Posted by aquajPosted by NikkiMse1978
On the boards and some people totally take what you are saying out of context or portray you to be a stupid, low or even uncaring person? Isn't this a place to seek help to your burning questions without a bias of judgement? Just opinion correct or an answer based off or your life expierence? We can agree or disagree. Ultimately it is what YOU decide to do with the info you are given. Whether you fudge it up or not, and we see you again on the boards, WHO CARES!!!! It is called LIFE!
Some people are assholes, Nikki😢 Just ignore those people. It takes a lot of guts to put yourself out there and ask for advice and tell people, I value your opinion. This is my situation, I feel vulnerable and uncertain about which direction to go, please help me gain some perspective. I've noticed that the first people to criticize and throw you under the bus for opening up reveal minimal to nothing about themselves. You've got bigger balls than they have, just remember that, and don't take their comments to heart.click to expand
Posted by AutumnalChick
Because some people have very lonely, boring, out-of-their-control, or unfulfilling lives.
To make themselves feel better, they come online and hide behind a two-dimensional persona that is the "ideal" of what they wish they were in real life.
Online they are tough, smart, all-knowing, and they are wiser, more moral, more perfect, and better than everyone else. They never ever make mistakes, and so they mock others who admit that they do. But what people like that fail to realize is that a truly wise, enlightened, and evolved person doesn't ever want or need to insult or belittle another person to feel better. In fact, it makes them feel worse.
Tearing someone down is their way of getting that feeling of superiority, if only temporarily, because they don't have it in real life and want it desperately, and have no idea how to get it.
Sad, really.
Posted by DMV
i used to be an asshole on dxp when i first came on. Mz Sag is right, when you post a message, good luck. there is alot of pessimism and jealousy on the boards. not that some of it is unwarranted, but it is difficult to see the bright side of a post when it all sounds the same....
Posted by NikkiMse1978
On the boards and some people totally take what you are saying out of context or portray you to be a stupid, low or even uncaring person? Isn't this a place to seek help to your burning questions without a bias of judgement? Just opinion correct or an answer based off or your life expierence? We can agree or disagree. Ultimately it is what YOU decide to do with the info you are given. Whether you fudge it up or not, and we see you again on the boards, WHO CARES!!!! It is called LIFE!
Posted by happykitsune
Think about it this way. Would you go out and ask random strangers on the street these questions? Probably not.. why? cus they don't know you, they have their own perception you probably won't agree with, and they will probably be judgment due to the fact that they don't know you.
That being said you're on a site with a bunch of strangers who can't even see your face so they're more likely to be mean. Also there are no moderators so no one gets punished for the mean things they say.
If you take all that into consideration you have your answer. Also I'm pretty sure there are some plants on this site who comment specifically to cause drama
Posted by bibianaPosted by NikkiMse1978
On the boards and some people totally take what you are saying out of context or portray you to be a stupid, low or even uncaring person? Isn't this a place to seek help to your burning questions without a bias of judgement? Just opinion correct or an answer based off or your life expierence? We can agree or disagree. Ultimately it is what YOU decide to do with the info you are given. Whether you fudge it up or not, and we see you again on the boards, WHO CARES!!!! It is called LIFE!
NikkiMse1978, i must say..YOU ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE...From a few days ago having issues with a leo ( which i gave you advice )prior to that a libra and then an aquarian! sweetie, with all due respect..you cant be upset with people's opnions on the forum if you are in three zodiac threads asking advice for all of them in a short period of a time! There's absolutely nothing wrong with being in all of them HECK! ask advice about each and evryone of them if you choose too.. I just think that a bit unstable..Now, Solely basing on your threads..you probably dont need this forum for advice..you may need a self evaluation on your emotions.. just sayin! not trying to start war here..but just being honest..click to expand
Posted by NikkiMse1978Posted by bibianaPosted by NikkiMse1978
On the boards and some people totally take what you are saying out of context or portray you to be a stupid, low or even uncaring person? Isn't this a place to seek help to your burning questions without a bias of judgement? Just opinion correct or an answer based off or your life expierence? We can agree or disagree. Ultimately it is what YOU decide to do with the info you are given. Whether you fudge it up or not, and we see you again on the boards, WHO CARES!!!! It is called LIFE!
NikkiMse1978, i must say..YOU ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE...From a few days ago having issues with a leo ( which i gave you advice )prior to that a libra and then an aquarian! sweetie, with all due respect..you cant be upset with people's opnions on the forum if you are in three zodiac threads asking advice for all of them in a short period of a time! There's absolutely nothing wrong with being in all of them HECK! ask advice about each and evryone of them if you choose too.. I just think that a bit unstable..Now, Solely basing on your threads..you probably dont need this forum for advice..you may need a self evaluation on your emotions.. just sayin! not trying to start war here..but just being honest..click to expand
Just bcus I ask about three different signs in a span of days does not mean 1. I am in love with them. 2. That I want a relationship with them. 3. That I am seeking advice to get them back or 4. Bcus I am desperate. These men are in my life and they are all different. I have been on a BIG astrology kick lately (I am more intune as to what is going on around me) so me seeking knowledge is not wrong. I am expanding my mind. As everyone here is. Some of the situations are personal and I do not judge others for having an opinion but sometimes how it is portrayed (writtten) is a little harsh!
It should be stated with kindness & love and with understanding of the person asking the question. That is all I am saying.
I do need to evaluate my emotions and in all actuality stop thinking with them. That has been pointed out to me on here, and one of the lessons I am learning about myself. 🙂
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