Virgo girl wonders if sag male can be happy w/her?

Calling all Sags out there, I wonder if anyone thinks this can work?

I have virgo with libra rising, venus in leo and mars in sag.

I am not a 'typical' virgo - I love to travel and try new things. I don't worry about the future though I like to think about it. My virgo comes out in my insecurity. I worry that the sag will be bored with me or lose interest. Any advice——?

Thanks... worried virgo

Ok, but surely the fact that I have lots of fire/air signs in my chart (except for a moon in scorp) - in fact, more than anything else - means that we will connect? I do have several close sag, aries, libra and gemini friends (no earth or water sign friends at all).

I worry about it cuz everyone sez the sag will jump ship first chance - yet that's always been ME in a relationship, always first to go, always moving on. I need a lot of freedom in a relationship, and lots of sex : ) maybe it would work?

Or is it really, completely hopeless—

hmmmm ok. some of that does make sense. Esp the part of hooking 'easily', and getting something monetary out of it. Both echo concerns I actually had already. Though I haven't mentioned money myself. Maybe I'll go look for a nice quiet cancer : ) Hard to hook, harder to get rid of.

thanks for the heads up.

Well that's a bit more hopeful, I guess. Though I wonder about the control issue. He was supposed to call this weekend but I let him know I would probably be very busy... but that I would let him know when I was around. Which I did, I just didn't want to not answer and have him wonder where I was. So far, silence...... very ominous silence. So maybe the need to control is there? I am getting the feeling this might not be worth it which is a shame as I really did enjoy our conversations and meetings. SIGH.... Thanks for your post!!

Hmmm must be tough being the virgo in the middle! : )

Thanks, I feel like I have a bit more information, not just one sided. It's all something to weigh up and consider... cheers.

I work with this Sag guy and he's absolutely obsessed with his Virgo ex. She left him to see other people and has a new guy every month. Meanwhile he spends all his time with her and helps out alot with her 2 year old son. He even lends her money to go out with the new guys! It's truly insane. BUT he is very overweight and not so attractive and she just so happens to be his first relationship and the girl who took his virginity, etc. So maybe that's the exception?