Posted by sagsagsagHis sun is Sag, I read that you dont need to know your actual birth time to know your venus? I hope thats true but yea he definitely shows signs of venus in scorp. I've already had the silent treatments. We have been having issues and he has iced me out for a month and didnt come see me. Every time I tell him im ready to move on he starts saying he likes me a lot but I made him distant himself (because of how I respond to his foolery) i admit im crazy but dont like stupid BS. He has told me I wont find someone like him in my state as good as he treated me *rolls eyes*.
What's his sun, moon and mars?
Venus in scorpio has a tendency to be a control freak in a manipulative ways. So their ways of exercising power is not through words that you as a sag can understand but more into action, emotional abuse, silent treatment, you get where I'm going right? This can be very damaging for a relationship
My ex was a scorp sun with venus in scorpio. What a perfect recipe for a sag ? I should've joined dxp ages ago.
You will need to buy another dictionary not known to any other mankind other than him.
His "yes" could means "no". His "up to you" which I took as a yes (I learned english from real english dictionary, not his, sorry bruh) means "no" and so on and so forth..
Communications was always the problem.
Posted by sagsagsagYea because when we first met he was never this way at all total opposite, I just feel like I want to leave with some type of dignity and either I want him to step up or just stop emotionally playing with me because I don't want to be on the back burner.
I dont know sag sun and scorp venus and how those two mesh together, but my ex didnt really like space, they are very controlling and possesive see, so they're on your neck the whole time. and I always end up getting trouble if I wanted space to even just read a goddamn book and not be disturbed for 6 hours for heaven's sake ?
I am sensing he is emotionally abusing you with the distant thing and keeping you wondering and worrying what's up. And by the way you wrote it down, I can see that he did a pretty good job doing it, didnt he? 😉
What causes him to be this way? What triggered it?
There's only few possibilities:
1. He's keeping you on the backburner while he's "exploring" his options. Yes you're right, if your gut is telling you there's someone else, then there is someone else..
2. He feels guilty for taking away your V card
3. He's emotionally manipulating you to control you.
Either way it's unhealthy...
And you dont need to feel bad for loosing your V card to him, lovely.. It's alright ??
Posted by sagsagsagYou're right, I texted him that I had a couple days to think and know I deserve better and not be treated like an option, and to also enjoy the person he fucked me over for, and that I was going to be fine.
Nobody has the power to play with your emotions without your permissions ?
Come on Sag, let's gallop into the sun! ♐
Posted by cheekyfaerieThank you so much for your advice and input, i feel like he is just not deciding on me and im not going to keep waiting so theres that! Had such a great and intense connection, he would feed me food lol, hes just so different now. But yea myself personally not dating in 2017. So over it.
Haven't seen it said in a while, but Sag sun/Scorp Venus and Cap sun/Aqua Venus used to be two of the most hated/feared combos on the boards. Considered avoid at all cost. The men anyway.
I'm the latter and dated the former for a bit. Dunno if he's the best representation though. An army vet who suffered from PTSD and self medicated with alcohol to the point he became an alcoholic.
Anyway, there were times I felt like there may have been someone else too. There wasn't tho. It was his Sag nature taking him to and fro and his fixed Venus kicking in and getting him stuck there. He always came back with a great story to tell.
His moon, Venus and Mars will make your fella a more tethered Sag, but he's still a Sag. Hard to settle, but when he decides on something, there'll be no shaking him.
Posted by cheekyfaerieLol love that show! And yea I can definitely see the resemblance. Do Sag/Scorp come back? If he does im going to ignore him and maybe I will get a llittle bit of dignity back.Posted by sagsagsagNo experience with that one. Sorry.
@cheekyfaerie
How about sag sun/ aqua venus?
Did think of another Sag/Scorp guy tho. Ya ever watch the HBO show Girls? He's like the living embodiment of Adam. Goofy crazy one minute and bunny boiler the next.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieThats exactly what he did, he would get me back after I would say Im going to move on. He would ask if I missed him, and would tell me to say it and then would ask me what I miss and I would tell him and he would say he missed me too and he misses those things..but at the end of the day he didnt want to see me anyways!Posted by Saggie1220Good for you. 🙂Posted by cheekyfaerieThank you so much for your advice and input, i feel like he is just not deciding on me and im not going to keep waiting so theres that! Had such a great and intense connection, he would feed me food lol, hes just so different now. But yea myself personally not dating in 2017. So over it.
Haven't seen it said in a while, but Sag sun/Scorp Venus and Cap sun/Aqua Venus used to be two of the most hated/feared combos on the boards. Considered avoid at all cost. The men anyway.
I'm the latter and dated the former for a bit. Dunno if he's the best representation though. An army vet who suffered from PTSD and self medicated with alcohol to the point he became an alcoholic.
Anyway, there were times I felt like there may have been someone else too. There wasn't tho. It was his Sag nature taking him to and fro and his fixed Venus kicking in and getting him stuck there. He always came back with a great story to tell.
His moon, Venus and Mars will make your fella a more tethered Sag, but he's still a Sag. Hard to settle, but when he decides on something, there'll be no shaking him.
Leo Mars kinda makes me cringe. Every one I have experience with rationed their affection. Not cool.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieWhat's so scary about that combo? Am I not a NICE GUY damn it—? ^^
Haven't seen it said in a while, but Sag sun/Scorp Venus and Cap sun/Aqua Venus used to be two of the most hated/feared combos on the boards. Considered avoid at all cost. The men anyway.
Posted by cheekyfaerieWhat's so bad about Cap Sun/ Aqua Venus?
Haven't seen it said in a while, but Sag sun/Scorp Venus and Cap sun/Aqua Venus used to be two of the most hated/feared combos on the boards. Considered avoid at all cost. The men anyway.
I'm the latter and dated the former for a bit. Dunno if he's the best representation though. An army vet who suffered from PTSD and self medicated with alcohol to the point he became an alcoholic.
Anyway, there were times I felt like there may have been someone else too. There wasn't tho. It was his Sag nature taking him to and fro and his fixed Venus kicking in and getting him stuck there. He always came back with a great story to tell.
His moon, Venus and Mars will make your fella a more tethered Sag, but he's still a Sag. Hard to settle, but when he decides on something, there'll be no shaking him.
Posted by sagsagsagHahaha very funny, I dont get it. I read that cap in venus falls slow but I must admit I fall fast and hard. I dont get it. And it also takes me a while to get over things if it doesnt end how I want or feel like it could.Posted by TheSagHold up.. yo... the @OP also has her venus and mars in capricorn.. could it be? ?
I am Sag sun/Scorpio venus and she is mars and venus in Capricorn.
We haven't talked for like almost a year. I ignore her, she ignores me. I can't even say why it's been like that, it's a mixture of stubborness, missunderstandings, mixed signals, mind games and jealousy. I won't reach out for sure, even though she is always in my mind. 😉
Posted by cheekyfaerieWhat's so scary about that combo? Am I not a NICE GUY damn it—? ^^
Haven't seen it said in a while, but Sag sun/Scorp Venus and Cap sun/Aqua Venus used to be two of the most hated/feared combos on the boards. Considered avoid at all cost. The men anyway.
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Posted by sagsagsagSagggPosted by Saggie1220LOL..Posted by sagsagsagHahaha very funny, I dont get it. I read that cap in venus falls slow but I must admit I fall fast and hard. I dont get it. And it also takes me a while to get over things if it doesnt end how I want or feel like it could.Posted by TheSagHold up.. yo... the @OP also has her venus and mars in capricorn.. could it be? ?
I am Sag sun/Scorpio venus and she is mars and venus in Capricorn.
We haven't talked for like almost a year. I ignore her, she ignores me. I can't even say why it's been like that, it's a mixture of stubborness, missunderstandings, mixed signals, mind games and jealousy. I won't reach out for sure, even though she is always in my mind. 😉
Posted by cheekyfaerieWhat's so scary about that combo? Am I not a NICE GUY damn it—? ^^
Haven't seen it said in a while, but Sag sun/Scorp Venus and Cap sun/Aqua Venus used to be two of the most hated/feared combos on the boards. Considered avoid at all cost. The men anyway.
What's your moon sign? No.. I think every fire sign fall fast..
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Posted by sagsagsagI have those placements. And you might be bothered because we are all over the place, lusty, and call in love with friends etc.
@cheekyfaerie
How about sag sun/ aqua venus?
Posted by sagsagsagMy moon is in Leo and the sag sun Venus Scorpio had moon in cancer... talk about intense. I guess my moon sign in Leo helps me deal with her ways though, because everyone else say they don't know how I do it. I don't either truthfully, because she's a piece of work. But I guess everything she does makes me like her also ... I don't know. I'm at the point now, where she can do stuff and it don't bother me. I explode on her though, and she calls me dramatic. But she kills me when she acts hot and cold. I still haven't gave up on her yet, which is weird because I don't really want to be with her yet. I just want a part of her I guess.?Posted by arose32Posted by sagsagsagI have those placements. And you might be bothered because we are all over the place, lusty, and call in love with friends etc.
@cheekyfaerie
How about sag sun/ aqua venus?
detached as some would say. It's complicated. What's the moon with Sag sun Aqua Venus.
And.. Sag sun and Venus Scorpio is a deadly combination Im still dealing with one. They are conflicting and really just evil. Draining, complex, hate you if they love you. Good luck. Almost black hole like, really conflicting .. very very calculated.
Oh wow, birthday twin, that's my placement as well! *high five*
I asked because I was wondering, never found a perfect explanation on internet about this two sun and venus combo ? My moon is in cancer...
You're right with the scorp venus.. never again... —click to expand
Posted by sagsagsagAre you Sag sun, moon cancer, Venus Scorpio? I know a guy with these placements. He's intense, but not evil as described.
@arose32
LOL...
From my experience the "hot and cold" thing a venus in scorpio does has a totally different reason than when an aqua venus does it..
When you're distancing yourself or acting hot and cold is because you're loosing interest, right? It's a detaching process..
With them the hot and cold thing is used for power, control and emotional abuse... The same thing with what people with narcissistic personality disorder would do.. It's about power and control, acting like they're the one who care less in a relationship in order to gain the upper hand in the relationship.. sounds like Hitler to me lol .. who have time for that? oh please.. oh please ?
What I notice for Sag mostly is we tend to stretch our limit and let it expand until we no longer know how much is enough? until when then do i need to draw the line?
Earlier this month, I came across this book on Kindle... "The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us" by Ross Rosenberg.. It's a good read, you need to read it too, it's like an early birthday present for my soul and sanity ?
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