Any Cancer girls dating a Scorpio guy?

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Cancer women have a little bit too much boss lady inside them for my taste.
Can't handle some good competition? 😄
Lol - I prefer an easygoing woman.
We're very easy going!....until we're not......
Boss ladies.
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Not really. I don't like bossing others or controlling them and I don't like being controlled. I prefer an equal.
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Cancer women have a little bit too much boss lady inside them for my taste.
Can't handle some good competition? 😄
Lol - I prefer an easygoing woman.
We're very easy going!....until we're not......
Boss ladies.
Not really. I don't like bossing others or controlling them and I don't like being controlled. I prefer an equal.
You know that doesn't really work with some Scorp males though, right?

"Equal" kind of implies sameness. It's unsexy to me. I prefer more "I take care of you; and you take care of me." I need more polarity.

But I can't speak for all Scorps. My father is a really relaxed Scorpio and he just shrugs when my mother raises her voice. My mother is the ultimate boss lady, and she frequently calls me a chauvinist pig. Their marriage is still going strong though.
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I see "I take care of you, you take care of me" as being about equals. Equality doesn't mean sameness or twinness, it means each are individuals and both are equally important in regards to the their needs, etc. Basically, equality means both give and take, there is no bottom tier doing all the giving while the other sucks that person dry and tosses them away. The differences are worked with and respected, and ideally there is a blending of one's strengths and weaknesses being other or different than the other persons, so as a unit they are even stronger together than apart.

Sounds like your parents make what they have work, but one person's paradise isn't another person's paradise. I don't like being pushed to the kind of frustration that makes me raise my voice but I also hate being yelled at and will give as good as I take. ~aries mars won't back down from a fight~
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Cancer women have a little bit too much boss lady inside them for my taste.
Can't handle some good competition? 😄
Lol - I prefer an easygoing woman.
We're very easy going!....until we're not......
Boss ladies.
Not really. I don't like bossing others or controlling them and I don't like being controlled. I prefer an equal.
You know that doesn't really work with some Scorp males though, right?

"Equal" kind of implies sameness. It's unsexy to me. I prefer more "I take care of you; and you take care of me." I need more polarity.

But I can't speak for all Scorps. My father is a really relaxed Scorpio and he just shrugs when my mother raises her voice. My mother is the ultimate boss lady, and she frequently calls me a chauvinist pig. Their marriage is still going strong though.
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Just an intuitive observation, but maybe you growing up seeing your mom sort of hen peck your dad has geared you into thinking you won't allow that to happen to you in a relationship and therefore seeking a more dom role with a more sub partner (not referencing true bdsm).
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Cancer women have a little bit too much boss lady inside them for my taste.
Can't handle some good competition? 😄
Lol - I prefer an easygoing woman.
We're very easy going!....until we're not......
Boss ladies.
Not really. I don't like bossing others or controlling them and I don't like being controlled. I prefer an equal.
You know that doesn't really work with some Scorp males though, right?

"Equal" kind of implies sameness. It's unsexy to me. I prefer more "I take care of you; and you take care of me." I need more polarity.

But I can't speak for all Scorps. My father is a really relaxed Scorpio and he just shrugs when my mother raises her voice. My mother is the ultimate boss lady, and she frequently calls me a chauvinist pig. Their marriage is still going strong though.
Just an intuitive observation, but maybe you growing up seeing your mom sort of hen peck your dad has geared you into thinking you won't allow that to happen to you in a relationship and therefore seeking a more dom role with a more sub partner (not referencing true bdsm).
I agree with you. I'm positive that it influenced me. I am genuinely attracted to a more submissive woman though. I don't think that deep kind of attraction comes from learned behavior. It's just who I am. So maybe it's a little bit of both.

Overall, it really isn't bad. My father just has a very high tolerance, but when he gets angry my mother quickly calms down and shuts up. He has his Moon in Aries. She's a Capricorn. They work well together.
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It probably is a mix of both. That's funny that your mom is a cap. I know a scorp/cap couple and she's pure bitch on wheels, but he just hunkers down and takes it. I have too much pride and self worth to choose to put up with that for the rest of my life.
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So I've been in a relationship with a Scorpio guy for about 8 months and it has been amazing! I've read countless stories about Cancer and Scorpio relationships and how the attraction is magnetic. I wonder why Scorpio men like Cancer women so much and vice versa.
you look like a scorpio man's type, all types of sexxy and sweet tho
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I hope that's good? Haha
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So I've been in a relationship with a Scorpio guy for about 8 months and it has been amazing! I've read countless stories about Cancer and Scorpio relationships and how the attraction is magnetic. I wonder why Scorpio men like Cancer women so much and vice versa.
you look like a scorpio man's type, all types of sexxy and sweet tho

I hope that's good? Haha
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Thanks!
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I had a reversal of this. I'm a Scorpio girl and I feel like a cancer girl with a Scorpio man might work better. He will like to be in control and you (assuming) will not mind giving him that control.

My issue was that my. Cancer was a little too meek for me. He was not very masculine, and I'm not saying you have to be the epitome of male in perfect form, but he let me decide EVERYTHING, and I always had to defend us both.

He also flaked on his goals a lot- something a driven, passionate Scorp cannot wrap their heads around. Lack of ambition is a big no for me.

But there are some great things among the bad I adored about him that I will always appreciate, and that was his ability to be so selfless (to a fault) and oh so sweet. The sweetest person I've ever known.

So a cancer female and Scorpio male may work better. Wish u well 🙂
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I never was attracted to my scorp until I met my boyfriend. In the pass dating a scorp was irritating. The manipulation was just fucking on my nerves. I also couldn't deal with the control issues.

It can work.. but it take work
Does he ever go to the extreme when his feelings are hurt? Like running or retreating? If so, how do you deal with it, and how long does it take for him to come around again? Hopefully, your bf is more "evolved," as they say.