
EISREGEN
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Like... There is always Drama!

Posted by WynterLike... There is always Drama!
Yes! Always drama. I would love to find someone who can just live for today, and experience those emotions without having to dwell on their past or the future. Seems like most men anymore have some sort of baggage they're dragging with them that I don't really want to know about and I just can't get away fast enough.
I'm too lazy to make a relationship work anyway, I guessclick to expand



Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by WynterLike... There is always Drama!
Yes! Always drama. I would love to find someone who can just live for today, and experience those emotions without having to dwell on their past or the future. Seems like most men anymore have some sort of baggage they're dragging with them that I don't really want to know about and I just can't get away fast enough.
I'm too lazy to make a relationship work anyway, I guess
Exactly. It seems the good ole days of two people coming together, loving each other, and building a life together are gone. Fairy tales now. Now everybody wants to play silly, childish games, and want to justify their ego either because their bored, insecure, or both. I sooooo want to go into a trademark Sagittarius truthful tirade right now...but I won't lol.click to expand



Posted by Sutekh
You're super selfish with all those 1st house placements. It's not Sagittarius it's just your particular configuration.

Posted by happykitsunePosted by beautifulsoul74Posted by WynterLike... There is always Drama!
Yes! Always drama. I would love to find someone who can just live for today, and experience those emotions without having to dwell on their past or the future. Seems like most men anymore have some sort of baggage they're dragging with them that I don't really want to know about and I just can't get away fast enough.
I'm too lazy to make a relationship work anyway, I guess
Exactly. It seems the good ole days of two people coming together, loving each other, and building a life together are gone. Fairy tales now. Now everybody wants to play silly, childish games, and want to justify their ego either because their bored, insecure, or both. I sooooo want to go into a trademark Sagittarius truthful tirade right now...but I won't lol.
It's prominent, but not everyone is that way. I've found people who can be committed enough to form loving relationships with their significant others. People just need to learn to stop leaving once they're bored and stick it out. Too much is based on their feelings. That's why relationships fall apart these days. No work put into it. It's sad. Oh well, I've found someone who will work at it with me so I'm happy.click to expand

Posted by WynterLike... There is always Drama!
Yes! Always drama. I would love to find someone who can just live for today, and experience those emotions without having to dwell on their past or the future. Seems like most men anymore have some sort of baggage they're dragging with them that I don't really want to know about and I just can't get away fast enough.
I'm too lazy to make a relationship work anyway, I guessclick to expand

Posted by HonneTatemae
Beccy! 😄 How are you?
About Saggies and relationships- Are we meant to be in one or not? That I do not know, but I DO know that we don't NEED to be in one.
If we DO end up dating someone we like, it's basically just yummy frosting on our life-cake. It ISN'T one of the main ingredients.
Just my two cents. 🙂
And btw... Sag + Aqua= AWESOME. My longest, most intense relationship was with an Aquarius. It sounds weird to say it, but I kinda feel like him and I are destined for each other, and that we'll probably hook back up at some point in the future.
In the meantime, I'll keep eating my life cake....with or WITHOUT the frosting.
😉

Posted by EISREGENPosted by Sutekh
You're super selfish with all those 1st house placements. It's not Sagittarius it's just your particular configuration.
Shut the fuck up. You're only trying to provocate me. Super lame.
I'm not selfish, I'm just strong. I have to be, my life wasn't / is easy. If I wasn't like this, I would be dead now.
I'm super selfish..... You dont know shit about me nor my life. Of course I concentrate on my life, but I'm not a ego. I give my everything to the people I love. I forgave my mother although she throw me on the street when I was 13. I always try to understand and help people, so FUCK YOU!
It's Sagittarius. I know it by experience, because I'm one. I am a Sagittarius with Sag venus, mercury and ascendant. And you wanna tell me I dont know shit?
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Posted by LunarMaiden
This kind of seems sad, I fear what EISREGEN says is true in my case, minus Drama.
How does one balance that need for space, independence and alone time with having a close partnership?

Posted by bkbella86
really I know a few Sag people who are always in relationships.

Posted by EISREGENPosted by WynterLike... There is always Drama!
Yes! Always drama. I would love to find someone who can just live for today, and experience those emotions without having to dwell on their past or the future. Seems like most men anymore have some sort of baggage they're dragging with them that I don't really want to know about and I just can't get away fast enough.
I'm too lazy to make a relationship work anyway, I guess
I understand that....
why can't they just enjoy life? enjoy love, life, happiness?
we are way too positive for all this....
All the things I want are so simple..... I just want to be happy. I want to share my happiness with other people, I wanna give them strength, I want them to inspire me and I want to inspire them. I want positive energy.
Why isn't that possible?click to expand


Posted by jULY77Posted by EISREGENPosted by WynterLike... There is always Drama!
Yes! Always drama. I would love to find someone who can just live for today, and experience those emotions without having to dwell on their past or the future. Seems like most men anymore have some sort of baggage they're dragging with them that I don't really want to know about and I just can't get away fast enough.
I'm too lazy to make a relationship work anyway, I guess
I understand that....
why can't they just enjoy life? enjoy love, life, happiness?
we are way too positive for all this....
All the things I want are so simple..... I just want to be happy. I want to share my happiness with other people, I wanna give them strength, I want them to inspire me and I want to inspire them. I want positive energy.
Why isn't that possible?click to expand
People are human beings. Not treats on a menu, a disk on a Juke Box, or a sweater in the draw. They may not be conveniently on your wavelength when you want and will require that you are able to tune into them in more than a superficial way and sacrifice what you want so they can have what they want, which in turn makes you happy to see them happy. Job done. This backwards and forwards exchange, and sharing is consideration. The only person, I think, who should expect things on their own terms all the while had better be called boss and pay well for that privilege.
You are mistaken, if you think wanting is the be all and end all. You can't realistic expect something that you do not 'earn'. Only children want and expect. Lose the, ' I want, I want , I want'. You really want people to enjoy your life. What you want isn't possible, because you are the one setting the limitations. People cannot meet your terms and conditions. Maybe you would be happy with a world full of clones, like yourself. No problems. But, you don't like static things. Maybe you are bored with yourself really. Life is not all ups, for anyone. And none should expect to have people only at their best times. You are feeling less than keen when everything doesn't flow in a nice and easy way. It's called reality. You deal with it, go through it, get over it, grow and learn. Don't waste yourself

Posted by Sag89
did you get burnt by some sag?


Posted by saggurl
i like being in short term relationships , i tried long term it doesnt work the other party fault . i really feel a relationship kills me .


Posted by jULY77Posted by Sag89
did you get burnt by some sag?
Me personally? No. But, of the ones I do know, my relationship will be strictly restricted to a level I believe they have the ability to respond to and reciprocate. It had to be tested first. There's no point banging your head against a brick wall and wasting time. I'm happy to let anyone be. But, when they ask for help and you give it as a friend, I sometimes feel that they would understand it better if the help came at a financial cost. Plain and simple, trade for trade. Leave friendship out of it. I don't like charging friends, it goes against the grain.
I did get burned by an Aquarian GF. I kind of look for keys words like - us, we, our. Not too many references to space and independence, I, me, mine; If those are what is wanted, it might be best to remain unattached.
It's no big problem if Sags want their own company, or anyone wanting to be alone for that matter. I'm ok myself, that way. But, I don't mind going 'out of my way'. That's no problem either. That's what friends do; look after each other. You know, sometimes I need help myself; any 'friend' who looks away then is going to have to work hard to get my attention back.
I read that Sags like to know what's what, in plain and honest terms. Not really ones for subtle signs, taking hints. It goes wrong and you wonder why. I have another Sag friend, she's had about six crashes in the car - looks bemused when I tell her 'I ain't getting in that with you at wheel'. Maybe she hasn't noticed the problem.click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl
i like being in short term relationships , i tried long term it doesnt work the other party fault . i really feel a relationship kills me .
it does! the other person tries to overtake you. even friends at some point do the same thing. i have to take a breakjust to do what i wanna do.click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by jULY77Posted by Sag89
did you get burnt by some sag?
Me personally? No. But, of the ones I do know, my relationship will be strictly restricted to a level I believe they have the ability to respond to and reciprocate. It had to be tested first. There's no point banging your head against a brick wall and wasting time. I'm happy to let anyone be. But, when they ask for help and you give it as a friend, I sometimes feel that they would understand it better if the help came at a financial cost. Plain and simple, trade for trade. Leave friendship out of it. I don't like charging friends, it goes against the grain.
I did get burned by an Aquarian GF. I kind of look for keys words like - us, we, our. Not too many references to space and independence, I, me, mine; If those are what is wanted, it might be best to remain unattached.
It's no big problem if Sags want their own company, or anyone wanting to be alone for that matter. I'm ok myself, that way. But, I don't mind going 'out of my way'. That's no problem either. That's what friends do; look after each other. You know, sometimes I need help myself; any 'friend' who looks away then is going to have to work hard to get my attention back.
I read that Sags like to know what's what, in plain and honest terms. Not really ones for subtle signs, taking hints. It goes wrong and you wonder why. I have another Sag friend, she's had about six crashes in the car - looks bemused when I tell her 'I ain't getting in that with you at wheel'. Maybe she hasn't noticed the problem.
u sound like such a downerclick to expand

Posted by cheekyfaerie
my Earth heavy Sag friends don't seem to have an issue with it. it's just not a priority. if it happens, it happens and they do alright.
i have two Sag friends who are twins. their venus and mars are in Earth signs, but their moons and Mercs are Scorp. as long as they're happy sexually, it's all good. the minute things go south in the bedroom, they bounce or cheat.
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We are meant to experience Life in a very deep, spiritual way. We are meant to use our intuition to understand humanity.
But I dont think I'm made for relationships.
Like... There is always Drama!
I'm not even talking about all the people who are really not meant for us (water signs etc.)
There is drama all over the place with everyone.
"Perfect Match" Leo, Aquarius, Aries... - Yeah Right...... There is too much Individual selfish energy. Too much ego for one person to handle.
Maybe I only say that, because I feel like I experienced "true" love.
I'm kinda ashamed but in the last weeks I feel in love with 3 guys. Leo Guy was a Player. Libra Guy was playing games. Aquarius is fucking paranoid. It feeeelt so fucking good and real with the auqa, but ahhh....
😄 😄 😄