What is your opinion of Cancers?

Though I seem to hear such horror stories concerning Sag/Cancer relationships and even friendships, I have never witnessed it. In fact, it has been the exact opposite for me. What are your opinions of/experiences with Cancers?

Posted by Cancerflower5808
Though I seem to hear such horror stories concerning Sag/Cancer relationships and even friendships, I have never witnessed it. In fact, it has been the exact opposite for me. What are your opinions of/experiences with Cancers?

They're great but I have a hard time dating them because of the dynamics you eluded to. I'd still give it a try.

I have a cancer friend but I think I can handle her because of my cancer moon. I think all the crazy crap that comes out of her mouth is not meant to hurt anyone. Sometimes I feel bad for her though because she smothers people too much. But she is the only cancer I know. Never met a guy I was interested in.

Posted by saggurl88
I have a cancer friend but I think I can handle her because of my cancer moon. I think all the crazy crap that comes out of her mouth is not meant to hurt anyone. Sometimes I feel bad for her though because she smothers people too much. But she is the only cancer I know. Never met a guy I was interested in.

Interesting. I'm currently in a relationship with a Sag. What decan is your friend?

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Posted by saggurl88
I have a cancer friend but I think I can handle her because of my cancer moon. I think all the crazy crap that comes out of her mouth is not meant to hurt anyone. Sometimes I feel bad for her though because she smothers people too much. But she is the only cancer I know. Never met a guy I was interested in.

Interesting. I'm currently in a relationship with a Sag. What decan is your friend?

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Her birthday is July 10. Don't know what deacon that is but I'm sure she is influenced by other aspects of her chart. She actually stalks men when she is in a relationship. Like if you told her you were busy and she thought you were lying, she would drive by your house to see if your car is there. She hates being ignored and will create scenarios so you can answer her through texts or emails. I am pretty selective in the information I tell her because she remembers every damn thing and will bring up bad things in front of others. She sometimes has diarrhea of the mouth, and I'm a sag and don't have that.

I didn't realize you were a cancer. I think my friend is in a league all by herself lol I stay friends with her because I know she has a good heart and she will bend over backwards to help a person out. Great qualities in a friend. But I know that if I choose the help she will tell everyone she can my situation and how she saved the day!

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I have a cancer friend but I think I can handle her because of my cancer moon. I think all the crazy crap that comes out of her mouth is not meant to hurt anyone. Sometimes I feel bad for her though because she smothers people too much. But she is the only cancer I know. Never met a guy I was interested in.

Interesting. I'm currently in a relationship with a Sag. What decan is your friend?

Her birthday is July 10. Don't know what deacon that is but I'm sure she is influenced by other aspects of her chart. She actually stalks men when she is in a relationship. Like if you told her you were busy and she thought you were lying, she would drive by your house to see if your car is there. She hates being ignored and will create scenarios so you can answer her through texts or emails. I am pretty selective in the information I tell her because she remembers every damn thing and will bring up bad things in front of others. She sometimes has diarrhea of the mouth, and I'm a sag and don't have that.

I didn't realize you were a cancer. I think my friend is in a league all by herself lol I stay friends with her because I know she has a good heart and she will bend over backwards to help a person out. Great qualities in a friend. But I know that if I choose the help she will tell everyone she can my situation and how she saved the day!

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Wow. She sounds like a Virgo lol. All of my experiences with both Virgo friendships have had very similar scenarios.

Posted by Ligeia
1st and 3rd Decan Cancers I —

I'm dating a Cancer.

I hope things go well

I had a Cancer boyfriend - it was an exhausting relationship that didn't end well

Cancer women - I need to avoid them. They seem too touchy and easily offended. I had a run-in with one the other day, and she seemed to make herself upset when she realized that I really didn't give a shit about whatever problem she was trying to lay on me. Uh! What the hell! Quit whining and act like an adult.

I swear these experiences seem to correlate more along the lines of a Virgo female in my opinion lol.

Posted by Sutekh
Sagittarius woman and Cancer man was top 2 on that couples list that was posted

I wonder about the details of this pairing...I bet it goes better if the Cancer man didn't have baggage (ex-wife and kids, ex-dog) and the Sag female didn't have a jealous Scorp Venus 😛

Ligeia

She has a scorpio moon. Losts of fixed fire which is why sje can be so stubborn too

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Posted by Wynter
I had a Cancer boyfriend - it was an exhausting relationship that didn't end well

>Cancer women - I need to avoid them. They seem too touchy and easily offended.

Yea, you can't talk about even impersonal stuff in a brash way , its offensive. I get it but I don't want to deal with people who take everything extra personal.

I actually have no feminine sun sign friends. I had a Cancer lady and when my friends came through she would go hide in the room. And then be pi $ $ y about it afterwards. She didn't like em because of how they act. But these are people Im friends with so too bad

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I notice that they also seem to gravitate toward the same person who offended them in the first place - or the same type of person. The one I was referring to....It's like she deliberately seeks out the same person so she can become mired in the same shitty bad mood. And then blame the other for her reaction.

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Posted by Sutekh
Sagittarius woman and Cancer man was top 2 on that couples list that was posted

I wonder about the details of this pairing...I bet it goes better if the Cancer man didn't have baggage (ex-wife and kids, ex-dog) and the Sag female didn't have a jealous Scorp Venus 😛

I don't know the sample size but it's more than 1 couple I know that much. If the Cancer man has baggage it might be better the Sag woman can just leave while he's stuck home taking care of his kids and stuff lol

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They say Cancer men are overly fond of all the ex women in their lives...I believe it 😄

hit or miss def

Posted by Ligeia
1st and 3rd Decan Cancers I —

I'm dating a Cancer.

Aw cute Lig

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Posted by Sutekh
Sagittarius woman and Cancer man was top 2 on that couples list that was posted

I wonder about the details of this pairing...I bet it goes better if the Cancer man didn't have baggage (ex-wife and kids, ex-dog) and the Sag female didn't have a jealous Scorp Venus 😛

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hahahh!

I am a cancer w/ a cap moon. He is a sag w/ a Leo moon.

He is brutally honest, sometimes has no tact. I always tell him how "It is not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it".

I am very sensitive, but with him I am learning to let things roll off my back. I seem to take things very personal.

He is very moody and when he doesnt want to "deal" with certain people/situations he will just withdrawal. I have these same charateristics.

Sigh, but that is one of the reason I feel in love with him, because of that honesty.

Posted by cancerboo
I am a cancer w/ a cap moon. He is a sag w/ a Leo moon.

He is brutally honest, sometimes has no tact. I always tell him how "It is not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it".

I am very sensitive, but with him I am learning to let things roll off my back. I seem to take things very personal.

He is very moody and when he doesnt want to "deal" with certain people/situations he will just withdrawal. I have these same charateristics.

Sigh, but that is one of the reason I feel in love with him, because of that honesty.

Hmm I see. What is his Venus placement? I have an Aries moon and Cancer Venus. He has an Aquarius moon and Scorpio Venus. I wouldn't say my Sag is brutally honest. Honestly, arguments between us are rare even those of trivial nature. I would say he has tact most of the time. Occasionally he can be ehhhh, but it is nothing major and by far much more tolerable than the childish/attention seeking behavior of the Virgo I was with previously.

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Posted by cancerboo
I am a cancer w/ a cap moon. He is a sag w/ a Leo moon.

He is brutally honest, sometimes has no tact. I always tell him how "It is not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it".

I am very sensitive, but with him I am learning to let things roll off my back. I seem to take things very personal.

He is very moody and when he doesnt want to "deal" with certain people/situations he will just withdrawal. I have these same charateristics.

Sigh, but that is one of the reason I feel in love with him, because of that honesty.

Hmm I see. What is his Venus placement? I have an Aries moon and Cancer Venus. He has an Aquarius moon and Scorpio Venus. I wouldn't say my Sag is brutally honest. Honestly, arguments between us are rare even those of trivial nature. I would say he has tact most of the time. Occasionally he can be ehhhh, but it is nothing major and by far much more tolerable than the childish/attention seeking behavior of the Virgo I was with previously.

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My venus placement is Cancer. His is an Aquarius.

I can also say he definitely LOVES/NEEDS his freedom, which was hard for me, I am the clingy cancer type lol (at least I am honest). We share a great friendship/bond though. Very close.

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Posted by Sutekh
Sagittarius woman and Cancer man was top 2 on that couples list that was posted

I wonder about the details of this pairing...I bet it goes better if the Cancer man didn't have baggage (ex-wife and kids, ex-dog) and the Sag female didn't have a jealous Scorp Venus 😛

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my ex husband had no baggage and my scorp venus is anything but jeals.
if he didn't have such a big dick and it wan't such a complicated, red-tape way to split,
i would have gone a loooooong time before.

my cancer man was too weak for me...and not equally intelligent.

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I am a cancer w/ a cap moon. He is a sag w/ a Leo moon.

He is brutally honest, sometimes has no tact. I always tell him how "It is not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it".

I am very sensitive, but with him I am learning to let things roll off my back. I seem to take things very personal.

He is very moody and when he doesnt want to "deal" with certain people/situations he will just withdrawal. I have these same charateristics.

Sigh, but that is one of the reason I feel in love with him, because of that honesty.

Hmm I see. What is his Venus placement? I have an Aries moon and Cancer Venus. He has an Aquarius moon and Scorpio Venus. I wouldn't say my Sag is brutally honest. Honestly, arguments between us are rare even those of trivial nature. I would say he has tact most of the time. Occasionally he can be ehhhh, but it is nothing major and by far much more tolerable than the childish/attention seeking behavior of the Virgo I was with previously.

My venus placement is Cancer. His is an Aquarius.

I can also say he definitely LOVES/NEEDS his freedom, which was hard for me, I am the clingy cancer type lol (at least I am honest). We share a great friendship/bond though. Very close.

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*correction*.
his venus is in Cap.

Better off as acquaintances.

yall love us and cant get enough of us!! take that take that and take THAT!

Two of my closest girlfriends are Sag's. One is my BFF been friends since the 7th grade (we are now in our early 30's) and the other I have known for over 10 years! My current boo than is a Sag and he loves/dislike me, but cant get enough of me. I beleive him NOW when he said "we aint going anywhere. we stuck with each other". Sag's usually stick to this ole cancer like glue.

I have had Sag men attracted to me but never made any serious moves. They seem to be a maybe for me. I actually like their bluntness and honesty. Which might seem surprising at first I might be taken a back by it, but not in an offended way but I find it refreshing because other signs you may have to guess about, or aren't forth coming about their feelings or intentions as Sags are. I don't care much for Sag females though.

I just wanted to say (and was not sure where to put it), that this is probably the most sane area of the (zodiac poart) of the Message Baord. ALl these other signs are seeming a lil crazy. wow. I really adore my saggies. and thats coming from a emotional azaz cancer. lol.

umm a lil whiny or standoffish.. but I do get along with them for the most part well the females anyway..