Sagittarius gold digger

Are Sagittarius women gold diggers. I have noticed that a lot of Sag women like the high quality life style s. Recently I have seen a large quantities of Sag females rocking Gucci, Louis Vuitton etc. Driving luxury cars like Mercedes. I guess they are attracted to that European high class life style which is Libra. Libra is Venus and Venus is beauty and luxury. Plus Libra goes well with Sag. So do Sagittarius women look for a guy who is financially capable or who can provide that life style or are they not to care about that.

Nah, I could care less about designer shiz. Luxury? Pass.

i met a sag girl at a business seminar/course once (it was like a week-long seminar/course) and we became friends and hung out for the duration of the course. i wanted to pay for her lunch but it was such a battle to get her to agree. she eventually agreed. but then she would always be like “ok then can i at least buy you coffee?!?! i feel bad.” and if i said no, she would bring something from home or a store she passed on the way to the seminar to give it to me. 😂 (muffins she baked, energy bars she bought at the store etc)

it was funny how she couldn’t just allow me to buy her lunch and she felt like she had to give something back 😂 i was thinking like wtf just relax 😂 i dunno about sag women in general but that one was really tripping over herself to be reciprocal 😂 i didn’t get it. and this wasn’t even some weird romantic situation. she knew i was gay and she was even married so we were just temporary friends spending every day of the seminar sitting next to each other so we could share ideas/do group work together and go to lunch together during the one hour break.

she was really nice lol 😂

also like, don’t worry about anyone “digging for gold” unless you’re like super duper loaded/rich 😅 there’s nothing wrong with liking the finer things in life if you can afford it.

Yes. My ex wife drives Mercedes, wears Louis Vuitton and rocks Gucci. They also live in huge houses. My ex wife had Moon in Taurus though, so that explains a lot. They always come to the "ready". They kind of don't build anything with you.

If you're a Cancer, it's still the best pair for sex. That's what those 2 have in common. It's a good girl. Cold though.

Nope I could care less about those type of cars. More a down to earth girl and I always earned what I got. Somehow always ended up the breadwinner.

As a Venus in Capricorn, yes…everything matters, especially your bank account.

I don’t want you coming after my money

I don’t want no bums around

If you’re broke and cute, you may hold my attention for a smooth week but that’s it. I’ll move on to better suited options

Somehow I feel Sagittarius women are gold diggers. They always begging me for money every chance they get. Out of all the men around to beg for money I'm the only one they feel comfortable begging. I think women nowadays only want me for my money. The minute I go broke they want nothing to do with me. My charming looks and my money is all they care about. They don't care a least bit about me more than a man on the moon.

As far as anything else I never know any Sagittarius women to be into fancy cars, Gucci, loui Vuitton, jewelery, or even dont care much about getting their hair and nails done. The one I was with previously act like she was a queen that act like she couldn't go no where without looking cute for the world. I just want a woman who feel confident within themselves without hiding their true and natural appeal under make up. But it's too late for that now cus now I just like my alone and private time to myself.

Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.

Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.

OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.

Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.

OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

Exactly

No gold to dig out neways

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Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.
OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

Exactly

No gold to dig out neways

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Fascinating that it’s always men with no gold worried about the digging. 😆🤣

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Somehow I feel Sagittarius women are gold diggers. They always begging me for money every chance they get. Out of all the men around to beg for money I'm the only one they feel comfortable begging. I think women nowadays only want me for my money. The minute I go broke they want nothing to do with me. My charming looks and my money is all they care about. They don't care a least bit about me more than a man on the moon.

You are Gemini you guys have games though

Posted by Shamalamadingdongmcshlong
Way to trigger the middle aged spinsters, bro.

You wouldn’t even get the spinster with your outdated diss.

Posted by Shamalamadingdongmcshlong
lmao. If I wanted fuck something old, stiff and dried up, I'd stick my dick in a dead tree.

Going by your outdated disses, I believe dead tree is all you’re getting anyways.

Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.

Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.

OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

i feel like if a man feels like he is attracting solely “opportunistic folks” ( i don’t like the term gold digger so i’ll just use opportunistic instead lol) then that actually means he wasn’t able to catch a woman’s attention with anything else besides his finances. it’s a sad but honest truth.

it means women aren’t attracted to his personality or who he is as a person or his mind so these women have no other choice but to focus on his finances (something that’s at least immediately visible/tangible).

so instead of being sad about attracting opportunistic folks, a man should put more effort into becoming an interesting person who has a lot to offer in other departments too besides just money.

having money as a man is still a must though cuz being a bum with no motivation or ambition is unattractive. 😅 and if a dude is currently a bum, he should be working towards getting money. i don’t even know how broke dudes sleep at night. if i was broke, i wouldn’t sleep. like how tf can you sleep??😅

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Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.
OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

i feel like if a man feels like he is attracting solely “opportunistic folks” ( i don’t like the term gold digger so i’ll just use opportunistic instead lol) then that actually means he wasn’t able to catch a woman’s attention with anything else besides his finances. it’s a sad but honest truth.

it means women aren’t attracted to his personality or who he is as a person or his mind so these women have no other choice but to focus on his finances (something that’s at least immediately visible/tangible).

so instead of being sad about attracting opportunistic folks, a man should put more effort into becoming an interesting person who has a lot to offer in other departments too besides just money.

having money as a man is still a must though cuz being a bum with no motivation or ambition is unattractive. 😅 and if a dude is currently a bum, he should be working towards getting money. i don’t even know how broke dudes sleep at night. if i was broke, i wouldn’t sleep. like how tf can you sleep??😅

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I don’t think being a bum flies as a woman nowadays either. There was a time a woman could get away because no one asked what she did. Presently, everyone asks a woman what she does professionally (men and women). I personally like it that way because I never liked the old era where a physically and mentally able woman was unnecessarily made handicapped. I know the helpless that comes from being financially dependent on someone. The shit you have to put up with. I never lived in a third world country but I am well aware about the plight of women in those countries. My mom told me how widowed daughter in laws were secretly raped by her husband’s brothers because she and the surviving children were dependent on the uncle. Countless sad stories. I feel women should feel empowered by something of substance like good deeds and financial stability she’s acquired herself, not by stripping and mooching off a man.

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Somehow I feel Sagittarius women are gold diggers. They always begging me for money every chance they get. Out of all the men around to beg for money I'm the only one they feel comfortable begging. I think women nowadays only want me for my money. The minute I go broke they want nothing to do with me. My charming looks and my money is all they care about. They don't care a least bit about me more than a man on the moon.

You are Gemini you guys have games though

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I don't know I always feel like I'm suck at communicating. There's a reason I try to avoid contact with people by turning the other way. You might not believe this but I actually do run away from women.

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Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.
OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

i feel like if a man feels like he is attracting solely “opportunistic folks” ( i don’t like the term gold digger so i’ll just use opportunistic instead lol) then that actually means he wasn’t able to catch a woman’s attention with anything else besides his finances. it’s a sad but honest truth.
it means women aren’t attracted to his personality or who he is as a person or his mind so these women have no other choice but to focus on his finances (something that’s at least immediately visible/tangible).
so instead of being sad about attracting opportunistic folks, a man should put more effort into becoming an interesting person who has a lot to offer in other departments too besides just money.
having money as a man is still a must though cuz being a bum with no motivation or ambition is unattractive. 😅 and if a dude is currently a bum, he should be working towards getting money. i don’t even know how broke dudes sleep at night. if i was broke, i wouldn’t sleep. like how tf can you sleep??😅
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I don’t think being a bum flies as a woman nowadays either. There was a time a woman could get away because no one asked what she did. Presently, everyone asks a woman what she does professionally (men and women). I personally like it that way because I never liked the old era where a physically and mentally able woman was unnecessarily made handicapped. I know the helpless that comes from being financially dependent on someone. The shit you have to put up with. I never lived in a third world country but I am well aware about the plight of women in those countries. My mom told me how widowed daughter in laws were secretly raped by her husband’s brothers because she and the surviving children were dependent on the uncle. Countless sad stories. I feel women should feel empowered by something of substance like good deeds and financial stability she’s acquired herself, not by stripping and mooching off a man.

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wow that story your mom told you is horrific 😱 can’t believe they would take advantage of a grieving widow like that wtf 😱 so messed up.

as far as having your own life outside of him, yeah i think that’s a good way of thinking.

being fully dependent on someone is kinda scary/risky even if you trust that person a hundred percent. it’s always wise to have an escape plan in case something goes horribly wrong. but knowing you, i think you’re smart enough to sense major red flags in men before ever tying the knot lol personally as a guy though, i don’t really care what a woman does for a living as long as she’s not a call girl/escort or anything like that lol 😂 most men just want a loyal woman who doesn’t stress him out lol we don’t wanna walk on eggshells all day 😅lol we’re pretty simple for the most part lol 😂

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Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.

i feel like if a man feels like he is attracting solely “opportunistic folks” ( i don’t like the term gold digger so i’ll just use opportunistic instead lol) then that actually means he wasn’t able to catch a woman’s attention with anything else besides his finances. it’s a sad but honest truth.
it means women aren’t attracted to his personality or who he is as a person or his mind so these women have no other choice but to focus on his finances (something that’s at least immediately visible/tangible).
so instead of being sad about attracting opportunistic folks, a man should put more effort into becoming an interesting person who has a lot to offer in other departments too besides just money.
having money as a man is still a must though cuz being a bum with no motivation or ambition is unattractive. 😅 and if a dude is currently a bum, he should be working towards getting money. i don’t even know how broke dudes sleep at night. if i was broke, i wouldn’t sleep. like how tf can you sleep??😅
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I don’t think being a bum flies as a woman nowadays either. There was a time a woman could get away because no one asked what she did. Presently, everyone asks a woman what she does professionally (men and women). I personally like it that way because I never liked the old era where a physically and mentally able woman was unnecessarily made handicapped. I know the helpless that comes from being financially dependent on someone. The shit you have to put up with. I never lived in a third world country but I am well aware about the plight of women in those countries. My mom told me how widowed daughter in laws were secretly raped by her husband’s brothers because she and the surviving children were dependent on the uncle. Countless sad stories. I feel women should feel empowered by something of substance like good deeds and financial stability she’s acquired herself, not by stripping and mooching off a man.
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wow that story your mom told you is horrific 😱 can’t believe they would take advantage of a grieving widow like that wtf 😱 so messed up.

as far as having your own life outside of him, yeah i think that’s a good way of thinking.

being fully dependent on someone is kinda scary/risky even if you trust that person a hundred percent. it’s always wise to have an escape plan in case something goes horribly wrong. but knowing you, i think you’re smart enough to sense major red flags in men before ever tying the knot lol personally as a guy though, i don’t really care what a woman does for a living as long as she’s not a call girl/escort or anything like that lol 😂 most men just want a loyal woman who doesn’t stress him out lol we don’t wanna walk on eggshells all day 😅lol we’re pretty simple for the most part lol 😂

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There’s countless stories like that. It’s quite sad and I personally never want to be in a helpless situation like that. I’m an Aqua stellium so I always need an exit route ready to take at the first sight of any disrespect.

I don’t think men are that simple. They are at first when they are trying to get laid and everything is centered on that. Men get complicated when they develop feelings for a woman. The insecurities come out and everything else that is not so simple like that of women. For example, you’ve probably seen multitude of men who try to get with scantily clad women who are also social media fiend. No issues dating and sleeping with them at the beginning. As soon as they get serious with that girl, they start to change her or demand that she change. Happens all the time. It’s manipulative and unfair just like what most women do (get with a dude and then try to change him).

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Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.
OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

i feel like if a man feels like he is attracting solely “opportunistic folks” ( i don’t like the term gold digger so i’ll just use opportunistic instead lol) then that actually means he wasn’t able to catch a woman’s attention with anything else besides his finances. it’s a sad but honest truth.
it means women aren’t attracted to his personality or who he is as a person or his mind so these women have no other choice but to focus on his finances (something that’s at least immediately visible/tangible).
so instead of being sad about attracting opportunistic folks, a man should put more effort into becoming an interesting person who has a lot to offer in other departments too besides just money.
having money as a man is still a must though cuz being a bum with no motivation or ambition is unattractive. 😅 and if a dude is currently a bum, he should be working towards getting money. i don’t even know how broke dudes sleep at night. if i was broke, i wouldn’t sleep. like how tf can you sleep??😅
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I don’t think being a bum flies as a woman nowadays either. There was a time a woman could get away because no one asked what she did. Presently, everyone asks a woman what she does professionally (men and women). I personally like it that way because I never liked the old era where a physically and mentally able woman was unnecessarily made handicapped. I know the helpless that comes from being financially dependent on someone. The shit you have to put up with. I never lived in a third world country but I am well aware about the plight of women in those countries. My mom told me how widowed daughter in laws were secretly raped by her husband’s brothers because she and the surviving children were dependent on the uncle. Countless sad stories. I feel women should feel empowered by something of substance like good deeds and financial stability she’s acquired herself, not by stripping and mooching off a man.
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wow that story your mom told you is horrific 😱 can’t believe they would take advantage of a grieving widow like that wtf 😱 so messed up.
as far as having your own life outside of him, yeah i think that’s a good way of thinking.
being fully dependent on someone is kinda scary/risky even if you trust that person a hundred percent. it’s always wise to have an escape plan in case something goes horribly wrong. but knowing you, i think you’re smart enough to sense major red flags in men before ever tying the knot lol personally as a guy though, i don’t really care what a woman does for a living as long as she’s not a call girl/escort or anything like that lol 😂 most men just want a loyal woman who doesn’t stress him out lol we don’t wanna walk on eggshells all day 😅lol we’re pretty simple for the most part lol 😂
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There’s countless stories like that. It’s quite sad and I personally never want to be in a helpless situation like that. I’m an Aqua stellium so I always need an exit route ready to take at the first sight of any disrespect.

I don’t think men are that simple. They are at first when they are trying to get laid and everything is centered on that. Men get complicated when they develop feelings for a woman. The insecurities come out and everything else that is not so simple like that of women. For example, you’ve probably seen multitude of men who try to get with scantily clad women who are also social media fiend. No issues dating and sleeping with them at the beginning. As soon as they get serious with that girl, they start to change her or demand that she change. Happens all the time. It’s manipulative and unfair just like what most women do (get with a dude and then try to change him).

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when dudes get into a stable relationship or marriage, they get a little territorial because now they feel like they gotta protect their investments in a way. they spent a lot of time, energy, resources on that person to get to that point so they wanna protect that. we don’t care about some eye candy on instagram that doesn’t belong to us. that’s nothing more than eye candy. it’s like public property 😅 (no disrespect to the eye candy but i’m just being blunt for the sake of this convo) we’re not emotionally, mentally, or even financially invested in that eye candy. you know what i mean? 😅

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Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.
OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

i feel like if a man feels like he is attracting solely “opportunistic folks” ( i don’t like the term gold digger so i’ll just use opportunistic instead lol) then that actually means he wasn’t able to catch a woman’s attention with anything else besides his finances. it’s a sad but honest truth.
it means women aren’t attracted to his personality or who he is as a person or his mind so these women have no other choice but to focus on his finances (something that’s at least immediately visible/tangible).
so instead of being sad about attracting opportunistic folks, a man should put more effort into becoming an interesting person who has a lot to offer in other departments too besides just money.
having money as a man is still a must though cuz being a bum with no motivation or ambition is unattractive. 😅 and if a dude is currently a bum, he should be working towards getting money. i don’t even know how broke dudes sleep at night. if i was broke, i wouldn’t sleep. like how tf can you sleep??😅
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I don’t think being a bum flies as a woman nowadays either. There was a time a woman could get away because no one asked what she did. Presently, everyone asks a woman what she does professionally (men and women). I personally like it that way because I never liked the old era where a physically and mentally able woman was unnecessarily made handicapped. I know the helpless that comes from being financially dependent on someone. The shit you have to put up with. I never lived in a third world country but I am well aware about the plight of women in those countries. My mom told me how widowed daughter in laws were secretly raped by her husband’s brothers because she and the surviving children were dependent on the uncle. Countless sad stories. I feel women should feel empowered by something of substance like good deeds and financial stability she’s acquired herself, not by stripping and mooching off a man.
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wow that story your mom told you is horrific 😱 can’t believe they would take advantage of a grieving widow like that wtf 😱 so messed up.
as far as having your own life outside of him, yeah i think that’s a good way of thinking.
being fully dependent on someone is kinda scary/risky even if you trust that person a hundred percent. it’s always wise to have an escape plan in case something goes horribly wrong. but knowing you, i think you’re smart enough to sense major red flags in men before ever tying the knot lol personally as a guy though, i don’t really care what a woman does for a living as long as she’s not a call girl/escort or anything like that lol 😂 most men just want a loyal woman who doesn’t stress him out lol we don’t wanna walk on eggshells all day 😅lol we’re pretty simple for the most part lol 😂
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There’s countless stories like that. It’s quite sad and I personally never want to be in a helpless situation like that. I’m an Aqua stellium so I always need an exit route ready to take at the first sight of any disrespect.
I don’t think men are that simple. They are at first when they are trying to get laid and everything is centered on that. Men get complicated when they develop feelings for a woman. The insecurities come out and everything else that is not so simple like that of women. For example, you’ve probably seen multitude of men who try to get with scantily clad women who are also social media fiend. No issues dating and sleeping with them at the beginning. As soon as they get serious with that girl, they start to change her or demand that she change. Happens all the time. It’s manipulative and unfair just like what most women do (get with a dude and then try to change him).
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when dudes get into a stable relationship or marriage, they get a little territorial because now they feel like they gotta protect their investments in a way. they spent a lot of time, energy, resources on that person to get to that point so they wanna protect that. we don’t care about some eye candy on instagram that doesn’t belong to us. that’s nothing more than eye candy. it’s like public property 😅 (no disrespect to the eye candy but i’m just being blunt for the sake of this convo) we’re not emotionally, mentally, or even financially invested in that eye candy. you know what i mean? 😅

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I totally understand that but you can’t change the rules of a game on a person. It’s not fair. For example, I don’t like smoking and so I don’t date smokers from the get-go. I’m not gonna date some hottie smoker only to flip the switch on him and say now you quit or I’m dumping you. It’s unfair, manipulative and straight underhanded.

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Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.
OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

i feel like if a man feels like he is attracting solely “opportunistic folks” ( i don’t like the term gold digger so i’ll just use opportunistic instead lol) then that actually means he wasn’t able to catch a woman’s attention with anything else besides his finances. it’s a sad but honest truth.
it means women aren’t attracted to his personality or who he is as a person or his mind so these women have no other choice but to focus on his finances (something that’s at least immediately visible/tangible).
so instead of being sad about attracting opportunistic folks, a man should put more effort into becoming an interesting person who has a lot to offer in other departments too besides just money.
having money as a man is still a must though cuz being a bum with no motivation or ambition is unattractive. 😅 and if a dude is currently a bum, he should be working towards getting money. i don’t even know how broke dudes sleep at night. if i was broke, i wouldn’t sleep. like how tf can you sleep??😅
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I don’t think being a bum flies as a woman nowadays either. There was a time a woman could get away because no one asked what she did. Presently, everyone asks a woman what she does professionally (men and women). I personally like it that way because I never liked the old era where a physically and mentally able woman was unnecessarily made handicapped. I know the helpless that comes from being financially dependent on someone. The shit you have to put up with. I never lived in a third world country but I am well aware about the plight of women in those countries. My mom told me how widowed daughter in laws were secretly raped by her husband’s brothers because she and the surviving children were dependent on the uncle. Countless sad stories. I feel women should feel empowered by something of substance like good deeds and financial stability she’s acquired herself, not by stripping and mooching off a man.
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wow that story your mom told you is horrific 😱 can’t believe they would take advantage of a grieving widow like that wtf 😱 so messed up.
as far as having your own life outside of him, yeah i think that’s a good way of thinking.
being fully dependent on someone is kinda scary/risky even if you trust that person a hundred percent. it’s always wise to have an escape plan in case something goes horribly wrong. but knowing you, i think you’re smart enough to sense major red flags in men before ever tying the knot lol personally as a guy though, i don’t really care what a woman does for a living as long as she’s not a call girl/escort or anything like that lol 😂 most men just want a loyal woman who doesn’t stress him out lol we don’t wanna walk on eggshells all day 😅lol we’re pretty simple for the most part lol 😂
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There’s countless stories like that. It’s quite sad and I personally never want to be in a helpless situation like that. I’m an Aqua stellium so I always need an exit route ready to take at the first sight of any disrespect.
I don’t think men are that simple. They are at first when they are trying to get laid and everything is centered on that. Men get complicated when they develop feelings for a woman. The insecurities come out and everything else that is not so simple like that of women. For example, you’ve probably seen multitude of men who try to get with scantily clad women who are also social media fiend. No issues dating and sleeping with them at the beginning. As soon as they get serious with that girl, they start to change her or demand that she change. Happens all the time. It’s manipulative and unfair just like what most women do (get with a dude and then try to change him).
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when dudes get into a stable relationship or marriage, they get a little territorial because now they feel like they gotta protect their investments in a way. they spent a lot of time, energy, resources on that person to get to that point so they wanna protect that. we don’t care about some eye candy on instagram that doesn’t belong to us. that’s nothing more than eye candy. it’s like public property 😅 (no disrespect to the eye candy but i’m just being blunt for the sake of this convo) we’re not emotionally, mentally, or even financially invested in that eye candy. you know what i mean? 😅

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I totally understand that but you can’t change the rules of a game on a person. It’s not fair. For example, I don’t like smoking and so I don’t date smokers from the get-go. I’m not gonna date some hottie smoker only to flip the switch on him and say now you quit or I’m dumping you. It’s unfair, manipulative and straight underhanded.

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yeah i get what you’re saying. if they knew what the deal was right from the get go, and they *still* chose to go forward with it, then they don’t really have a right to complain or get pissed off about something they knew from the get go. i agree with that.

i’m all for encouraging individuality and accepting whoever i’m with for who they are. so the other person can do what they want as long as they don’t break the rules/promises we both mutually agreed on as a couple. in other words, i trust the other person to not act a fool 😅 lol and if they do, i’ll cross that bridge when i come to it. but i don’t obsess over situations/scenarios that may or may not happen lol time/life is too precious to not fully enjoy living in the moment.

Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.

Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.

OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

I am not broke and don't they called gold diggers.

Posted by crabjune

Posted by aquarius09
Gold digger is such a nasty word used by broke men to refer to high maintenance women they desire to have but can’t have because they are miserly or poor. It’s a sour grapes term used by them.
Men who have money aren’t concerned with this term. They go after the woman they desire and have no issues splurging.
OP needs to consider low maintenance women within his budget rather than labelling women as something because he can’t afford them.

I am not broke and don't they called gold diggers.

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Using this word (since you created this thread) is a reflection of your financial standing or how you spend money. If you are not broke, then you are miserly. A man who has ample money or isn’t miserly doesn’t concern himself with whether a woman is a gold digger or not. My former bro in law isnr that well off but he’s a spendthrift, so he goes after any woman who he’s lusting after. Doesn’t bother to look at what she’s wearing or her high maintenance.