sole2
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Sag ex came back
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Read this -
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/secrets-of-the-push-pull-5073044/
and this....
http://www.modernmalelife style .com/Article/Push-Pull-Technique-Unpredictable
Posted by sole2
I wasn't excited to hear from him, and I felt wary. I was moving on and starting to feel better and recovering from the bad break up. Now he pops out of the blue. I responded with 'missed you too, how are you?'. After that he became cold, took hours to reply, etc.
This makes zero sense.
You've been disrespected and instead of valuing your own feelings you are more concerned with coddling his.
Was this all online and have you ever met in person?click to expand
Thank you!! Maybe that is what he is up to...I miss him and love him a lot. But I was moving on because I know I deserve better. You're right - I'm protecting his feelings and he doesn't do the same for me. I was just shocked because I heard when a sag blocks and ignores you it means they are done for good - so I expected to never hear from him again.
Online - was going to meet in a few months. But we talked every day, had become part of each others routines with Skype and phone calls and text messages. I'd even been introduced to his brothers on Skype which is a huge deal - in his culture you don't involve family unless you are absolutely committed. Even during the rocky patch before the break-up I'd still talk to his brothers occasionally.
I would give him another chance if he was willing to cut the inappropriateness with other women. That's why I bothered to reply to him yesterday. If I knew he was going to start being an ass again I wouldn't have wasted my time.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Read this -
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/secrets-of-the-push-pull-5073044/
and this....
http://www.modernmalelife style .com/Article/Push-Pull-Technique-Unpredictable
i swear is this not the answer to everything posted on DXP. makes me sick to my stomach.
How do you know he became cold? because he didnt respond immediately?
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by DMVPosted by TwirlingStrawberry
Read this -
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/secrets-of-the-push-pull-5073044/
and this....
http://www.modernmalelife style .com/Article/Push-Pull-Technique-Unpredictable
i swear is this not the answer to everything posted on DXP. makes me sick to my stomach.
thanks for posting that.
I swear I was sick after reading it.
what kind of bullshit is that?click to expand
it was hard for me to read. I was really sickening to know that whether it comes natural to them or not, that there are men out there would purposely play with your emotions just to increase their self esteem. Meanwhile yours take a big dump.
why on earth would you want to trick someone into liking you?
Posted by DMV
How do you know he became cold? because he didnt respond immediately?
Not just that from 'babe, morning, I miss you' to a cold tone. I asked him why are you back? He said 'I just wanted'. No explanation.
So I asked, 'what do you want? want me back? want friendship?'
Hours later...he says 'No. I just wanted to write something'.
He is totally closed off.
Posted by DMVPosted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by DMVPosted by TwirlingStrawberry
Read this -
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/secrets-of-the-push-pull-5073044/
and this....
http://www.modernmalelife style .com/Article/Push-Pull-Technique-Unpredictable
i swear is this not the answer to everything posted on DXP. makes me sick to my stomach.
thanks for posting that.
I swear I was sick after reading it.
what kind of bullshit is that?
it was hard for me to read. I was really sickening to know that whether it comes natural to them or not, that there are men out there would purposely play with your emotions just to increase their self esteem. Meanwhile yours take a big dump.
why on earth would you want to trick someone into liking you?
click to expand
Exactly - if she is tricked into it's not genuine. It's a game and trap she fell into. IMO the men who feel they need to do it are insecure predators.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by DMVPosted by TwirlingStrawberry
Read this -
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/secrets-of-the-push-pull-5073044/
and this....
http://www.modernmalelife style .com/Article/Push-Pull-Technique-Unpredictable
i swear is this not the answer to everything posted on DXP. makes me sick to my stomach.
thanks for posting that.
I swear I was sick after reading it.
what kind of bullshit is that?click to expand
+1
Posted by sole2Posted by DMV
How do you know he became cold? because he didnt respond immediately?
Not just that from 'babe, morning, I miss you' to a cold tone. I asked him why are you back? He said 'I just wanted'. No explanation.
So I asked, 'what do you want? want me back? want friendship?'
Hours later...he says 'No. I just wanted to write something'.
He is totally closed off.click to expand
i wouldnt waste your time. He's full of air literally (gemini and aqua). He was being 100% honest. he just wanted to write something.
Posted by DMVPosted by sole2Posted by DMV
How do you know he became cold? because he didnt respond immediately?
Not just that from 'babe, morning, I miss you' to a cold tone. I asked him why are you back? He said 'I just wanted'. No explanation.
So I asked, 'what do you want? want me back? want friendship?'
Hours later...he says 'No. I just wanted to write something'.
He is totally closed off.
i wouldnt waste your time. He's full of air literally (gemini and aqua). He was being 100% honest. he just wanted to write something.click to expand
Yup. I think he missed me and contacted me on impulse, then changed his mind afterwards. Now I'm debating if I should write him not to contact me anymore for my own closure. Or just act like nothing happened and just ignore it ever happened. If I write him he may get an ego trip by seeing I am still affected by him. But if I just let it go I may not feel that I got closure. My horoscope for this week said I should be strong and firm so if I get nothing else I will at least be respected by the person.
I completely agree Sole. Theyre the insecure one. How could you, with a clear mind, decide that your going to fuck with another human beings emotions??
Posted by sole2Posted by DMVPosted by sole2Posted by DMV
How do you know he became cold? because he didnt respond immediately?
Not just that from 'babe, morning, I miss you' to a cold tone. I asked him why are you back? He said 'I just wanted'. No explanation.
So I asked, 'what do you want? want me back? want friendship?'
Hours later...he says 'No. I just wanted to write something'.
He is totally closed off.
i wouldnt waste your time. He's full of air literally (gemini and aqua). He was being 100% honest. he just wanted to write something.
Yup. I think he missed me and contacted me on impulse, then changed his mind afterwards. Now I'm debating if I should write him not to contact me anymore for my own closure. Or just act like nothing happened and just ignore it ever happened. If I write him he may get an ego trip by seeing I am still affected by him. But if I just let it go I may not feel that I got closure. My horoscope for this week said I should be strong and firm so if I get nothing else I will at least be respected by the person.click to expand
i wouldnt write back. Its letting him know that by communicating your still IN it somehow someway. you know?
id just put a block on him.
Posted by DMVPosted by sole2Posted by DMVPosted by sole2Posted by DMV
How do you know he became cold? because he didnt respond immediately?
Not just that from 'babe, morning, I miss you' to a cold tone. I asked him why are you back? He said 'I just wanted'. No explanation.
So I asked, 'what do you want? want me back? want friendship?'
Hours later...he says 'No. I just wanted to write something'.
He is totally closed off.
i wouldnt waste your time. He's full of air literally (gemini and aqua). He was being 100% honest. he just wanted to write something.
Yup. I think he missed me and contacted me on impulse, then changed his mind afterwards. Now I'm debating if I should write him not to contact me anymore for my own closure. Or just act like nothing happened and just ignore it ever happened. If I write him he may get an ego trip by seeing I am still affected by him. But if I just let it go I may not feel that I got closure. My horoscope for this week said I should be strong and firm so if I get nothing else I will at least be respected by the person.
i wouldnt write back. Its letting him know that by communicating your still IN it somehow someway. you know?
id just put a block on him.click to expand
My horoscope says 'The beginning of the week may not be the easiest time, emotionally speaking, but no matter what, you can be strong...and if someone deserves it call them on any bull.'
He knows I still love him, I fought hard for that relationship, no way I could be over him in less than two weeks. I think I need to stand up for myself now, he may have an ego trip for a moment, but when it sinks in again a few weeks later I won't be interested in hearing it again.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I am having a helluva time being able to post today. Stupid site!
Posted by DMVi wouldnt waste your time. He's full of air literally (gemini and aqua). He was being 100% honest. he just wanted to write something.
This ^^^^^
Don't gauge his feelings and actions in the same manner as you would your own.
*You* might respond this way if you were closed off.
*He* might respond this way simply because he felt the urge to with absolutely nothing behind it.
Don't read into things and take everything he says at face value. If he has no actions to back it up....i.e. continuing your plans to meet each other in a few months would be a great benchmark to watch his actions....than it really is time to move on because he's toying with you.
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You guys are right.
Nope...once we made plans everything ended - we were done with each other. That's why I couldn't understand why he wrote me back - he had blocked me and I'd accepted and started to move on. Now I'm back at square one. I want to give him a piece of my mind, don't care if he feels important because of it, I need to release the anger I am feeling now so I can go back to moving on.
Yeah you're right. As we are speaking he just sent me a picture on whatsapp - I'm just going to ignore it. Why does he keep trying to communicate if he supposedly doesn't want a friendship or want me back?
You're right - he's playing a game.
I'll keep quiet for a few days, if he doesn't stop I'll delete and block him.
You're right - he's playing a game.
I'll keep quiet for a few days, if he doesn't stop I'll delete and block him.
Thats what air signs do. They never shutup lol
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It had to be done... im a bit still confused at times and i do miss him but it had to be done...
I was nagging and complaining because I felt his interactions with other women were inappropriate and he didn't get it. Once I caught him flirting with a woman online which I forgave and let go. Then he went out with a woman friend, didn't tell me about it, ignored my text that whole day (which he never did before). He posted pictures of their meeting on fb (they rarely see each other because she lives far away). In the pictures her hands were all over him and she clearly looked like a woman in love. I tried to tell him to have boundaries with other women (it was obvious in the pictures that he is not attracted or in love with her, but I know he enjoys attention from women so he went along with her PDA for an ego boost).
Until this point I'd given him tons of space, wasn't needy. But these things pushed me over the edge and I admit I became needy, suspicious when he went out with friends (before I never cared). It went downhill. Again I tried to communicate with him about it because even I didn't like what I'd become, he got angry, called me an asshole...we broke up.
Now barely two weeks of no contact he unblocks me and sends a text with 'babe, morning, I missed you' like nothing happened and we haven't been broken up for 2 weeks! I wasn't excited to hear from him, and I felt wary. I was moving on and starting to feel better and recovering from the bad break up. Now he pops out of the blue. I responded with 'missed you too, how are you?'. After that he became cold, took hours to reply, etc. Then I asked him why is he back and what does he want. He said he just wanted to write me, but he doesn't want friendship or to be back with me. I decided to end the convo by saying 'I think you miss me but you are still angry. don't have to talk about it. thanks for writing, good night'. He replied with 'good night' and that was the last we talked.
I believe he is still hurt and angry.
Would love to hear their thoughts from other sags. I don't want to be an ego boost for him whenever he is lonely and missing me. I don't want him to write me every time he has the impulse to do so. So what does he really want? He has aqua venus, Gemini moon and scorp merc.