Wouldn't it be nice if we could love...

..without the worry of the significant other we love getting all weird on us and going into a funk where they don't care about us like we do them? Idk about the rest of you sags, but I'm the type of girl who falls for the other person and I remain in this state until the other person gets into a weird funk :/ I feel like I'm the only one who tries in a relationship anymore.

Idk about you guys, but I'm finding I don't mesh with people like I once did in high school. The one relationship I had where he didn't weird out on me I ended up ruining because of trust issues from the past relationship :/ And I still have a thing for my ex after 6 years.

Now I find it hard to fall and allow myself to just let go because each time the guy weirds out. It's just sad 😢

Anyone else wish they could just let loose and be with someone who will love them no matter what and always want to be with them?

Wish I hadn't messed up 😢

Posted by Reason
My falls do not depend on me. Very unfortunately so. I am much happier in a sober state. In all my dealings. So I personally wouldn't regret if it were different for me. Incompatibility & mismatch are no good, particularly in the long run.

😢 That's good you stay sober through it all. I've gotten more and more sober/logical over the years. I like it because I have this power over my emotions, but then I also want to be engulfed in blind passion and feel good

Posted by Reason
I do not, and that's the problem. I try not to make too many mistakes though. My falls, however, transformative and interesting they may seem, have a clinical quality to them which is undesirable. It's way better when my thinking and operation are clear.

You try alcohol? lol

Probably a good thing I suppose

I myself have never fallen in love. Maybe it's my Aqua moon 😛

The closest I've come is now with this Scorp. And I'm fighting it for precisely those things of which you are speaking. He is the hot and cold king. He has been very hot lately, but I'm very afraid to let go then get the cold. It does truly suck. It's scary, but I would love to just let go. I just don't want to fall and crack my head open lol.

I feel like I'm the only person who can look at someone I'm with everyday like they are new and special.

I have so much passion being a fire sign (moon) it seems like everyone else gets burned out on it.

They are lazy 😛