Sag guy is flirty on text but shy in person?

Before we met he seems flirty on text. When we met he didn't even give me a hug as a greeting, but he kept extending the date by lingering, asking me for a walk. Then asked me what I want to do next. I told him I got things to take care of later and he gave me a lift home. Even then he didn't hug me goodbye. He said he really like to see me again if I'm also interested. I told him yes.

15 minutes later he sent me a flirty text and saying he can't wait to invite me over to play video games with him. I said lets see how things goes. 2 days later he sent me a last minute text to say let him know if I like to have dinner after work. I already have plans and I told him to plan ahead. He said ok tomorrow?

He told me he is shy when we are in person. however his text are quiet forward. Capricorn Venus, Virgo Mars might have made him a bit more reserve?

Yeah, probably because of the other placements, but it could be also because of you. I mean, do you flirt with him on the date, are you shy then, or serious? Maybe he gets an impression on the date that you are not too interested, so that is why he is unsure. I mean, if your signals are mixed on the date. Especially if he is attracted a lot, like he is, it could be also that. We love when the girl is very feminine and flirty on the date. It fuels our fire... 🙂 What is your sign?

Posted by ozzzy
Yeah, probably because of the other placements, but it could be also because of you. I mean, do you flirt with him on the date, are you shy then, or serious? Maybe he gets an impression on the date that you are not too interested, so that is why he is unsure. I mean, if your signals are mixed on the date. Especially if he is attracted a lot, like he is, it could be also that. We love when the girl is very feminine and flirty on the date. It fuels our fire... 🙂 What is your sign?

I'm Virgo I never thought Virgo and sag are meant to be compatible?

Second date went well, he didn't hug me, but he linger again afterwards, he likes to tease me with silly banter, we went for a walk, he asked when is my birthday and we dropped me off. 10 mins later he asked for third date via text.

He has sag sun, gem moon, scorp Mercury, cap Venus, Virgo mars

I have Virgo sun, aqua moon, Virgo mercury, Leo Venus and mars

Well, I know some Sag Virgo couples, there is almost always that physical attraction. I was recently attracted to one girl which I found out that she is a Virgo...I liked her physically (I think it was mutual), but through the conversations also, so I was curious to find out.

But then, she was in a relationship, and that is when I lose interest, so I didn't had a chance to explore it. But I do know that on the long term it is not a good match because Virgo would try to change an adventure driven Sag, which is impossible, and that is where is the main problem. Sags are too unstable for Virgos. But, considering that he has some earth and water planets also, it could work.

Although I do find it strange that he didn't kissed you yet, but still invites you on the dates...how old is he? I was like that like a teen, when I was not so sure and confident...

You didn't told me do you flirt with him via text or in person, or not? How do you behave, just formal, or?

I have a Sag brother with this same placements(Cap Venus and Virgo Mars)he's really shy with women when he is with them but he's better at sexting.Help the brother out Lol,make him feel at ease when he's with u.what's his moon sign?

@ozzzy he is 36. he kinda tried to hold my hand today but not really. he likes to tease me in person but would still give me compliment about my looks. I don't really flirt wtih him. I just be playful and tease him back when he starts it.

He asked for third date, but I'm not free on that day and suggested another day. He flirts on text like saying if I don't get to see you soon you have to send me a photo so I don't forget how beautiful you are,

He hasn't been travelling for couple of years. Also He said he is introvert who doesn't like people to know about his birthday, As he doesn't want to draw any attention at work or restaurant seems to like dark color clothes only. i find this to be a bit unusual for a sag!

Posted by Udylaw
I have a Sag brother with this same placements(Cap Venus and Virgo Mars)he's really shy with women when he is with them but he's better at sexting.Help the brother out Lol,make him feel at ease when he's with u.what's his moon sign?

I don't move fast physically, so Idk how to help him LOL he has gemini moon and scropio mercury. is that the same as your brother?

Its ok not to move fast,but I wasn't talking about moving fast physically Lol.My brother has Scorpio mercury too but capricorn moon .I think he likes you a lot,since he's inviting u on other dates.I don't know what u want out of this but goodluck.Lol

Posted by Poppyseeds
@ozzzy he is 36. he kinda tried to hold my hand today but not really. he likes to tease me in person but would still give me compliment about my looks. I don't really flirt wtih him. I just be playful and tease him back when he starts it.

He asked for third date, but I'm not free on that day and suggested another day. He flirts on text like saying if I don't get to see you soon you have to send me a photo so I don't forget how beautiful you are,

He hasn't been travelling for couple of years. Also He said he is introvert who doesn't like people to know about his birthday, As he doesn't want to draw any attention at work or restaurant seems to like dark color clothes only. i find this to be a bit unusual for a sag!

He's 36, and behaves like that. Jeez...he should have overcome it by now. It's like he doesn't have many experience with girls.

And about texting, well, girls are like that too, maybe many people in general...to be much more free over text...

Those are my placement. Mars virgo/venus cap.

I tend to be shy on dates. Takes me awhile to get going.

3 dates is awesome!

@ozzzy Gone are the days when people talk on the phone, people prefer to text these days especially guys! If he wasn't so keen to keep asking me out I would have label him as not interested.

@notsosure @tiziani He has good sense of humor in person, he gives me compliment and also poke fun of me and we have silly banter. I was just curious as it's the first time I date a sag. I had other sag guys chased me before and they were players and I just stay away from them. He seems very different to them.

@DMV you never strike me as a shy girl haha it's cute to be shy on dates. only 2 dates so far. third is coming as he's been asking.

Anyway his words in person tells me he is introvert, but his action on text says he is a big flirt. It's hard to tell

He is out with his male friends and he asked me to join them...

Posted by Poppyseeds
He is out with his male friends and he asked me to join them...

If you were attractive may be he is just trying to show you off. Depends on how late he invite you, he could be trying to get some. Did you ended up going?

No I didn't go, if he asked in the day time I might have try to arrange my time to meet them.

The next day he asked hows my weekend looking, then he told me he is now relaxing and asked me what should he do?

I was busy and took me a few hours to reply. I said something funny, then no respond. He never go without hrs not speaking to me.. even during boys night he text me.

May be thrill of the chase is gone or he is now chasing someone else... who knows.

Posted by Poppyseeds

Posted by ozzzy
Yeah, probably because of the other placements, but it could be also because of you. I mean, do you flirt with him on the date, are you shy then, or serious? Maybe he gets an impression on the date that you are not too interested, so that is why he is unsure. I mean, if your signals are mixed on the date. Especially if he is attracted a lot, like he is, it could be also that. We love when the girl is very feminine and flirty on the date. It fuels our fire... 🙂 What is your sign?

I'm Virgo I never thought Virgo and sag are meant to be compatible?

Second date went well, he didn't hug me, but he linger again afterwards, he likes to tease me with silly banter, we went for a walk, he asked when is my birthday and we dropped me off. 10 mins later he asked for third date via text.

He has sag sun, gem moon, scorp Mercury, cap Venus, Virgo mars

I have Virgo sun, aqua moon, Virgo mercury, Leo Venus and mars

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@instantkarma I don't have his birthtime so I can't get the chart. Just wondering if you would be able to tell about his personality from these placement pretty please? 🙂

Posted by Poppyseeds
No I didn't go, if he asked in the day time I might have try to arrange my time to meet them.

The next day he asked hows my weekend looking, then he told me he is now relaxing and asked me what should he do?

I was busy and took me a few hours to reply. I said something funny, then no respond. He never go without hrs not speaking to me.. even during boys night he text me.

May be thrill of the chase is gone or he is now chasing someone else... who knows.

Never met a loyal sag. He probably is juggling a few at a time. I doubt he is the shy guy he try to portrait himself as.