Best match? – Cancer, Aries, Pisces didn’t work 4me…

Hey Scorpio girls, what’s the best match for us? Please share you stories, ‘cause I’m kind of lost who will fit for us. We’re just too emotional and deep for most signs…sigh…
Recently I dated my second cancer man and have to say, he was almost the same type of person as guy no. 1. There seems to be some kind of connection between scorpio and cancer at first, true, but for me it felt kind of dark and almost toxic. Not the deep, warm love that I’m looking for in my life. Both guys were loners, living in their own crab world, acting kind of detached in their behavior towards me. After I ended it, because I couldn’t stand their coldness, both told me they would have really liked to get closer to me. But while we were dating, they never really showed their romantic side…WTF— So I crossed cancers off from my dating list.

Aries didn’t work either for me, the last guy was way too soft and kind of annoying. I like masculine men and he has to chase me first, show me that he really likes me as a person, not just go for sex at the first dates. Then, when I feel safe and appreciated, I slowly open up and show him all my love and passion…but it hardly ever comes to this point.

Right now I’m dating a Pisces man. He is full of romantic words and dreams, texting me several times a day, sending pics of him playing golf sitting or in a bar. He tells me he dreams of me every night, although we’ve only met once….? It feels too unreal for me and I get the feeling he’s doing this with lots of girls at the same time.

So what’s your opinion? I really want to find true love and not spend my summer alone, but have the feeling all the guys I met are either strange, players or too superficial for me as a Scorpio woman…

do try a taurus.
i never believed
in the connection
between water.

earth is better
for water as
long as both
are balanced.

@TachibanaSan
Yeah, this is what I think as well. My best guy friend is a taurus. He's a really great man, totally male, sexy, strong, successful, funny, polite and with a very kind heart. Unfortunately I never seem to meet taurus men.
Have been a relationship with a lion, the sex was great, the rest mediocre... another long relationship with an aquarius, this was great for a short while in the beginning, then the following 2 years were very complicated and I wanted out of the relationship more than once...
And cancer is definitely not for me...

@Scorpi: The pisces man just called me again tonight. He says really sweet things, but we live 3,5 hours apart and my intuition tells me to run, cause it will never work...

follow your intuition.
never trust sweet
words laced with
poison.

pisces does not know
you well enough to say
what he says.

he is trying to talk you
into bed and it seems
like he feeds you lines
that he feeds other girls.

beware and be smart.

Thank you for your advice @TachibanaSan. I really would like to fall in love again, open up and trust a man again.
But I guess the pisces guy just wants a beautiful woman at his side and is dating lots of girls at the same time...
In the beginning I found out he was active on more than 4 online-dating sites. Which is okay for me, cause we don't know each other yet, just starting to date. But know he texts me constantly, that he loves me and that he paused all his online profiles and just wants to get closer to me. Yeah right.., I'm not that naive...
But it's so sad, where are the honest, caring guys, who really want to meet a partner for a serious relationship....?

@Reincarnation: Lol, yes I will be smart and not trust his words at this point...

Posted by cornflower2
Thank you for your advice @TachibanaSan. I really would like to fall in love again, open up and trust a man again.
But I guess the pisces guy just wants a beautiful woman at his side and is dating lots of girls at the same time...
In the beginning I found out he was active on more than 4 online-dating sites. Which is okay for me, cause we don't know each other yet, just starting to date. But know he texts me constantly, that he loves me and that he paused all his online profiles and just wants to get closer to me. Yeah right.., I'm not that naive...
But it's so sad, where are the honest, caring guys, who really want to meet a partner for a serious relationship....?

surely they are there.
just have to be patient.
we often have to cut the
weeds to get to flowers.

when you want a thing,
many undesirables do
stand in front of what
you want, but they do
sort themselves out.

Well the pisces man just texted me that I'm his warmest sunshine and that from now on I can call him 24/7... HELLO—? Does he really think I buy this crab... And who wants to talk 24/7 unless you are a paid sex hotline. This is soooo weird. I'm kind of getting tired of dating....

I dont know, personally I really don't understand the Taurus-Scorpio thing. I find them to be too self involved and boring. I also have a Taurus moon, so it's strange. Maybe I just haven't met a good one.

I'm with you cornflower, this remains a mystery to me as well!

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Posted by TachibanaSan
i never believed
in the connection
between water.

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too much water
never blended
well for me.

i need one who
is stronger than
myself

Capricorn can work if you are both evolved.
Pisces is good but some of them can't be trusted..
I have often seen scorpio's marry fire signs leo and sag..

I'm not sure what's in store for myself, i just hope he will be sweet, funny and have a big dick

Taurus.. My aunt is married to a Taurus. They've been married for about 20 years now.. I love seeing them both together 😄

Well, after a good nights sleep, I decided to let the Pisces man go today. Will do it by text, because he mostly texts me as well....Hopefully he will take it okay and not go all weird on me...

@ScorpioStarGazer: This is what I think too, I'm probably meant to stay alone, Although I would love to have partner to whom I can give all that love and passion that's burning inside me. But not under these circumstances with the men I've met so far...All the compliments the Pisces gave me, felt so fake and wrong. Instead of feeling butterflies they left me feeling hurt and alone inside...Because I definitely felt, he doesn't want to get to know me as a person, he's just full of romantic words and superficial daydreams, and in the end looking just for sex. But I want more in a relationship and a much deeper connection... Well that's my Scorpio nature I guess, too straight, honest and real...

@Scorpi: Yes, your right, so sad though...

Scorpio is best understood by another Scorpio.

Scorpio-Scorpio bond can be a lasting one.

Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
We don't have a best match. We are meant to be alone.

Why? 😢

Posted by TripleCardinalAries
Scorpio is best understood by another Scorpio.

Scorpio-Scorpio bond can be a lasting one.

I agree, i bond well with the males usually but i never find myself attracted to them.
(Except for ryan gosling, he can have me anytime .. but that's not going to happen 😉 )

My first boyfriend was a scorpio. But it didn't work out, he was too outgoing for me, always looking for new sports to try, travelled everywhere, wanted to meet a new person everyday. I'm more laid back and look for a stable but kind of calm relationship, with passion in the bedroom...

Posted by SensitiveBlues
VIRGOS. They love ya'll. Low Divorce rate. They'll eat your poop

😆

I know three couples that are Virgo and Scorpio. I feel that it could work after seeing them. My Mom is a Scorpio married a Cancer...ugh not good.
My best friend is with a Gemini... Let's just say I wish she wasn't with him.
The Virgos and Scorpios seem to be happy. I mean they are not all lovey dovey but then again I don't see that with any Scorpio and Virgo I know. So in this sense I think it works for them. They never seem fake towards each other, but are just steady rocks for each other. I can see it going the distance. Although I will say my Mom and Dad have been together since they were 14 and 15. But their relationship in a way damaged us all. :/
So maybe an Earth sign...

I personally would not rank Scorpio women as high on the list of best matches for Cancer males.
UNLESS
both are HIGHLY evolved.

The biggest problem Scorpio women can't hide behind their mask with a Cancer we are just as intuitive. I've said this before I was the only one in our division of the company that understood the Scorpio woman in the team of employees. The Libra, Taurus and two Aries that worked with her closely never could tell if something was wrong. I was always the one that asked if she was okay she would have the poker face she would tell me what is bothering her but the others wouldn't even notice.

In my opinion Scorpios need to be in a relationship where they can hide or I guess you can say maintain their privacy.

Posted by jane84
I know three couples that are Virgo and Scorpio. I feel that it could work after seeing them. My Mom is a Scorpio married a Cancer...ugh not good.
My best friend is with a Gemini... Let's just say I wish she wasn't with him.
The Virgos and Scorpios seem to be happy. I mean they are not all lovey dovey but then again I don't see that with any Scorpio and Virgo I know. So in this sense I think it works for them. They never seem fake towards each other, but are just steady rocks for each other. I can see it going the distance. Although I will say my Mom and Dad have been together since they were 14 and 15. But their relationship in a way damaged us all. :/
So maybe an Earth sign...

Scorpio/Cancer relationships are a roller coaster Scorps are the one that usually starts the rollercoaster its not a healthy relationship, with me things would be going along too smoothly then she would pick a fight out of no where. If a Scorpio isn't happy she will make it in all her power to make you unhappy too, she can be mad at you for a reason you don't even know why it just pisses her off even more she thinks you should be a mind reader.

Its not worth getting involved with Scorpio women now that I'm working with another Scorpio friend its reminding me nope its not worth getting involved with a Scorpio dealing with the moodiness etc not a chance.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
VIRGOS. They love ya'll. Low Divorce rate. They'll eat your poop

No gracias

Posted by Goldigold
Gemini 😉

case in point:

I think it's easier for Scorp men to find a match than us women. At least that's what it seems like

Posted by SensitiveBlues
VIRGOS. They love ya'll. Low Divorce rate. They'll eat your poop

ewww stop getting virgos into trouble

Posted by Gem20Redux
Scorp Gem... Sort of an odd pairing is it not?

I've only seen Gemini woman/scorpio man

but the other way around—?

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Posted by Gem20Redux
Scorp Gem... Sort of an odd pairing is it not?

I've only seen Gemini woman/scorpio man

but the other way around—?

That's kind of what I'm getting at. Gem dudes have their flighty moments if pressure is cooking.

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I think it works IF the scorpio woman has Gemini/dominant Gemini energies.

I remember the marriage statistics being that Gemini/Gemini is the top /highest, so if it's different sun signs, they need at least an grand air trine with Gemini as part of that of course.

there are scorpio women here with Gemini moon but I don't get the feeling they are interested in Gemini sun men, but never say never.

their scorpio planets and other planets are probably not in air houses either.

scorpio is attracted to POWER, so if you have that, well..... there you go. lol

and I don't mean power in, putting the light bulb on.

Prince Rainer and Grace Kelly is an exception. But look, Prince Rainier has power. she chose him over other men in the celeb world. he took her away to a castle and took care of her.
edit - but mostly they want devotion,loyalty ect. not exactly power like being a president, or a prince, maybe with Grace Kelley she had pisces moon, libra venus scorpio mars. the pisces part dreams of being whisked away and taken care of, loved and protected.

Posted by Gem20Redux
Johnny Depp. Winona. 4ever hahah

I think he will always love Wynona. He had a tattoo of her.

but he's with Taurus sun/Libra moon Sexy Amber Heard though.

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Scorp Gem... Sort of an odd pairing is it not?

I think they would be a great pairing..

Both very sexy and enjoy a good time. Gem can air out the dark depths of the Scorp and enjoy them at the same time. Gem is Scorpio's angel. But the other way around the Gem male should have direction in his life. A career and some drive. But yes a hot couple!

That sounds exactly how it would go if they could work out the differences. If a gem cares enough about someone they'll help guide them along with their go lucky spirit/ nature. If only we could guide ourselves and take our own advice haha.

I'm a moon in Gemini I totally get it! Ha!

Laurence Olivier was also really into Scorpio women. He was always there for Vivien Leigh... and forgave a lot of her issues that others would not have forgiven (she was bipolar and a sex addict... had sex with others).

After they divorced, he married Joan Plowright ... another Scorpio and stayed with her until he passed away.

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aw that is so sad about Vivien Leigh. She had mental issues/problems I read.

I saw that he has Taurus venus, Capricorn mars and virgo moon, very very earthy. That would help ground her.

definitely no Virgos. no caps. no cancers. no Pisces. probably no Scorpio. not a huge fan of taureans.

I don't think I'd date a Leo male but I love Leo's in general.

I prefer my Aquarians thus far. I also like Gemini and Libras. I'd date an Aries. I don't know many Sags but the ones I've met are great. Sag men are interesting.

I grew up in a family of air signs. no shock there. i love them.

Aquarius dad, Libra mom and Libra brother. I attract air signs like flies, and I love them. Air is my second dominant. I definitely don't fit the stereotypical "u r most compatible w water and earth signs" bullshit. gag me with a spoon.

everyone has their preferences. there is no perfect match for a sun sign by itself. there is only a perfect match for you. don't let others influence your own internal judgment. you'll know your perfect match when you meet them. don't be swayed by "only water and earth signs 4 u". it's nothing but hearsay and theory. no one is you but you.

and your Pisces man seems too delusional for me. idk it would've turned me off with the constant photos of himself Doing random things. I wouldn't have replied to any of them seeing as I met him only once and he would've been written off.

and when he said dreams of you every night.....id be running for the hills at that point. to me that's super creepy after meeting once...and totally irrational. idk. it doesn't seem normal to me.

my stage five clinger alert senses are tingling, but I mean obviously there has to be some logic to the fact that water and earth signs are meant to date. usually those signs are the ones swayed by those types of behaviors. just not my cup of tea. but at the end of the day someone has to like these people lol. I'm just not one of them.

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Scorp Gem... Sort of an odd pairing is it not?

I've only seen Gemini woman/scorpio man

but the other way around—?

That's kind of what I'm getting at. Gem dudes have their flighty moments if pressure is cooking.

I think it works IF the scorpio woman has Gemini/dominant Gemini energies.

I remember the marriage statistics being that Gemini/Gemini is the top /highest, so if it's different sun signs, they need at least an grand air trine with Gemini as part of that of course.

there are scorpio women here with Gemini moon but I don't get the feeling they are interested in Gemini sun men, but never say never.

their scorpio planets and other planets are probably not in air houses either.

scorpio is attracted to POWER, so if you have that, well..... there you go. lol

and I don't mean power in, putting the light bulb on.

Prince Rainer and Grace Kelly is an exception. But look, Prince Rainier has power. she chose him over other men in the celeb world. he took her away to a castle and took care of her.
edit - but mostly they want devotion,loyalty ect. not exactly power like being a president, or a prince, maybe with Grace Kelley she had pisces moon, libra venus scorpio mars. the pisces part dreams of being whisked away and taken care of, loved and protected.

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The majority of men I've dated have been Gems, Sags and Libras, in that order, so I guess my Gem moon and 7th house placements: sun (Scorpio), Mercury (Sag) and Neptune (Sag), make them a better fit for me than they would be for some Scorpios.

My Scorp aunt has been married to my Gem uncle for more than 40 years. They're very happy together - one of the healthiest relationships I've ever seen. She has a Leo moon, and he has a Pisces moon.

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Posted by Gem20Redux
Scorp Gem... Sort of an odd pairing is it not?

I've only seen Gemini woman/scorpio man

but the other way around—?

That's kind of what I'm getting at. Gem dudes have their flighty moments if pressure is cooking.

I think it works IF the scorpio woman has Gemini/dominant Gemini energies.

I remember the marriage statistics being that Gemini/Gemini is the top /highest, so if it's different sun signs, they need at least an grand air trine with Gemini as part of that of course.

there are scorpio women here with Gemini moon but I don't get the feeling they are interested in Gemini sun men, but never say never.

their scorpio planets and other planets are probably not in air houses either.

scorpio is attracted to POWER, so if you have that, well..... there you go. lol

and I don't mean power in, putting the light bulb on.

Prince Rainer and Grace Kelly is an exception. But look, Prince Rainier has power. she chose him over other men in the celeb world. he took her away to a castle and took care of her.
edit - but mostly they want devotion,loyalty ect. not exactly power like being a president, or a prince, maybe with Grace Kelley she had pisces moon, libra venus scorpio mars. the pisces part dreams of being whisked away and taken care of, loved and protected.

The majority of men I've dated have been Gems, Sags and Libras, in that order, so I guess my Gem moon and 7th house placements: sun (Scorpio), Mercury (Sag) and Neptune (Sag), make them a better fit for me than they would be for some Scorpios.

My Scorp aunt has been married to my Gem uncle for more than 40 years. They're very happy together - one of the healthiest relationships I've ever seen. She has a Leo moon, and he has a Pisces moon.

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that sounds so awesome, copperdove. I love hearing happy harmonious relationships. My husband's Pisces grandma and her Gemini husband (his grandpa) had a very happy and long term marriage. She was so devastated and depressed when he passed but family was there for her a lot so she wouldn't be lonely till she passed on. they are buried together.

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Posted by cosmica

Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
We don't have a best match. We are meant to be alone.

Why? 😢

Don't mind me. I'm just being cynical really. I can't and shouldn't speak for other Scorpio females, but for myself at least.....I feel as if I have been cursed when it comes to the love department. I have watched my friends over the years fall in love, get married and start families. I however, have never really been in a romantic relationship at 33 years old. I kind of feel left behind...

Sure I've dated over the years, but I either fall for someone who doesn't share the same feelings or someone falls for me whom I just don't feel a connection with. It happens over and over again. Right now a Cancer man has my heart and it's so unrequited it's not even funny. It hurts falling so deeply and constantly getting your heart broken. I sometimes wonder if we are supposed to just settle for something mediocre?

Like I said though...this has just been my experience. I'm sure there are plenty of Scorpio females out there in happy relationships.

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I'm sorry to hear you feel that way. I have felt the exact same way too at times (also single at 32) , like i'm cursed or something..
But it's stupid to think like that. Sure there must be someone out there for us. Everyone deserves love. You just haven't met him/her yet, but you will..
Go out and meet people, don't just settle for anybody..

x

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
and your Pisces man seems too delusional for me. idk it would've turned me off with the constant photos of himself Doing random things. I wouldn't have replied to any of them seeing as I met him only once and he would've been written off.

and when he said dreams of you every night.....id be running for the hills at that point. to me that's super creepy after meeting once...and totally irrational. idk. it doesn't seem normal to me.

my stage five clinger alert senses are tingling, but I mean obviously there has to be some logic to the fact that water and earth signs are meant to date. usually those signs are the ones swayed by those types of behaviors. just not my cup of tea. but at the end of the day someone has to like these people lol. I'm just not one of them.

@degenerate_ingenue: I'm running for the hills right now!!! After I ended it with the Pisces man yesterday, he send me 11 voice mails, 5 new pictures of him and tons of emo's and begging for a chance of a relationship... I feel totally creeped out, cause we've only seen each other once. He even mixed up names on the voice mails and called me by a different name, but still continued on. I know this has nothing to do with astrology signs, just with his character.

Stil it makes me sad that there seems to be no honest and decent man out there for me. I'm over thirty, living in Europe and Online-Dating is mostly the only way to meet guys my age. But right now, I'm kind of done with dating...too much dissapointment and stress for my scorpio heart...
I hope he will eventually stop contacting me or I have to say it with the Meghan Trainor song: "My name is no, my sign is no, my number is no, you need to let it go...! LOL

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We don't have a best match. We are meant to be alone.

Why? 😢

Don't mind me. I'm just being cynical really. I can't and shouldn't speak for other Scorpio females, but for myself at least.....I feel as if I have been cursed when it comes to the love department. I have watched my friends over the years fall in love, get married and start families. I however, have never really been in a romantic relationship at 33 years old. I kind of feel left behind...

Sure I've dated over the years, but I either fall for someone who doesn't share the same feelings or someone falls for me whom I just don't feel a connection with. It happens over and over again. Right now a Cancer man has my heart and it's so unrequited it's not even funny. It hurts falling so deeply and constantly getting your heart broken. I sometimes wonder if we are supposed to just settle for something mediocre?

Like I said though...this has just been my experience. I'm sure there are plenty of Scorpio females out there in happy relationships.

I'm sorry to hear you feel that way. I have felt the exact same way too at times (also single at 32) , like i'm cursed or something..
But it's stupid to think like that. Sure there must be someone out there for us. Everyone deserves love. You just haven't met him/her yet, but you will..
Go out and meet people, don't just settle for anybody..

x

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Thanks for cheering us Scorpio women up @cosmica! Although I'm thinking there's no match for me, I still have a little hope, that I will find love someday...

Posted by cornflower2
Hey Scorpio girls, what’s the best match for us? Please share you stories, ‘cause I’m kind of lost who will fit for us. We’re just too emotional and deep for most signs…sigh…
Recently I dated my second cancer man and have to say, he was almost the same type of person as guy no. 1. There seems to be some kind of connection between scorpio and cancer at first, true, but for me it felt kind of dark and almost toxic. Not the deep, warm love that I’m looking for in my life. Both guys were loners, living in their own crab world, acting kind of detached in their behavior towards me. After I ended it, because I couldn’t stand their coldness, both told me they would have really liked to get closer to me. But while we were dating, they never really showed their romantic side…WTF— So I crossed cancers off from my dating list.

Aries didn’t work either for me, the last guy was way too soft and kind of annoying. I like masculine men and he has to chase me first, show me that he really likes me as a person, not just go for sex at the first dates. Then, when I feel safe and appreciated, I slowly open up and show him all my love and passion…but it hardly ever comes to this point.

Right now I’m dating a Pisces man. He is full of romantic words and dreams, texting me several times a day, sending pics of him playing golf sitting or in a bar. He tells me he dreams of me every night, although we’ve only met once….? It feels too unreal for me and I get the feeling he’s doing this with lots of girls at the same time.

So what’s your opinion? I really want to find true love and not spend my summer alone, but have the feeling all the guys I met are either strange, players or too superficial for me as a Scorpio woman…

If that pisces is opening up about his dreams to you then you've got something trust me they adapt well to scorpios wanting to please them in anyway possible unlike the other signs who might have a breaking point. They will not let you go until you want them to if ever. You should also try Taurus they are much like the pisces and very fun they might just rock your world.