2 year update on my hot and cold scorpio

I’m glad that you are in a great place but be mindful of the advice you give out.

Some hot n cold behavior is abusive and no one should stick around for it.

Because you yourself did not.

You left to get peace of mind.

You went back because you were in love.

Posted by Pissedhimoff

I had an incredibly tumultuous start with my scorpio (some of which has been shared on previous posts in this forum), but I wanted to share how it all shook out. We are together, and public and in love and having a baby later this year!! All the the hot and cold, back and forth in the beginning truly did stem from his concerns about his friend feeling some type of way as well as a lack of trust in my trueness. He has since admitted that it was more so a ridiculously long test. You scorpios and your secrets tests almost drove me over the edge lol. Anyways, after a particularly cold spell from him about a year ago, I finally had had it. I stopped trying. No more texts, calls, visits to the mutual friends house when I knew he would be hanging etc. after a month I finally hear from him saying the quality of his life has been significantly worse since I was no longer in it and asking for one last chance. I was resistant, but not in a bitter way. I had just spent a year trying with every part of me Leo self and my pride wouldn’t allow me to take down the wall that I had built for the first time. After some time, he continued to say the same things, told his friend about his feelings for me and we have been together happy and head over heels in love since. It’s the outcome I knew could happen the whole time if only he stopped being so gd difficult.

Mature Scorps don't "test" in the way you're presenting it. Just sayin'...

As for this:

Posted by Pissedhimoff

...Case in point: if the feelings are real, the hot and cold scorpio vibes are worth the insanity they put you through.... In the end, it was all worth it and it is shockingly the most real, honest, raw and stable relationship ive ever been in. But damn Scorpio’s, y’all are wild. Lolol

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I wouldn't encourage the insanity. A relationship isn't suppose to be about tests and emotional torture.

Posted by DMV

I’m glad that you are in a great place but be mindful of the advice you give out.

Some hot n cold behavior is abusive and no one should stick around for it.

Because you yourself did not.

You left to get peace of mind.

You went back because you were in love.

*like* This.

😆 .... so you deleted the OP and your reply to DMV?

I can't.

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