Sagittarius lack empathy

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by TammyLynn on Wednesday, September 24, 2014 and has 35 replies.

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@TammyLynn
11 Years

It's true. Sag lack empathy. My friends son died while serving in Iraq. Everyone was emotional except for the Sag. I dealt with Sags before. No matter if it's our troops dying to serve or the neighbor across the street who died in car accident, you can always count on a sag for not caring.

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@TammyLynn
11 Years

Posted by DMV
sorry you had to experience that. but you cannot control how others deal with death or pain. we all mourn in our own way.

Yeah well our troops been through alot and for a sag to not care means they don't have a heart

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@Wynter
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by TammyLynn
It's true. Sag lack empathy. My friends son died while serving in Iraq. Everyone was emotional except for the Sag. I dealt with Sags before. No matter if it's our troops dying to serve or the neighbor across the street who died in car accident, you can always count on a sag for not caring.

But the Sag would cry a lot if it was an animal that died.

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This is true. If I lost control of my car and had to choose between running over an old lady or a dog, I would do the old lady.

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@AriesIntrovert16
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by TammyLynn
It's true. Sag lack empathy. My friends son died while serving in Iraq. Everyone was emotional except for the Sag. I dealt with Sags before. No matter if it's our troops dying to serve or the neighbor across the street who died in car accident, you can always count on a sag for not caring.

But the Sag would cry a lot if it was an animal that died.

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Lol. I know a Sag girl like this. She cries when she watches pit bulls and parolees when the dogs are put down.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by TammyLynn
It's true. Sag lack empathy. My friends son died while serving in Iraq. Everyone was emotional except for the Sag. I dealt with Sags before. No matter if it's our troops dying to serve or the neighbor across the street who died in car accident, you can always count on a sag for not caring.

But the Sag would cry a lot if it was an animal that died.

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oh yes sir. YES

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@TammyLynn
11 Years

Posted by DMV
Posted by TammyLynn
Posted by DMV
sorry you had to experience that. but you cannot control how others deal with death or pain. we all mourn in our own way.

Yeah well our troops been through alot and for a sag to not care means they don't have a heart

Yeah well you cant tell other people how to grieve.

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Thats why sags are heartless

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@Easha23000us
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by TammyLynn
It's true. Sag lack empathy. My friends son died while serving in Iraq. Everyone was emotional except for the Sag. I dealt with Sags before. No matter if it's our troops dying to serve or the neighbor across the street who died in car accident, you can always count on a sag for not caring.

But the Sag would cry a lot if it was an animal that died.

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You know us so well....LOL!

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@Wynter
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by Wynter
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by TammyLynn
It's true. Sag lack empathy. My friends son died while serving in Iraq. Everyone was emotional except for the Sag. I dealt with Sags before. No matter if it's our troops dying to serve or the neighbor across the street who died in car accident, you can always count on a sag for not caring.

But the Sag would cry a lot if it was an animal that died.

This is true. If I lost control of my car and had to choose between running over an old lady or a dog, I would do the old lady.

This - I do not understand.

People are more sentient than animals. Human beings should also be valued more than animals karmically.

Please explain your reasoning behind this.

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::shrugs:: I dunno. I'll probably feel bad for the old lady's family tho, then kill myself soon after.

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@Sag89
14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Wynter
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by TammyLynn
It's true. Sag lack empathy. My friends son died while serving in Iraq. Everyone was emotional except for the Sag. I dealt with Sags before. No matter if it's our troops dying to serve or the neighbor across the street who died in car accident, you can always count on a sag for not caring.

But the Sag would cry a lot if it was an animal that died.

This is true. If I lost control of my car and had to choose between running over an old lady or a dog, I would do the old lady.

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HAHAHAHA

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@TammyLynn
11 Years

Posted by Iwill
Sure it's not you that lacks empathy of not being able to see, that people deal with stuff differently? I am not even trying to be mean, although it really does cme off that way.

I have just met another sag woman. And she does come off as an me me me person, kinda shallow at times, and like she don't give a fuck about much. On the other hand, I know - because I can easily feel it - that she does not lack empathy. She cares a lot about a lot of stuff!! But she doesn't care about stuff, she doesn't care about... You know? Being politically correct is not a sag thang, and if a sag don't feel it personally, it would feel fake to... Well fake emotions like that. But when it comes to things, they DO care about, they have their heart all up in there, so much that it is lost.

People deal with feelings in different ways, and you never know what someone is feeling. They can be faking it for numerous reasons or they can hide it, express it in a way, that some people don't understand, express it in another feeling (hurt to anger type thing), try to not get affected by feelings even, because feelings can be so over powering.... To say sags lack empathy.... What are we, psychopaths— ??Cause that's basically the description of a psychopath.

This is why people can't stand sags. You don't know what our solders go through and for a sag not caring for our military is very wrong and evil. Other signs can be caring but not the sag. One Marine I talked to said "Sags are not human. cause if they were they would care about the troops"

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@TammyLynn
11 Years

Posted by aquavita
support our troops is a ridiculous sticker glued to all those cars parked at the huge malls.

Don't disrespect our troops sag. This is what I'm talking about and thats why the Marine said what he said

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@TammyLynn
11 Years

Posted by aquavita
Posted by TammyLynn
Posted by aquavita
support our troops is a ridiculous sticker glued to all those cars parked at the huge malls.

Don't disrespect our troops sag. This is what I'm talking about and thats why the Marine said what he said


u foolish age supporter. how do u support the troops by placing a sticker while shopping at the mall while soldiers are dying . let me just remind u people were not that offended media did not offer public silence for the deaths of our soldiers for the first FOUR years of the war in iraq. did u even shiver when it started ? did it turn your stomach upside down? and when soldiers died and there was no public 1 minute mourning announced the first 4 years did you think it was wrong ? did u continue celebrating your holidays as usual? u hypocrite. just so u know : I did Not.
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How do you know what I did you son of a bitch? You sag would spit on our solders grave. How dare you say that I don't care. I think about them everyday and morn. What do you dumb fire sign do—? Again you lack compassion. Most sags do. Go to another country you bastard. You sags make me sick.

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@TammyLynn
11 Years

Posted by aquavita
thanks but I am a female and also have been a soldier. compassion or not I am anti war period. sags do not display sorrow ppublially. u did not answer my question big u continued celebrating Christmas as usual the last decade as well as thanksgiving get etc. did u buy yourself clothes eat good food enjoy jelwery. say no and I will agree you have truly mourned .

Well your still alive. My friend's son is dead. Don't come up here and down me like that. You don't know me at all sag

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by TammyLynn
Posted by aquavita
thanks but I am a female and also have been a soldier. compassion or not I am anti war period. sags do not display sorrow ppublially. u did not answer my question big u continued celebrating Christmas as usual the last decade as well as thanksgiving get etc. did u buy yourself clothes eat good food enjoy jelwery. say no and I will agree you have truly mourned .

Well your still alive. My friend's son is dead. Don't come up here and down me like that. You don't know me at all sag

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proof or the shit didnt happen

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@saggyrl
12 Years

I don't think it has anything to do with us not caring. Some people just don't know how to deal with death well. I never knew what to say or how to comfort someone during that time, until my nephew died.

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I basically agree with what Dark Fire said on the first page.

We instinctively know the truth of all life and death. We have accepted that it happens and this brings us peace...you mistake it for lack of empathy or sympathy. Did you ever think to look at it as a strength instead of a weakness? No, because we're not acting like you think we should. The really sad part is we extend you and others the fucking courtesy to handle shit how YOU SEE FIT without criticism or judgement, which you'd think would be the last thing on anyone's damn mind during the loss of life. Smfh

My words indicate another truth about us. If we react, it is not to death itself. It is to death being caused by injustice. That's why we grieve over animals. If someone decides to sign up for the military, we assume they know what that implies...that they could get killed. While we care about their loss, we feel that they accepted that possible fate when they signed up.

What really bothers me is the animal reference. Animals are defenseless in the power of human beings. They dont do anything at all. What ironic is that we send our sons in daughters into harms way over blind fear and hatred in order to kill other defenseless human beings who are trying ti defend themselves against their dictators who we've actually supported and supplied at some point and then our soldiers get killed by those same weapons...and yes that does cause a stir. I feel sorry for their deaths but I'm pissed at why.

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@JustaSag
13 Years

OP, your comments are some of the most ignorant I've ever read on this thread. I have particularly strong feelings about this, as I just yesterday was involved in a very heated argument with a family member that ended fairly badly. The day before, I received news of a close family friend passing away. To just make outlandish claims about what we feel, how we feel it, and to actually go on the offensive and say "we don't care" and that we would "spit on a soldier's gave" is just insane. You sound like a child, and are acting like one.

I understand that the event is tragic, and sad. It's horrible that this is how he passed away. But just because someone does not show their emotion at that exact moment, hardly means that they aren't feeling it. How can you even make such a statement? It's not logically sound, nor does it make any sense if you've actually taken the time in your life to understand how different people process things.

I am the same exact way...I do not show my emotions unless they have completely overwhelmed me. Which is almost never. I deal with them in private, where they don't affect anyone or anything else. In public, I keep my head and try to deal with the situation rationally. We naturally try to see the positive things in life, and more to the point, we are extremely rational. Just because we aren't emotional train wrecks, does not make us somehow morally inferior to yourself or other people that feel the need to express themselves in public.

You need to seriously re-think your statements.

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

@TammyLynn,

your profile has no public print of your astro signs. fair?

sag and no sag soldiers fight against folks who include some sags and no sags who are against patriotic/idealogical wars which were started by sags or no sags.

I owe you nothing. I cry when I have to cry. publicly or not.