@SagChick411
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He ALSO said that WE have a TOTALLY different way of thinking which will cause us to argue from time to time but always resolve it quickly cause we'll be so deep in love.
WOOOOOO HOOOOOOO!!!!!!
I'll invite you to the wedding, HA!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Well there you go then, it's in the stars. 🙂
lol
Posted by everevolvingepithet
...and they say astrology is bunkum !
I know. RIGHT? lol
Thanks Rock! We shall see what occurs this evening when we have the 'talk'. I hope he doesn't chicken out and get me to meet him just so he can gaze into my big brown eyes saying nothing,. talking in riddles, beating round the bush. I really don't know what I'm gonna say to him.
Should I tell him I love him, to his face? Arghhhhh, I am so nervous, excited, scared, all at the same time. I'm gonna make myself look hot, paint my nails perfectly and wear a real nice (understated) outfit with my classic red show stopping lippy. 😄
I want to be with him. I really feel like he is the ONE!
I can see myself with him forever, even having kids, the whole lot!
lol
::: shakes head :::
What's the point in anyone trying to get through your thick skull? Because you certainly have no desire to get through to yourself, so why should anyone else (care) to try?
Again ......
Posted by P-Angel
He puts in very little effort to get you to bend over and grab your ankles .. in fact, you appear eager to do so.
.... my suggestion to you would be to buy a really big butt plug, so your ass won't get lonely when he's not around
Posted by SagChick411
ACTUALLY hold on a minute...........I'm not going over. He wants me to come to his house, HA! Errmm, I think I will ask him to meet me later instead, maybe this afternoon or evening at a bar somewhere. It is inevitable I will sleep with him.
OK I will update nonetheless.
Glad you came to your senses here.. I swear had you gone...you'd be singing that "wahh-waah-waah" song all over again.
MAKE him WORK. Tell him when and WHERE you'd like to meet him ( could be a favorite restaurant of yours etc..something YOU prefer.)
You gotta make him your BITCH basically. Otherwise that powerful red lip is useless. Lol (I personally use Russian Red by Mac)
Posted by P-Angel
Again ......Posted by P-Angel
He puts in very little effort to get you to bend over and grab your ankles .. in fact, you appear eager to do so..... my suggestion to you would be to buy a really big butt plug, so your ass won't get lonely when he's not around
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LOL! I'm sure you're talking from experience. Thanks for the tip but I don't do butt plugs. I have a selection of vibrators to get me by. 😉
Posted by SagChick411
ACTUALLY hold on a minute...........I'm not going over. He wants me to come to his house, HA! Errmm, I think I will ask him to meet me later instead, maybe this afternoon or evening at a bar somewhere. It is inevitable I will sleep with him.
OK I will update nonetheless.
Glad you came to your senses here.. I swear had you gone...you'd be singing that "wahh-waah-waah" song all over again.
MAKE him WORK. Tell him when and WHERE you'd like to meet him ( could be a favorite restaurant of yours etc..something YOU prefer.)
You gotta make him your BITCH basically. Otherwise that powerful red lip is useless. Lol (I personally use Russian Red by Mac)click to expand
lol@ 'make him your bitch'
Russian Red? hmmmm....that's definitely one I don't have. I'm gonna wear 'Lady Danger' by Mac. I collect bright lipsticks, red, pink and orange only. I will have a look at Red Russian, sounds good. Feel free to suggest others in the colours I like if you know or come across any 😉
He said, he wants to talk. Otherwise, he'd say... he wants to be with her or something. So there will be talking. Bars are not good places for intimate talking. You always have somebody neighbouring your table ear dropping when you say something intimate.
Besides, SagChick... if you want to sleep with him, there is nothing wrong with it. You can always walk out on him, saying...
'you have to respect me more. You said, you wanted to talk!'
Posted by SagChick411
Thanks Rock! We shall see what occurs this evening when we have the 'talk'. I hope he doesn't chicken out and get me to meet him just so he can gaze into my big brown eyes saying nothing,. talking in riddles, beating round the bush. I really don't know what I'm gonna say to him.Should I tell him I love him, to his face? Arghhhhh, I am so nervous, excited, scared, all at the same time. I'm gonna make myself look hot, paint my nails perfectly and wear a real nice (understated) outfit with my classic red show stopping lippy. 😄
LOL I like this attitude!
I think, SAG girls have a natural vibrance. Whatever you do or wear, it will be breath-taking for him 😉
You gotta make him your BITCH basically. Otherwise that powerful red lip is useless. Lol
Ummm, no lol.
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At least That's what has worked for me and my scorpios..lol
I have a Venus in aries/Moon in scorpio too..I am agressive & I see thru all the BS and raise hell. (IF/when needed.)
But I'm just sayin Sagchick's gotta be on her stuff. No more spaghetti spine.
Yeah very true. We could go to a speak easy bar. I don't know yet, I shall pick a place that is upmarket and intimate 🙂
Yeah I guess I could sleep with him but I've totally decided against it till I know what is happening. I'm gonna 'try' and stick to that 😄
Then you should stick to your guns. Either way, this will make you feel better about yourself. 🙂
crossing my fingers for you ... 🙂 🙂 🙂
I have a feeling, the guy who doesn't care, wouldn't make a talk. He'd just disappear without announcement or be mean by saying degrading stuff.
You gotta make him your BITCH basically. Otherwise that powerful red lip is useless. Lol
Ummm, no lol.
At least That's what has worked for me and my scorpios..lol
I have a Venus in aries/Moon in scorpio too..I am agressive & I see thru all the BS and raise hell. (IF/when needed.)But I'm just sayin Sagchick's gotta be on her stuff. No more spaghetti spine.
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True. We like being straighforward to. Beating around the bush, flaky comments or attitudes can drive me crazy. I would lose respect for that person or at least not take him seriously enough.
Why would he play with her?
He can play with many other girls who are willing to date a Scorp guy.
I never have difficulty finding someone. But when I put my mind on someone, I don't see right or left.
Posted by cancepio
This whole thread makes me sad. Kind of gives me an insight to what goes on in the mind of a woman when she is more excited about a relationship than the guy, or when she is being played. Very sad.
Well I guess I'll learn the hard way. lol.
It sucks for me too. I have never liked someone more than they've liked me EVER! First time for everything.
@ Taurusbelle
lmao @ 'No more spaghetti spine'
Posted by FUM
I think, SAG girls have a natural vibrance. Whatever you do or wear, it will be breath-taking for him 😉
*hugs* Thanks Fum X
You gotta make him your BITCH basically. Otherwise that powerful red lip is useless. Lol
I just think unless one party prefers to be the constantly submissive one then that approach wouldn't work long term.
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I LOVE to be the submissive! DOMINATE me biacth! HA!
Posted by FUM
Why would he play with her?He can play with many other girls who are willing to date a Scorp guy.
This is what runs through my mind. He is in the music industry after all. I'm VERY sure he has tons of girls who wanna date him/sleep with him and so forth.
OH I don't know!
I'm really looking forward to seeing him. Really nervous now though as it's getting closer and closer to the time and all I've been doing is prancing around all day thinking What AM I gonna say to him?!
Ughhh!!
I'm so looking forward to how your evening will go 🙂
I hope you don't build up too many expectations, but try to let him talk. Even if he doesn't and the silence turns awkward, just press on your breaks. Those are moments that can bring out some interesting conversation, and conclusively, connection. One usually feels forced to say something, but you can use strategy on throwing the ball over to him.
I used to love it when Sag man asked me millions of questions, but there is a time for it.
*brakes that is 😛
You gotta make him your BITCH basically. Otherwise that powerful red lip is useless. Lol
I just think unless one party prefers to be the constantly submissive one then that approach wouldn't work long term.
I LOVE to be the submissive! DOMINATE me biacth! HA!
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...And dominate he already is.
Sagichick.. You remind me of one of my girlfriends that I have to SLAP senseless then SHAKE lifeless..lol haha..
DON'T tell him that you love him!! Are you CRAZY—
I agree with Intriguedscorp, put that dress away, better yet return it and comeback another year.
And FUM is right, keep the silence going, it'll force HIM to talk. Face to face communication is the best for you two to attack the serious convos, ask him "What his TRUE intentions are for you? What does HE want, (something longterm/shortterm?)", and WATCH his body language.
Goodluck, hopefully all the kinks get straightened out today.
Posted by FUM
I think, SAG girls have a natural vibrance. Whatever you do or wear, it will be breath-taking for him 😉
true, especially since his venus is in sag.
Posted by DeadRingerr
That conversation was not a conversation, first off...it was a series of insecure questions on both parts....seems like questions were being answered with questions...bunch of bullshit....no wonder you're on here asking us for answers. I'm not gonna play the game with you both...Sag what do u want from him?I want to be with him. I really feel like he is the ONE!
I can see myself with him forever, even having kids, the whole lot!
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i somehow feel like your in a lose lose situation. if you tell him all this, he will find you 100% suspicous and he will go running for the hills. if you dont tell him, he will think your wasting him time.
you have to tell him enough to keep him interested yet not have him running.
Where is SagChick?
She's prbably Where she said she didn't want to end up. (His bed)
OOOOOOWWWWWWWW @ taurusbelle!!!
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oops.. lol meant ououououououh la la
F.Y.I
I have hidden some posts. I'm just getting paranoid that Scorp will somehow find me here. HA HA!
I bloody hope not! 😛
lol 😛
Posted by SagChick411
F.Y.II have hidden some posts. I'm just getting paranoid that Scorp will somehow find me here. HA HA!
I bloody hope not! 😛
omg, he would be totally flattered. as long as you dont reveal nething private about him.
Posted by OceanDeep
I read this and chuckle. The Scorp you are dealing with has the same placements as one of whom I've known now for 2.5 years ... Sun, moon, merc, venus (I dont know his asc.), and may have more but I would have to pull his chart.What's strange, and why I chuckle is where you're at now with him, after your comment about just being friends? That's exactly what his and my conversation was over two years ago... me thinking he was messing with me so I told him the same thing. And from there? Over two years of constant MIA, encrypted messages, me jumping thru hoops thru his tests, me giving him the what fors and not talking to him for months, everything and anything under the sun.
His words sound very much like how this Scorp talks to and with me. My best advice, everything has a meaning behind what he says. He's very smart, thinks a lot, and also is very suspicious of everything including you and/or your words. Both his Moon and Sun are Scorp so his suspicions and traits run stronger. So my thought is that he feels youre just saying things to get back into his good graces and truly don't mean them, and only for the moment both because he feels it will pass for you...a fleeting thought or emotion on your end...and again because he feels you are just saying that you want him. But also show passion, and MEAN it. He needs to see and feel it through your words, passion shows you care. That you're serious about him and you two.
I wont be surprised if this is where he goes MIA, but also test you too. Send you random texts that'll leave you thinking "wth is he talking about?" There will be something behind it. Guaranteed. Be ready to think. Hes making sure you're on top of things, remembering things, and testing you ... to see if and where you slip up. BUT through all of this become one with him and his mind. You'll find it fascinating, frustrating, comical, sad, and amazing all at the same time. Remember though to be yourself, stand strong, and don't let him get away with too many things that go against your grain. But when you do bite or "fight" back, do so with integrity and decency.
I do have to say DON'T be hurtful. You're on damage control now. You really are on a fine line right now because of what you said about being friends. One wrong word or hurtful word that HE feels it is, could be enough for him to begin his journey to get over you. If he's ser
ocean deep,
nicely put.
21 pages and the answers were on the first page...
RIGHT.........
So I have been ignoring him as he started to play 'games' again. I haven't physically or verbally spoken to him since the last time I slept with him which was a few weeks now.
So...
He calls me today talking a whole bunch of bullshit. Scorp; 'I just wanted to know that I'm still here, I haven't gone anywhere' Well how fucking sweet of you asshole!
He asks what I'm doing, tell him I busy right now (as I was) He asks to watch a movie with him even specifying the time. So I'm like OK cool. He tells me he's gonna call back in 10 and says 'You will answer won't you?'. Ughh
Does he call? NO! (the first time I actually believed his waffle in a long time). So he messages me 'You still there babe, Imma call you in a second. Nope NOTHING again. (this time I didn't hold my breath). He continues to send out 'generic' messages and update his status a ridiculous amount of times. Puuurleaaasssseee!! GIVE me FUCKING break for petes sake!
He has been playing with me all along. I feel like CRAP. I cannot believe I once again fell for his shit. He is actually beneath me and I REALLY do not care how that may come across to anyone. He doesn't deserve a good girl like me. I should have listened to Ringer, Stinger and Pothead when they sensed game playing. He is FUCKING fool and I am DONE with his shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol, i swear my scorp would do that soooo often. make plans and then fall through. it was very early on. now he doesnt do that anymore because he knows that i always have a plan b and i never give a shit; it started to make me laugh. i dont give him a reaction, so he doesnt play THAT game anymore. he's move on to much different ones.
i think your got too wrapped up too soon, so when he does things like this, its hurts even more and its a bigger disappointment.
scorpio moons are not for everyone.
Posted by DeadRingerr
I should have listened to Ringer, Stinger and Pothead when they sensed game playing. He is FUCKING fool and I am DONE with his shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Hey, I dont come on DXP to fuck with peolple...If I give my opinion on something its not to be the Dr.Phil of DXP and have everybody like me. I call em, as I see em...thats it. I don't have all the bells and whistles going on pertaining to Astrololgy. Although, I could copy and paste shit like some of these fools do(most of it is for themselves anyway so they could come off like they actualy care and know something)I try to keep it simple and from the heart, my own experiences in life...Sorry if this guy proved me right but hey, if it looks like a snake, it probably is!!
I think it's also very important not to get wrapped into the "I am right based on my good intentions and life experience" idea, since it does feed the ego, but it might also produce catastrophic answers.
The apology of astro-ignorance in an astrology forum isn't useful. People cut and paste useful excerpts because they want to learn and share; try to keep the ego in check, since calling them fools with a hidden agenda might be just another way to avoid more important questions such as: is my Gemini sun afraid to sit down finish the book and draw conclusions fit for the opposite sign, the Sagi?
I'm sorry for the interruption, this is an interesting topic I've been reading from the beginning 🙂
Posted by DMV
lol, i swear my scorp would do that soooo often. make plans and then fall through. it was very early on. now he doesnt do that anymore because he knows that i always have a plan b and i never give a shit; it started to make me laugh. i dont give him a reaction, so he doesnt play THAT game anymore. he's move on to much different ones.
i think your got too wrapped up too soon, so when he does things like this, its hurts even more and its a bigger disappointment.scorpio moons are not for everyone.
Yeah all the above is true. However I never made it known to him that I was pissed. He has had no reaction from me whatsoever. I was really feeling to unleash my Sagi harsh tone on his ass but quickly decided against it as that is EXACTLY what he wants. He is probably wondering why I haven't mentioned anything to him about ANYTHING.
To be totally honest this has only made me stronger and I just feel for him, like 'You're a grown ass man with a child and you act like an immature fool!' It's fucking embarrassing to me and I feel embarrassed for him. God help him.
if it looks like a snake, it probably is!!
lmao
Posted by IntriguedScorp
He sounds like a complete waste of space. You are better off without him. What's the deal with telling you he's going to call TWICE and then not calling? Immature.
Tell me about it. Thanks for the advice along the way even though I didn't listen sometimes. lol
He will NEVER find a chick like me. Mark my words!
He can continue seeing these down and out hood chicks who think they're fucking big time. I know I'm fucking big time. More fool him!
Posted by Reconstructing_a_Leo
Posted by DeadRingerr
I should have listened to Ringer, Stinger and Pothead when they sensed game playing. He is FUCKING fool and I am DONE with his shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Hey, I dont come on DXP to fuck with peolple...If I give my opinion on something its not to be the Dr.Phil of DXP and have everybody like me. I call em, as I see em...thats it. I don't have all the bells and whistles going on pertaining to Astrololgy. Although, I could copy and paste shit like some of these fools do(most of it is for themselves anyway so they could come off like they actualy care and know something)I try to keep it simple and from the heart, my own experiences in life...Sorry if this guy proved me right but hey, if it looks like a snake, it probably is!!
I think it's also very important not to get wrapped into the "I am right based on my good intentions and life experience" idea, since it does feed the ego, but it might also produce catastrophic answers.
The apology of astro-ignorance in an astrology forum isn't useful. People cut and paste useful excerpts because they want to learn and share; try to keep the ego in check, since calling them fools with a hidden agenda might be just another way to avoid more important questions such as: is my Gemini sun afraid to sit down finish the book and draw conclusions fit for the opposite sign, the Sagi?
I'm sorry for the interruption, this is an interesting topic I've been reading from the beginning 🙂click to expand
Thanks for your input
Posted by SagChick411
I know I'm fucking big time.
This made me LOL reading it back! Ha HA
'You think you're big time? You gonna fuckin' die - BIG time' ha ha! Oh Carlito Brigante I do LOVE you, lol
SagChick I'm so sorry. It just seems like you two can't get on the same page. I'm sure he's bothered by you cancellling on him when you were sick. But his ways of reacting to it don't sit we'll with you. Aww shit they wouldn't sit well with me either! You know I'm a hotheaded nutball! Trying to work on that though... 🙂
(((hugs)))
Posted by DeadRingerr
I only read the OP, I like to stick to the isssue at hand.....reading all the other posts there after jades my perception, thank you very much!!Well maybe SagChic would have been better off listening to my life lesson, she wouldn't be here right now wishing she did. She would be on the other thread giving up some of her own good life lessons advice...😉
Just for ther record when I do offer up some golden nuggets,(believe they are) its because I got it. Haters on here all day!!
Hahahhha!!
lol! you do make me laugh!
🙂
Ah well, you live and you learn what can i say lol
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Yeah very true. We will be happily married and he will be SO in love with me that he would never use anything against me (maliciously) HA! I predict that I will have a ring on my finger by next year September latest engaged to be wed. HA!
Actually what has freaked me out a little is that I went to see a a psychic/astrologer in Jan and he mentioned the Scorp without me having to say anything initially. He knew everything done to a tee, when I FIRST ever met him, how he's been in and out of my life through the years. He said at the moment (jan) he is very unsure which explains his behaviour. He also said that he was still not over his ex gf who ended it with HIM last Summer (Scorp said it was him who ended it). He said he will come at me full force in April as he has gotten over his ex. He said that he does love me but I confuse him and its un-settling for him.
I'm freaked cause everything the astrologer said is coming true (It's now April) I panicked yesterday thinking of all this. It made me think, COULD this be IT? HA!