My Sag has started seeing a Taurean

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Should I be worried? I'm a virgo and if you read my previous posts you will see that a lot has happened between me and my gorgeous sag, she has started to see this guy, albeit only once a week on a monday! very regimented! I see a difference in her from when we got together, we literally couldnt stop seeing each other, I left work to see her, we did everything in our power to be together, it was intense, passionate and exciting, looking from the outside she isnt the same with this guy but I suppose i can only see a certain amount, the thing is we chill out together in the nights and watch a film, she spends days with me and the kids so my assumptions are from that, however my experience with this mind blowing sag was different.

After reading posts on her about sag/taurus it doesnt look good.
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It depends....My ex husband is a Taurus, and our marriage was one of convenience...If he is an April taurus, they suck...May Tauruses are better....My first boyfriend was a May taurus, and we lasted for years...I broke up with him, because I fell in love with a Gemini, and the Taurus tried to beat him up...Needless to say, I should have kept Mr.Taurus rather than Mr. Gemini, because the Taurus truly loved me...He even wanted to leave his Capricorn wife for me once we reconnected. but I declined.
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Posted by Scorsagian21
Posted by Stryker77
I hope so, I think she is regretting it, she has taken 2 of the kids away for the weekend and I have the youngest with me, she planted a big kiss on my lips before leaving, yeeeehaaa!!



Not trying to ruin your kiss moment, but...
Dont give in too fast. It was that little talk you had with her that kinda made her think. She's not stupid. I don't know about your lady, but i'am very intuitive and I know when someone likes me a whole lot more than i like them. So if she's intutive to, she knows you love her a whole lot and she also knows she may not ever find someone like you again, so she knows she better not go to far from you just in case.
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word. your being way too agreeable.
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Yeah your both so right, I think the talk was good, I actually had a chance to speak without her telling me what's going down, it struck a chord I think, but yep your right, she clearly knows I'm the right one to be with and after seeing you guys talking about sagitarrians cutting people out of their life, this she has not done with me. I found letters, my pictures and cd's etc from me in a drawer in the house, she can't bring herself to wipe her hands of me. But I will keep my feet on the ground with this, it was just nice she kissed me sober and not drunk!
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I'm a dick, I lost it with her last night, saw the "guy" was around so I said that I was fed up of being a ddor mat for her etc, said that she was keeping me at arms length as back up, she flipped her lid, we have been back and forth over text, she says I'm selfish for wanting us back together because its only me who will gain, Im feel like shit now, all the hard work over the last few weeks has just dropped like a bomb and i'm back to square one.

My emotions are crazy at the moment and sometimes i cant handle them.

I think i may have pushed her too far......
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Hey guys, I appreciate your input and I'm not getting ahead of myself at all but I have worked hard at this and it's moving in the right direction, I'm not going to push it because I want her to WANT to be with me not HAVE to be with me.

Desperate? Maybe, but if I'm desperate because I want my family back together, then yeah I'm happy being labelled desperate.

I live this every day, maybe the snippets I leave on here don't tell a full story but I judge each situation as it is, rather than being the planning virgo I'm taking a leaf out of my sag's book and living each day as it comes. This has made me less anxious and relaxed around her which in turn warms her to me, she was happy last night and she initialised it, I've know her for 18 yrs, 6 of them in a relationship. She doesn't want to throw this away
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I love reading stories of men being excited about their women. So cute!



I agree, under the right circumstances..

Only she's not his anymore is she?

There's nothing cute about desperation.



He's hoping he can still win her over.



He shouldn't though. She's bullshitting him and I'm sure the sag ladies can see it too.
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i know i do
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...rather than being the planning virgo I'm taking a leaf out of my sag's book...

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Wow, out of all the things I have written you all pick up on one line??!! Do any of you know her name? No so pointless me saying "rather than being the planning virgo I'm taking a leaf out of k% *+% 's book" — You would all turn around and say who?!! I dont own her! I was referring to the only sag I know deeply, not the sag that lives down the road or the sag I once met years ago, the one I'm in love with.

Anyway things are getting better, so hopefully I can prove some of you guys wrong very soon and hopefully I'll be back with "my" sag soon LOL HA!
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Posted by Scorsagian21
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...rather than being the planning virgo I'm taking a leaf out of my sag's book...



Wow, out of all the things I have written you all pick up on one line??!! Do any of you know her name? No so pointless me saying "rather than being the planning virgo I'm taking a leaf out of k% *+% 's book" — You would all turn around and say who?!! I dont own her! I was referring to the only sag I know deeply, not the sag that lives down the road or the sag I once met years ago, the one I'm in love with.

Anyway things are getting better, so hopefully I can prove some of you guys wrong very soon and hopefully I'll be back with "my" sag soon LOL HA!



I really hope you get your sag girl back...
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Thankyou, Its so hard but i'll keep fighting for her, I'm still very much in her and the kids life, I'm concentrating too much on the negatives instead of the abundance of positives, even though i'm her ex, i'm still in her life, i'm with her on a daily basis in some form, she is looking forward to a trip to london next weekend to see a show and stay for the night, just the 2 of us, that in itself speaks volumes although I am aware this may come across as she is using me, but is she that low to use me like this? maybe she is but ive known this girl for 18 years and 6 we were together I dont think she would be comfortable within herself doing this to me, she has said her head is telling her to get back with me but her heart is reluctant, I'm just going to be the gent she needs in her life right now and be reliable, time will hopefully heal the rest.
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Posted by Scorsagian21
OP'S words:
she is looking forward to a trip to london next weekend to see a show and stay for the night, just the 2 of us, that in itself speaks volumes although I am aware this may come across as she is using me, but is she that low to use me like this?



@OP, You've known her longer and you know that's not her ways, so stay positive about the trip and just be you and loving. A man with a good sincere heart always gets to me.

I'am also like this. Nobody can pay me enough to go out with someone if i had no interest in him.
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Hey scorsagian21, that has really lifted me, that's a really great perspective, she has always said she has to be interested in someone to do anything, she clearly is still interested in me because we spend a lot of time together, clearly London is 2 days alone time for us, this she just wouldn't do with anyone, I am positive about this trip but I still have to be cool about it, thanks for this, you do remind me of her, you think in a similar way. She has always said I'm a gent to her and treat her and the kids well, this is keeping me in her life right now. Wish me luck
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Ok the Taurean is long gone and we are getting on really well again and we spend a lot of time together morning and night, i'm not pushing anything just waiting for her to pounce on me, flirtation is increasing daily and I have recently got a new job which means less hours and more pay, she was genuinely excited about this, super supportive too with the application etc.

Tell me if i'm wrong fellow Sag's but she has tested the water elewhwere and may have realised that she cant find a guy like me anywhere else?? however she doesnt want to show a sign of weakness by letting me back in to her life so soon so will let me suffer a bit longer?! I've been told a Sag will switch off and cut you out of her life but this one hasn't? we spend evenings together, we text, we chat, i'm the first person she speaks to with any important news, I sit in the bathroom chatting to her whilst she has a bath, its like old times.

We are off to london tomorrow for a little break so i'm looking forward to this and she is genuinely excited too, were going to see her favourite comedian, few drinks in to the night, I'll be a gent and look after her like I have always done. Being the sporty Sag she want to train in the morning! so thats planned too.

I cant wait and wish me luck guys, I really hope this will work and to be honest I think it will, tahnks for all your inputs so far.
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Posted by Ulalume
Well you definitely got the right Sag because the

stunt you pulled I wouldn't have gotten over so

easily. In any event kudos for you for getting

your love back. And by all means if she does allow

you back into her life don't fuck it up again with

all that duplicitous shit from last time. Good luck,

have fun and just be mindful not to accept just crumbs

from her. Make sure you're both on the same page going

forward in wanting to rebuild the relationship.



Hey cheers, I completely realise the magnitude of what I did and if this is a second chance, there is nothing on earth that will stop me from making sure this is right. I have changed, its been sobering and a real wake up call. She is a proper Sag and this is where I really thought that was it but she has a heart of gold inside that tough exterior, she knows that she was the happiest she could ever have been for the last 6 years until i fucked up.

I guess i'm doing something right that she still has me in her life, Im not going to let this beautiful sag down ever. I'm completely devoted to one woman, she knows this and that has enamoured her to me lately, I could have easily given up, gone straight in to another relationship with someone else but my heart just said no, keep fighting, there is a flicker still burning between us, keep fighting, its been tough and its still is, but slow progress is being made. I rave on to anyone who will listen about her, basically I rave on about sagittarius in general, I think they are awsome, 2 of my best friends are sag's, wicked temper but fiercely loyal to you. Love it.
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Hi guys, just want to thank you all for your input but a lot of you were right, it's officially over between the sag and me, she stopped seeing the Taurean and we were spending a lot of time together and generally getting closer and even culminated in us having sex last weekend but this weekend she said she was done and she basically disappeared to which I found out she is 100mph in to a young sag from the gym, so I give up, she said it's just casual but she can't forgive me it's too big, she swears blind she hasn't led me on or given me hope but I think that's a little damage control by her maybe.

I'm gutted but I guess I deserved it, kids still don't know and she still won't tell them, so I have told her to make sure she is 100% and that a piece of my heart will always be hers, she said that it's not the case I'm not good enough it's just she can't forgive.

So I don't know how serious this sag guy is, 11 yrs her junior and the prospect of taking on 3 kids?? I don't know, for me it's a new chapter, find someone new and enjoy the time I have with the kids.

Thanks for your input. I've learned so much.
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Thanks guys, I have a feeling too she is having fun but she really thrives on security in a relationship and this is what freaks me out that she is seeing all these young guys who won't be interested long term.

I don't know where I'll be but she still likes to keep putting the hooks in to keep me hanging on, but I'm cutting the string for the time being, I'm going to meet my friends Saturday and reconnect with them.

Thanks for your replies it's really intriguing learning about the sag, still fascinates me, she was the most positive influence on my life, I'm a better man through health and outlook because of her, amazing woman