Mad bout this Sagittarius Guy

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Sanya on Monday, October 12, 2009 and has 75 replies.

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@calthrope
17 Years

Do you think your Sag guy will get jealous of you going out with his mates and this Cap guy?

If you love him "soooo much" then why isn't his offer of friendship good enough? Maybe that's all he's ready to give right now? If you love him you'll respect his space and needs and be glad to be his friend.

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@calthrope
17 Years

That's not an awful response! Friendship is utmost. Just because someone likes you and you're not giving them what they want doesn't mean they need to ignore you-i.e. her ignoring his friendly invite. Especially as she said she likes him so much, then she must see that having him in her life is better than nothing at all.

Stop being a sourpuss and call him, where's the excitement in missing him and not getting in touch? Spark and ignite and ignore those other Sag comments-blatantly from the bitter end of the spectrum.

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@calthrope
17 Years

"like a schoolgirl in heat?"

YES!! Why not?

"I don't try to speak for other people. Perhaps you should do the same"

Perhaps you should stop dampening young love eh?

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@calthrope
17 Years

You don't need to try to understand why he didn't respond in the way she may have hoped. What you can do is not dump your negative crap on it when you weren't there between them.

As a REAL Sag i can say i'd rightly tell a guy i liked that i wanted to be friends if i had things i needed to take care of.

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@Lunamistress
18 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

=/ two months no contact and when u said you had strong feelings for him and in response he said you were a "good friend" .....eh I don't think he was that into you and still isn't.

The party is for all friends to come, it didn't matter to him if you went or not, if he had really had feelings for you, he would have follow up and asked why you weren't there.

To which he replied in 10 min straight - "Am feeling much better than yesterday and a lot better than day before yesterday... "
He is just flirting. Don't read too much into it. You were right not to respond.

Gosh!!! I miss him so much and cant think anything other than him... I try keeping my self busy everyday but just a thought of him... Makes me miserable... I want him sooo much back.. I want to kiss him...

I can see this is really affecting you and you def have strong feelings for the Sag dude, but wake up girl, he is not that into you or it is probably the wrong timing and he doesn't want anything serious yet, no calls when u went on vacation, no calls within 2 months, no calls of why u didn't attend the party...they should all tell you he isn't going to reciprocate your feelings.

It has nothing to do with the fact he is sag or not. he is just any other that isn't into you. I am sorry if I am a bit harsh, but you need to wake up and move ON!!!

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@.trifles light as air.
16 Years1,000+ Posts

ok, i'm not trying to hype it up or anything. but the secret is, imo, one of the funniest/most epic things hidden in front of your eyes that dxp has to offer. mind you, i have no idea what other types of things exist here. so in theory it could actually be one of the lamest/least epic.

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@.trifles light as air.
16 Years1,000+ Posts

i only have one tattoo as of now. i'm glad you like it. 🙂 it's very personally symbolic and meaningful and all that stuff but i tried to keep it aesthetically appealing as well.

i definitely understand the fear of permanence. literally up until the day before i got this tattoo, i had no intention of ever getting one. who knows how i'll feel about it in 10 years. it's a part of me now though and i don't regret it.

i think, until you find something you feel similarly about (i.e. it's meaningful or beautiful enough to be at ease with its permanence) you're doing the right thing by walking out. for sure.

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

"
not you alone... most of the people with sags are like that..

as you put above >>>
we are back to fun world. And i enjoy all attention he gives when hes with me. Hugging.. Teasing.. Laughing!!!

Its awful to know and feel now he is not around now.. And me not gonna have all that I have enjoyed doing!!!

Maybe its not him BUT the life i was living with him...

thats so true... most people never cross this FUN time line and reach anywhere deeper with a sag..
then they wonder.. what happened.. why oh why.."

Oh my god, thats so fucking true and it's annoying as hell. It's like how people don't know libra's on the inside. People just like how much fun and joy the sag brings to their life all they can think about is how to pin them down for their own pleasure, like how people do the same w libras because they love the way they please them. Without ever thinking once on what this person may want, or how they feel/ think about things. It's like they get so blinded.

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@Lunamistress
18 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

So guys tell me one thing - Why Sagi Guys suddenly starts smoking or drinking? Am worried bout him as a friend... Can i do anything ( talk or request ) least to reduce his intake? Or should i just leave it?

No idea why he started smoking.. but you can make a comment about the smoking, he will probably joke about it. But asking him to reduce it is a no no. Sags don't like control and you are in no position to do it, he might find it annoying.

Am cool now guys... No not emotional.. Maybe this distance made me sick.. I will accept him as my friend.. No more expectation... Will move ON.. Let him enjoy way he wanted..

Good to hear 🙂

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Sanya, I don't know your whole story but I will answer the last question you posted on this thread:

It's a MAN thing to do when they lose interest in you. They try to avoid you at all cost because they don't like dealing with the problem and telling it to your face.

There's, obviously, nothing you can do now for the last situation, except maybe send him a text saying how you didn't appreciate this treatment and maybe you'll get an apology, but to learn and prevent it in future situations.

How to prevent it? Well it depends... what did you do in this situation that got things the way they are?

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

^^ Good luck, I'm kinda having a thing with a sag guy but he's actually coming on way too strong for my liking. I don't know what happened because he was fine before and now he's totally turning me off and I feel bad. He just needs to claim the fuck down. It's disappointing😢

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@jru2
17 Years500+ PostsSagittarius

So, sagiluv... would you rather have bri, s89, and WB whip your ass in front of all dxp land ... or have dinner w/ George Clooney, only to swallow a fly and have your coughing fit caught on tape.

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