Aqua Moon

I am a scorp w/ libra moon and am new in a relationship with a scorp w/ aqua moon. we both have venus in sag.

this is so exhilarating for me because i was in a horrible "relationship", if you can call it that w/ a scorp for 2 years.

now i have met this awesome "evolved" scorp w/ an aqua moon and also a venus in sag. it is like heaven so far. i hope it works out.

i get the sense that this one will be a great relationship. finally. i have waited such a long time for something like this. 🙂

anyway, my question is, how have any of your experiences been with dating a scorp w/ aqua moon? and another question would be your experiences with dating another venus in sag (if you have one).

Good luck with getting a commitment, Aqua moons are synonymous with being very commitment phobic, great men though, very charming and the charm makes a woman fall deeply only to find that he doesn't want a relationship or wants one on his terms...just a little mental note, have fun but go slow and I mean matrix reloaded slow...he will appreciate that...Venus compatibility, his venus will tell you a lot about how he approaches love as well.

Moon Aquarius-Moon Libra

Your relationship is apt to have a light, airy, friendly, and not overly emotional tone to it. Both of you are able to be somewhat detached and objective about your personal situation.

Sharing ideas, common interests, conversation, books, and intellectual pleasures are a satisfying aspect of your relationship.

You share ideas too, often about how people "should" relate to one another: fairness, equality, non-possessiveness, respect for each other's individual differences and autonomy, and open communication on all subjects are likely to be among them.

The major difference between you is that Libra is much more personal and romantic, and is more inclined to need a partner in order to feel complete, while Aquarius is more independent and eschews too much emotional neediness and dependency.

Also, Aquarius has a rebellious streak and enjoys flouting convention at times, while Libra is very concerned with social acceptance, appropriate social behavior, and good manners.

Oh and you 2 have venus in sag, this is going to super challenging, right now the rose colored glasses are on you both but once they come off....your both going to need freedom, it could really work though, you have placements in common, so I'm sure there is a very strong connection, give each other space to grow and this could turn out to be a very positive union.

"you have placements in common, so I'm sure there is a very strong connection, give each other space to grow and this could turn out to be a very positive union."

that is the feeling i am getting about it. it feels so natural, we both have airy moons, so that feels good. we both have that scorp intensity, but the airy moon alleviates that a little bit, i think.
i'm thinking both having a venus in sag could be good because we "get" each others needs for a little bit of freedom, but we also need firey passion, and comradery. 🙂

can sombody please tell me what i am october 18th i know im a libra but thats all i know

do you know your birth time? what year and place were you born?

october 18th 8;00pm 1976

vsop, based on the info you sent me:

Sun Libra
Moon Leo
Mercury Libra
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Scorpio

Ascendant Gemini

That's cool you you have venus and mars in scorpio!!!

Well, I'm not a scorpio but I do have an Aqua moon (1st decan actually) and my sun is on the Saggie-Cappie cusp.

I will say that we can be a hand full at times lol

a hand full can be good, right? 😉

Oh yes, it can either mean really good or really nutty 😛 Depending on you temperment. I seem to get long well with those who have earth moons.

VSOP

Venus in Water, Mars in Water (Romantic Water, Watery Desires):

You are most receptive to emotional expressions of affection. Although somewhat self-protective and cautious about making new social connections, once you are in committed relationships, you go out of your way to nurture and care for your loved ones. Verbal expressions of affection are less important to you than exchanges of feelings. You feel the need to "become one" with your lover. You come alive in a warm, nurturing, and mutually respectful relationship. Deep down, you fear getting hurt, and rejection is something you try very much to avoid, as it can run deep. Some lovers may find you difficult to understand, especially because of your sensitive nature and tendency to brood or to become silent when unhappy. You find it more difficult than most to share your partner, requiring loyalty from them, although you are also a very understanding person and generally quite forgiving. You are especially adept at feeling out your partner's deeper needs and desires. By picking up your partner's emotional undercurrents, you express your love. Some partners may consider you to be indirect and even roundabout. This may be so because you expect your lover to intuit your needs rather than directly asking for what you want. You have a lot to give, and your feelings run extremely deep. Sexually, you absorb the moods and feelings of your partner. You are giving, and you are extremely beguiling. Intimacy is very important to you, but you can smother others if you are feeling insecure. Not always communicative in bed, you value a partner who seems to know how to please you intuitively. You tend to respect tradition, and your sexual nature may be a tad conservative, but extremely passionate as well. You are not a person who comes on strong or who is aggressive with a partner. You need to feel safe and your partner must demonstrate loyalty and commitment to you in order for you to be at your best and most secure.

you can check out http://www.cafeastrology.com for more descriptions on your placements too.

yeah, ray's heart seems like a great person. very evolved, which i love. i wish all scorps can get to that level!

Ray,s heart has this water/air combo and he is one of the coolest scorps on this board .

I couldn't agree more 😄 He keeps this cap girl in her place 🙂 But its a nice place to be kept in lol. See, I'm both fiery/earthy with plenty of air and a hint of water. So, yes I need restraints at times lol

damn typos lol, my New Years Resolution is to work on my spelling errors and english lol

Tiki is right - My Scorp Sun/Aqua Moon/Venus in Sag decided he wanted to get commitment phobic after almost three years. I also have an Aqua Moon as well and basically broke it down to him as, We're both intelligent, beautiful people - I'm here by choice, not because you're my only option. He stopped pushing his limits after this.

Best of luck though, this combination in a person is awesome from my experience. Both passionate, and intellectual and incredibly spontaneous. I'm glad you're having fun.

Charles Manson was also a Scorpio Sun/Aqua Moon

Good Luck....Not.

LMAO!!@AngryScorpio dayum that's cold...all I can say is this combo is very very very very charismatic, make sure you know he's in love and he's professing it before you GIVE any of yourself over to him..matrix slow, make sure LOVE and RELATIONSHIP IE COMMITMENT is ALL his idea and give him some space to make sure he wants it more than want itself.

thanks scorpra that was so true its funny also im year of the fire dragon 1976 and day of the dog

angryscorpio, you crack me up.

well, not sure if he considers this "committment" or not, but he did give me a key to his house in a little box as one of my gifts.

brought tears to me eyes!!

"We're both intelligent, beautiful people - I'm here by choice, not because you're my only option. He stopped pushing his limits after this."


Your smart...I'll shall give credit to your aqua moon.

crap, i just read this:

Individualistic, eccentric. unpredictable, and (I say this affectionately and admiringly) part alien, moon in Aquarius people are...different. I know, I know, we're all unique, but some of us are just a little bit more unusual than others. Fasten your seatbelt: Love with an Aquarian moon can be a rollercoaster ride. Your Aquarius lover is capable of doing a complete and total 180, just when you thought things couldn't be any better.

scary.

Yeah Scorpra I have had a few encounters with Aqua moon men, weird okay and I pride myself on being different but these men are very unusual to say the least, great that you got the key to the house but don't assume or interpret ANYTHING until he verbally says it backed up with actions that you 2 are an item, I can attest and confirm that the rollercoaster ride is 100% real, so just be very mindful how you interpret this relationship before you settle in all cozy make sure he wants the very same thing as you, I used to fail every time in this area because it always felt right but underneath the surface things were bubbling and ready to erupt...tons of mind games and has the ability to make women act and be crayzee LOL, I'm talking about very sane, very together women so the minute you feel like your crazy or going crazy...you begin to doubt things were said and done, any sign of it...run

They also have the capability to make you attach to them very quickly, watch how you feel, meaning if you feel 100% confident and then you get around him and you feel confused, you feel in doubt, you feel co-dependent and you find yourself trying to appease him for no apparent reason, you just feel he's being distant and yet when you do things he seems puzzled...run..it's real okay and it's him, he's projecting his fears, this sign is really good at doing this, he will seem very put together, very confident but beneath he's feeling insecure and crazy, he will project unknowingly onto his partner, watch and see if he moves things around too, like say you just knew your lamp was in a certain place but now it's not or your missing a shoe type stuff...just watch out okay LOL

I'm not saying he's this way, but this sign combo can be very weird almost sadistic in nature

thanks for the info. we shall see what happens.

i'm hoping his sun in scorpio will keep him "grounded" when it comes to our relationship and he will not want to run when things seem to be going well. if it goes well, he wouldn't want to run anyway right?

he tells me im the only girl he has been with who really really "gets" him, and that is probably because i am a scorp w/ an air moon too and we share venus in sag, so we really do have so much in common. plus we both have earth rising (him cappie, me virgo) and earth mars (him virgo, me taurus). it is freaky how similar we are. but something that seems to me to be almost a match made in "heaven" if one can exist. lol

yeah I would stay away from terms that make him seem like the ONE, it's best you wait and allow time to pass before you believe it's a match made in heaven, usually it turns out to be a living hell...

well he is 40 and i'm 35. he is so open for a scorpio, as am i. he seems very evolved to me. which is so refreshing because i wasted 2 years of my life waiting for a different scorp to decide if he could handle his emotions for me, or even decide if he was over his ex of 10 years. he had moon in cancer. hmmmm

but anyway, it just feels right. i think the older you get the more you know exactly what you want/need in someone and i think we are both there. plus our plates have been clean for quite awhile, no emotional baggage or anything. we also weren't searching for anything. we were happy in ourselves. then we met. and come to find out we have tons of the same friends.

I too feel the possibilities are endless, just don't fall asleep at the wheel, don't IGNORE red flags, don't pedestal him ie make him the perfect fit, your God, idealize him until he has really proven himself that he's ready for you. Those rose colored glasses will get you in trouble, I'm not saying seek trouble, look for it but don't ignore oddities either...many women aren't preparing themselves for the fall, so when it happens it's devastating, just always remember at any moment he could change what he feels, he could say I wanted that but I changed my mind, I know that's hard to do when love is brand new but these days it's necessary

thanks tiki 🙂

Hey birthday girl ! how is the day so far for you?

FALLSTAR!!!!!!! 😄 I didn't see this, I'm sorry 😄 Christmas day was awesome 😄 I enjoyed myself 🙂 I finally did what I wanted to do 😉

I would've replied yesterday but I didn't come back to the scorpio board lol

I have Aqua moon and find that my most endearing and magical relationships have been with men with Libra moons..

You know Star ... the only guy I ever wanted to marry had a Libra moon 🙂 He was a Taurus-Gemini cusp. My goodness, did I ever want to be his wife lol

lol starfsh and cappy 🙂

I'm here by choice, not because you're my only option. He stopped pushing his limits after this.

this is the way to handle Aqua sun guys too from my experience - actually, works with most people when they start messing about 🙂

I'm amazed at the bravery here, but maybe that's my Virgo heavy chart talking. I once knew a Sag Sun/Libra Moon/Cappy Venus - the way his Moon caught mine was indescribable. It always seemed wrong place/wrong time though. I was always worried that the sparks would fade and the relationship would have no real foundation. I love my Scorp, and I think in all he's the very best for me but you can't help but wonder sometimes. 🙂

Had my Scorp Sun/Aqua Moon friend just do a 180 on me too, the one I thought was the "one". It's like I feel like I know him, but then all of a sudden like I said something comes out of left field. What sucks, is I see it in him but BAM he comes at me blindsidedly, and makes me wonder where the hell that come from. How can I know it, but never be prepared for when it happens. Very good master of hiding emotions, feelings, thoughts, making you think one thing while the whole time another.

Now I just need to know how to fix it. We're officially on the outs, Im bummed as hell. I'm a Cancer, I should be able to be slow as hell. Not in a relationship, but both acting like it not meaning too. Tiki's advice in here is spot on. But I get too impatient though. Not sure where that comes from. He's so patient, but almost methodically patient.


Right now, it would probably be "drink this coffee, i made it especially for you." "no you drink it" *both fearing but hoping it's poisoned*

Lol at scorp/aqua combo being sadistic. im an aqua with moon, mars, saturn & pluto all in scorp & all in the 8th house- NOBODY IS MORE ANGELIC THAN ME, I DESERVE SAINTHOOD

To the OP, Im a sadge venus as well, nothing wrong with your boyfriend's placements. U got yourself a Pope, go ahead & thank the heavens for it!!