New Sag Friend

I’ve been getting to know this Sagittarius I met about a month ago. And so far, we vibe really good. Conversations are always consistent. He tells me all about his day, damn near missing sleep to talk to me. So one day, we talk about our style s of sex. I admitted to liking to be took advantage of by my lover. Fast forward, our next sexual encounter. I allowed him to have his way with me to a certain extent. (I’m a Libra, that thrill only lasts for a second). He has been quite distant since. I wonder did I scare him by allowing him to be who he wants to be... I really like what we have so far. One day, he’s hypothetically asking relationships questions, the next he’s making cautious statements. Dude is real bi-polar. He’s a great friend. Is this normal with Sag men? It’s been years since I’ve dated one.

I like libra's. Good luck. I think sag men are obnoxious haha I could see how a nice scale lady could even them out though

He likes the idea of a relationship with you but isn't too sure.

Posted by DreamGenie

I’ve been getting to know this Sagittarius I met about a month ago. And so far, we vibe really good. Conversations are always consistent. He tells me all about his day, damn near missing sleep to talk to me. So one day, we talk about our style s of sex. I admitted to liking to be took advantage of by my lover. Fast forward, our next sexual encounter. I allowed him to have his way with me to a certain extent. (I’m a Libra, that thrill only lasts for a second). He has been quite distant since. I wonder did I scare him by allowing him to be who he wants to be... I really like what we have so far. One day, he’s hypothetically asking relationships questions, the next he’s making cautious statements. Dude is real bi-polar. He’s a great friend. Is this normal with Sag men? It’s been years since I’ve dated one.

"Dude is real bi-polar"

how do you know? talked to his doctor?

"He is a great friend"

again, how do you know? what does it mean to you beeing a "great friend"?

"I really like what we have so far. "

What exactly do you have so far?

sorry for all the questions, I am not sure what is your question really.... like if he is okey to be your sex-toy and vice-versa, or what? "Fast forward, our next sexual encounter."

I am a bit confused about what you have....

and, you told him you like him to be in charge... he just did what you requested... maybe he was taken aback about your false uncharacteristic bluntness? 🙂

you love somebody else, who is not available... right?

For the record, we're not bipolar at all. If something sets us off or we don't trust a situation, we'll change course on a heartbeat. OP, there's something you're leaving out because your narrative is short on actual details as to what all has happened and heavy on the criticism/downing of the Sag as if this situation is his fault. I'm not saying you're a bad person, but something about you set off his instincts and he doesn't trust the situation. Remember we're half horse and a horse has to trust the rider 😉

I do this. I pull back after sex when it's seems to get too deep too fast. What are his venus and mars placements?

If you message him and he answers, all is good. When I have sex with someone and it feels really intimate, I pull away so that I don't look so thirsty lol I don't know if it's only one sided or not so I will step back.