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This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by DMV on Thursday, January 16, 2014 and has 149 replies.

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@DMV
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****Update****

Things have been progressing rather nicely. He is on vacation but weve been continually talking. He responds to my FB posting and i mirror and respond to his. I no longer have to initiate messages or conversations. He has started to initiate. His FB posts are definitely his way of speaking to me on the low and i dig it.

Last night he sent me a message that he was laying in bed and was thinking about me waiting to fly back to where we live. Rubbing one out me thinks. hahah 🙂

He said he was sad to be leaving and i through out there that the quicker he gets back, the quicker we can hang out.

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Posted by DMV
****Update****

Things have been progressing rather nicely. He is on vacation but weve been continually talking. He responds to my FB posting and i mirror and respond to his. I no longer have to initiate messages or conversations. He has started to initiate. His FB posts are definitely his way of speaking to me on the low and i dig it.

Last night he sent me a message that he was laying in bed and was thinking about me waiting to fly back to where we live. Rubbing one out me thinks. hahah 🙂

He said he was sad to be leaving and i through out there that the quicker he gets back, the quicker we can hang out.

he turned out to be a cancer right?

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by DMV
****Update****

Things have been progressing rather nicely. He is on vacation but weve been continually talking. He responds to my FB posting and i mirror and respond to his. I no longer have to initiate messages or conversations. He has started to initiate. His FB posts are definitely his way of speaking to me on the low and i dig it.

Last night he sent me a message that he was laying in bed and was thinking about me waiting to fly back to where we live. Rubbing one out me thinks. hahah 🙂

He said he was sad to be leaving and i through out there that the quicker he gets back, the quicker we can hang out.

he turned out to be a cancer right?

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cancer sun, scorp moon, Pisces mars, merc & mars in gemini

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Posted by Scorsagian21
I was married to a cancer for 15 yrs...They know how to give attention to the sag women who needs it, hopefully your the kind of sag who appreciates a good man when she sees one and not take advantage of the cancer mans kindness. As long as your good to him, he'll be yours forever and marriage will definitly happen. I only say this because i learned the hard way and regret my actions towards my ex cancer man.
I'am rooting for you DMV.

If hes packing in the pants, i will be his ball n chain. Id be the most appreciative sag he ever met lol.

as long as he isnt a dick to me, im straight.

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He is something else.

He beat me to class so he could watch me walk in
When I first started talking to him 2 weeks ago, I mentioned how good he looked in pruple; he wore purple head to toe
We are from the same hometown. What are the odds?
he still continues to stare at me during class
after class, he waited for me and walked me to my car. I damn near died from the chivalry.
I like that people know were attached to the hip already.

I slapped him on his arm and im want more! Hes going to get raped in a dark alley if hes not careful.

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Posted by DMV
i hide it well, but im more afraid of him than he is of me.

I'm sure many people wouldn't guess that about you. Crabs are pretty intuitive. If you let him close enough (to your "heart" that is), he'll pick up on it and will be mindful of that. At least that has been my experience with the few I have encountered.

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Posted by Ulalume

Posted by DMV
He is something else.

He beat me to class so he could watch me walk in
When I first started talking to him 2 weeks ago, I mentioned how good he looked in pruple; he wore purple head to toe
We are from the same hometown. What are the odds?
he still continues to stare at me during class
after class, he waited for me and walked me to my car. I damn near died from the chivalry.
I like that people know were attached to the hip already.

I slapped him on his arm and im want more! Hes going to get raped in a dark alley if hes not careful.

Awww things are cutely progressing.

So when are you two gonna hang out outside of school?

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hes going to tutor me this weekend. Ive thrown it out that I want to hang out but id rather him suggest u know? What do u think?

today, I decided to finally give him my number. I sent it to him on fb. We text constantly now. Its like a lil ol old fashioned courtship.

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I meant what I said. I was going to seduce him with food and that I did. I cooked and served him a candlelight dinner.

he cleaned his plate.

we had great conversation, laughter, and cuddles. He was the perfect gentleman.

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Posted by caster721

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Lol. No panties either. I made sure I took an extra long time to sit down.

I wonder if he likes nipple piercings.

Girl, i wonder if u hv scorpio in ur charts or something....coz that naughty dirty mind of urz wud get any cancer man excited and find u worthy.

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were both scorp moons. he also has sun trine pluto and i have venus sq pluto. we did talk about my piercings for a lil bit last night.

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hmm idk. He brought it up and was very interested in my tattoos. He was saying how he wanted some himself. He didnt seem turned off at all by my piercings.

i mean, its not like i walk around topless out in public. lol

funny, I got my piercings with a cancer girl; she got her clit pierced.

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Well, I called it. He has started the games. Last night after our fantastic evening, he was at the door. He looked like he was going to say something, or do something but he didnt. So I texted him and told him to text me when he got home and I added a smiley face.

NO RESPONSE

this is not unusual. He texts me morning noon and night. He lets me know when he walks into his house, when he shits, etc. So him not responding had me feeling some way. But I said never mind, he may have foregotten, although he never does.

Today rolls around and its noon and I still haveng heard from him. So I say to myself, what would I like if im feeling a bit insecure. Id like the other person to initiate. So thats what I did. I sent him a good morning text, asking a specific question.

NO RESPONE

I have class that night and I tell myself to relax, he will be there with a beaming smile. He wasnt there and I got to class late. He finally walks in and says nothing to me and doesnt even look in my direction.

So hes not interested. Im cool, I was attached and I liked him. But if this isnt what he wants, im not going to push it. I can take a hint. He thought about it and made his decision. I ve been there 2.

It sucks to have such a awesome night, I mean next to none. I felt amazing. I felt like I connected with him. There was a friendship building. A good sexy smart witty attractive ship. So natural and fluid. So it sucks to be dismissed the very next day. Honestly it hurts. Im even more disappointed to have been excited and it just stripped away. To have told people and it didnt work out. Its embarrassing.

after about 2 hours in class, I cant take it anymore. His coldness. I see a guy packing up and I pack up and leave after him. I have to save myself any further embarrassment. Like what if he just leaves or if I get the guts to go up to him and he acts like I dont even exist. Im good with all that.

15 mins later, hes texting me.

NO GAMES

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Im so pissed that I cared so much for his feelings, to make him feel safe, to make him feel good. I was nice, sweet, caring, affectionate and I still got shitted on. I still get games. It was natural for me to make him feel safe n secure. To put his feelings first. To respect him, his feelings, his time, his space.

I didnt get the same back in return. 😢

I mean how do you have a great night, a great first date with someone, hug them so tight and then just diss them the next day.

I did this with the 2nd sag, I forgave his initial game calling it jitters. And the games got worse and cut deeper.

if I did to him what he did to me, he'd call me a bitch and give me the deuces.

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Posted by DMV

I mean how do you have a great night, a great first date with someone, hug them so tight and then just diss them the next day.

Damn. And it sounded like it was going places. Sorry to read this.
Sounds like a mirror with the Sag lady I was seeing.
I'm still convinced this pairing is a good one, just hate reading about the bad stuff like this.

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Posted by caster721

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Posted by DMV
i hide it well, but im more afraid of him than he is of me.

I'm sure many people wouldn't guess that about you. Crabs are pretty intuitive. If you let him close enough (to your "heart" that is), he'll pick up on it and will be mindful of that. At least that has been my experience with the few I have encountered.

PR, i'm a curious fellow with my eyes on a scorpio woman..... Does it work? Is it worthy? I think so but i've never been with a scorpio before. Any advise?

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Sure, but I'm gonna suggest you either take it to another board or create a thread with your specific question caster. I don't want to mess up DMV's thread.

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Posted by DMV
Im so pissed that I cared so much for his feelings, to make him feel safe, to make him feel good. I was nice, sweet, caring, affectionate and I still got shitted on. I still get games. It was natural for me to make him feel safe n secure. To put his feelings first. To respect him, his feelings, his time, his space.

I didnt get the same back in return. 😢

I mean how do you have a great night, a great first date with someone, hug them so tight and then just diss them the next day.

Aww man, sorry to hear DMV. I could say "don't feel so bad, you have no reason to feel embarrassed, it's his loss, etc." but that's just something that will shift for you when you're ready.

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Posted by DMV
Are people so jaded that they repel being treated well?

Sometimes it's fear of falling too deep, too quickly and simply pumping the brakes (in the stupidest way possible sometimes) to slow that down. I say this as a water sign in general.