Body Hair and Breakups.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by whoaitznara on Friday, December 8, 2006 and has 34 replies.

How Body Hair Affects Relationships

Many partners may be sensitive to body hair, but most do not break up solely over it. Reactions vary based on personal preferences and cultural standards. Open communication about preferences can help prevent misunderstandings and strengthen relationships.

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@whoaitznara
20 YearsScorpio

alrighty so one of my friends just got dumped by her boyfriend because he said that she has too much body hair...now i'm not familiar with her body so i'm not exactly sure how much hair is there....but i doubt she's a gorilla or anything.
i don't know why this was such a big deal for him, but my question is... [well she was the one that wanted me to find out]

how many guys would break up with a girl over this? i don't know if it's just her boyfriend being a jerk or if all guys are like this

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@fiddlesticks
19 Years500+ PostsCancer

it depends... are we talking about chest hair or back hair or pubic hair or what?

either way, body hair can be a turn off, even if it's groomed properly. a person can't help it if he or she is not attracted sexually due to circumstances such as body hair. it's as valid a reason as "i'm not attracted to you anymore" or if the person you're dating got fat. the point in a relationship, societally speaking, is to regulate procreation; if you're unable to have proper sex, or the sex is unsatisfactory, then that's grounds for a breakup--even divorces can use this as an excuse. sucks, sure, but you can't control what turns you on or off.

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@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

"from left :
yellow:cons old ladies out of their retirement fund
purple:mass murderer...eats smaller more defenceless people ,animals etc
red:kiddie toucher
blue:makes putins poisoning attempts look like fairy cakes........"

Well, what do you expect out of a 100% criminal gene-pool?

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

"it's as valid a reason as "i'm not attracted to you anymore" or if the person you're dating got fat."

well i guess it's a good thing he got it over with before he had to use any of THOSE excuses.

tisk tisk.

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

"I still reckon its to do with a really noticable moustasche, facial or otherwise............."

yeah, because hair is a permanent fixture, more unmoveable than the heaviest boulder...hehehe

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@Karima27
20 Years500+ PostsScorpio

Okay...Now the guy who broke up with your friend. How old is he? How old is she? I have never heard of anything so ridiculous in my life. I understand not being attracted to a person becasue of whatever reason but to actually tell a person "You're to hairy"! That comment is gonna come back and bite him right in the ass...

Real Immature...

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@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

"sha, except everything."

Oh, no, there isn't.

Tbe whole "inner beauty is what really matters" is just a specious inanity that the "nobody is a loser" generation came up with.

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

"Yes,it says so in most trait descriptions,duh!!!"

๐Ÿ˜‰

"Tbe whole "inner beauty is what really matters" is just a specious inanity that the "nobody is a loser" generation came up with."

which is why you will die alone. in a cave. severely mauled by some sort of large animal.

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@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Heh, I think I was channeling Bran for a moment there.๐Ÿ˜›

"which is why you will die alone. in a cave. severely mauled by some sort of large animal."

I don't think there are any large animals left in Israel, nice try, though.๐Ÿ™‚

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

"because caves only exist in Africa,natch"

hahaha...of course!

"I don't think there are any large animals left in Israel, nice try, though."

ummmm...your fellows? mmhmm.

besides, you're going to be in africa with sally struthers. whore.

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@RainingPeanuts
20 Years500+ Posts

Is she ugly as well? Now I'm thinking "Damn, how hairy must she be to get dumped over it?!" That can't be the only reason. Either way, this guy is a dork lol

I know this girl who is sooo hairy. She's a really pretty scorp chic but man does she have hair! I'm sure no guy has ever complained about it, but she's got pretty hairy arms. And I once even got grossed out when the hair on her legs were barrrrrely growing out cuz they looked so dark and stubby *goosebumps* Kind of a hairy back too, but those are finer hairs and don't look so bad. http://plugin.smileycentral.com/http% 253A% 252F% 252Fwww.smileycentral.com% 252F% 253Fpartner% 253DZSzeb008% 255FZNxmk788KNUS% 2526i% 253D4% 252F4% 255F12% 255F10% 2526feat% 253Dprof/page.html" target="_blank"> could be a reason...?

I don't like hair myself. I barely have any hair on my body and I still shave it off lol Well just my legs and arms... and my whole body once in a while hehehe My crabby has even less hair than me I think! You would think he shaves his arms or legs if you weren't close enough... but he doesn't... thankgod

My opinion is that he didn't like her all that much to start with. The hairy comment was just stooooopid. Hey, this makes her Christmas gift a whole lot easier. A nice little basket of razors, wax and creams to get rid of body hair ๐Ÿ™‚

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@whoaitznara
20 YearsScorpio

hahah okay wow this thread got long, the only reason i brought it up was because she had asked me to post it on here to see what people thought, i thought it was kind of weird but whatever, i don't know how hairy she is exactly because i've never seen her naked and don't want to, she does have hairy arms and a somewhat noticable moustache...but i mean that's ridiculous to break up with someone over that, it's not like she's able to control it, yeah she can shave it off or wax it, but i think if you really like a person you can get past that, millions of women have hair on their bodies...most people don't notice because they get it waxed or shaved or bleach it, imo it's just nature....so this guy was obviously a retard to begin with, but i can see how it can lower her self esteem and make her feel really self conscious.

anyways that was a really long messsage.