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Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.then again, taking the car from him was very opportunistic and caps are opportunistic.
I'm a Cap, and unless you are a millionaire/billionaire I'm not taking a car, or much of anything else, from NOBODY. My opportunistic ways would only surface if there were REAL opportunities, in that nothing the other person would care/trip about. I wouldn't say her taking his car is a Cap trait.
i would. we can agree to disagree
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Okay, we'll do that.
btw, I obviously missed parts of the story. I thought he bought her a car. I didn't realize it's just in his name, and she pays the bills. That makes a little more sense to me. I couldn't imagine taking a car from someone.
Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.then again, taking the car from him was very opportunistic and caps are opportunistic.
I'm a Cap, and unless you are a millionaire/billionaire I'm not taking a car, or much of anything else, from NOBODY. My opportunistic ways would only surface if there were REAL opportunities, in that nothing the other person would care/trip about. I wouldn't say her taking his car is a Cap trait.
i would. we can agree to disagree
Okay, we'll do that.
btw, I obviously missed parts of the story. I thought he bought her a car. I didn't realize it's just in his name, and she pays the bills. That makes a little more sense to me. I couldn't imagine taking a car from someone.
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I took the car because my license is suspended ok... so I had too and before he signed the ppw he assured me that we weren't gonna break up ..then 30 days later..bam...
I don't think no one unders my situation ... I see this is something I have to figure out on my own...
Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.then again, taking the car from him was very opportunistic and caps are opportunistic.
I'm a Cap, and unless you are a millionaire/billionaire I'm not taking a car, or much of anything else, from NOBODY. My opportunistic ways would only surface if there were REAL opportunities, in that nothing the other person would care/trip about. I wouldn't say her taking his car is a Cap trait.
i would. we can agree to disagree
Okay, we'll do that.
btw, I obviously missed parts of the story. I thought he bought her a car. I didn't realize it's just in his name, and she pays the bills. That makes a little more sense to me. I couldn't imagine taking a car from someone.
I took the car because my license is suspended ok... so I had too and before he signed the ppw he assured me that we weren't gonna break up ..then 30 days later..bam...
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You don't have to explain your situation to me. I was trying to make sense of it, but I'm glad to see it wasn't done to be materialistic or an opportunist. It's unfortunate, but these type of outcomes happen when a person feels they have something over you, or something you need. That's when you see someones ENTIRE behind. If you can get up from out/under him and the situation then you should do it or at-least work towards it. I can't say what his motives are because I'm not him, nor am I a Sag, but I think you know what's best for you, and he ain't it.
"If you can get up from out/under him and the situation then you should do it or at-least work towards it. I can't say what his motives are because I'm not him, nor am I a Sag, but I think you know what's best for you, and he ain't it."
Half of DXP done already told this girl this. She keeps trying to figure out does he really love her and can astrology
explain him being an asswipe.
Posted by Striking
"If you can get up from out/under him and the situation then you should do it or at-least work towards it. I can't say what his motives are because I'm not him, nor am I a Sag, but I think you know what's best for you, and he ain't it."Half of DXP done already told this girl this. She keeps trying to figure out does he really love her and can astrology
explain him being an asswipe.
Well in her defense, she obviously gave an overview highlighting the absolute worst of her relationship, and what she's going through currently. The good in her relationship is hardly anywhere to be found, so we are going off of the negatives she posted, not knowing at all any positives, or what's keeping her attached to it, cause something OBVIOUSLY is.
I don't think she realizes that she wants answers or responses that give light to a situation that was painted in black. To simply reply saying "you should leave him" won't get through to her. The replies you get to these posts are completely dependent on the light the situation is painted in.
Posted by aquansidenout
So is he a sag? What is his bday? I hope you don't feel I'm being rude for offering you insight. I want to talk to you about the situation because I have advice about both good and sag males from personal experience.
He's a sag/scorp cusp Nov 24 85
Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.then again, taking the car from him was very opportunistic and caps are opportunistic.
I'm a Cap, and unless you are a millionaire/billionaire I'm not taking a car, or much of anything else, from NOBODY. My opportunistic ways would only surface if there were REAL opportunities, in that nothing the other person would care/trip about. I wouldn't say her taking his car is a Cap trait.
i would. we can agree to disagree
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Okay, we'll do that.btw, I obviously missed parts of the story. I thought he bought her a car. I didn't realize it's just in his name, and she pays the bills. That makes a little more sense to me. I couldn't imagine taking a car from someone.
I took the car because my license is suspended ok... so I had too and before he signed the ppw he assured me that we weren't gonna break up ..then 30 days later..bam...
You don't have to explain your situation to me. I was trying to make sense of it, but I'm glad to see it wasn't done to be materialistic or an opportunist. It's unfortunate, but these type of outcomes happen when a person feels they have something over you, or something you need. That's when you see someones ENTIRE behind. If you can get up from out/under him and the situation then you should do it or at-least work towards it. I can't say what his motives are because I'm not him, nor am I a Sag, but I think you know what's best for you, and he ain't it.
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Thanks its just hard..this is the only relationship that has had me broken like this....
Posted by aquansidenout
Just from reading some of the things you said I think it would be wise for you to hit the town. Meet some new people, take a break for dating and get to know you all over again. Astrology aside you deserve someone who will love you and respect you. A lot of people waste years loving the wrong person and wake up oneday and wonder why they stopped living for them instead of others. I truly hope you find a resolution to this either way.
I completely agree with this!!!
Just take steps, however small, to moving forward eftn87 and things will get better. Guaranteed.
Thanks its just hard..this is the only relationship that has had me broken like this....
Oh, honey..
You are in love - of course it's going to be painful and nobody will understand this pain you're feeling right now. My love is unique against yours and your love is unique against anyone else's. That's what makes heartbreak so rough - because all the words and advice in the world will never start to address it.
Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning.
You're not weak and NOT stupid. You love him. You're intelligent enough to recognize he's done wrong and you're strong enough to move past it.. in due time.
My mother shares your birthday. She was heartbroken by my father. You can do this and you're with so much undiscovered potential. That's a lesson that my mom had to learn that reminds me of your tone right now.
🙂
Thanks its just hard..this is the only relationship that has had me broken like this....
Oh, honey..
You are in love - of course it's going to be painful and nobody will understand this pain you're feeling right now. My love is unique against yours and your love is unique against anyone else's. That's what makes heartbreak so rough - because all the words and advice in the world will never start to address it.
Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning.
You're not weak and NOT stupid. You love him. You're intelligent enough to recognize he's done wrong and you're strong enough to move past it.. in due time.
My mother shares your birthday. She was heartbroken by my father. You can do this and you're with so much undiscovered potential. That's a lesson that my mom had to learn that reminds me of your tone right now.
🙂
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I agree with your entire post, especially this part.
"Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning."
This is important. The more I try to repress my thoughts and feelings, the longer it takes to get over it.
Thanks its just hard..this is the only relationship that has had me broken like this....
Oh, honey..
You are in love - of course it's going to be painful and nobody will understand this pain you're feeling right now. My love is unique against yours and your love is unique against anyone else's. That's what makes heartbreak so rough - because all the words and advice in the world will never start to address it.
Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning.
You're not weak and NOT stupid. You love him. You're intelligent enough to recognize he's done wrong and you're strong enough to move past it.. in due time.
My mother shares your birthday. She was heartbroken by my father. You can do this and you're with so much undiscovered potential. That's a lesson that my mom had to learn that reminds me of your tone right now.
🙂
I agree with your entire post, especially this part.
"Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning."
This is important. The more I try to repress my thoughts and feelings, the longer it takes to get over it.
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When I feel the pain I keep crying thinking how could he do this to me? Why doesn't he love me? Why get this car for me then leave me? But I know those questions will never be answered ...
Thanks its just hard..this is the only relationship that has had me broken like this....
Oh, honey..
You are in love - of course it's going to be painful and nobody will understand this pain you're feeling right now. My love is unique against yours and your love is unique against anyone else's. That's what makes heartbreak so rough - because all the words and advice in the world will never start to address it.
Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning.
You're not weak and NOT stupid. You love him. You're intelligent enough to recognize he's done wrong and you're strong enough to move past it.. in due time.
My mother shares your birthday. She was heartbroken by my father. You can do this and you're with so much undiscovered potential. That's a lesson that my mom had to learn that reminds me of your tone right now.
🙂
I agree with your entire post, especially this part.
"Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning."
This is important. The more I try to repress my thoughts and feelings, the longer it takes to get over it.
When I feel the pain I keep crying thinking how could he do this to me? Why doesn't he love me? Why get this car for me then leave me? But I know those questions will never be answered ...
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theyve been answered but its not the answers your looking for.
Thanks its just hard..this is the only relationship that has had me broken like this....
Oh, honey..
You are in love - of course it's going to be painful and nobody will understand this pain you're feeling right now. My love is unique against yours and your love is unique against anyone else's. That's what makes heartbreak so rough - because all the words and advice in the world will never start to address it.
Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning.
You're not weak and NOT stupid. You love him. You're intelligent enough to recognize he's done wrong and you're strong enough to move past it.. in due time.
My mother shares your birthday. She was heartbroken by my father. You can do this and you're with so much undiscovered potential. That's a lesson that my mom had to learn that reminds me of your tone right now.
🙂
I agree with your entire post, especially this part.
"Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning."
This is important. The more I try to repress my thoughts and feelings, the longer it takes to get over it.
When I feel the pain I keep crying thinking how could he do this to me? Why doesn't he love me? Why get this car for me then leave me? But I know those questions will never be answered ...
click to expandNo no it's just ppl keep saying just give the car back ..I can't I've paid for everything on that car..but now I have a resolution ... the insurance each month for his car and mine is 150..normally I wait for him to put his portion in my acct and he'll text me saying he's done it ill txt bck saying its paid..now I'm just going to pay the 150 on the 15th and then wait until the 27th for him to put his portion in and when he texts me saying he's done it I wont respond..he can just call the insurance ppl to see if its paid... I gotta do the no contact rule with him until I'm over him... he probably wont ever
He probably wont ever miss me or regret what he's done but I gotta find away to let go and let god.
Posted by eftn87
He probably wont ever miss me or regret what he's done but I gotta find away to let go and let god.
He's a boy.
He won't for as long as he remains that way.
Some never do. I've always loved Sagittarians because many still hold that spark we lose once we experience pain in life. I try to maintain that constant curiosity and zest for life - but it's tough when you're surrounded with the opposite. However, many Sagittarians I've been interested in haven't held the strength of morals and values that I do (not ever a bad thing, but some components of a relationship become more difficult when your values with stability are unfulfilled). And if there is anything I've learned as a lesson from Saggis are that you can never ever contain any piece of them under any circumstances that are not exclusively the Sag.
I guess my very vague point is that your ex may always hold that zest to 'explore everything' and wouldn't have made you happy long term because it's possible that he will always run with his own freedom regardless of hurt.
I agree with your entire post, especially this part.
"Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning."
This is important. The more I try to repress my thoughts and feelings, the longer it takes to get over it.
Thank you 🙂 I appreciate that! It always amazes me how far creatures will go to avoid pain, emotional or physical.
I hope it's becoming easier for you to be emotionally aware and open with yourself. I'm still in that process too, but it's slowly releasing. Ugh, very slowly 😛
Posted by eftn87
He probably wont ever miss me or regret what he's done but I gotta find away to let go and let god.He's a boy.
He won't for as long as he remains that way.
Some never do. I've always loved Sagittarians because many still hold that spark we lose once we experience pain in life. I try to maintain that constant curiosity and zest for life - but it's tough when you're surrounded with the opposite. However, many Sagittarians I've been interested in haven't held the strength of morals and values that I do (not ever a bad thing, but some components of a relationship become more difficult when your values with stability are unfulfilled). And if there is anything I've learned as a lesson from Saggis are that you can never ever contain any piece of them under any circumstances that are not exclusively the Sag.
I guess my very vague point is that your ex may always hold that zest to 'explore everything' and wouldn't have made you happy long term because it's possible that he will always run with his own freedom regardless of hurt.
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Being on here made me realize that he only got me that car so I could get out his life ..silly me I thought he got it to keep tabs on me or so he can do what he wantd but down the line he can always have an excuse to talk to me.. I was wrong it's been over and I should have realized that long time ago. Now I understand ..it's over..and he's not going to look back so I shouldn't either ..once I'm over him he's gonna be dead to me like the rest of my exes.
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Thanks its just hard..this is the only relationship that has had me broken like this....
Oh, honey..
You are in love - of course it's going to be painful and nobody will understand this pain you're feeling right now. My love is unique against yours and your love is unique against anyone else's. That's what makes heartbreak so rough - because all the words and advice in the world will never start to address it.
Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning.
You're not weak and NOT stupid. You love him. You're intelligent enough to recognize he's done wrong and you're strong enough to move past it.. in due time.
My mother shares your birthday. She was heartbroken by my father. You can do this and you're with so much undiscovered potential. That's a lesson that my mom had to learn that reminds me of your tone right now.
🙂
I agree with your entire post, especially this part.
"Let yourself feel that pain - don't repress it; repression just delays and strengthens the poison of mourning."
This is important. The more I try to repress my thoughts and feelings, the longer it takes to get over it.
When I feel the pain I keep crying thinking how could he do this to me? Why doesn't he love me? Why get this car for me then leave me? But I know those questions will never be answered ...
theyve been answered but its not the answers your looking for.
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LMAO I'm sorry but your just so blunt, I like it lol.
Merc in Sag, Asc in Pisces Uh Oh sounds like me smh
Posted by eftn87
He probably wont ever miss me or regret what he's done but I gotta find away to let go and let god.He's a boy.
He won't for as long as he remains that way.
Some never do. I've always loved Sagittarians because many still hold that spark we lose once we experience pain in life. I try to maintain that constant curiosity and zest for life - but it's tough when you're surrounded with the opposite. However, many Sagittarians I've been interested in haven't held the strength of morals and values that I do (not ever a bad thing, but some components of a relationship become more difficult when your values with stability are unfulfilled). And if there is anything I've learned as a lesson from Saggis are that you can never ever contain any piece of them under any circumstances that are not exclusively the Sag.
I guess my very vague point is that your ex may always hold that zest to 'explore everything' and wouldn't have made you happy long term because it's possible that he will always run with his own freedom regardless of hurt.
Being on here made me realize that he only got me that car so I could get out his life ..silly me I thought he got it to keep tabs on me or so he can do what he wantd but down the line he can always have an excuse to talk to me.. I was wrong it's been over and I should have realized that long time ago. Now I understand ..it's over..and he's not going to look back so I shouldn't either ..once I'm over him he's gonna be dead to me like the rest of my exes.
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Anyways dispise what this scorp user said above me thank y'all who took time out to talk to me
Posted by scorp1110
Merc in Sag, Asc in Pisces Uh Oh sounds like me smh
her merc conjnuct neptune is sooo strong. almost overridding of her entire chart. my merc is in scorp and i can always tell if someone has a merc in pisces. the communication is sooo "revolving." its almost like talking to someone with a libra moon. i get sucked into a conversation and cant seem to find my way out. you know how fish circle? so does their communication style . its makes complete sense to them, but jargon to the rest of us.
for instance, she took what you said personal, whereas i took it as comparing your chart to hers. talk about miscommunication. fish have their own language.
Posted by DMV
for instance, she took what you said personal, whereas i took it as comparing your chart to hers. talk about miscommunication. fish have their own language.
+1
When I feel the pain I keep crying thinking how could he do this to me? Why doesn't he love me? Why get this car for me then leave me? But I know those questions will never be answered ...
theyve been answered but its not the answers your looking for.
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+1 again
Posted by scorp1110
Merc in Sag, Asc in Pisces Uh Oh sounds like me smhher merc conjnuct neptune is sooo strong. almost overridding of her entire chart. my merc is in scorp and i can always tell if someone has a merc in pisces. the communication is sooo "revolving." its almost like talking to someone with a libra moon. i get sucked into a conversation and cant seem to find my way out. you know how fish circle? so does their communication style . its makes complete sense to them, but jargon to the rest of us.
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Lol
Posted by DMV
for instance, she took what you said personal, whereas i took it as comparing your chart to hers. talk about miscommunication. fish have their own language.
True true
Posted by eftn87
He probably wont ever miss me or regret what he's done but I gotta find away to let go and let god.He's a boy.
He won't for as long as he remains that way.
Some never do. I've always loved Sagittarians because many still hold that spark we lose once we experience pain in life. I try to maintain that constant curiosity and zest for life - but it's tough when you're surrounded with the opposite. However, many Sagittarians I've been interested in haven't held the strength of morals and values that I do (not ever a bad thing, but some components of a relationship become more difficult when your values with stability are unfulfilled). And if there is anything I've learned as a lesson from Saggis are that you can never ever contain any piece of them under any circumstances that are not exclusively the Sag.
I guess my very vague point is that your ex may always hold that zest to 'explore everything' and wouldn't have made you happy long term because it's possible that he will always run with his own freedom regardless of hurt.
Your welcome darling!
Being on here made me realize that he only got me that car so I could get out his life ..silly me I thought he got it to keep tabs on me or so he can do what he wantd but down the line he can always have an excuse to talk to me.. I was wrong it's been over and I should have realized that long time ago. Now I understand ..it's over..and he's not going to look back so I shouldn't either ..once I'm over him he's gonna be dead to me like the rest of my exes.
Anyways dispise what this scorp user said above me thank y'all who took time out to talk to me
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Posted by scorp1110
Merc in Sag, Asc in Pisces Uh Oh sounds like me smhher merc conjnuct neptune is sooo strong. almost overridding of her entire chart. my merc is in scorp and i can always tell if someone has a merc in pisces. the communication is sooo "revolving." its almost like talking to someone with a libra moon. i get sucked into a conversation and cant seem to find my way out. you know how fish circle? so does their communication style . its makes complete sense to them, but jargon to the rest of us.
well said, they don't speak linearly . Its like they say half a sentence stop, and then jump to another point, and then say, oh wait, then say something else and you have no idea what their point is lol
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i mean no disrespect, everyone communicates their own way. i just literally said the same thing to her 3 times and she kept repeating the same thing. i was bout ready to shoot myself in the head. i could only imagine her frustration with how we were communicating with her.
youd think me having a water mercury would help, but it doesnt.
they also manipulate people with their language. omg
Wow... ok
I'm a Pisces Merc, that abstract imagery, swirling mist of everything and nothing all at once.. and you're all absolutely correct about the revolving, circular, non-linear, confusing, makes-sense-to-us-alone, secret language type communication. Some of us try (LORD do we try!) to convey what makes absolute perfect sense inside our heads.. but it tends to come out in varying shades of gobbeldy-gook to non-Pisces Mercs... and I think the 'repetition' keeps happening when we feel someone doesn't get what we're trying to say, so we try saying it again or in another way, to be understood... It's been a life-long struggle of mine, clarifying the murky communication of my Pisces Merc.
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i would. we can agree to disagree