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Hey ladies, fun question for you:

Let's say you've just exchanged numbers with a good looking guy, made small talk for a bit before parting ways. About 20 minutes and a good amount of miles later you see a vehicle speeding behind you trying to catch up, it's him and he's signaling for you to get off at the nearest exit. You pick up your phone to call him, but realize it's now completely dead. He's trying to say something, but gets drowned out by surrounding cars and highway noise... Are you intrigued enough to pull over or too creeped out to stop?
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Hey ladies, fun question for you:

Let's say you've just exchanged numbers with a good looking guy, made small talk for a bit before parting ways. About 20 minutes and a good amount of miles later you see a vehicle speeding behind you trying to catch up, it's him and he's signaling for you to get off at the nearest exit. You pick up your phone to call him, but realize it's now completely dead. He's trying to say something, but gets drowned out by surrounding cars and highway noise... Are you intrigued enough to pull over or too creeped out to stop?
😆! Neither. I just met dude 2 seconds ago, so he hasn't earned any real estate in my mind for me to be intrigued by his actions, and unless he keeps following me I have nothing to worry about.

I would stop to see if there's anyone in my back seat though. He might have been trying to tell me there's a killer with a bloody hook back there.

#HighBeams #UrbanLegend
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Are you a good Scorpio or a bad Scorpio? I've noticed that when it comes to Scorps, you're either insanely evil, conniving, manipulative, self serving, etc. or you're really cool, laid back, sweet, awesome people. Which one are you, honestly....


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there's no mutable Scorpio? sees all 'grey's'?
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Hey ladies, fun question for you:

Let's say you've just exchanged numbers with a good looking guy, made small talk for a bit before parting ways. About 20 minutes and a good amount of miles later you see a vehicle speeding behind you trying to catch up, it's him and he's signaling for you to get off at the nearest exit. You pick up your phone to call him, but realize it's now completely dead. He's trying to say something, but gets drowned out by surrounding cars and highway noise... Are you intrigued enough to pull over or too creeped out to stop?
😆! Neither. I just met dude 2 seconds ago, so he hasn't earned any real estate in my mind for me to be intrigued by his actions, and unless he keeps following me I have nothing to worry about.

I would stop to see if there's anyone in my back seat though. He might have been trying to tell me there's a killer with a bloody hook back there.

#HighBeams #UrbanLegend
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Lmao! My first thoughts would be this guy is going to chop me up into tiny little pieces. Buuuut curiosity is also strong with this one ugh.smh.lol
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What would you do if you found out your fiance has a secret child in a foreign country that he pretends doesn't exist and hasn't been a part of their life since they were 9mos. old?! 😄

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That's a huge secret! The engagement would be put on hold while I figure out if he had this child while we were together. Why he chose not to acknowledge him or her... what else has he been withholding... Definitely a major blow to the trust we've developed and if he does not step up and be a father to his child, it would be a deal breaker for me.
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Hey ladies, fun question for you:

Let's say you've just exchanged numbers with a good looking guy, made small talk for a bit before parting ways. About 20 minutes and a good amount of miles later you see a vehicle speeding behind you trying to catch up, it's him and he's signaling for you to get off at the nearest exit. You pick up your phone to call him, but realize it's now completely dead. He's trying to say something, but gets drowned out by surrounding cars and highway noise... Are you intrigued enough to pull over or too creeped out to stop?
😆! Neither. I just met dude 2 seconds ago, so he hasn't earned any real estate in my mind for me to be intrigued by his actions, and unless he keeps following me I have nothing to worry about.

I would stop to see if there's anyone in my back seat though. He might have been trying to tell me there's a killer with a bloody hook back there.

#HighBeams #UrbanLegend
Lmao! My first thoughts would be this guy is going to chop me up into tiny little pieces. Buuuut curiosity is also strong with this one ugh.smh.lol
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Lol. Why would your mind even go there?! Rhetorical question really. I guess I've always been curious why people jump to death case scenarios when people act a little off. Perhaps I've been around too many "off" people...
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Hey ladies, fun question for you:

Let's say you've just exchanged numbers with a good looking guy, made small talk for a bit before parting ways. About 20 minutes and a good amount of miles later you see a vehicle speeding behind you trying to catch up, it's him and he's signaling for you to get off at the nearest exit. You pick up your phone to call him, but realize it's now completely dead. He's trying to say something, but gets drowned out by surrounding cars and highway noise... Are you intrigued enough to pull over or too creeped out to stop?
😆! Neither. I just met dude 2 seconds ago, so he hasn't earned any real estate in my mind for me to be intrigued by his actions, and unless he keeps following me I have nothing to worry about.

I would stop to see if there's anyone in my back seat though. He might have been trying to tell me there's a killer with a bloody hook back there.

#HighBeams #UrbanLegend
Lmao! My first thoughts would be this guy is going to chop me up into tiny little pieces. Buuuut curiosity is also strong with this one ugh.smh.lol
Lol. Why would your mind even go there?! Rhetorical question really. I guess I've always been curious why people jump to death case scenarios when people act a little off. Perhaps I've been around too many "off" people...
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I suppose I don't put anything past anybody and the imagination can be a b*tch. Think I can get away with blaming my moon for that? lol
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Do y'all make good cooks?
I'm a very good cook. I think Scorp female's and males are very good cooks! At least the ones I know!
I am too and have found the same with other Scorpio women. I don't know many Scorpio men. 😢
Yeah, you've gotta go out there and meet some. They are pretty awesome and it feels so comfortable to have someone think exactly like you!
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It's odd, out of all of the people I get to know well enough to find out their birthday, Scorpio males have been rare. I've had close relationships with men with Scorpio moon and Scorpio personal planets, but not Scorpio suns. I was penpals with one for a while, years ago, but we didn't have enough in common to keep in contact.
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I've also heard that November Scorpios are "worse" than October Scorpios. Does anyone have any insight on this?
That come from the delusion that being closer to libra makes one more demure or 'safe'. Which is rather silly.

If anything some of the craziest people I've met were Libras.

Then again I don't believe in cusps. I believe you are one sun sign, and if you display personality traits from another it's attributed to other placements which soften or sharpen different qualities in your sun.
I am October Scorp and am pretty demure. But I also have a lot of Libra and strong Venus.
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the libra does influence you into a "proper" lady like.
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Do y'all make good cooks?
I'm a very good cook. I think Scorp female's and males are very good cooks! At least the ones I know!
I am too and have found the same with other Scorpio women. I don't know many Scorpio men. 😢
Yeah, you've gotta go out there and meet some. They are pretty awesome and it feels so comfortable to have someone think exactly like you!
It's odd, out of all of the people I get to know well enough to find out their birthday, Scorpio males have been rare. I've had close relationships with men with Scorpio moon and Scorpio personal planets, but not Scorpio suns. I was penpals with one for a while, years ago, but we didn't have enough in common to keep in contact.
Yeah... It is odd. Maybe you just need to open yourself up more and see your surroundings more? I only say that because for me it always feels like "we find ourselves" without having to say much (same with other water signs).
I can't even give advice as to where to find them because they are everywhere: at parties, school, dance, traveling, cooking classes, human sexuality classes (lol), friends of friends, dinner parties, work (engineers, project managers, vp's)... You name it, they are out there!
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Thanks! Maybe now that I've been more aware of the lack of them in my life, I'll start to meet them. Sometimes that has happened to me with things that I become conscious of, so there's an opening that results. I'm sure I encounter them in many places but having more than a short interaction doesn't happen so I don't know them well enough to find out their birthday.
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The DXP Scorp ladies are breaking the oversexed stereotype 🙂
Or they're lying about their age.
I am 35 and have had less
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And I'm 45 and have less but I'm not posting the number, lol.

Also, number of partners doesn't necessarily tell you whether a person is oversexed. You can be oversexed with one partner, or no partners.
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Do y'all make good cooks?
I'm a very good cook. I think Scorp female's and males are very good cooks! At least the ones I know!
I am too and have found the same with other Scorpio women. I don't know many Scorpio men. 😢
Yeah, you've gotta go out there and meet some. They are pretty awesome and it feels so comfortable to have someone think exactly like you!
It's odd, out of all of the people I get to know well enough to find out their birthday, Scorpio males have been rare. I've had close relationships with men with Scorpio moon and Scorpio personal planets, but not Scorpio suns. I was penpals with one for a while, years ago, but we didn't have enough in common to keep in contact.
Yeah... It is odd. Maybe you just need to open yourself up more and see your surroundings more? I only say that because for me it always feels like "we find ourselves" without having to say much (same with other water signs).
I can't even give advice as to where to find them because they are everywhere: at parties, school, dance, traveling, cooking classes, human sexuality classes (lol), friends of friends, dinner parties, work (engineers, project managers, vp's)... You name it, they are out there!
Thanks! Maybe now that I've been more aware of the lack of them in my life, I'll start to meet them. Sometimes that has happened to me with things that I become conscious of, so there's an opening that results. I'm sure I encounter them in many places but having more than a short interaction doesn't happen so I don't know them well enough to find out their birthday.
Yes! I totally agree with you an the same thing happens to me when I have a new awareness. So many doors open! Good luck with knowing now 😉
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🙂 Thanks! Cool that you can have that happen too. I'll be on the lookout now.
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Would you prefer having a guy tell you outright he likes you and he barely knows you or do you prefer if a guy wants to know you really well before he tells you he likes you. Other scorps please chime in so I can get some statistics 😄
I prefer it if they want to get to know me first. I don't mind if they show enthusiasm for me as they get to know me, but based on the real me, not what they might imagine me to be. When a person who doesn't know me tells me that they like me, it's usually been physical attraction that they're referring to.
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why do you all hate leo men so much?
I don't! I like many Leo men. I have two Leo male friends, and recently I discovered that the man who does a lot of work for me to help me maintain my property is a Leo. Super talented guy, and very easy to communicate with.
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i dont hate leo men.
my favorite uncle is
a leo man. so do not
generalize.
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I've also heard that November Scorpios are "worse" than October Scorpios. Does anyone have any insight on this?
That come from the delusion that being closer to libra makes one more demure or 'safe'. Which is rather silly.

If anything some of the craziest people I've met were Libras.

Then again I don't believe in cusps. I believe you are one sun sign, and if you display personality traits from another it's attributed to other placements which soften or sharpen different qualities in your sun.
I definitely do believe in cusps and its usually those that aren't born on cusps who are skeptical of this. You definitely do feel influences from either one or the other or even both sides of your cusp. I'm an Aries/Taurus cusper, but people who know me all say that I am nothing like a Taurus, yet technically I am in 0 degrees Taurus. I have no other Aries in my chart other than my sun's cusp. It's one of those things where you'd have to be one in order to understand.
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I'm an October Scorpio and a technical cusp and I do not believe in them. Any of the balancing traits I have is due to the lessons that Scorpio learns from the sign before and my mind that never stops going. I like to be fair but that's because I'm decent etc etc I could go on explaining but there's no need. My chart is pretty consistent in what it is and there is only one air and that is not Libra.
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Are you a good Scorpio or a bad Scorpio? I've noticed that when it comes to Scorps, you're either insanely evil, conniving, manipulative, self serving, etc. or you're really cool, laid back, sweet, awesome people. Which one are you, honestly....


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I've also heard that November Scorpios are "worse" than October Scorpios. Does anyone have any insight on this?
That come from the delusion that being closer to libra makes one more demure or 'safe'. Which is rather silly.

If anything some of the craziest people I've met were Libras.

Then again I don't believe in cusps. I believe you are one sun sign, and if you display personality traits from another it's attributed to other placements which soften or sharpen different qualities in your sun.
I definitely do believe in cusps and its usually those that aren't born on cusps who are skeptical of this. You definitely do feel influences from either one or the other or even both sides of your cusp. I'm an Aries/Taurus cusper, but people who know me all say that I am nothing like a Taurus, yet technically I am in 0 degrees Taurus. I have no other Aries in my chart other than my sun's cusp. It's one of those things where you'd have to be one in order to understand.
I'm an October Scorpio and a technical cusp and I do not believe in them. Any of the balancing traits I have is due to the lessons that Scorpio learns from the sign before and my mind that never stops going. I like to be fair but that's because I'm decent etc etc I could go on explaining but there's no need. My chart is pretty consistent in what it is and there is only one air and that is not Libra.
I said USUALLY. I understand that there are some cuspers who not believe in them. You're totally entitled to that. Most cuspers who are aware of the influence of being on the cusp, do though.
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Would you prefer having a guy tell you outright he likes you and he barely knows you or do you prefer if a guy wants to know you really well before he tells you he likes you. Other scorps please chime in so I can get some statistics 😄
I prefer it if they want to get to know me first. I don't mind if they show enthusiasm for me as they get to know me, but based on the real me, not what they might imagine me to be. When a person who doesn't know me tells me that they like me, it's usually been physical attraction that they're referring to.
Thanks that's good to know. Another person in the forum has the same answer as you. I've been taking that approach for a bit already but still really want to know this girl in particular
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Cool! 🙂 I hope that goes well. 🙂
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What do you think about shyness in a guy?
shyness, especially
in a taurus male, is
very endearing.
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I don't like it. Maybe I'm too old (almost 30!) but shyness - in general - is a turn off. You should know what you want and be able to move forward in getting in. I value assertiveness. Occasional shyness once something is established may be cute... maybe.

Mars in Aries for me, if you couldn't tell 🙂
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What happens if I stomp on your stingers?
you die.
we heal.

But goats have hooves. But what if you die? And I heal but I go home and think long and hard about what I did and regret it on my death bed at the age of 112?
you forget, goat.
we are phoenix
as well. not only
scorpion.
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Yup, Phoenix. We may disappear or be upset for awhile, but will return better than ever.

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What happens if I stomp on your stingers?
you die.
we heal.

But goats have hooves. But what if you die? And I heal but I go home and think long and hard about what I did and regret it on my death bed at the age of 112?
you forget, goat.
we are phoenix
as well. not only
scorpion.
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so you'll die and come back to life? But we're half water. We could just shoot a jet of high pressure water at a Phoenix and it'd still die lol.
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Would you prefer having a guy tell you outright he likes you and he barely knows you or do you prefer if a guy wants to know you really well before he tells you he likes you. Other scorps please chime in so I can get some statistics 😄
If I barely know him... NO. It's never worked. I lose interest instantly and just want to get away. I think it's because I feel like it's superficial and I am not being liked for the REAL me.

I prefer to hang out in a more chill way and get little hints here and there. Let the pot warm up slowly but steadily 😈
Thanks I agree with that. My friends think I'm being to cautious and slow but I feel long lasting, meaningful, and loving relationships are built from friendship. I just need to start dropping hints 😢
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True. Drop a hint that you like this scorp--make it obvious though. If she likes you, she'll run with it. Give her the "ok to go for it" sign. If you get good feedback from her, proceed out of friend zone.