my sassy sags, some advice please!

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scorpiosnow
@scorpiosnow
8 Years

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Ok so I'm utterly confused.

I kiiiiind of saw this sag a couple of years ago, we hooked up while drunk (no sex involved as I thought "He's a sag, if I give him sex now he'll never be in touch again and I'll feel like a god damn slut), and bumped into each other on nights out. A lotta flirting, a lotta tension building for each time we saw each other. I was careful with the guy since I didn't wanna get too emotionally involved with this free spirited sag and later on get hurt. Then all of a sudden one day when we were talking on facebook he turned all cold, like nothing had happened at all, he was just answering with "yes" "no" "cool" "i don't like pancakes". You guys get it. So I was like "well, this is exactly what I feared" (and was very thankful for not letting myself liking him too much although the sexual chemistry was undeniableeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee off the charts I say, off the charts). After that he just didn't write me anymore, and I wasn't gonna be a naggy clingy scorpio so I gave him space hoping he'd come around eventually. He never did, we stopped speaking. And I felt so so so down about it for so long, honestly, he was just the most intriguing person I had ever met and it was so god damn hard forgetting about him.

Eventually I got over this fling and I met the guy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together almost 2 years and everything is great although the spark seems to be off at times (he's a workaholic lawyer capricorn, no schocker there). Sometimes I feel as if he's taking me for granted a bit and doesn't really cater to my oversexual needs (lol), but other than that we're great, he's my best friend and I really feel like we're in this thing for the long haul.

Then BOOM, tonight the sag guy messaged me out of fucking NOWHERE. After ignoring me for 2 years he goes "hey how you doing?". Just like that. I literally stared at my screen. We're not even fb friends anymore, so he can't really be updated on my love life. I started talking to him casually, simply cause I was stunned by how he could wait that long and then turn up out of nowhere. He literally pretends like we never stopped speaking! He filled me in on his life, I filled him in a bit on mine, and then he started talking memories about that summer night we sat outside until 5am just kissing in a park and he said to this day I'm genuinly the "nicest and most beautiful girl he's ever met". He followed that up later by saying "I must say it's pretty crazy how after all this time I haven't been able to forget about you." THEN WHY THE FUCK DID YOU TURN THE COLD SHOULDER.

I told him good night in my confusion and now I'm sitting here like, wtf just happened. Bare in mind he had never said stuff like that before, then why does he go all emotional on me after this long amount of time?

I need some sag advice on this enigma of a boy
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DMV
@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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Ugh. I've used that line b4.

Look, take no stock in that.

He's bored and looking for a cure.

Don't tolerate that.

People who respect you, respect you in the beginning and not after all the time has passed.

Just recently I had a Virgo blast from the past try to okedoke me with that same.bs.

I know, cause I use those same lines.

He was cool and then he wasn't.

Don't come back years later wanting to be cool

You know what you did