SagChick411
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Why the FUCK does love hurt? (Page 2)
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I don't believe this guy is trying to fake love to SagChick. I believe he is playing these games because he thinks SagChick didn't respond the way he expected. He just can't figure her out. He is immature. He is trying to gain control over the situation but caught up in ego struggle. Therefore, Sag & Scorp can be risque.
I believe Virgo is capable playing shit games in highschool. I like to reserve my opinion that Scorp is more mature than Virgo Highschool level.
Ugh I feel so bad for you, I mean I was going through (still kind of am) the same thing as you, but with a different sign. No one should feel like that, it's one of the worst feelings in the world.
Stomach knots, twists, you feel so empty and nothing makes you feel better but them. It's sort of pathetic (I mean me, not you) to let one person control my whole life and everything emotion in it, but damn, it's hard not to when you really fall for someone.
I never know how to get rid of it. I try reading, watching movies, mindless internet scrolling, baking...etc.
I wish I knew how to help or give advice, but unfortunately all I can do is commiserate with you.
My moon is in Scorpio so my emotions are always on high, it's not pretty.
Stomach knots, twists, you feel so empty and nothing makes you feel better but them. It's sort of pathetic (I mean me, not you) to let one person control my whole life and everything emotion in it, but damn, it's hard not to when you really fall for someone.
I never know how to get rid of it. I try reading, watching movies, mindless internet scrolling, baking...etc.
I wish I knew how to help or give advice, but unfortunately all I can do is commiserate with you.
My moon is in Scorpio so my emotions are always on high, it's not pretty.
Posted by DazedScorp
I think that if you begin to look at your relationships as a learning experience, rather than success/fail... The love, or lack of, that you have for an individual won't hurt as much if things don't work out the way you expect them to.
Thanks Dazed. Yeah it is a learning curve for me for sure.
Posted by FUM
I don't believe this guy is trying to fake love to SagChick. I believe he is playing these games because he thinks SagChick didn't respond the way he expected. He just can't figure her out. He is immature. He is trying to gain control over the situation but caught up in ego struggle. Therefore, Sag & Scorp can be risque.
I do hope you're right Fum. I must say every time I read any of your posts for me they are always encouraging and give me a glimmer of hope, but unfortunately I haven't much left so think it's time to hit the road jack for me.
Hope all is well with you and the Sag 🙂
Posted by SyntheticAnesthetic
Ugh I feel so bad for you, I mean I was going through (still kind of am) the same thing as you, but with a different sign. No one should feel like that, it's one of the worst feelings in the world.
Stomach knots, twists, you feel so empty and nothing makes you feel better but them. It's sort of pathetic (I mean me, not you) to let one person control my whole life and everything emotion in it, but damn, it's hard not to when you really fall for someone.
I never know how to get rid of it. I try reading, watching movies, mindless internet scrolling, baking...etc.
I wish I knew how to help or give advice, but unfortunately all I can do is commiserate with you.
My moon is in Scorpio so my emotions are always on high, it's not pretty.
Yup you're right, NOTHING works. Even nights out usually (at some point) spent thinking of him. I've gotten stronger now though, strong enough to walk into the sunset for the next big thing.
I hope your situation works out.
*hugs*
Posted by FUM
I believe Virgo is capable playing shit games in highschool. I like to reserve my opinion that Scorp is more mature than Virgo Highschool level.
Lol
Posted by SagChick411Posted by FUM
I don't believe this guy is trying to fake love to SagChick. I believe he is playing these games because he thinks SagChick didn't respond the way he expected. He just can't figure her out. He is immature. He is trying to gain control over the situation but caught up in ego struggle. Therefore, Sag & Scorp can be risque.
I do hope you're right Fum. I must say every time I read any of your posts for me they are always encouraging and give me a glimmer of hope, but unfortunately I haven't much left so think it's time to hit the road jack for me.
Hope all is well with you and the Sag 🙂click to expand
May I suggest, even if I turn out wrong.... 'put him on backburner. hold. waiting line. later gator. less active attention.' just ...wait it out please.
I miss Sag. I ended with him for first time ever, but I miss him. I just saw him online. He keeps coming, but I'm sooo bad ass chicken. I don't want to repeat allowing him to just handle me like a business file. I want him to curse back at me. Get angry. Say all the things going through his mind, because only then will I be convinced i'm not just anybody to him.
Perhaps I was wrong about his online appearance. Perhaps he is trying to hook up with others. He had told me that I'm the only one on that email he gave me. I want to be naive enough to believe his words because I believe he tells the truth. Either way... I don't think you can make up wanting to go back to a person. I think it just naturally happens.
Posted by FUMPosted by SagChick411Posted by FUM
I don't believe this guy is trying to fake love to SagChick. I believe he is playing these games because he thinks SagChick didn't respond the way he expected. He just can't figure her out. He is immature. He is trying to gain control over the situation but caught up in ego struggle. Therefore, Sag & Scorp can be risque.
I do hope you're right Fum. I must say every time I read any of your posts for me they are always encouraging and give me a glimmer of hope, but unfortunately I haven't much left so think it's time to hit the road jack for me.
Hope all is well with you and the Sag 🙂click to expand
May I suggest, even if I turn out wrong.... 'put him on backburner. hold. waiting line. later gator. less active attention.' just ...wait it out please.
I miss Sag. I ended with him for first time ever, but I miss him. I just saw him online. He keeps coming, but I'm sooo bad ass chicken. I don't want to repeat allowing him to just handle me like a business file. I want him to curse back at me. Get angry. Say all the things going through his mind, because only then will I be convinced i'm not just anybody to him.
Perhaps I was wrong about his online appearance. Perhaps he is trying to hook up with others. He had told me that I'm the only one on that email he gave me. I want to be naive enough to believe his words because I believe he tells the truth. Either way... I don't think you can make up wanting to go back to a person. I think it just naturally happens.
*************************EARTH SHATTERING NEWsprinkle*********************
Ok that's exaggerating slightly (hey I'm a Sag, I can't help it). Definitely GROUND BREAKING for sure. HA!
I'm gonna try and make this as short as possible with details included which could be a challenge but here it goes??_??_
I saw Scorp today. He asked me over, I initially thought against it cause but then came to my senses and seized this moment to have a frank discussion about WTF is or has be or is gonna happen in terms of us moving forward together.
I told him that I was being serious in what I had to tell him and he kept trying to make me laugh, and for the first time I wasn't laughing and making everything lighhearted as per. I was being deadly serious. ME a Sag being serious, Pah! He was taken back by my —serious?? approach because he's never seen that side of me EVER.
I can't remember how it started but I just really put it ALL out there holding nothing back which is hard for my Venus in Cap believe me. I asked him why he was so hot and cold with me, the reasons why he's messing me around. If he's serious and if he's not he can get out from my life for good, cause I have no interest dangling from a thread any longer. I tried my best not to be my usual blunt self and really expressed myself in a different way which I didn't even know I was capable of.
He said he had no idea that he was making me feel this bad and had no idea how he was coming across to me, if anything he said —Do you know you come across to me. You don't make it easy for me??. I really didn't know what he meant by this? It confused me so I asked him and he couldn't go into it?? I am really intrigued as to how I??M coming across to HIM, ha! Apparently I come across as —nuts?? and —crazy?? Ha! Both of which are very appealing him —apparently??.
I asked him if he backed off last year due to me declining his offers for me to come watch him play football and going to the studio with him. I was busy both times. He said it made him think —treetrunk it, if she don't wanna spend a day in my life then fine?? HA! I had no clue at this point that when a Scorp invites you somewhere you go. Things —may?? have turned out differently if I had accepted and saved a load of this drama but that's neither here nor there.
Cont....
Ok that's exaggerating slightly (hey I'm a Sag, I can't help it). Definitely GROUND BREAKING for sure. HA!
I'm gonna try and make this as short as possible with details included which could be a challenge but here it goes??_??_
I saw Scorp today. He asked me over, I initially thought against it cause but then came to my senses and seized this moment to have a frank discussion about WTF is or has be or is gonna happen in terms of us moving forward together.
I told him that I was being serious in what I had to tell him and he kept trying to make me laugh, and for the first time I wasn't laughing and making everything lighhearted as per. I was being deadly serious. ME a Sag being serious, Pah! He was taken back by my —serious?? approach because he's never seen that side of me EVER.
I can't remember how it started but I just really put it ALL out there holding nothing back which is hard for my Venus in Cap believe me. I asked him why he was so hot and cold with me, the reasons why he's messing me around. If he's serious and if he's not he can get out from my life for good, cause I have no interest dangling from a thread any longer. I tried my best not to be my usual blunt self and really expressed myself in a different way which I didn't even know I was capable of.
He said he had no idea that he was making me feel this bad and had no idea how he was coming across to me, if anything he said —Do you know you come across to me. You don't make it easy for me??. I really didn't know what he meant by this? It confused me so I asked him and he couldn't go into it?? I am really intrigued as to how I??M coming across to HIM, ha! Apparently I come across as —nuts?? and —crazy?? Ha! Both of which are very appealing him —apparently??.
I asked him if he backed off last year due to me declining his offers for me to come watch him play football and going to the studio with him. I was busy both times. He said it made him think —treetrunk it, if she don't wanna spend a day in my life then fine?? HA! I had no clue at this point that when a Scorp invites you somewhere you go. Things —may?? have turned out differently if I had accepted and saved a load of this drama but that's neither here nor there.
Cont....
When I told him that I have deep feelings for him and have done for quite some time he was over the moon as I have NEVER told him this to his face. I told him that I??ve been hurting due to his behaviour blah blah and he was really upset that he made me feel like this. He couldn't even look at me. It's really odd but I just saw the look in his eyes, he just hugged me real tight. He's never held me like that, it was just so loving.
He also said that the other week that he came over to mine that he —made love?? to me so I'm like —Ah OK?? (obviously this wasn't the response he was looking for) HA! So he's like —What do you mean OK, did that not feel different to you from the last time we JUST had sex. I told him it did. Just looking into his eyes while he said that made me melt inside and gave me goosebumps all over.
We had the best talk, nothing that I have ever experienced with him. It was amazing. He just stared into my eyes the whole time. I??ve never felt such a warm feeling like that ever in my life.
He said he??d like to take me out if I would let him. I told him if he cancels or stands me up, I'm done! He also said I better not decline (as if) HA! He asked where I??d like to go and I told him to surprise me.
He told me that he could see himself falling in love with me and it scares him (not in those words).
After all these miscommunications cleared up he made love to me. It was amazing, surreal, I just have NO words to describe the feeling. I feel more secure cause we know where we are heading now. He spoke of OUR future as a couple aswell. AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
I got up to go and he was all like —Look in the mirror, we look hot as a couple, don't you think??. Gahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
My date with him is on Friday. I am literally SO excited I have no words.
I'm just made up that after all this we finally KNOW where we are heading together. I'm just excited with what could be??_??_
cont...
He also said that the other week that he came over to mine that he —made love?? to me so I'm like —Ah OK?? (obviously this wasn't the response he was looking for) HA! So he's like —What do you mean OK, did that not feel different to you from the last time we JUST had sex. I told him it did. Just looking into his eyes while he said that made me melt inside and gave me goosebumps all over.
We had the best talk, nothing that I have ever experienced with him. It was amazing. He just stared into my eyes the whole time. I??ve never felt such a warm feeling like that ever in my life.
He said he??d like to take me out if I would let him. I told him if he cancels or stands me up, I'm done! He also said I better not decline (as if) HA! He asked where I??d like to go and I told him to surprise me.
He told me that he could see himself falling in love with me and it scares him (not in those words).
After all these miscommunications cleared up he made love to me. It was amazing, surreal, I just have NO words to describe the feeling. I feel more secure cause we know where we are heading now. He spoke of OUR future as a couple aswell. AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
I got up to go and he was all like —Look in the mirror, we look hot as a couple, don't you think??. Gahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
My date with him is on Friday. I am literally SO excited I have no words.
I'm just made up that after all this we finally KNOW where we are heading together. I'm just excited with what could be??_??_
cont...
I know I know. He will probably still play games, throw little tests here and there but I'm better equipped now also we have a ground of communication is a start. I'm gonna enjoy the highs and lows of this. I'm now totally devoted to him. Nobody could match my Scorp.
??_The End (for now) lmao
Ooooh P.S. I always check lovehoroscopes.com at the end of the day for me and Scorp and it was again quite freaky! Check it out
Sag
The conversation may be especially profound today with your new-found partner. The current aspect is an encouraging sign, because it allows you both to move to a level of discussion beyond everyday chatter. You may be surprised at what you find out about each other. There is a real sincerity about the way you express your feelings - which is very touching. Something special is developing.
Scorp
The current aspect at play may mean that the person you are dating tonight has a far more serious outlook on life than you bargained for. Despite your best intentions to introduce a touch of humor into the proceedings, you cannot raise even a smile. And yet there is an undeniable something there. Whether it is a feeling of having met before, or an unmistakable sense of destiny, it has a remarkable pull on you.
Like I don't usually believe in horoscopes but for some peculiar reason this site has been freakily accurate as I??ve been following for the last month. Spooky! LOL!
??_The End (for now) lmao
Ooooh P.S. I always check lovehoroscopes.com at the end of the day for me and Scorp and it was again quite freaky! Check it out
Sag
The conversation may be especially profound today with your new-found partner. The current aspect is an encouraging sign, because it allows you both to move to a level of discussion beyond everyday chatter. You may be surprised at what you find out about each other. There is a real sincerity about the way you express your feelings - which is very touching. Something special is developing.
Scorp
The current aspect at play may mean that the person you are dating tonight has a far more serious outlook on life than you bargained for. Despite your best intentions to introduce a touch of humor into the proceedings, you cannot raise even a smile. And yet there is an undeniable something there. Whether it is a feeling of having met before, or an unmistakable sense of destiny, it has a remarkable pull on you.
Like I don't usually believe in horoscopes but for some peculiar reason this site has been freakily accurate as I??ve been following for the last month. Spooky! LOL!
Yaaay! SagChick!!!
***************DATE night with the Scorp*************************
I am sooo over excited for my official date with Scorp tonight! I literally cannot sit still! Whooop whoooop!!
I am sooo over excited for my official date with Scorp tonight! I literally cannot sit still! Whooop whoooop!!
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Thanks for your post dude! Ain't seen u on here in ages! xx