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Posted by SagChick411
Right I know I have probably infuriated many Scorps on this board with my indecisiveness. I have really assessed my feelings about my Scorp and have come to the conclusion that I am not lusting after him atal. I do infact 'love' him and it hurts bad! I have been miserable all these months without him. I am crying now as I write this cause I am finally realizing my own true emotions.
Me; Do u miss me? Oooh another long pause, ur really good at this......
Scorp; Sorry. Yes I do
Me; What u doin?
Me: I must say, u do a great job of ignoring me, seriously its good!!
Scorp; Was up love
Me; Nothing much. Why do u take so long to respond to me?
Scorp; Coz I'm always doin something
...
Me; Why are u confused—? Cause I'm very confused. Do I confuse you—?
Scorp; No I think I confuse u
Me; Well at least you know. Only YOU know how u feel
Scorp; Feel about what though? I'm not tryna confuse u at all
Me; OH I don't know. OK if u say so
Me; It is what it is
Scorp; O
K


Posted by FUM
He already told you that he is not sleeping with anybody since he has been with you starting Dec.


Posted by cancepio
he isn't treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Sounds like he is treating you as a FwB situation, while your emotionally invested. Sounds very dangerous.


Posted by FUM
1) He may be having doubts of SagChick caring same way he does for her.
2) What he found as charming in the beginning, may start bothering him that she is not taking him 'serious enough'.
3) He may be feeling misunderstood.
4) He may even feel claustrophobic by the attention and then being misunderstood on top.
5) He could be truly busy.
I disagree with the FWB comment. A Scorpio wouldn't cut off casual sex with someone else, unless he cares for you. If he feels naturally loyal to her, it is enough of an indication that you are exclusive.
Do give him some space, SagChick. He will explain to you later on how he feels, but do not object when he tells you something that may not make sense to you. Just tell him, I understand. I will think of what you said.. I think this would be indication enough that you are taking him seriously.


Posted by FUM
1) He may be having doubts of SagChick caring same way he does for her.
2) What he found as charming in the beginning, may start bothering him that she is not taking him 'serious enough'.
3) He may be feeling misunderstood.
4) He may even feel claustrophobic by the attention and then being misunderstood on top.
5) He could be truly busy.
I disagree with the FWB comment. A Scorpio wouldn't cut off casual sex with someone else, unless he cares for you. If he feels naturally loyal to her, it is enough of an indication that you are exclusive.
Do give him some space, SagChick. He will explain to you later on how he feels, but do not object when he tells you something that may not make sense to you. Just tell him, I understand. I will think of what you said.. I think this would be indication enough that you are taking him seriously.


Posted by Xin
Sag you need to read what TaurusBelle said. It couldn't be more true.
I am speaking to a Scorpio myself right now and for some reason he wants me to chase him around. Nope. No can do. Regardless of a man's sign women shouldn't be doing the chasing. Men are hunters. Let them do what their DNA calls for them to do. Last night my Scorpio knew I was going out and he was like "Write me an email when you get back." PFF no. Did he write me one? NOPE. So why the hell should you chase this guy around too? F that bullshit.

Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by SagChick411
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He knows your whereabout because you are predicatable. or maybe you tell him too much without realizing. Scorps have a WONDERFUL memory and pick up patterns QUICKLY.
Keep BUSY... like your scorpio has been, as he so ELOQUENTLY stated that you WEREN'T busy ENOUGH (on the low). and stop overanalyzing.
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Posted by Xin
Don't be waiting by the phone like OMGZ will he text me.

Posted by seraphPosted by SagChick411Posted by seraphPosted by SagChick411
Just thinking of him now makes my knees weak.
So we're back to square one.
🙂
HAHHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IN NEED OF DIERR HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IS THIS NORMAL? AM I NORMAL? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! *Shakes head*
More normal than most.
This is the part where the Sag finds out she has FEELINGS.
(omg)
😉
Let them happen. Ya gotta.click to expand

Posted by SagChick411
@ TAURUSbelle
'What ever happened to the week off that he told you about?'
That week off is NOW so he is probably sulking somewhere I'd imagine (well I hope so anyway, ha).
I went away for for the Easter holiday and only really got back. He made me so mad that I turned my phone off yesterday and haven't switched it back on. He has NO way of contacting me.
We were 'supposed' to be going out together one day this week. He wanted to spend most of the week with me this week, but I didn't 'actually' agree to even one day.
We didn't actually arrange a date as I told him I would let him know when I was free and holla at him when I got back from my trip. He pissed me off so bad that all I could see was a RED which resulted into no plans being made, unleashing on him, which in turn has lead to me wanting to have space for now. I'm sure he needs some too. I would wanna be alone if someone said all those hurtful things. He may not even want to do anything now. I don't even feel like switching my phone on, not even tomorrow. I too embarrassed for all the horrible things I said. I'm not too proud to apologize. I WILL turn my phone back on tomorrow but wait for him to make contact first as I have already sent him a novel worth of shit.
Ughhh!
LOL!
Posted by SagChick411Posted by TAURUSbelle
He knows your whereabout because you are predicatable. or maybe you tell him too much without realizing. Scorps have a WONDERFUL memory and pick up patterns QUICKLY.
Keep BUSY... like your scorpio has been, as he so ELOQUENTLY stated that you WEREN'T busy ENOUGH (on the low). and stop overanalyzing.click to expand
The thing is he possibly know ANY of that information as I haven't and didn't speak to him for a couple of months. I deleted him totally off my everything and like I said I'm not on a any social networks. We didn't do much talking atal, we had sex but not like the first time round. This just seemed for some odd reason.
The only things we talked about were 'IF' I had missed him. He asked what I'd been upto and I said 'nothing much'. I literally did not give away ANYTHING.




Posted by everevolvingepithet
Go round and spoon him lol

Posted by everevolvingepithet'Do you want me to come over and spoon you? lol'
I was gonna go for a witty elaboration but *shrug*.
It's not rocket science, as I'm so fond of saying at times haha. 😛click to expand


Posted by DeadRingerr
We have all been sombodies slut...its a good feeling...very liberating!!

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by SagChick411Posted by everevolvingepithet
Go round and spoon him lol
FUCK spooning. I wanted to bang him. HA! NO time for spooning I'm afraid. SEX: YES. SPOONING: NOT ON MY SHIFT.
You've got to start gently, he's sleeping lolclick to expand


Posted by DeadRingerr
You both are waiting for the other to do something....You're waiting for the Scorp to say something earth shattering, the Scorp is waiting for you to stop waiting for that to happen!!

Posted by DeadRingerr
Sexy Sag!!! Scorpio has met his match!!!!

Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DeadRingerr
We have all been sombodies slut...its a good feeling...very liberating!!
I dunno... the stories I could tell muahaha
Me too!!!! Those were the days!!!click to expand


Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by SagChick411Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DeadRingerr
We have all been sombodies slut...its a good feeling...very liberating!!
I dunno... the stories I could tell muahaha
Me too!!!! Those were the days!!!
I'd LOVE to hear some stories if you can be bothered to share one day? 😄
Oh hell no, to grave it goes with me!!! You will make you're own😉click to expand


Posted by SagChick411
I can't even remember what started it. I can only imagine it was me (possibly) getting frustrated with his shit. I will copy and paste the WHOLE one sided) attack on him when I switch my phone on tomorrow if you like. It's pretty bad and very LONG! HA!
'When I think back to when he came over the other night I remember him being 'incredibly' shy. That was SO unlike him'...this time round he was so much slower, softer, he seemed a bit mesmerized, a bit lost, a really shy. I dunno, it just 'felt' 'different'. It was like we were 'making love'. I felt as though I was in a trance. He kept saying he wanted to 'make' 'love' to me. This was before he came over. I kept thinking WTF does he keep referring to it as 'making love'? He is usually much more crude when it comes to sexual messages (in the past anyway). He didn't even make the first move which is UNLIKE him.

Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DeadRingerr
LOL...
Seriously, it's more or less written out in that post ! 😛
Thats what I said but was told I was giving the wrong advice....😉click to expand





Posted by DeadRingerr
That conversation was not a conversation, first off...it was a series of insecure questions on both parts....seems like questions were being answered with questions...bunch of bullshit....no wonder you're on here asking us for answers. I'm not gonna play the game with you both...Sag what do u want from him?


Posted by DeadRingerr
That conversation was not a conversation, first off...it was a series of insecure questions on both parts....seems like questions were being answered with questions...bunch of bullshit....no wonder you're on here asking us for answers. I'm not gonna play the game with you both...Sag what do u want from him?








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