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SagChick -- he cares A LOT for you π
Posted by SagChick411
Right I know I have probably infuriated many Scorps on this board with my indecisiveness. I have really assessed my feelings about my Scorp and have come to the conclusion that I am not lusting after him atal. I do infact 'love' him and it hurts bad! I have been miserable all these months without him. I am crying now as I write this cause I am finally realizing my own true emotions.Me; Do u miss me? Oooh another long pause, ur really good at this......
Scorp; Sorry. Yes I do
Me; What u doin?
Me: I must say, u do a great job of ignoring me, seriously its good!!
Scorp; Was up loveMe; Nothing much. Why do u take so long to respond to me?
Scorp; Coz I'm always doin something
...
Me; Why are u confusedβ? Cause I'm very confused. Do I confuse youβ?
Scorp; No I think I confuse u
Me; Well at least you know. Only YOU know how u feel
Scorp; Feel about what though? I'm not tryna confuse u at all
Me; OH I don't know. OK if u say so
Me; It is what it is
Scorp; O
K
..LOL...Seraph was right to mention Sagchick's "incoming of FEELINGS"..lol.
Sagchick.. What happened to "THINK b4 you speak?"
From THIS moment forward, STOP texting. That was NOT a conversation BUT CONFUSION in text form!! Its best that you two SPEAK to avoid problems. UGH..*dizzy spell*
It seems that you are seeking attention or validation too much from scorp. He's not going to give you that satisfaction. But it satisfies HIM that you are seeking its almost like you're at HIS mercy.
Be more confident. If you can wear bold lipstick, then you have it in you to not have to always cling, poke and prod him. It only make YOU look weak..STOP it.
He knows your whereabout because you are predicatable. or maybe you tell him too much without realizing. Scorps have a WONDERFUL memory and pick up patterns QUICKLY.
Keep BUSY... like your scorpio has been, as he so ELOQUENTLY stated that you WEREN'T busy ENOUGH (on the low). and stop overanalyzing.
LIVE your life. and he'll BEG to enter it.
What ever happened to the week off that he told you about?
1) He may be having doubts of SagChick caring same way he does for her.
2) What he found as charming in the beginning, may start bothering him that she is not taking him 'serious enough'.
3) He may be feeling misunderstood.
4) He may even feel claustrophobic by the attention and then being misunderstood on top.
5) He could be truly busy.
I disagree with the FWB comment. A Scorpio wouldn't cut off casual sex with someone else, unless he cares for you. If he feels naturally loyal to her, it is enough of an indication that you are exclusive.
Do give him some space, SagChick. He will explain to you later on how he feels, but do not object when he tells you something that may not make sense to you. Just tell him, I understand. I will think of what you said.. I think this would be indication enough that you are taking him seriously.
Posted by FUM
He already told you that he is not sleeping with anybody since he has been with you starting Dec.
Yes he he did, but how can I believe anything he says (?) I generally think men will always say whatever they 'think' a girl wants to hear. I hope he is telling the truth.
When I think back to when he came over the other night I remember him being 'incredibly' shy. That was SO unlike him!!! I DO think he loves me but is just too scared to admit it to himself never mind me!
I have the strongest gut instinct that he's gonna come at FULL force. Let's see how this tale unfolds...
Posted by FUM
SagChick -- he cares A LOT for you π
*smiles* π
Posted by cancepio
he isn't treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Sounds like he is treating you as a FwB situation, while your emotionally invested. Sounds very dangerous.
Thanks for posting π
Yeah you're totally right, he isn't treating me the way I want (not yet anyway) but I'm confident more than ever that WILL change very soon.
@ FwB comment; I have to disagree here as I have only slept with him TWICE so he's isn't really getting the full use of this clearly, lol.
You're right. I am emotionally invested but I have a better handle on things in regards to my own frame of mind, so I can deal with this. It will pain me if it doesn't go the way I want and he isn't on the same page as me, but you only live once and he COULD be my soul mate. I'm not going miss an opportunity and live in regret thinking 'What IF...' I just wouldn't be able to cope with 'that'.
I am willing to see what happens with him and IF he is playing around then that's his bad cause I have a good heart and would love him with all my being. He will NEVER find someone like me. I'm unique and if he can't recognize that then more fool him.
I am not gonna allow him to bring me down anymore. Yeah I may have the odd unleashing of the sharp tongue I have but if it's meant to be then it will be. Things don't just happen, you have to make them happen and if it doesn't work then atleast I can say I tried. π
Sag you need to read what TaurusBelle said. It couldn't be more true.
I am speaking to a Scorpio myself right now and for some reason he wants me to chase him around. Nope. No can do. Regardless of a man's sign women shouldn't be doing the chasing. Men are hunters. Let them do what their DNA calls for them to do. Last night my Scorpio knew I was going out and he was like "Write me an email when you get back." PFF no. Did he write me one? NOPE. So why the hell should you chase this guy around too? F that bullshit.
Posted by FUM
1) He may be having doubts of SagChick caring same way he does for her.
2) What he found as charming in the beginning, may start bothering him that she is not taking him 'serious enough'.
3) He may be feeling misunderstood.
4) He may even feel claustrophobic by the attention and then being misunderstood on top.
5) He could be truly busy.I disagree with the FWB comment. A Scorpio wouldn't cut off casual sex with someone else, unless he cares for you. If he feels naturally loyal to her, it is enough of an indication that you are exclusive.
Do give him some space, SagChick. He will explain to you later on how he feels, but do not object when he tells you something that may not make sense to you. Just tell him, I understand. I will think of what you said.. I think this would be indication enough that you are taking him seriously.
Hey π
I KNOW, I KNOW I fucked up but so what (?) HA HA! I was mad and he felt the full wrath of the beast so I 'really' fucked up. That conversation is nothing compared to the claustrophobic abusive messages I continued to shoot at him. I actually whooped his ass BIG time. It is NOT good. I got a thread on my peoples page (hehe) π about that so take a lil look if you want.
I didn't curse at him ATAL (I just respect his sorry ass too much actually call him a fucking bastard and anything other cunt in the world) I just was VERY blunt (purposely) I just patronized him quite a lot (I do feel bad). I have been too nice with him for too long. He has NEVER seen that side of me and now he knows that I can be a superbitch. I think he secretly likes it. It may have even turned him on (hhahahahaha)
Thanks for your advice again. I really appreciate all your comments π
And to add onto what TaurusBelle said he is almost disrespecting your time because he figures you aren't busy or whatever you are doing isn't that important. Stop texting him back and do your own thing. Don't be waiting by the phone like OMGZ will he text me. He know's this game. Scorpios are cunning and very smart. He knows he is playing you like a fiddle so stop.
One more thing. Men will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to. And with that said, I am also doing the same as I am typing this. I will NOT chase anyone anymore, period.
Posted by FUM
1) He may be having doubts of SagChick caring same way he does for her.
2) What he found as charming in the beginning, may start bothering him that she is not taking him 'serious enough'.
3) He may be feeling misunderstood.
4) He may even feel claustrophobic by the attention and then being misunderstood on top.
5) He could be truly busy.I disagree with the FWB comment. A Scorpio wouldn't cut off casual sex with someone else, unless he cares for you. If he feels naturally loyal to her, it is enough of an indication that you are exclusive.
Do give him some space, SagChick. He will explain to you later on how he feels, but do not object when he tells you something that may not make sense to you. Just tell him, I understand. I will think of what you said.. I think this would be indication enough that you are taking him seriously.
Hello again my friend π
Yes I will give him space. I actually need the space myself if I'm honest or I WILL go CRAZY on him again (hurling abuse) if I 'feel' he says the wrong thing. HA!
'2) What he found as charming in the beginning, may start bothering him that she is not taking him 'serious enough'
Do you think he MAY think I'm not taking him seriously enough this time round you mean?
I threatened to delete him yesterday if he didn't 'clean his act up' (I've done this twice already, but he came sniveling back) and he said 'Go ahead, do it, delete me then, if that's what you really want to do'. & YES I really would have done and fucked him off for REAL this time but I was so angry at the time, good job I didn't cause I wouldn't be able to go sniveling to him. My pride just wouldn't allow it unfortunately. lol!
@ TAURUSbelle
'What ever happened to the week off that he told you about?'
That week off is NOW so he is probably sulking somewhere I'd imagine (well I hope so anyway, ha).
I went away for for the Easter holiday and only really got back. He made me so mad that I turned my phone off yesterday and haven't switched it back on. He has NO way of contacting me.
We were 'supposed' to be going out together one day this week. He wanted to spend most of the week with me this week, but I didn't 'actually' agree to even one day.
We didn't actually arrange a date as I told him I would let him know when I was free and holla at him when I got back from my trip. He pissed me off so bad that all I could see was a RED which resulted into no plans being made, unleashing on him, which in turn has lead to me wanting to have space for now. I'm sure he needs some too. I would wanna be alone if someone said all those hurtful things. He may not even want to do anything now. I don't even feel like switching my phone on, not even tomorrow. I too embarrassed for all the horrible things I said. I'm not too proud to apologize. I WILL turn my phone back on tomorrow but wait for him to make contact first as I have already sent him a novel worth of shit.
Ughhh!
LOL!
Posted by Xin
Sag you need to read what TaurusBelle said. It couldn't be more true.
I am speaking to a Scorpio myself right now and for some reason he wants me to chase him around. Nope. No can do. Regardless of a man's sign women shouldn't be doing the chasing. Men are hunters. Let them do what their DNA calls for them to do. Last night my Scorpio knew I was going out and he was like "Write me an email when you get back." PFF no. Did he write me one? NOPE. So why the hell should you chase this guy around too? F that bullshit.
YEP NO more chasing from NOW.
π
He knows your whereabout because you are predicatable. or maybe you tell him too much without realizing. Scorps have a WONDERFUL memory and pick up patterns QUICKLY.
Keep BUSY... like your scorpio has been, as he so ELOQUENTLY stated that you WEREN'T busy ENOUGH (on the low). and stop overanalyzing.
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The thing is he possibly know ANY of that information as I haven't and didn't speak to him for a couple of months. I deleted him totally off my everything and like I said I'm not on a any social networks. We didn't do much talking atal, we had sex but not like the first time round. This just seemed for some odd reason.
The only things we talked about were 'IF' I had missed him. He asked what I'd been upto and I said 'nothing much'. I literally did not give away ANYTHING.
*The thing is he CAN'T possibly know
Posted by Xin
Don't be waiting by the phone like OMGZ will he text me.
THIS is what I've done MOST of the weekend. UGhhh! When I wasn't replying back he'd send me a message acting as if he sent it by mistake JUST to get my attention. THAT my friend is when I stopped waiting for my phone to go off & put a STOP to replies back atal. HA!
He know's this game. Scorpios are cunning and very smart. He knows he is playing you like a fiddle so stop.
YEP he does know the game oh SO well.
lmfao @ 'playing you like a fiddle so stop it'. The way I read this message actually made me laugh so hard. π
One more thing. Men will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to. And with that said, I am also doing the same as I am typing this. I will NOT chase anyone anymore, period.
TRUE STORY! π
Thanks for your post π
Posted by SagChick411
Just thinking of him now makes my knees weak.So we're back to square one.
π
HAHHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IN NEED OF DIERR HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IS THIS NORMAL? AM I NORMAL? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! *Shakes head*
More normal than most.
This is the part where the Sag finds out she has FEELINGS.
(omg)
π
Let them happen. Ya gotta.
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OMFG! How the hell did you know this? LOL!!! *twilight music plays*
Posted by SagChick411
@ TAURUSbelle'What ever happened to the week off that he told you about?'
That week off is NOW so he is probably sulking somewhere I'd imagine (well I hope so anyway, ha).
I went away for for the Easter holiday and only really got back. He made me so mad that I turned my phone off yesterday and haven't switched it back on. He has NO way of contacting me.
We were 'supposed' to be going out together one day this week. He wanted to spend most of the week with me this week, but I didn't 'actually' agree to even one day.
We didn't actually arrange a date as I told him I would let him know when I was free and holla at him when I got back from my trip. He pissed me off so bad that all I could see was a RED which resulted into no plans being made, unleashing on him, which in turn has lead to me wanting to have space for now. I'm sure he needs some too. I would wanna be alone if someone said all those hurtful things. He may not even want to do anything now. I don't even feel like switching my phone on, not even tomorrow. I too embarrassed for all the horrible things I said. I'm not too proud to apologize. I WILL turn my phone back on tomorrow but wait for him to make contact first as I have already sent him a novel worth of shit.
Ughhh!
LOL!
Hmmm... I see. What did he do to piss you off exactly?? maybe I missed that part.
He knows your whereabout because you are predicatable. or maybe you tell him too much without realizing. Scorps have a WONDERFUL memory and pick up patterns QUICKLY.
Keep BUSY... like your scorpio has been, as he so ELOQUENTLY stated that you WEREN'T busy ENOUGH (on the low). and stop overanalyzing.
click to expandThe thing is he possibly know ANY of that information as I haven't and didn't speak to him for a couple of months. I deleted him totally off my everything and like I said I'm not on a any social networks. We didn't do much talking atal, we had sex but not like the first time round. This just seemed for some odd reason.
The only things we talked about were 'IF' I had missed him. He asked what I'd been upto and I said 'nothing much'. I literally did not give away ANYTHING.
What was odd?? the Sex??
I can't even remember what started it. I can only imagine it was me (possibly) getting frustrated with his shit. I will copy and paste the WHOLE one sided) attack on him when I switch my phone on tomorrow if you like. It's pretty bad and very LONG! HA!
'When I think back to when he came over the other night I remember him being 'incredibly' shy. That was SO unlike him'
The sex was really weird. I don't know how to describe it. It all seems like a dream, like it never really even happened. I'm not saying this because I can't remember what the sex was 'like', just that I was pretty dazed about him even coming over. I can vividly remember all the slow jams playing in the background though.
OK, I'm gonna be a bit graphic here. The first time we just fucked (hard) basically, (IT was AMAZING, mind blowing etc etc) that's just how I like it, HA! BUT this time round he was so much slower, softer, he seemed a bit mesmerized, a bit lost, a really shy. I dunno, it just 'felt' 'different'. It was like we were 'making love'. I felt as though I was in a trance. He kept saying he wanted to 'make' 'love' to me. This was before he came over. I kept thinking WTF does he keep referring to it as 'making love'? He is usually much more crude when it comes to sexual messages (in the past anyway). He didn't even make the first move which is UNLIKE him.
I don't really know how to explain it better than that. Thinking about how we had sex sends shivers down my spine. After we had sex I thought 'That's not really anything to write home about' and passed it off as I 'don't' think I have feelings for him anymore but Oh HOW wrong I was...
He was also scared to climax, every time he was about to, he just stopped which made me think WTF?
The next day, I continued to send him graphic/crude sexual messages all day long which he usually (in the past) reciprocates very readily. In fact, that's how I 'used' to get his attention. He responded only to say 'Yeah I love that' OR 'I love everything you do in the bedroom'. So I was thinking WTF is up with him.
The next night I asked if he wanted to 'come fuck me'. He said 'I'd love to'. It started getting late so I never really bothered to ask AGAIN as he didn't say what time etc etc etc. I assumed he didn't fancy coming over. I text him before I go to bed saying 'I'm going to bed babe' AND he replies back 'OH' 'OKAAAAAAAAY then', which to me indicated that he was waiting for ME to tell him the deal?
cont......
I also text him saying 'Good night then, I'll dream of fucking you' AND he instantly replied back saying 'WHY only dream?' SO because earlier I 'assumed' it wasn't gonna happen I was like 'huh?'. He said 'Why dream when you can have the real thing' So I'm like 'Are you still up?', he said 'Just about, come over' So I'm like 'What's the point if your half asleep?' (HE LOVES his sleep which he has chosen over sex before) I'm like 'Do you want me to come over and spoon you? lol'. His response was 'Errrm...lol'
I didn't go round cause I had an early start. Anyway that confused me (?) The thing is I try NOT to read too much into things he say's but I really cannot help it sometimes due to his ways previously.
What do you make of that Taurusbelle?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Go round and spoon him lol
FUCK spooning. I wanted to bang him. HA! NO time for spooning I'm afraid. SEX: YES. SPOONING: NOT ON MY SHIFT.
'Do you want me to come over and spoon you? lol'
I was gonna go for a witty elaboration but *shrug*.
It's not rocket science, as I'm so fond of saying at times haha. πclick to expand
WITTY ELABORATION: YES PLEASE. I do LOVE a bit of wit. I'd make an awfully interesting read. Do go on... lol
*It'd
Posted by DeadRingerr
We have all been sombodies slut...its a good feeling...very liberating!!
ROLMFAO
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Go round and spoon him lolFUCK spooning. I wanted to bang him. HA! NO time for spooning I'm afraid. SEX: YES. SPOONING: NOT ON MY SHIFT.
You've got to start gently, he's sleeping lol
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AHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FUNNIEST thing I have read all day!!!!!!!!! LOL!
Thanks for the heads up. You can see I need some pointers clearly. Keep them coming. I NEED tips! HA
Posted by DeadRingerr
Going to sleep?
lol
Posted by DeadRingerr
You both are waiting for the other to do something....You're waiting for the Scorp to say something earth shattering, the Scorp is waiting for you to stop waiting for that to happen!!
lmfao @ 'earth shattering'
Posted by DeadRingerr
Sexy Sag!!! Scorpio has met his match!!!!
Sure bloody has. The lucky devil! HAHAHAHA π
Posted by DeadRingerr
We have all been sombodies slut...its a good feeling...very liberating!!I dunno... the stories I could tell muahaha
Me too!!!! Those were the days!!!
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I'd LOVE to hear some stories if you can be bothered to share one day? π
You could even think of an AMAZINGLY funny and quirky name for the title of the thread I'm sure π
I do happen to admire your banter π
*high 5*
Posted by DeadRingerr
We have all been sombodies slut...its a good feeling...very liberating!!I dunno... the stories I could tell muahaha
Me too!!!! Those were the days!!!
I'd LOVE to hear some stories if you can be bothered to share one day? π
Oh hell no, to grave it goes with me!!! You will make you're ownπ
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. WEHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH π’ π
I'll get over it quickly, I am a Sag after all, HA HA!
The title of the thread about a story of being someones slut (as u said earlier) and how fun it was. HA
Posted by SagChick411
I can't even remember what started it. I can only imagine it was me (possibly) getting frustrated with his shit. I will copy and paste the WHOLE one sided) attack on him when I switch my phone on tomorrow if you like. It's pretty bad and very LONG! HA!'When I think back to when he came over the other night I remember him being 'incredibly' shy. That was SO unlike him'...this time round he was so much slower, softer, he seemed a bit mesmerized, a bit lost, a really shy. I dunno, it just 'felt' 'different'. It was like we were 'making love'. I felt as though I was in a trance. He kept saying he wanted to 'make' 'love' to me. This was before he came over. I kept thinking WTF does he keep referring to it as 'making love'? He is usually much more crude when it comes to sexual messages (in the past anyway). He didn't even make the first move which is UNLIKE him.
YESSSS.. That's that scorpio entrancing and mystifying bedroom bliss.. Lovely isn't it?? From what I gather, he probably views sex (with you) a little more intimate than how you crudely and crassly refer to it. Hence his need to repeat "make looove"..lol you two are funny..constant back and forth about nothing serious really...lol
Yea..I'm with DR on this one.. You two like hooking up, but somewhere down the line you both get lost in translation about both of your REAL wants &/or needs, trying to figure out one another. I'm not too fond of the idea of you "delivering" yourself to HIS door though..
All in all, it boils down to what YOU want. If you want Scorpio for the longhaul....then COMMUNICATION needs to take a front seat. If you want scorpio for the moment,then just keep it as that. So have fun, But you gotta make him WORK for it. No more "late night" deliveries.
Stay safe and Wrap it up!
Posted by DeadRingerr
LOL...Seriously, it's more or less written out in that post ! π
Thats what I said but was told I was giving the wrong advice....π
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lol sorry ringerr. didn't mean to condemn your posts, but I found it unrealistic that you put down scorp guy to a level of 'hump him, then dump him'. He doesn't deserve being belittled and not taken seriously. He cares for this girl..
and... most of all, I like geminis. There are the silent and shy ones, and then there are the loud ones. I like the shy ones.
coming to shy...
last time I was with Sag man, he was unusually shy. I couldn't believe how shy he was. I couldn't hear his voice when he said something to me. I kept asking... what did you say? what did you say...? So he repeated.. but it was in such low octave...
I do think, however, that meant something. π
eventhough things are not said out loud or put black on white... it is actions that tell the true story.
oh come on, rocknerd. You can do better. lol
Posted by Rockthenerds
lol i tried π’ give me a sec haha
LOL
Posted by DeadRingerr
That conversation was not a conversation, first off...it was a series of insecure questions on both parts....seems like questions were being answered with questions...bunch of bullshit....no wonder you're on here asking us for answers. I'm not gonna play the game with you both...Sag what do u want from him?
YES and AMEN! *waves & shakes tamborine in air*
Just finished reading this entire thread. I'm dizzy and going to bed now. I see why I don't attract Scorpio's, I wouldn't put up with a 10th of this bullshit! My Pisces sister once told me that I have a "Don't mess with me" look in my eyes. Good luck OP.
Posted by DeadRingerr
That conversation was not a conversation, first off...it was a series of insecure questions on both parts....seems like questions were being answered with questions...bunch of bullshit....no wonder you're on here asking us for answers. I'm not gonna play the game with you both...Sag what do u want from him?
I want to be with him. I really feel like he is the ONE!
I can see myself with him forever, even having kids, the whole lot!
@ Dominooo
I don't get why he would think he's not good enough for me π’
My Scorp sister said the same thing. WEHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! π
ahhahah!! His has the cutest little feet and has GREAT taste in shoes π
The reason I come on here to ask questions is cause he NEVER answers his phone to me so I don't even bother calling him anymore. This is also why 'serious' conversation happen over messenger. I ask him to call me and he hardly ever does. The few times he has called me, it's on his own accord and it always takes me by surprise.
I will happily tell him that I love him for who he is but I'm not going to do this over messenger again where everything gets lost in translation again.
I know I've been mean to him and we are both to blame but I would have happily discuss this stuff with him WHEN/IF he ever actually takes me out on that date! Obviously I would need to switch my phone on first, which I'm gonna do now.
OK so phone is NOW officially ON! I have a few messages from him, god knows when they were sent, my stupid phone only tells that they were sent now (which they weren't) UNLESS Scorp has been watching his phone for delivery reports HAHAH!
He's asked me to come over to his to talk? HA!
I'm gonna get dressed and see what he has to say. I'm surprised he is even talking to me after how cruel I was. Ah well, lets see what happens.
I am not sleeping with him. I just can't. NOW that I realize I ACTUALLY love him I won't be able to unless I hear something positive to do with the future from him.
I will update later unless he decides to whisk me away on a romantic trip somewhere in the world, but what are the chances of that? HA! A girl can dream!
ACTUALLY hold on a minute...........
I'm not going over. He wants me to come to his house, HA! Errmm, I think I will ask him to meet me later instead, maybe this afternoon or evening at a bar somewhere. It is inevitable I will sleep with him.
OK I will update nonetheless.
OH and I also said just now 'Sorry about being so mean to you' and he's all like 'Was you being mean? lol'.
I said SO many hurtful things to him, maybe his heart is made of steel? AH well......
Yeah true. Maybe HE knows this all to well OR maybe he has made *mental note to self* and use it against me in the future? HA
I am learning/changing/evolving everyday thanks to my Scorp. He doesn't always make sense when he talks, answers a question with a question but he sure is as smart as hell when he talks about an important topic. He's one of the most intelligent people I know and that really turns me on. He's also very open minded and is always willing to look at another point of view (mine) lol.
Posted by Dominooo
But they can...like nearly anyone...teach you something. Purposefully or not.
+1
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