SagChick411
@SagChick411
13 Years1,000+ Posts
Comments: 46 · Posts: 1157 · Topics: 46
At wits end literally..................... (Page 2)
You are on page out of 5 | Reverse Order
we were getting quite communicative the past several days. When I poured my heart out, on how I always felt for him, all he did was laugh.
I agree with Xin about the fucked-up'ness when you don't show you care. We don't want to act like a lunatic, therefore CALM is good. But our feelings get hurt. Getting out of the closet for Scorpio is no easy task. Once we do express, but you act nonchalant about it, then we think we misinterpreted all the signs you have given out so far.
And I will repeat this one more time, because I mentioned this on other threads:
If Scorpio spends time with you, that is indication enough we care for you!
We are loners and we don't like nonsense waste of time.
See it takes a long time until we DO express our feelings for you. We don't want to make a fool of ourselves. We test from every angle possible. Just when we think we have come very close and are SURE you ARE reciprocating to our feelings, but you say something like "so what?", that confuses us. We don't go from one minute from loving you, then not loving you. We may hate you, but hate equals love. So acting nonchalant throws all our judgements, we have built up so far, tumbling down.
And I will repeat this one more time, because I mentioned this on other threads:
If Scorpio spends time with you, that is indication enough we care for you!
We are loners and we don't like nonsense waste of time.
See it takes a long time until we DO express our feelings for you. We don't want to make a fool of ourselves. We test from every angle possible. Just when we think we have come very close and are SURE you ARE reciprocating to our feelings, but you say something like "so what?", that confuses us. We don't go from one minute from loving you, then not loving you. We may hate you, but hate equals love. So acting nonchalant throws all our judgements, we have built up so far, tumbling down.
OMG! That's what I did when my Scorp told me he had missed me and liked me alot and he said 'Why is that funny?' and to be totally honest I had no answer. I just couldn't quite believe what he was saying hence the laugh. Maybe he too got offended by this? ARGGHHH damn this Saginess! lol
I can only imagine that your Sags reaction wasn't because he found it amusing, maybe like me he just didn't know what to say back? I was pretty dumbfounded when my Scorp told me this yesterday. I literally had no words for him and could only muster a laugh, maybe this was nervousness on my part (?)
Judging from your Sag laughing after you poured your heart out I can only think that maybe he isn't taking you seriously, this may be because you poured your heart out quite casually talking and it wasn't a deep discussion you two were having? I dunno, I'm just guessing.
I laughed at my Scorp cause he may have thought he was pouring his heart out (being snubbed by me) but it's just like he was saying it in passing, not an actual heart to heart. I really have no reason to believe he 'actually' likes me like he says he does?
I think you should tell your Sag you wanna talk? If my Scorp said this to me and then poured his heart I'd be more inclined to take him seriously.
I can only imagine that your Sags reaction wasn't because he found it amusing, maybe like me he just didn't know what to say back? I was pretty dumbfounded when my Scorp told me this yesterday. I literally had no words for him and could only muster a laugh, maybe this was nervousness on my part (?)
Judging from your Sag laughing after you poured your heart out I can only think that maybe he isn't taking you seriously, this may be because you poured your heart out quite casually talking and it wasn't a deep discussion you two were having? I dunno, I'm just guessing.
I laughed at my Scorp cause he may have thought he was pouring his heart out (being snubbed by me) but it's just like he was saying it in passing, not an actual heart to heart. I really have no reason to believe he 'actually' likes me like he says he does?
I think you should tell your Sag you wanna talk? If my Scorp said this to me and then poured his heart I'd be more inclined to take him seriously.
Posted by FUM
we were getting quite communicative the past several days. When I poured my heart out, on how I always felt for him, all he did was laugh.
Quite scary that your Sag done exactly what I done when my Scorp 'may' have been pouring his heart to me? WOW!
What do you think I should say to him now? I feel bad cause IF he was pouring his heart out I may have offended him. Ughhhh what to do!!?
coming to your question of what to do, SagChick.
If you don't want to go out with him or are unsure about your feelings, take some time off. Obviously, you do need that time away from him. Don't say to him that way though. My suggestion is that you make an emotional entree speech first. Something like,
"I hope you don't mind ..." and then, whatever time you need. Let's say... "Can I see you next week?".. or whenever.. because I have so much catching up to do blah".
I know little white lies are very difficult for SAGs, but that will keep him level-headed. If you tell him, I'm not sure how I feel about you. And then 2 days later think, oh.. I think I love my Scorpio, it will be difficult to convince him. He already made up his mind about you. I can tell right off --> this is not friendship material!
He cares romantically for you.
If you don't want to go out with him or are unsure about your feelings, take some time off. Obviously, you do need that time away from him. Don't say to him that way though. My suggestion is that you make an emotional entree speech first. Something like,
"I hope you don't mind ..." and then, whatever time you need. Let's say... "Can I see you next week?".. or whenever.. because I have so much catching up to do blah".
I know little white lies are very difficult for SAGs, but that will keep him level-headed. If you tell him, I'm not sure how I feel about you. And then 2 days later think, oh.. I think I love my Scorpio, it will be difficult to convince him. He already made up his mind about you. I can tell right off --> this is not friendship material!
He cares romantically for you.
seraph 🙂 I saw before you hid your post! don't worry... I appreciate you just say how you think.
you must be familiar with 'Scorp testing'. There are many ways of doing this. We are natural 'detectives/researchers' so to speak. Believe me, you will be tested in and out without you are being even aware of. This could come with jokes to see your reaction, to testing you in all stages of life.
you also must of heard that we are not only a bundle of emotions -- as I see Leo, for example (wink 😉 ) -- I would bet on Scorpio being an intellectual sign. So yes, there is the danger of intellectualizing our emotions.
Well... we have to get lost in terminology and idealization when it comes to Astrology. There are certain traits, there are environmental factors, and then there are the interpretations to make sense of it all.
you must be familiar with 'Scorp testing'. There are many ways of doing this. We are natural 'detectives/researchers' so to speak. Believe me, you will be tested in and out without you are being even aware of. This could come with jokes to see your reaction, to testing you in all stages of life.
you also must of heard that we are not only a bundle of emotions -- as I see Leo, for example (wink 😉 ) -- I would bet on Scorpio being an intellectual sign. So yes, there is the danger of intellectualizing our emotions.
Well... we have to get lost in terminology and idealization when it comes to Astrology. There are certain traits, there are environmental factors, and then there are the interpretations to make sense of it all.
oops.. when I wanted to respond by Quoting, the system indicated your post is hidden.
Posted by seraphPosted by FUM
If Scorpio spends time with you, that is indication enough we care for you!
click to expand
Let's be careful here. This can apply to *any* sign.
Posted by FUM
we are not social types, seraph, e.g. like Aries have many friends. Sag has many friends. Leos are just out there yapping away with everybody and expressing their feelings (generalizing -- I also met quiet July Leos). We appear to have many friends, but we only have a tiny group. The rest of our time goes into working and learning more. You can't do that when you socialize with small talk chatter. That's the way I see it.
Well I have a lot on these next couple of days and then I am going out of town for a few days too!
Scorp just text me saying 'Did you enjoy last night?' to which I replied back 'Yes I did'.
Hmmmmmmm, I know you tell me he likes me romantically but I still don't buy it! lol
Scorp just text me saying 'Did you enjoy last night?' to which I replied back 'Yes I did'.
Hmmmmmmm, I know you tell me he likes me romantically but I still don't buy it! lol
This guy here has the exact same chart as my Scorp. With all that bunch load (read:excess) Scorpioness and that Sagi venus and Cap Mars. His emotional output, if he even does dare to show it, borders on a minimum. 🙂
Your Scorp DOES like you! You are the one he's still thinking about. He would not have bothered to ask for your reaction, if all you meant to him was a booty call.
Even with my Sagi rising, I can feel my blood boiling with your indecisiveness and constant fluctuation about your feelings.
The thing that I've observed with Scorpios is that it takes a hell lot of time and efforts for them to completely "detox" the significant other from their life, if and when the time arises. Painstaking measures. And they are a very few of those people who know this about themselves, even before falling in love for the first time.Very deep and insightful, aren't they? All they crave (and the I use the word "crave"), is that the person they love being there for them, with them. Forever.
Anyone is constantly at war with themselves, trying to realise "whether a Scorp like me or no"...should JUST STICK AROUND! You will eventually be rewarded for believing in him/her. 🙂
So, Sag411, you shouldn't be worried about him not liking you or you not believing he does like you or whatever...just do one things straight at a time. Just ask youself one last time, do you see yourself with him or no. I definitely do not think that you should have the *need* to go out on a date to *decide* whether you *still* like him or not. You should know that by yourself through some (very much needed) introspection.
I can understand where he is coming from. I am in love with a guy just like him. He is genuine. But if you have moved on, let him go.
And please for heaven's sake, read the thread posted by Intruiged and LadyScorpP. 😛
Your Scorp DOES like you! You are the one he's still thinking about. He would not have bothered to ask for your reaction, if all you meant to him was a booty call.
Even with my Sagi rising, I can feel my blood boiling with your indecisiveness and constant fluctuation about your feelings.
The thing that I've observed with Scorpios is that it takes a hell lot of time and efforts for them to completely "detox" the significant other from their life, if and when the time arises. Painstaking measures. And they are a very few of those people who know this about themselves, even before falling in love for the first time.Very deep and insightful, aren't they? All they crave (and the I use the word "crave"), is that the person they love being there for them, with them. Forever.
Anyone is constantly at war with themselves, trying to realise "whether a Scorp like me or no"...should JUST STICK AROUND! You will eventually be rewarded for believing in him/her. 🙂
So, Sag411, you shouldn't be worried about him not liking you or you not believing he does like you or whatever...just do one things straight at a time. Just ask youself one last time, do you see yourself with him or no. I definitely do not think that you should have the *need* to go out on a date to *decide* whether you *still* like him or not. You should know that by yourself through some (very much needed) introspection.
I can understand where he is coming from. I am in love with a guy just like him. He is genuine. But if you have moved on, let him go.
And please for heaven's sake, read the thread posted by Intruiged and LadyScorpP. 😛
Posted by DazedScorp
If I've learned one thing from this thread...
It's that sex with a Scorpio is the closest I'll get to being able to shit a rainbow.
Amen to that.
WOW So I'm a Scatterbrain? HA HA! How funny! You're right @ intrigued! He can't figure me out atal, but it's not like I'm trying to come across as a enigma? He kept asking me loads of questions last night while looking deep into my eyes. He said that I like to play dumb sometimes? So I'm thinking 'Do I?'. I swear I don't! Ah well, that's interesting of him to say...
@Firewater... I asked him earlier before reading this post if he liked me and he said 'WTF, why the hell would I come and spend yesterday with you if I didn't like you?' I think he was a little offended?
He kept banging on about me listening to his music CD (he's a rapper) So I eventually did today and on a few tunes he's talking about liking someone (a girl) alot and is worried she isn't noticing his talents—? LOL!! I wonder if he is talking about me/> I'd be totally flattered with that was the case? I don't wanna straight up ask him. Anyway so I told him I listened to his CD and he replied ' 😉 '
I DO really like him. Maybe I thought I felt differently because I numbed myself due to his game playing last year. I keep finding me checking my phone to see if he's responded to my texts, HA!
I wonder what the next step will be from now......
@Firewater... I asked him earlier before reading this post if he liked me and he said 'WTF, why the hell would I come and spend yesterday with you if I didn't like you?' I think he was a little offended?
He kept banging on about me listening to his music CD (he's a rapper) So I eventually did today and on a few tunes he's talking about liking someone (a girl) alot and is worried she isn't noticing his talents—? LOL!! I wonder if he is talking about me/> I'd be totally flattered with that was the case? I don't wanna straight up ask him. Anyway so I told him I listened to his CD and he replied ' 😉 '
I DO really like him. Maybe I thought I felt differently because I numbed myself due to his game playing last year. I keep finding me checking my phone to see if he's responded to my texts, HA!
I wonder what the next step will be from now......
Just thinking of him now makes my knees weak.
Posted by seraphPosted by SagChick411
Just thinking of him now makes my knees weak.
So we're back to square one.
🙂click to expand
HAHHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IN NEED OF DIERR HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IS THIS NORMAL? AM I NORMAL? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! *Shakes head*
Posted by seraphPosted by SagChick411Posted by seraphPosted by SagChick411
Just thinking of him now makes my knees weak.
So we're back to square one.
🙂
HAHHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IN NEED OF DIERR HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IS THIS NORMAL? AM I NORMAL? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! *Shakes head*
More normal than most.
This is the part where the Sag finds out she has FEELINGS.
(omg)
😉
Let them happen. Ya gotta.click to expand
LMFAO!!! You make me laugh! I've always had more feelings than my lover in any relationship or fling, not normal Sag stuff eh? lol!
Ughh I sent the Scorp a message ages ago and he still hasn't replied *rolls eyes* lol
Is this the part where he starts playing games again despite how much he likes me? Oh darnnnn it!
Yeah you're so right!
LOL!
I'm just gonna go about my business! I got this, LOL!
LOL!
I'm just gonna go about my business! I got this, LOL!
@OP - The Earth in that chart isn't showing. Harness that Cap Moon and Venus. The patience is there, find it.
Posted by SagChick411
Yeah you're so right! LOL! I'm just gonna go about my business! I got this, LOL!
Yes You got this hun...dont turn urself into a wreck..lol. THINK before you speak or react.
*Its just ME* and my babe, at the end of the day..**
Ughh this sucks! I'm trying to be strong but this is jarring me, lol! If Scorp men really start to like someone then why can't they just be upfront? I'm baffled. We could really get somewhere if he just had a frank talk with me instead of using reverse psychology? I'd like just to hang without the games. I guess I'm just an upfront Sag and games annoy me no end! I'm very aware of him playing them though so much better equipped to handle his shit. Still sucks though! Its no fun for me, lol
Hey thanks Seraph!!!!! Regroup is defo the way forward!!!
The Scorp messaged me (damn he loves a text) saying that he's off work all of next week and would like to do stuff together, like go out, go Cinema. He had told me last night that he was off but I just thought he was just saying it to let me know, not cause he actually wanted to spend time with me, lol! Awwww what a sweetie, lol!
The Scorp messaged me (damn he loves a text) saying that he's off work all of next week and would like to do stuff together, like go out, go Cinema. He had told me last night that he was off but I just thought he was just saying it to let me know, not cause he actually wanted to spend time with me, lol! Awwww what a sweetie, lol!
See? Now don't eff it up Sagg. Have fun!
Lmao! I'd have to train myself not to be the typical Sag for me no to fuck it up! My cuz who is also a Sagi said the exact same thing to me. She thinks that I joke around too much with my Scorp which comes across to him as me not taking him seriously. I really need to listen when he talks cause it might be another case of him 'opening up' his little heart to me.
Posted by seraphPosted by PotHeadVirgo22
Taking him serious? Isn't he doing the playing?
He started it, hell if anything he need ta take you serious
He sounds like a fuckin kid, I did those things in high school.....
All the beatin around the bush and shit needs to stop are we neglecting that fact—
His strategy, if there is one, is obviously working.
He's got her frantically posting questions about him. That "beating around the bush" is used to
spark and maintain interest level by being indirect. A carrot dangled here, a text message there,
move in closer, then move further away. It's classic. And if done right, it works. QED.
Just another aspect of seduction. Eventually though, he'll need to seal the deal
and open up to her, confirm their relationship. That *should* happen soon,
if he has any sense.click to expand
It will, under no circumstance, happen soon if he is still unsure of this Sag being the ONE.
Everyone knows how long they are capable of making potential "lifepartners" wait and eat out of their hands. 😛
Posted by firewatergurlPosted by seraphPosted by PotHeadVirgo22
Taking him serious? Isn't he doing the playing?
He started it, hell if anything he need ta take you serious
He sounds like a fuckin kid, I did those things in high school.....
All the beatin around the bush and shit needs to stop are we neglecting that fact—
His strategy, if there is one, is obviously working.
He's got her frantically posting questions about him. That "beating around the bush" is used to
spark and maintain interest level by being indirect. A carrot dangled here, a text message there,
move in closer, then move further away. It's classic. And if done right, it works. QED.
Just another aspect of seduction. Eventually though, he'll need to seal the deal
and open up to her, confirm their relationship. That *should* happen soon,
if he has any sense.
It will, under no circumstance, happen soon if he is still unsure of this Sag being the ONE.
Everyone knows how long they are capable of making potential "lifepartners" wait and eat out of their hands. 😛click to expand
So hold on a minute.....it WILL happen soon if he's still 'unsure' of me?
I'm confused! lol!
Do I have to remain a mystery to him for him to stay around? lol! Like I'm not trying to or anything but this is how it's coming across to him obviously 😛
Also yesterday he said 'I know you better than you think'. Errmmmmm don't know how true this is....
ALSO a question.....Does a Scorp man have to be SURE of his romantic interest to the point of 'love' in order for him to make her his gf?
Would I have to be sure thing for him to place his bet so to speak? lol!
All this going back and forth has been going on since October. Shit that 6 months!!!!! Jeez that's passed by quick!
Would I have to be sure thing for him to place his bet so to speak? lol!
All this going back and forth has been going on since October. Shit that 6 months!!!!! Jeez that's passed by quick!
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
true....I wouldnt be surprised if he just dissappeared again
none of sounds genuine....but hell who am I to talk...
If he disappears again then I'm done with his ass! I will definitely be stronger moving on the second time around! I can't have all this back and forth business any longer. I have some dreams of my own god damn it! lol!
No but in all seriousness I can't take him doing that again, I just couldn't!
I felt a bit numb (feeling wise) after sleeping with him, I just feel I am emotionally protecting myself better after his first round of antics!
Posted by firewatergurl
This guy here has the exact same chart as my Scorp. With all that bunch load (read:excess) Scorpioness and that Sagi venus and Cap Mars. His emotional output, if he even does dare to show it, borders on a minimum. 🙂
How would the 'emotional output' be shown to one (me) Am I missing this due to my Saginess? Ahhhh!
Posted by trine
@OP - The Earth in that chart isn't showing. Harness that Cap Moon and Venus. The patience is there, find it.
No Cap moon I'm afraid so no patience. I had done my chart all wrong when I was new, I now know better
My correct chart is as follows;
02 SAG 47m 40s SUN ( 2ND HOUSE)
28 SAG 22m 32s MOON ( 3RD HOUSE)
24 SAG 29m 00s MERCURY ( 3RD HOUSE)
13 CPR 05m 53s VENUS ( 4TH HOUSE)
06 AQU 52m 21s MARS ( 4TH HOUSE)
13 CPR 17m 41s JUPITER ( 4TH HOUSE)
20 SCO 42m 55s SATURN ( 2ND HOUSE)
13 SAG 08m 31s URANUS ( 3RD HOUSE)
00 CPR 07m 43s NEPTUNE ( 3RD HOUSE)
03 SCO 15m 53s PLUTO ( 1ST HOUSE)
27 TAU 06m 56s N. NODE ( 8TH HOUSE)
16 VIR 38m 49s Part F. (12TH HOUSE)
12 LIB 13m 41s ASC ( 1ST HOUSE)
12 CAN 46m 46s MC (10TH HOUSE)
06 GEM 04m 34s CHIRON R ( 8TH HOUSE) .
Posted by SagChick411
So hold on a minute.....it WILL happen soon if he's still 'unsure' of me? I'm confused! lol!
Do I have to remain a mystery to him for him to stay around? lol! Like I'm not trying to or anything but this is how it's coming across to him obviously Also yesterday he said 'I know you better than you think'. Errmmmmm don't know how true this is....
ALSO a question.....Does a Scorp man have to be SURE of his romantic interest to the point of 'love' in order for him to make her his gf?
Would I have to be sure thing for him to place his bet so to speak? lol!
All this going back and forth has been going on since October. Shit that 6 months!!!!! Jeez that's passed by quick!
Yes..he'll still be unsure IF you KEEP acting suspect, you'll only prolong the madness. SCRAP all your idiotic and useless mind babble.
What matters NOW is: that he contacted YOU...PRIOR to his week off. If he DIDN'T care about you or didn't want to spend it with you, he wouldn't have told you to begin with.
Go along with the plans for next week and see where it goes. STOP forming nonsensical issues in ur head.
I have dated a few scorpios and If you REALLY want to date a Scorpio, you gotta channel some type of seriousness and FOCUS.
LOL @ idiotic and useless mind babble. How do I stop this when it comes so naturally to me? Lol
''If he DIDN'T care about you or didn't want to spend it with you, he wouldn't have told you to begin with''.
Yeah I hear you, I am surprised he told me about this time off. It's really shown me a different side of him.
''Go along with the plans for next week and see where it goes. STOP forming nonsensical issues in ur head''.
I will go along with the plans as I simply cannot wait to see what a date with him entails, how he carries himself and if the true gent I believe him to be. Obviously I cannot wait to spend time with him anyway. He is one of the most funniest sarcastic dudes I know, I love his wit and one liners, its so endearing to me!
''I have dated a few scorpios and If you REALLY want to date a Scorpio, you gotta channel some type of seriousness and FOCUS''.
I will surely be focusing and I know the seriousness will come out of me, It's there somewhere. I just hate that I may be coming off as 'unsure' to him. I don't wanna give him mixed signals this time round. If anything I wanna reassure him, how does one do this?
I'm out of town this weekend, I can feel already that I'm going to miss him. I'm such a loser, Wehhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! Ha ha!
''If he DIDN'T care about you or didn't want to spend it with you, he wouldn't have told you to begin with''.
Yeah I hear you, I am surprised he told me about this time off. It's really shown me a different side of him.
''Go along with the plans for next week and see where it goes. STOP forming nonsensical issues in ur head''.
I will go along with the plans as I simply cannot wait to see what a date with him entails, how he carries himself and if the true gent I believe him to be. Obviously I cannot wait to spend time with him anyway. He is one of the most funniest sarcastic dudes I know, I love his wit and one liners, its so endearing to me!
''I have dated a few scorpios and If you REALLY want to date a Scorpio, you gotta channel some type of seriousness and FOCUS''.
I will surely be focusing and I know the seriousness will come out of me, It's there somewhere. I just hate that I may be coming off as 'unsure' to him. I don't wanna give him mixed signals this time round. If anything I wanna reassure him, how does one do this?
I'm out of town this weekend, I can feel already that I'm going to miss him. I'm such a loser, Wehhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! Ha ha!
He's also 27
Ahhh all these conflicting views, making my head spin!!!! I'm meeting him later this evening, and now I don't know how to come across. I certainly don't wanna come across as 'emotional' or not, I don't wanna make him feel a way but then I don't want him to lord over my feelings. I'm more confused than before. Why the hell is he back then? And why is he opening up to me a little more. Ughh!!!
Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by Sag89
Fuck his brains out weeehooooo!
LOL....yeah, I think this guy is best kept as you're fuck buddy and nothing else....fuck him and then leave his bed like it doesn't phase you,,then don't call him for days,,you'll see how fast that Scorpio comes a runnin....click to expand
LOL! Well the other night he left mine and I didn't text him after or anything and he texts me when he gets indoors (so unlike him) I wasn't gonna reply back because I simply couldn't be bothered but the sag in me didn't allow me to be mean like that, HA!
I messaged him earlier asking if he wanted to meet up for sex, LOL! He totally went for it. Ah well, he is satisfying my sexual needs which is cool with me. I won't allow myself to fully fall into his trap this time round, something within me is just not allowing me to. *shrugs*
Yeah I'm very ready, infact I'm actually waiting for my dream man to waltz into my life and make lots of babies with. I even have my wedding venue sorted, LOL!
Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by SagChick411
Yeah I'm very ready, infact I'm actually waiting for my dream man to waltz into my life and make lots of babies with. I even have my wedding venue sorted, LOL!
Then get rid of him cus he's not!! I hope you're using birth control, with said Scorpian King!click to expand
OH god yes! HA!! I couldn't even imagine getting preggers before marriage to ANYONE, I'm an old fashioned kinda gal! 😄
I've never lusted after anyone, HA! I do enjoy the feeling as sinful as it is. I guess I never experienced such a thing so couldn't work out what it was. You're totally right.
So do you think I should continue playing this by ear in terms of sleeping with him/hanging with him. I don't believe I will get a commitment from him and IF i did, would I really want it? I am a Sag after all. I want what I can't have like most people then once I have it I'm like Ughh onto the next big thing. I really can't work stuff out. Somethings wrong with me clearly!
So do you think I should continue playing this by ear in terms of sleeping with him/hanging with him. I don't believe I will get a commitment from him and IF i did, would I really want it? I am a Sag after all. I want what I can't have like most people then once I have it I'm like Ughh onto the next big thing. I really can't work stuff out. Somethings wrong with me clearly!
Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by SagChick411Posted by DeadRingerr
Stop pooring you're guts, he already knows how you feel. It it what it is and you're not going to stop seeing him, not yet at least, you're to hot for him. The flame will burn itself out in time...🙂
Oh I stopped pouring my guts out to him many months ago, NONE of that is occurring any longer, lol! I wish the flame would burn out already! 😄
The sex isn't even that good, nothing to write home about. I've slept with him twice now.....maybe I should knock it on the head. He can't give me what I want! I do wanna meet a serious contender for a life partner and he is clearly lacking somewhat!
Then it's almost over....the sex is dying out cus you want more and he can't deliver that, which means you two have come to a dead end street....click to expand
It's funny you say the sex is 'dying'. It makes me chuckle cause it never actually quite began, HA HA! So this means I was lusting after the feeling of wanting to sex him which makes me laugh even more. AHHHH!!!!!
You know what he told me the other night and I didn't even ask, he said; 'I haven't slept with anyone since me and you had in Dec' So I was like 'Erm OK then' and he's like; 'I'm deadly serious'. So I was like 'It's nothing to do with me if you have, that's your business'. It seemed he was offended cause he wanted me to believe me and I kind of laughed it off cause it amused me him saying so off his own accord. What the hell was that all about? lol
Posted by DeadRingerr
Let it burn itself out....it already started to, you will look at him one day and be like oh God, go away you asshole...he was you're true first real hot sexual experience, lucky girl it was a Scorpio to!! He gave you the full monty, head games and all. Meaning the head games were the prelude to the build up of the sex! Foreplay, I think he thought you knew what he was doing!
LOL!!! Yes you're right! We shall see what happens next. Never know, I may wake up tomorrow and feel this! HA HA!
'I think he thought you knew what he was doing!'. I dunno how true this is? lol!
It almost seems that now he has come back ten times harder, he was ummming and rrrrrring the first time but it is defo full force, some messages almost make him look a little desperate which he NEVER was before (cool as a cumcumber he was previously) What ever could have changed in his head? I feel like I'm messing him around. I hate feeling like this, but then on the other hand I don't wanna totally let him go cause I want him just there for me. Ughh, is this normal? Am I a bitch? I feel like one!
Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by SagChick411Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by SagChick411Posted by DeadRingerr
....
Oldest line in the book...he feels you are slipping away....he wants to be the first to find someone else! thats the code of the Scorpio!click to expand
Ooooooh is it now, HA! The little minx!
Posted by DeadRingerr
27 is like being 17, not a kid anymore but not an adult yet....27 is not 22 anymore but not quite yet 30!!
Love the way you explain this 😄
😄 (cheesy grin with teeth showing)
Posted by IntriguedScorp
I'm a little concerned you need so much validation for your feelings that every time this guy breathes you come to the board asking what that's all about. Maybe you just aren't ready for an "adult" relationship yet. Go have fun, stop playing games all around and be real. You are more likely to attract the attention of someone who is really into you. My two cents anyway.
Good luck. 🙂
LOL! Yep you're right! If I 'really' liked him I guess I would just 'know' and the truth is I really actually don't. What a sorry state of affairs 😛
*He knows how I 'feel' about him. I just need to him to actually tell me! I'm not asking him to tell me he loves me or anything like that. I just want him to honestly say if he thinks we should make a go of this/us! 😢
I don't know IF this is true but I have a feeling that Scorp is 'aware' of all my movements. For example; The other night he seemed to know alot of WHERE I was on what days. I just put this down to a co-incidence but then when I thought about it HOW the fuck would he KNOW? We don't know any of the same people (well at least I think we don't) and I am not on a social networks.
Yesterday before our argument (ME venting) I told him that I was still away (I told a white lie) so I could see his reaction but he didn't have one atal, infact he didn't even ask when I would be coming back. I did see a few suspicious looking guys at the station, LOL! Maybe I'm being paranoid (which is not like me). The thing is that he always stresses about when I'm coming back home (even if I'm not seeing him)
He once called me when I was in town (HIS town as he would put it) and asked me if ANY guys had tried to ask me for my number cause he assumed I would be looking hot (ha) He then said that NO guy could even try and holla at me cause as soon as they find out that I'm Scorps woman then they'd be murder.
He is VERY well known around our town (his town) and knows everyone that is worth knowing. I don't exactly blend in where we live. I wear loud trademark lipsticks and statement garments and handbags. Maybe those guys were people he knew~?
Yesterday before our argument (ME venting) I told him that I was still away (I told a white lie) so I could see his reaction but he didn't have one atal, infact he didn't even ask when I would be coming back. I did see a few suspicious looking guys at the station, LOL! Maybe I'm being paranoid (which is not like me). The thing is that he always stresses about when I'm coming back home (even if I'm not seeing him)
He once called me when I was in town (HIS town as he would put it) and asked me if ANY guys had tried to ask me for my number cause he assumed I would be looking hot (ha) He then said that NO guy could even try and holla at me cause as soon as they find out that I'm Scorps woman then they'd be murder.
He is VERY well known around our town (his town) and knows everyone that is worth knowing. I don't exactly blend in where we live. I wear loud trademark lipsticks and statement garments and handbags. Maybe those guys were people he knew~?
Ringerrr is not giving you the correct advice.
I don't understand why you are experiencing so much heartache, when your Scorp guy is committed to you. He already told you that he is not sleeping with anybody since he has been with you starting Dec.
I can tell you same with my Sag guy. As unrealistic this may sound, although Sag man and I were only casual, I was loyal to him within the 6 months we kept getting back together. Any other one-night stand, I could have cared less if I had someone else the next day, but for Sag I felt differently. I wanted to be loyal to him.
same goes for your scorp.
I can tell you same with my Sag guy. As unrealistic this may sound, although Sag man and I were only casual, I was loyal to him within the 6 months we kept getting back together. Any other one-night stand, I could have cared less if I had someone else the next day, but for Sag I felt differently. I wanted to be loyal to him.
same goes for your scorp.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Sun-Sagittarius Moon-Pisces Mars-Sagittarius Venus-Scorpio Mercury-Sagittarius Saturn-Virgo Jupiter-Leo What do
Maybe this is more of a venting post - I posted my story a few weeks back in the Astrology/Relationships forum...Dating
So the scorpio I had been dating text me tonight saying hey, how have you been? Apparently he's on his way to a con
I haven't talked to the scorpio I was dating since the last time he text me when I was sick. But recently I got food poi
This one for the scorps out there & anyone who loves them....anyone who cant stand one or several.....What mood best des
So I've been married for 5 yrs. I like to think of myself as a good looking scorp. I'm tiny, thin, I don't have an ugly
the scorp im seeing..i wont make a paragraph, so long story short..hes an ex, of mine,we met back up, been seein each ot
Our sages teach us that the scorpion (_??__??__??__?) is the deadliest member of the general category of poisonous creat
Hey guys! Just adopted the CUTEST golden retriever puppy, and got bored one night so I googled pet astrology and it ca
After talking to scorpio I realized I offended his sister and she seemed really cool so I'd rather not be on bad terms w
My new scorp was nice enough to take me down there because he had a bigger car. ( Still not big enough for my bed and t
Scorpio acted distant yesterday. I told him stuff like I wanted him and all he said was oh. which just frustrated me.
__________ Well fill in the rest as you please.My point is I do not want to have sex the way he does,when he wants it an
he's always telling me what i think and how i feel about him when i know i dont.. and he's always pointing out that m
4 POST! :) So what Sign do attract? It seems Like I attract a lot of Capricorns, Virgos, Pisces, and even Scorpios! l
I've heard several scorpio's say they sting themselves more often that stinging others. How do you sting yourself?
Over the weekend, I reached out to a Scorp male that I had started dating about two years ago. Without getting into too
First let me run through what happened then I will give you a little insight about our past (as I eat cookie dough) Sigh
.. 1. You fall asleep under the shower. In water all returns, yes 1a. Your girlfriend finds you and thinks nothing of
He was surprisingly calm. He told me quite a few times before he even got to mine that he had to leave early due to work and hoped I didn't mind, so I was thinking like WTF?
Why do they do that?! Jeeeeeeez! LOL!