July 31, mine is Nov.26.
Once again I say thank you to you guys on this site. Well after remaining calm and doing my own thing & not reacting I remembered something. When we were cool and I was hanging out with him & his sister awhile ago there was talk of him going away this weekend. Tomorrow is the 1 year anniversary of their mom's passing & they said they were going to visit family out of town.
Like I said before I am learning a lot during this time. We are both 37. His birthday is July 31, mine is Nov.26.
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